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Blake Head
16:14 / 18.08.06
Without meaning to be facetious Phex, I would find it difficult to believe in this case that you would find anybody who was authentically willing to defend 33's right to remain on the board, except on a general principle of opposition to banning people from Barbelith. I mean, I stand to be corrected, but it would seem to be a significant potential pitfall in the procedure you've put forward.
 
 
Ganesh
16:15 / 18.08.06
We might have to move to something more rapid - perhaps something simple like saying to individuals that if they want to propose a ban then they have to do so by standing up, and writing a case for it, that the person on the other side has an opportunity to respond to that case, a parallel thread be created for discussion and then after 72 hours we vote on the original terms of the proposition. If that doesn't pass, someone else is able to propose a similar move a month later if they really feel like it. We need something more agile than the Shadowsax process.

Perhaps I'm being unusually dense today, but isn't that essentially the same as the Shadowsax process, with the sole difference that we're time-limiting it to 72 hours rather than a week? If so, fine. I'd go with that. With Shadowsax, the one-week thing was, as explained at the time, rather arbitrary.
 
 
Phex: Dorset Doom
16:30 / 18.08.06
Without meaning to be facetious Phex, I would find it difficult to believe in this case that you would find anybody who was authentically willing to defend 33's right to remain on the board, except on a general principle of opposition to banning people from Barbelith. I mean, I stand to be corrected, but it would seem to be a significant potential pitfall in the procedure you've put forward.

Well the general principle is exactly what I expect most of these 'advocates' to, um, advocate. Think of 'I don't like what you say, but I will die for your right to say it', or the time the ACLU defended the American Nazi Party in court. I don't expect anybody on this board will defend 33 on the grounds that homophobia, misogyny, childish misanthropy and lousy spelling are awesome, more likely they'll challenge the board's right to ban somebody who's only been here a short time (though personally that defense wouldn't hold water with me and I'd still vote for a ban.)
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
16:31 / 18.08.06
Blake Head I would find it difficult to believe in this case that you would find anybody who was authentically willing to defend 33's right to remain on the board, except on a general principle of opposition to banning people from Barbelith.

Mathlete stand up, your moment of glory has arrived!

As time is something of a factor, I think this process has to go forward on the understanding that 33 might not take part. Given his behaviour towards ignoring things in the past he may simply chose not to post and I don't think people should be able to delay these decisions by refusing to take part.
 
 
Blake Head
17:19 / 18.08.06
Well I take your point, but what I was suggesting was that, without meaning to sound entirely dismissive, the plan of action that you've set up might have to account for members who have made so little contribution that no one was prepared to argue on their behalf except in the more impartial sense you describe. It's not that a general principle on banning or banning relatively new members shouldn't be heard, but that used in the fashion above it fails to address 33 as an individual, and lacks immediate relevance to the question of whether as a unique member his actions have warranted banning, and probably deserves a separate thread.

33's inability (so far) to give a coherent account of his actions, and as far as I'm aware there being little material he's contributed which would be considered worthwhile or substantial, would also make even his own defence problematic. To go back to an earlier point, as I recall Shadowsax gave the appearance of being coherent, and did make some contributions which were substantial and did not rely on his offensive views. He signalled, in an ultimately unsatisfactory way, that he wished to engage with the issues and with his own status/responsibilities as a member of Barbelith. In a preliminary unevidenced sort of way*, I'd suggest that 33 really hasn't done either of these, which would argue for a swifter "these posts are clearly inappropriate" and subject to moderator action/banning sort of reaction. These are relative judgements I'm making, of course, so I'm not opposed to there being a space in which other members could disagree, it just seems worthwhile pointing out that it could be likely no-one will.

My memory is not that great on the issue, but as I recall "Sensitive" was asked to leave without it being necessary to hold even a cursory trial, because his actions and reactions were so blatantly against board policy, there literally seemed very little to argue about. Now, it's possible that he in fact technically chose to leave because we didn't get his "sense of humour"** (ahem) but in any case it seemed a situation where the rules were fairly obviously breached, something could be done quickly and we could all move on. I'd suggest that several members feel that this is also one of those situations.


