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00:15 / 10.02.08
I also find it bloody frustrating that people are free to keep filling the site with unsubstantiated charges not only of Nazism but racism as well against me.

I apologize for missing the neo-nazi thing from Disco. We have no proof that you are affiliated with a neo-nazi movement. I hope Disco intended to be hyperbolic, as you surely intended when suggesting that your interlocutors were like Nazis in the Australia thread.

I discussed why I think the "charges" (more like "pointing out") of racism are actually pretty valid, above. And whenever you talk about "unsubstantiated charges of racism," someone is going to have to explain why "unsubstantiated" might not be the most accurate word for it.

Trust me, you're only getting this upset about "being called a racist" because you have in your mind that when I say you've said something racist, I mean something on the order of "you horrible bastard you set fire to that little old lady! and her puppy!" when actually I mean "hey, some of the things we all say from time to time are shaped by this fucked up system; let's acknowledge that so one day we can all fix the system and not have this problem anymore." Ignorance is curable but only if you stop defending it all the time.

Incidentally while I don't think you're right in your latest conclusions, your contributions to the oil addiction thread have been nicely thought out and quite reasonable. I look forward to hearing you address elene's points.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
00:57 / 10.02.08
There are past examples around here of people making arguably-unacceptable comments about other posters and simply refusing to apologize because of dislike for the target, so in light of this I just thought it might save everyone time and headache if this is just let go of if an apology isn't forthcoming.

B-but Peter75 has repeatedly apologised. That seems to have been all he's doing, lately. When he could have been on about God, and Australia.

It often seems absurd when board memembers accuse other board members of not reading their posts (Pete's antics in the Australia thread were in some ways a master class in this) but really, he has said sorry, and often, so what else is it reasonable to ask? Presumably, he isn't going to shoot himself, or at least not on-line (to be clear, this sort of thing is against board policy) so what's the point of keeping at him, like this? He's as mortal as all of us, I'd have thought.

I don't agree with some, actually most, of Peter's ideas, but they're hardly a threat to society.

Or, if they are, tearing strips off some lonesome stoner who's espousing them isn't likely to do much to alleviate the situation.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
02:20 / 10.02.08
So in light of this I just thought it might save everyone time and headache if this is just let go of if an apology isn't forthcoming.

Also, who is he supposed to apologise to? You, or Barbelith in general? In the former case, why should he - as far as I know you've not been personally attacked, and in the latter case, I suppose it's only fair to point out that you don't necessarily speak for everyone.
 
 
pony
03:28 / 10.02.08
I'm not sure that we're on the same page with pronouns, Granny. All I was trying to say was that if Pete didn't get an apology from Disco, it might be less frustrating to let it drop than to defend his good name.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
06:25 / 10.02.08
Fair enough Palace that is a fair point about "letting go" and it certainly has merit. But don't you think there's a double standard in expecting me to apologise for a post I made which was able to be INTERPRETED as racist, and out and out calling someone a Nazi, neo or otherwise? As I've said, if anyone can point out definitively where it can be proven that I AM a Nazi, or even a racist, I'd like to be made aware of it. If people's tiny minds can't decipher the difference then it's pretty disappointing that I'M the one having to defend myself against disgusting charges. I think it takes a low person to make such accusation without some sort of proof. I have apologised for my part. But perhaps that is the true "measure of the man". I think some people got intoxicated with the smell of argumentative blood. It's pretty weak.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
06:33 / 10.02.08
Guys, thanks for your sincerity. At least you are all examining the situation. Zippy I'm not in the least angry at you for anything you have posted thus far. I have found that even though you disagree with me you have been constructive in your posts. It means a lot! I reckon this is close to my last word on this but one thing I'd also like to ask. Why is it that when putting forward an argument have I had to constantly cite evidence but those charging me can just post away without providing any evidence at all? It seems a little hypocritical...
 
 
Evil Scientist
07:43 / 10.02.08
Why is it that when putting forward an argument have I had to constantly cite evidence but those charging me can just post away without providing any evidence at all?

Look Fungus, just because you don't accept that people's interpretation of your posts counts as evidence it doesn't mean it isn't.

