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Jackie Susann
01:59 / 31.07.06
To do my part, I PMed him explaining some basic posting conventions (i.e., which bits we bold) and why I thought his comments were unacceptable. I also told him about this discussion, because I figured he might want to be part of it.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
05:27 / 31.07.06
...if 33 hasn't been proved correct.

Well, those wondering such might find it useful to look at the threads themselves, where one might find quite a few instances of people trying to talk to 33 about his issues in a fairly reasonable way and in the face of considerable hostility.
 
 
Lugue
07:32 / 31.07.06
We should try and separate his taste from his prejudice.

Well the issue in that thread seems to be that he isn't able of keeping his taste from diving into prejudice himself, no? I'm not sure there's a major issue in how people are reading him there, to be honest.

Personally, hum, I only fairly irregularly post, and only started doing so recently, so I'm not sure how fair it is of me to be participating in assessing what to do as to the matter. But really, it sort of feels as if we're on a countdown to when another obnoxious remark is made - how much patience people choose to have regarding that varies, sure, but I think his lack of proper engagement with some of the issues raised already might be a good indicator of how much of it exactly is wise to have.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
07:58 / 31.07.06
Whilst it may be too early to accurately describe it as a pattern, 33 seems to post for several days then disappear for a week or two. The window is nearly up. If ze shows no willingness to discuss hir actions and then turns up again in a fortnight or whatever and does another 'societal group x ruins part of culture y' then I think we have to discuss asking Tom to ban him on the grounds of offensive behaviour and unwillingness to engage with anyone else.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
11:56 / 31.07.06
It's not like he's bringing anything to the mix - I can't even understand his posts most of the time.

And he signs his post, which I hate.

Johnny
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
12:14 / 31.07.06
Jack, if you are entertaining the possibility that 33 may have been "proved correct" in thinking that he is being "judged in the kangaroo court of Political Correctness Gone Mad", then could you define "Political Correctness Gone Mad" for us, pops?

Meanwhile, those waiting for 33 to complete "the treble" will note with interest his allusion to the undesirability of listening to the same music as his sister and mother.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
13:34 / 31.07.06
I half-way agree with Fly.

I think it's a little early to call for a ban, but seem to remember the problem with Shadowsax was that by the time we got round to doing anything it had got to a point where it was never gonna work, and baning was kind of inevitable. I don't really like banning, and think maybe actually shooting the hypothetical Latin-spouting baby may be a little premature- but you'd at least take it to see someone, and maybe try some medication, wouldn't you?

So yes. Partial agreement with Fly in that something should be done (and if Jackie has PMed him, then it looks like it may be being done)- also agreement that he MAY be banning material. Not quite there yet, though.
 
 
Jack Fear
14:09 / 31.07.06
Jack, if you are entertaining the possibility that 33 may have been "proved correct" in thinking that he is being "judged in the kangaroo court of Political Correctness Gone Mad", then could you define "Political Correctness Gone Mad" for us, pops?

"Political Correctness Gone Mad" is obviously a very stupid phrase, pumpkin—but remember, that's Haus's phrase, not mine and not 33's.

Your first post to 33's Music thread—the first reply he received—did not in any way address his premise. Now, albeit his premise was, again, a tired, short-sighted, and rather stupid one—but last I checked, dullness, tiredness, and stupidity were not in themselves banning offenses (and thank god, because if they were we'd all be out on our ears).

But your initial reply, sugar-pie, suggested rather strongly that 33's question about this decade's music need not even be seriously considered, since he had evidenced homophobia in another, unrelated thread. Sad to say, doodlebug, but that looks like an open-and-shut case of prejudging to these rheumy old eyes.

