Has anybody in barbelith just given up on spirituality all together and moved on to other things, say artistic out put or community based activities that are non spiritual in nature, i am seriously thinking this through at present as some of the forms of spirituality i have investigated are having what i percieve to be an adverse effect on me as an individual, ie some ideas and practices seem to be getting in my way rather than actually helping me to heal or evolve.
I tend to go in cycles, heavily focusing on magic or yoga for six months to a couple of years, followed by heavily focusing my energy on other issues (family, career, etc.) for six months to a couple of years, then back again.
Hinduism recognizes several different stages of life: the student (brahmacharyasram), the householder (grihasthasram), the forest dweller (vanaprasthasram), and the renunciate (sanyasasram).
Each stage is an important part of the spiritual path -- including the householder, who focuses on arguably mundane issues like earning a living, loving his or her partner, raising a family, etc. In fact, the householder phase often is seen as the most important phase of all, and the ideal time to (overtly or implicitly) practice karma yoga, the yoga of good deeds and service to others.
(See Vivekenanda's book on Karma Yoga for a much more detailed discussion of the subject.)
So if it feels like your overt spiritual practice is getting in the way, you may want to let it gently drop away for a while while you focus on other aspects of your life. When it's time to take up more active practices again, you'll probably know. |