* Just off to a very, very wet Barbe-meet.
** If someone has a more accurate short history of events go for it.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
17:33 / 18.08.06
Wooooooooo horsey. Ain't no way I'm saying anything of the sort. Fact is, if it twas up to me, we'd be stringing up the sonvabiatch before sun down. So how do you like them apples?
 
 
Peek
17:44 / 18.08.06
Very tentative comment from an utter newb... but this is ringing some bells with me from my experiences being in/running gaming clans. It seems to me that on Barbelith you need to be really, repeatedly offensive for the topic of banning to come up in the first place. The problem with voting is that if by some chance it's decided NOT to ban, then a) there will still be a significant amount of angry, offended people who may leave or disengage because the offender is still here, and b) you give the offender an opportunity to say "Nyah, you see, the majority think I'm ok", in some way feeling as though all their opinions and behaviour (good or bad) have been legitimized by the vote.

Given that it's repeated bad behaviour that's the problem, would a system of 'strikes', as it were, help? After all, if you inadvertently trample someone's toes, and they say 'OW', the polite and aware thing to do is move back hastily, apologise and pay more attention. You may perhaps bruise a toe again, but at least it'd be less likely. You do not advance, leap up and down on their feet while screaming "Your stupid toes are in my way!" (Well, only if you're an oaf). As someone said, once is the thing itself, twice could be coincidence, but three times is malice..

And, my last onion for the pot, if someone is repeatedly and unrepentantly offensive - what's to vote about? Although you are the most tolerant and extraordinary bunch of goodfolks I've ever seen, ultimately this is a private board and you get to decide who may participate. You have rules. You have guidelines. If someone chooses to break them - repeatedly - then surely they get to enjoy the consequences?

Forgive me if these thoughts are too harsh, I'm still very new! and feeling rather presumptuous for posting.

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Our Lady Has Left the Building
18:45 / 18.08.06
Hello Peek, welcome aboard.

I think you've hit the main problem with democracy on the head there. It's two wolves and one lamb voting on who is for dinner innit. And in this case we've got a fairly solid vote against 33 over several weeks now but we've got to do another thread to discuss it, allow for a sharing of opinion AND do it before Tom flies out on Monday morning else face a week and a half of 33's nonsense before he can be kicked?

Can't we agree that this thread from halfway down page 27 has been his 'trial' thread and no-one has stuck up for him without recanting it later?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
21:52 / 18.08.06
Possibly. However, if we do decide to ban him, we open up a lot of other people for review, and not that many people have expressed an opinion. I'm unsure. Shadowsax was banned ultimately because, among other things, he was making people feel threatened and victimised. Does 33 do that? I mean, if so, that's a factor...

For future reference, "Sensitive" originally said that he would change the name if there was an "overwhelming" response agreeing that he ought. When there was, he decided that his reality tunnel was just too damn broad for us SHEEPLE and stormed off. His suit was shut down after that. Strictly speaking, Shadowsax also jumped before he was pushed. I think it's perfectly possible that 33 has also left in the face of opprobrium, also, in which case we would just be rubber stamping his departure by closing his suit. Hmmm...
 
 
Spatula Clarke
22:04 / 18.08.06
Then let's rubber stamp it.

I agree with everything that Peek's said.
 
 
Char Aina
22:21 / 18.08.06
we open up a lot of other people for review

could you name a few of them?
 
 
Quantum
22:45 / 18.08.06
I thought one of the purposes of the Shadowsax debacle was to decide a precedent so we *didn't* need a trial thread every time. I appreciate Tom doesn't have time to trawl the board but maybe an 'In The Dock' thread (more sensitively titled) to put links to evidence in might reduce the attention garnered by troublemakers, rather than a fresh thread every time.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
23:42 / 18.08.06
toksik: Well, we could start with Morpheus. I really don't see why he is still allowed to post if 33 is not - I had previously assumed that we felt sorry for him because he was a loon.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
00:11 / 19.08.06
So that's why I haven't been banned yet?

I think the worrying thing in all this is that most likely a trial could anger 33 or inflate his sense of injustice. Then he'll pobably be banned and who knows? Maybe it'll give him a kick up the bum, or maybe he'll become even more entrenched and think all people are fuck-holes.

Of course, Barbelith no longer has to worry about this particular person causing other members harm by his words, but I can't help feeling that really it's almost a lose-lose situation, and then the next offensive poster comes along and...