Would 33 have started tossing around racist and homophobic bullshit in the Music thread if you hadn't been there to belittle and goad him? It's entirely possible. But we'll never know, will we, puddin'?
 
 
werwolf
14:32 / 31.07.06
i'm a total and utter "newb" here myself, so my opinion is not of much consequence here. also, this is (due to my being shamefully new around here) my first encounter of 33-esque posting content.

yet it seems outrageously significant to me that he hasn't posted here, where he as a person and his manners on this board are being discussed! personally i think this means that he doesn't even care what anyone here might think about him or his posts, which would mean to me that all "learning potential" is not existing at all.

it's not about changing opinions - i dislike that idea - but if there isn't even preparedness to adopt barbelith posting conventions... you know?

i agree that he should get a chance to prove himself at least in the way that he is able to express his opinions (how unpopular they might be) in a more cohesive and comprehensible manner. but i also agree that he should be forced into the defensive, being forced to clearly state what he means and stand up to criticism without objecting to derision or disregard. (ok, i admittedly posted something a bit derisive and not very critical in reply myself... but i had to laugh so hard, my brain was shut down!)
 
 
grant
15:08 / 31.07.06
For the record, I just agreed a "delete post" request made by 33 in Temple, so ze's around somewhere. It took place between 11pm Eastern and 11:45 am Eastern today.
 
 
Spaniel
18:18 / 31.07.06
I can't help but wonder whether he's a pisstaker, but then I always wonder whether they're pisstakers.

In the end it doesn't make much difference, I suppose.
 
 
Tuna Ghost: Pratt knot hero
18:48 / 31.07.06
Flyboy said a little bit ago:

I think that some people's priority seems to be that we bend over backwards to make the openly racist feel welcome and accepted, even if it means we don't challenge their views with any particular vigour.

Toksik said a little later:

care to tell me who is doing so, explicitly and with examples?

i'm not saying they arent, i would just like you to clarify your vague assertion. i think it is quite important to be sure, if indeed you are suggesting that barbelith is more tolerant of racism than it should be.


The above quotes are not to be taken as a summary of the total discussion between the two, I'm just wondering if those examples are forthcoming, or if not a clarification of whether or not Flyboy is suggesting barbelith is more tolerant of racism than it should be.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
19:04 / 31.07.06
Hmm... Personally, I don't think he's a piss-taker, I just think he may not be used to having his assumptions challenged. The fact that he seems not to want to shoulder any of the burden for the reactions he's getting appears to support this. (But I might be very wrong, of course)

By the way, I posted a link to this thread in the Radio & Music thread in question, plus Ganesh also PM'ed to alert him to this discussion, so he has been well aware of this discussion for some time now. Also, I (and, I believe, others) have previously tried to have a pleasant and encouraging PM exchange with 33 around the time of the Extinct Clothing thread. But, although (to his credit) he was perfectly polite and reasonable (which seems to support the notion that he's not a piss-taker), he obvious seems not to have taken any of our advice on board. Indeed, as far as I can tell there have been different approaches used by posters (nice, spiky, informed, etc) in-thread as well, to get him to become more self-aware, but to no avail.

However, that typed, for some it must be difficult to come into a thread like this and start to address every posters concerns about one's posts/opinions/language/etc. Indeed, as posts keep coming, like this one, this must get harder and harder. i.e. he might be trying to prepare a very long response as I type this. Also, of course, having one's assumptions challenged can be a difficult thing to handle. Not that I'm making excuses for him, nor do I have any idea how to make it easier for him to reply to all our posts -- just sayin'.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
19:05 / 31.07.06
(Previous post x-posted with Tuna Ghost)
 
 
Spaniel
19:38 / 31.07.06
TBH, PW, I don't think any of that supports the notion that 33 isn't a jokesuit. Having witnessed the creation of dedicated, planned, thoughtful (as much as it ever can be) trollage first hand, I'm well aware of just how manipulative and persuasive it can be.
 
 
Spaniel
19:41 / 31.07.06
I'm not to persuade anyone that 33 is a jokesuit, just sayin', is all.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
19:44 / 31.07.06
Yeah, you're right, there's every chance this is a wind-up.
 
 
Ganesh
19:45 / 31.07.06
There's every chance that it isn't. I don't think I'd wander too far in that direction without more evidence.
 
 
Spaniel
19:52 / 31.07.06
Wisdom
 
 
lekvar
20:09 / 31.07.06
33 doesn't seem very jokey to me, unless the joke is a really confused and intellectually incurious person. If ze shows any indication that the input he's getting has actually penetrated hir noggin I'd be inclined to take a step back and see what happens - we've had other people come in with fairly non-Barbelith-average attitudes who've ended up being regular, thoughtful posters.