Take some fucking responsibility, own your words, move on.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
08:11 / 10.02.08
Nuke - I'm pretty sure I've taken responsibility for OTHER PEOPLE'S interpretations with repeated and sustained apologies. For fuck's sake, what the hell do do you want me to do? I'm happy to draw blood and send it in a small jar to every member of Barbelith if that's what your after. I HAVE BEEN CALLED A FUCKING NAZI! Is that so hard to grasp? I HAVE BEEN CALLED A RACIST! I don't see you jumping on those assertions as unsupported. Are you you a complete dimwit? Do you not see the hypocrisy in this? How about I interpret your words as being a sex starved paedophile? Would that make it right? Would that make it fair to call you a paedophile? Would that make it valid? Would you be comfortable with it? Would you take it lying down because, hey, you COULD make that interpretation, even if you can't completely support it with evidence? It seems that I'm the only one that needs to tender evidence to this court, your honour. Interpretations are a matter of degree. We only need to look at the world around us to see what sort of terrible violence and injustice can be done as a result of "interpretations". Does that make it desirable, right of just to act on those interpretations? I'VE HAD ENOUGH! Is there any interpretation involved when someone calls someone else a neo-Nazi? What is your malfunction if you can't see my point?. Wake up. Back up your assertion that I'm a Nazi, or a racist, or stop wasting everybody's time, do what I've done, apologise and move on. I know it's not YOU that made the assertion, but I don't see you saying "Hey, that's a pretty hefty charge and it isn't sustainable based upon the evidence we have".

It seems to go like this. Make a statement and if people don't like it then they're free to slander you as they wish.

Nuke I'm fucking disappointed. We were nearly at the end. I WILL NOT STAND UP FOR THESE ACCUSATIONS! And I will defend myself against those accusations until people, apologise, lay off or ban me. Your choice.
 
 
pony
08:46 / 10.02.08
And I will defend myself against those accusations until people, apologise, lay off or ban me.

Pete, I really don't think you're gonna get the apology you want.

Also, you haven't been around for bannings, but they suck for everyone.

This pretty much just leaves one reasonable option. Just let it go. So long as you don't actively drag this into the future, the chances are very good that people aren't going to follow you around making insinuations. Stay away from inflammatory topics for a while, and remember that critical engagement is sort of par for the course around here, and eventually things should be ok. Sure, a couple posters might continue to think of you as the guy with dodgy attitudes towards [x], and you might continue to think of them as hypocritical bullies, but that really ok, so long as everyone involved doesn't keep bringing it up in a way that causes eye-rolling and exasperated sighs from the onlookers.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
08:55 / 10.02.08
What is pissing me off about Barbelith today?

Could I suggest that everyone involved in Petergate stand up and back away from their keyboards, we've got through the arguing about the topic, arguing about the arguing about the topic and are now into the arguing about the arguing about the arguing about the topic which is never useful or enthralling and achieves even less. I'm neither condemning nor condoning what anyone has said, I recognise some people feel strongly but I suggest that some breathing space might be the best way for things to move on.
 
 
Disco is My Class War
09:03 / 10.02.08
Strictly speaking I was being hyperbolic, rather than literal. Perhaps, then, I should apologise for using the word 'nazi' -- wrong historical era and geographical location. 'Fascist' will do just as well in its place. To my way of thinking, exaggerating the number of cases of 'Lebanese gang rapists' to fifty is a racially inflammatory act. It is designed to encourage readers to believe that there's some widespread factual evidence to back up the claim that "Lebanese men have problems", and to make a reader get angry about that mass of brown men raping "our" women. In addition, Fungus suggested that the neofascist pogrom that happened at Cronulla was a just response to a previous act, the details of which will never be known. To defend neofascism is to be a neofascist, in my book.

I suspect that Fungus didn't really think anyone would know enough to call out that massive exaggeration as truth. Posting racially inflammatory text on messageboards is commonly an activity of right-wing trolls who just love to have 'friendly' arguments with what they see as liberal tossers. They get cross when anyone challenges them, and then they get all hurt and confused when you tell them what they're doing -- as if you were fixing to be best friends with them before this happened. It's about sucking energy out of people.

Being on the same continent as Fungus, and having some firsthand experience of people of his type, especially on that particular issue, I get pretty riled when I see these strategies being trotted out. There's enough of that in the newspaper and on television, and down at the supermarket. Because yes -- let's go there again -- Australia is a place in which racist ideology is not only acceptable, but encouraged. From the left and the right. All over the place. I live in a country full of neofascist trolls. Hell, our PM was one. There's nothing wrong with calling a spade a spade occasionally.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
09:19 / 10.02.08
Disco - I think that your post says all that we need to know about you. Such a well thought out post! Such basis in fact, including references. Well done big fella, you've covered yourself in glory. No sweeping statements at all in your rant! I'll just say that you don't know anything about me or my social, ethnic, religious or economic background. At all.