Maybe we should just give him some breathing time and see how he acts the next time he posts somewhere? One more chance? There's already a great amount of evidence for him to analyse and hopefully reassess that shows he's offending people and why, and he has been spoken to reasonably a number of times by different members.

And as Haus points out there are still posters on Barbelith who others have good reason not to like and ban.

Maybe let's see what 33 decides next?
 
 
Char Aina
00:28 / 19.08.06
last time i asked, no one really seemed to know what the deal was with morpheus.

googling around finds me little concrete.

have you advanced your position since jack suggested it might be best to let it ride for a while—put Morpheus on Ignore, let him have his little I YAM TEH PROPHESIE!!!1! moment, and reconvene in September?
you seemed to concur, but there was some back and forth.

jack said that last year, two months before september.
i think folks kinda forgot to deal with it and, if we are going to, i say now is as good a time as any to do so.
maybe before this sepetember?

if anyone is looking for a taster before delving into the barbelith site search, they might have a look at his incoherent take on france.

there is, of course, a whole lot more, but that post seems quite 33 in it's idiocy.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
02:53 / 19.08.06
I don't know that much about Morpheus and what ze's posted on Barbelith, so I realise I probably shouldn't comment about hir.

However, not wishing to criticise anyone in particular, I do have another question related to this thread topic / discussion:

When we're talking about decent members leaving Barbelith because of the nasty hate-speach (etc) espoused by an inconsiderate and potentially bannable few, is there much evidence to show how many members are leaving or have left because of this? I'm not saying it doesn't/won't happen or that it's not regrettable, but I was just wondering how and if people know this for sure.

It seems to me like something that is a worthy concern and consideration, but a phenomenon that is very difficult, if not impossible to measure. This suggests (to me) that we would have to get at least two reputable ex-posters to come back and somehow testify with good reason that they have left Barbelith because of unacceptable language and behaviour from a specific member. But would two testimonies be enough, and might this therefore be an unsteady argument to use in support of a ban?

By the way, are there any old threads on (say) membership flow to and from Barbelith? I can't find 'em, although I've found a few related threads which I'm still reading. e.g. "The future of Barbelith Membership..." (please feel free to PM me to avoid further threadrot,).

Oh, and are we still on page 33 of this thread? (111!!!!23,23,33,!!!!, etc).
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
07:52 / 19.08.06
It's hard to judge the numbers, as you say, which is one reason why "good people are leaving as a result of x" is a difficult one.

To be certain of it, one would have to have somebody explaining precisely that they were leaving, why they were leaving and who was responsible for their leaving. Normally, people don't do this on Barbelith - rather, they just stop posting, without giving reasons.

The only case I can think of offhand is Fred, encore, over ShadowSax. I'd be prepared to ban quite a lot of people to have her back, but I fear it is too late.

Back on 33, if we don't have a thread dedicated to discussing whether to ban him, but ban him, but don't delete everything he has said, how do we make it clear that he's not here anymore and that he was banned for the comments he was making about gay men, black people and so on, how do we make it clear to the prospective new member or non-Policy reader that he _has_ been banned? Same applies with ShadowSax. Hawksmoor was banned and his threads deleted, but he was good enough to stay mainly in his own threads - mind you, so was 33.
 
 
Char Aina
08:34 / 19.08.06
you could change hir name to "33 - banned for misconduct" before banning. or perhaps "banned for misconduct", losing the name as well?

i'm not sure if i like it as a solution, but it would work to alert.
 
 
Shrug
12:11 / 19.08.06
Well it's either that or edit each specific post saying something along the lines of "Not the views of Barbelith" which seems a bit overbearing.

"Post has been removed due to offensive content"?

I'd be happy to go with the name change, personally.

We still haven't establised if the banning will be accepted by Tom, though.
 
 
Spatula Clarke
13:32 / 19.08.06
Back on 33, if we don't have a thread dedicated to discussing whether to ban him, but ban him, but don't delete everything he has said, how do we make it clear that he's not here anymore and that he was banned for the comments he was making about gay men, black people and so on, how do we make it clear to the prospective new member or non-Policy reader that he _has_ been banned?

We have this thread. Why the need for anything more? If there has to be something, start a thread with his name as the title and have the first post say "33 has been banned - see the discussion here", with the "here" being a link back to this thread.