I don't know if I'm just reacting to hir posting style but ze seems like ze could use hir scope of view broadened. That said, I'm not sure how much of hir unexamined attitued I can deal with.
 
 
The Falcon
20:51 / 31.07.06
In the meantime, prior to either an improvement in his posts or removal, I heartily recommend the use of your 'ignore' function.
 
 
Spatula Clarke
21:06 / 31.07.06
Can I ask that we stop clogging this up with discussion of whether or not 33 is a joke suit? As was stated earlier, that makes no difference at all.
 
 
miss wonderstarr
21:13 / 31.07.06
Doesn't it make a difference? In that there's no point educating, guiding, gently prodding or counselling a jokesuit towards self-awareness or awareness of Barbelith's accepted conventions and boundaries: a jokesuit is secretly laughing at the help it receives, as well as at the hostility it prompts.

If something's a jokesuit, then the purpose in this case (as it's not an obvious, open joke to be shared by a group, and is only really funny to the person behind the suit) would be malicious trolling.

It would be a waste of time dealing reasonably with 33 if that were the case.

However, apart from the reference to Milli Vanilli, I can't see any indication that this is a jokesuit.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
21:22 / 31.07.06
Erm...quick question: has the thread summary been changed for 33's music thread?

It's my memory again, isn't it?...
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
21:22 / 31.07.06
Sad to say, doodlebug, but that looks like an open-and-shut case of prejudging to these rheumy old eyes.

Well, if you're accusing me of being prejudiced against homophobic people, sport, then I'll plead guilty as charged. Slap the cuffs on me, slick! Take me away!
 
 
Ganesh
21:37 / 31.07.06
There's homophobia and homophobia. Speaking personally, I guess I don't want to label 33 - or anyone, really - a dyed-in-the-wool 'homophobic person' on the basis of (what I perceive to be) a handful of poorly thought-through (and poorly-expressed) statements. At present, I'd prefer to think of him as someone who's made homophobic statements and hang fire for a moment on whether he's a 'homophobic person'. This may be a fine (and/or idiosyncratic) distinction, and 33 may well turn out to harbour core homophobic beliefs he's willing to state but not challenge - buuut I'm not sure what's to be gained by assuming this here and now. While I remain undecided in my own mind as to whether someone's questionable statements stem from Mad, Bad, Sad or whatever, I generally prefer to hold off labelling with the permanent marker.
 
 
Spatula Clarke
21:52 / 31.07.06
I don't think it does make any difference, wonderstarr, no. Either we've got somebody who's pretending to be a pillock in order to wind others up, or else we've got somebody who actually *is* a pillock. And if they're pretending, then they're a pillock for doing so.
 
 
Ganesh
22:00 / 31.07.06
Or we've got somebody who's neither a straightforward or faux pillock, who has made some apparently pillocky comments for other reasons. Sometimes it takes a while for one to get a decent impression of what's motivating someone to post what they post.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
23:05 / 31.07.06
Well, we have somebody who, if not a joke suit, has a lot of anger - against the homosexuals for ruingin fashion, against the world for performing genocide against the goths, against black people for ruining music and against his mother and his sister for listening to their fake music. Which is fine, if whe and we are ready to tease out that anger. What concerns me immediately is that he is consistently misunderstanding why his anger might be taken badly - most obviously, he believes that as long as he does not use the word "black", nobody is allowed to question his views on black people and their deleterious effect on music. This is a bit of a problem. He's not wildly open to negotiation - there's a hilarious bit where he decides that he will not listen to any music recommended here because people clearly wish him ill. OH NOES! I was tricked into hearing a song. NEVER AGAIN!