But thanks for the clarification, you can now be safely disregarded. I'm glad that this issue has been so decisively put to bed.

Thanks again!
 
 
Evil Scientist
09:29 / 10.02.08
Good suggestion Lady. Peter you might want to consider how apologies depreciate in value if you keep carping on about how you're right and everyone else is wrong after making them. I think you've got about as much of an apology from those who specifically called you a nazi/racist as you are going to get.

Deal with it.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
09:58 / 10.02.08
Ahh yes Because I apologised I now admited to being a Nazi, neo-Nazi, Fascist, Klansman, Nationalist or Bread Bakers Actionist Union. I think you'll find that I apologised for what I apologised. If you don't get it then so be it. It's time to move onto more interesting articles. If you want to have a certain impression of me then go right to it. I'm not concerned about the judgements of people who would judge me. Clearly they aren't possessed of good judgement.

Can we open the "Disco writes a generalising rant against Australia and Australians" thread now?
 
 
Olulabelle
10:00 / 10.02.08
As I've said, if anyone can point out definitively where it can be proven that I AM a Nazi, or even a racist, I'd like to be made aware of it. If people's tiny minds can't decipher the difference then it's pretty disappointing that I'M the one having to defend myself against disgusting charges.

Peter, as Zippy said, saying something racist doesn't mean you're a vile, horrible person. As was rightly pointed out to me in the Australia thread, saying that a whole country is racist is actually quite racist. See also the Red Indian thread which you might find interesting reading. I also started that thread, and found out that what I was saying was actually racist. I'm glad I found that out even though I was really upset about it, because now I know a bit more than I did before. I'm not a vile person because I said that, nor am I disgusting. It's worse not to listen and accept and make a change in what you think.

When you inflated the number of Lebanese men involved in the attack on a woman you did say something unconsciously racist. Much better to see that as something unconscious, but which you can consider and address and act upon and learn from than constantly fight about the thing you see as being racist. This big horrible 'you are evil' thing, which actually isn't true.

I've been following this Petergate thing since the thread was resurrected, and I wasn't going to comment. I am sorry that the thread I started has birthed all this but I do think in one way it is useful just to re-emphasise how badly people can respond to being called racist when actually it's more productive to take a breath, learn and move forward.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
10:08 / 10.02.08
Thanks 'belle! I do agree.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
10:13 / 10.02.08
OK, I'm not playing this game any more! To do so would re-emphasise some pretty negative points which I would like to distance myself from.


Thanks for (most) everyone's interest. As I said I would like to apologise if I have written something that could be interpreted as being racist. Thanks also to the many notes of support I have received publicly and privately no matter how qualified. Your support means a lot. Some people will think what they will, others will take the opportunity to get to know me better. I look forward to getting to know these people as well.

Thanks.
 
 
HCE
13:54 / 10.02.08
Disco - I think that your post says all that we need to know about you

Smart, informed, uncompromising. Yeah, it sort of does.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
13:55 / 10.02.08
It's worth remembering that Pete likened everyone who disagreed with him, and specifically me, to book-burning Nazis, and then kind of chickened out of it? The book-burning part I particularly find offensive, not least because it was inserted almost at random into the thread, which until that point had not mentioned books at all. Pete started the Godwin games here, after all. Perhaps a slightly less aggressive tone would be appropriate, given that fact. I don't think being called a Nazi is ever very much fun, unless I suppose one is a Nazi and proud of it, but the obligation not to go to that well runs both ways in a discussion. I'd like to avoid bringing sex with children into it as well, if possible, because I don't think it's a useful comparison, and I'd rather not have the idea trivialised into a debating point. If everyone takes a calming breath, that would be excellent.