The fact that all his comments have been attacked in the threads in which they've been made will suffice as proof that they're not welcome here. The idea of changing his name or editing every single post to include an official disclaimer is hilarious.
 
 
Cat Chant
14:58 / 19.08.06
I think changing the name is a great idea, actually: a rapidly-sinking thread title saying he was banned, or a decision buried on page 34 of 'What exactly does get you banned on Barbelith' is not going to make it clear to anyone that 33 was banned.

The thing that seems to me to be an important difference between 33 and Shadowsax is not that 33 is saying 'the same thing' as Shadowsax but in a less classy register, but that 33 explicitly harassed individual board members on the basis of their (perceived) gender, and, into the bargain, those board members complained about his behaviour. AFAIR Shadowsax was not banned for harassment, but for misogyny/hatespeech/ inability to contribute to the board in a way that was consonant with any kind of aspirations towards 'safeish space'. I may be wrong about this, but it seems to me that 33's posts to miss wonderstarr and Our Lady constitute harassment, he's been warned, he's refused to apologize/stop, and so he should be banned.
 
 
miss wonderstarr
15:30 / 19.08.06
He did apologise to me, but in such a way that I don't think he really understood the problem.

My complaint is on principle (ie. I don't think people on here should talk about f-i posters in terms of their breasts) rather than because I feel personally aggrieved about 33's comments towards me (ie. you get a lot worse elsewhere online, but Barbelith is not meant to be like those places).

Overall I just think his behaviour's been inappropriate and that it will very probably continue along the same lines. I don't believe he is well suited to this board and I think he'd be a lot happier somewhere else.
 
 
electric monk
16:07 / 19.08.06
I think changing the name is a great idea, actually: a rapidly-sinking thread title saying he was banned, or a decision buried on page 34 of 'What exactly does get you banned on Barbelith' is not going to make it clear to anyone that 33 was banned.

But do we need to make it clear ze was banned? As Randyo says, the fact that ze's antics aren't welcome here is made clear in the relevant threads and indexing his foolishness in a Policy thread is, I think, all the message we need to send. I mean, I want 33 out, but I'm not sure we need to display ze's head on a pike. That said, I'm in total agreement with your "33 /= Shadowsax" comment, Deva. The fact that ze's been harrassing individuals is absolutely unacceptable, and grounds for banning ASAP.
 
 
Olulabelle
16:36 / 19.08.06
This suggests (to me) that we would have to get at least two reputable ex-posters to come back and somehow testify with good reason that they have left Barbelith because of unacceptable language and behaviour from a specific member.

I think you would need to be very careful in your definition of reputable here. Your definition of who is reputable and who is not may be quite different to mine.

I think that the name change idea for banned posters is a very good one and could be instigated in all cases from now on and if we could then possibly back-dated to include other banned people too.

It would look like:

name
this poster was banned for misconduct

and I think that would be pretty clear for everyone. That way we wouldn't havew to wade through all the posts made and edit them but it would still be clear that the things the poster said were not acceptable.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
17:14 / 19.08.06
I think you would need to be very careful in your definition of reputable here. Your definition of who is reputable and who is not may be quite different to mine.

I completely agree, which was kind of my point as well, I suppose: in that I might like certain members and think they're "reputable" while others may not; although 33's behaviour does appear to be universally considered unaccepable. I was trying to avoid using too much "scare-quotes".

As for the harassment thing, I think there's probably a better case to be argued there as 33's comments are increasingly personal, targeted, and bigotted (IMHO).

I also like Olulabelle's take on the name change / indicator idea, and maybe we could have "Banned" on their profile too? As Dupre X: Randyo of Blood and blood of the monk rightly point out, the threads are there as a record: if any reader doesn't understand why or how Barbelith considers and deals with hate-speach and intolerance, the threads themselves hold all the clues. i.e. feelings, opinions, and arguments put forward by other members; information provided to back these up; and hyperlinks to other threads and webpages, including this one. Plus if any future member is confused we could always point them in the right direction, and no doubt topical discussion around here will reference this thread / discussion / trial / etc for a good while to come (and for good reason, no doubt).