Jack: I think it's not just necessary that Flyboy and you have different views on this, but perhaps desirable. Essentially, we have two schools of thought here. the first, expounded by, among others, Flyboy is that people should not be given a free pass after they have done something apalling in a previous thread simply because they have started a new thread. If somebody denies the Holocaust in thread a), it is not necessarily a moral duty not to interfere with their discussion of Jack Reacher in thread b). The thinking behind this is probably various, but the short version is that in the absence of any immediate power to ban, making people accountable is the only way to make people who may not read the whole board aware of the attitudes of the person with whom they are engaging, and also the only way to make it clear to other members or potential members who might have more to add to the Board that they are not in an environment where hateful language or ideas are tolerated to the extent that they can be spoken and then left in the driveway for people who encounter them next to endure while the person who produced them wanders off to the mall.

The other viewpoint, as advanced by yourself and others, is roughly that the damage caused by threadrot and dispute to threads does not justify the benefits of holding members accountable for their actions.

It's a difficult balance. However, the fact that people are banned on the strength of what they have done in a single thread, although often after a number of warning signs and warnings - see the Fetch, zoemancer, Hawksmoor and, after a lengthy interval, VJBjr - suggests that to an extent it has already been decided.

The next level along from that is, of course, that one should not risk threadrot by calling people on their statements in-thread. It is unfortunate that, speaking anecdotally, these arguments seem to be advanced far more often when apparent sexism, racism or homophobia are challenged than when the thread wanders off on a lengthy ambit around Transformers, but that would require further investigation, and as far as I can tell nobody is yet arguing that one should uncritically accept 33's views on the homosexuals' deleterious impact on fashion - only that they should not mention them in another thread about black people's deleterious impact on music - only that each should be addressed in its own thread.

As Ganesh says, I'm not convinced that 33 is homophobic (sorry, pillockish) in the generally accepted sense as much as credulous and isolated. If he shows any willingness to look at his statements in a manner reflecting the slightest familiarty with the cooling taste of grown-up juice, then we can go from there. Alternatively, we have to try to work out how we deal with people who might be considered in a sense ... conceptually less able?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
23:32 / 31.07.06
Sorry, for:


The other viewpoint, as advanced by yourself and others, is roughly that the damage caused by threadrot and dispute to threads does not justify the benefits of holding members accountable for their actions.


Read


The other viewpoint, as advanced by yourself and others, is roughly that the damage caused by threadrot and dispute to threads does not justify the benefits of holding members accountable for their actions in one thread in another, unrelated thread.
 
 
The Falcon
00:25 / 01.08.06
I know it's been discussed before, but even if the software doesn't allow, could these cases not be more adeptly dealt with by de facto suspension (i.e. this suit is in the bin, this is why, you can reregister if you want and reconsider yr actions beforehand) and prevent such things as o/t haranguing of a perp.

(Although, tbh, I don't think of this as much of a problem personally, given I can remember about three occasions fully merited - that holocaust denier, Vladimir and 33, whose thread was never really going anywhere from the off.)
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
09:43 / 01.08.06
If nobody has any objections I'm going to move to lock 33's thread in the Music forum (I see Seth has mooted this also). This may seem an extreme step, but what is the thread for as things currently stand?

33 is not interested in hearing recommendations:

when i get some DUDE
coming on here and telling me theres loads of great stuff I smell BS , esp when they obviously have ill intent against me to start with.


33 is not interested in being sent free music:

What do I look like a beggar ?

33 is not interested in having an intelligent conversation: see the whole thread.

Obviously 33 is "allowed" to dislike (for example) The Knife's music, but does anyone seriously believe that we would be losing much if we were deprived of such opinions on new music as this?

the whole ting just epitomised the desperate sad deluded state poeple are in... to think that its even worth fart space

Clearly the guy has made up his mind about the State of Music Today and nothing is going to change that. He just wants a space to complain and rant and not be contested. Stir in the dubious views on race and sexuality and I see no reason why Barbelith should be the place for that.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
09:53 / 01.08.06
I think that's perfectly reasonable Flyboy.
 
 
■
10:01 / 01.08.06
Sounds good to me. I've asked him to explain what the thread was for. He ignored it, so if he doesn't know why it's there, why should we care?
 
 
Seth
11:07 / 01.08.06
I'm very happy to back that move, Fly.
 
  

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