But we still haven't got to deciding and agreeing exactly why, how, or if we should ban 33 yet, have we? Don't get me wrong, I don't like what he's been doing and saying because it's illogical, often hard to read, and I don't like the idea of people offended, leaving, and / or being harassed. I just also feel uncomfortable with the idea of banning (in principle), and I still feel we should probably wait a bit and see if he can surprise us. But then, not much surprises me anymore (joke).
 
 
Spatula Clarke
17:42 / 19.08.06
He's been given opportunities to turn this around. Explicitly. Repeatedly. He's replied with tit-jokes.

It's important to note that even certain members of the board who normally argue against banning are currently in favour of getting shot of 33, or at least don't care either way.

Lula> If that's what we're talking about, then yeah, I can get behind putting that kind of mark on a profile - most otehr board software provides exactly that sort of functionality and it's far less obtrusive than toksik's suggestions. It shouldn't be too difficult to have the function of the prev message altered to display banned permanently, I'd have thought.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
17:48 / 19.08.06
He's been given opportunities to turn this around. Explicitly. Repeatedly. He's replied with tit-jokes.

It's important to note that even certain members of the board who normally argue against banning are currently in favour of getting shot of 33, or at least don't care either way.


Good points.
 
 
miss wonderstarr
17:55 / 19.08.06
It's important to note that even certain members of the board who normally argue against banning are currently in favour of getting shot of 33, or at least don't care either way.

I'm in that group ~ for a while I wanted to give Shadowsax a chance and thought he had some potential to be "saved", but I don't sense any of (even) that (limited) depth of thought or reflection with 33.
 
 
Phex: Dorset Doom
18:37 / 19.08.06
So have we come to a consensus here? There's nobody willing to defend the guy, including himself from the looks of it, we're on a deadline, so should we just declare the prick banned and cap it off with a rousing chorus of 'nana-nana, nana-nana, whay-hey! Goooood-byeee!'?
 
 
The Falcon
19:00 / 19.08.06
Pretty much; I'd advise anyone with an interest in the Policy of this board who thinks otherwise to step forward about now, because - thus far - no-one has expressed an interest in not seeing 33 gone.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
20:11 / 19.08.06
*nervously pokes head above and over the parapet / podium*

Well, if there's gonna be a trial then someone needs to represent him... but then hopefully 33 will show up himself soon... Who knows?....

OK, personally, I don't feel qualified to take on the task of representing 33, and it might sound a bit like whistling in the wind if I tried to do it. However, if no-one else will, I'll do what's necessary and take on the challenge of "representing" 33, if needs be. Even if it kills me.

So, let's wait and see what 33 thinks of the idea of a Lionel like me representing him, etc, eh?..............

*whistles and drums fingers on desk to the tune of "Working Class Hero" by John teh Lennon*
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
20:21 / 19.08.06
I've posted in the Conversation in the hopes of drawing out his fans.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
20:26 / 19.08.06
Fans? Or people who, with thier own intentions, are also genuinely interested in keeping the integrity and fairness of the board in tact? I certainly aint no fan.

I don't mean that as a dig (I swear), but just as a point about how to ask for someone to speak up and represent 33 somehow, and the issues thrown up in his wake? Makes it even more difficult / problematic than it already is, innit?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
20:35 / 19.08.06
Hmmm. I think banning 33 has certain knock-on consequences. We have to be much quicker to ban, we do so with less discussion, we do so for people being socially inept rather than necessarily malicious (if harrassment - there's still no real evidence that 33 understands what he did, is there?) - this has potential implications for penis/ear dialogue.

On the other hand, I don't think that alters the fact that 33 makes offensive comments and is then unable to process dissent in a coherent way, and there doesn't seem much likelihood that he will in future.
 
 
Jackie Susann
21:35 / 19.08.06
I think there's a pattern of behaviour that makes the question, is he malicious or just dumb, redundant. I think that repeatedly referring to a f-i poster's breasts is harassment, especially after its been pointed out that this is offensive, and I couldn't give two shits whether someone is too stupid to realise that or too mysognistic to care. Either way, he's a dick, and I don't want him here.

I wouldn't say we should ban someone if they made one comment that was out of line. But in this case, I think his interactions with Miss Wonderstarr are way out of line, on top of a series of out-of-line-isms and an inability to respond coherently to criticism. If there are other posters who get booted on that basis, I will not be sorry to lose them, either.
 
  

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