Peter, you have now twice cited the PM you sent me. This puts me in a slightly awkward position, because I don't want to reproduce its content without your say-so, but I also don't want it to be referenced without that possibility existing. Also, I think there is some useful stuff in it. So, would you mind if we looked at it in more depth?
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
15:27 / 10.02.08
Is there really much to be gained by looking at Peter / Fungus' PM to Haus in depth? He does seem to have apologised for posting what numerous members of the board felt to be racist comments, and has agreed to be more temperate and self-examining if he is accused of racism here in the future. I've not read the PM of course, and maybe it is problematic enough to necessitate publication and discussion on the open board, but if not, it might be a better idea to for everyone to step away from 0z-gate, and give a new poster space and time to make up for what by anyone's estimate was a pretty poorly received beginning, here.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:13 / 10.02.08
I've not read the PM of course

Indeed.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
16:16 / 10.02.08
Yes indeed. So, Haus old chum, is it problematic enough to necessitate publication and discussion on the open board?
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
16:22 / 10.02.08
Okay, I'm going to try for a threadlock here. In the matter of Petergate I don't think anyone who feels they have been wronged is going to achieve any form of redress at the current time and we REALLY do not need Glenn Medeiros Versus Haus Part 403.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
16:43 / 10.02.08
No need to lock the thread on my account, Lady. If anything, I was trying to defuse another potential fight by suggesting that since Fungus / Peter has said he is very sorry and that he'll try not to do it again in future, it might not be a bad idea for Haus to leave things there, the content of Fungus / Peter's PM permitting. Not an opening serve in part 403 at all.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:44 / 10.02.08
I'm disagreeing the lock, Flowers, because... well, because it's silly, frankly. The thread is not offtopic, it is not a duplicate (well, it's one of three topics currently involved with this argument, but they have each flourished in sequence) nor is it degenerating into flaming. There is no reason to lock - if anything the discussion is calming down - and you are being frankly overeager to exert what few powers moderators have.

However, you are right that we don't really need another scrap with Glenn. So, Glenn, treating you as an adult with a worthwhile contribution to make:

I do not believe that at any point I have said that the content of the PM is problematic, although if you think that I have you are of course at liberty to point out where that was said. The situation in which Peter cites it is problematic, but only because I cleave to a more confidentiality-friendly treatment of private messages where I do not like reproducing content that is not harassing without the consent of the other party. Other people have different levels of sensitivity, and so, for example, Peter might not mind having the text reproduced at all, or he might mind quite a bit. I'd like to establish that.

The reasons for wishing to establish that are twofold. First, because I find it difficult that the PM and its content is being cited by Peter, when I do not know if he would object to my citing it. Second, because I think that what Peter put in the private message was interesting and relevant to some of the arguments that are going on here, and opens up some possible avenues for reconciliation.

At present we have a series of entrenched positions - to wit, at one end Mister Disco has called Peter a neonazi troll, although he has revised his statement to credit him with an ideology rather than membership of a particular group. At the other end, we have the phase Peter went through when he was likening those who disagreed with him to Nazis - although he feels that the fact that he did not directly say to anyone "you are a Nazi" is a telling difference. I'd say that neither of these positions - or this one, "you are a Nazi" position - is likely to result in profitable discourse.

In the fudgy middle, roughly, we have Peter saying, in paraphrasis, that he has apologised for the wording that might have given people the impression that he was making a racist statement, but he reserves the right to respond angrily and at some length to any suggestion that he is a racist. Fair dos. We then have Zippy saying, broadly, that people identifying racism in your behaviours or utterances is an opportunity to look at the way that existing power structures have constructed one's viewpoint, and should be if not welcomed then at least examined for positive outcomes. Within that pulpy center, I think there are opportunities to form a consensus that will not simply put the behaviours that led to this outburst-heavy period on hold until the next time - as you can see above, in this case "the next time" lasted the distance between Evil Scientist's post and the post directly above it - an hour and ten minutes.

However, it was only a suggestion. We can always leave this one to simmer instead.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
16:54 / 10.02.08
Haus So, Glenn, treating you as an adult with a worthwhile contribution to make

Yeah, saying that won't cause any problem.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
17:24 / 10.02.08
That's a fair point. I apologise for the bluntness of my tone there, Glenn.
 
 
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17:42 / 10.02.08
Why is it that when putting forward an argument have I had to constantly cite evidence but those charging me can just post away without providing any evidence at all? It seems a little hypocritical...

Not to witter on, but you asked me a direct question and you deserve an answer. You made statements about externally verifiable things that you called "facts," and also about non-verifiable things that you also called "facts." Given that the definition of a "fact" is a statement that can be proven true or false, it was reasonable for people to ask you for evidence to prove these "facts."

The only way any of us have to know you—to know whether you "are" "racist" for whatever values of "are" and "racist" one happens to be using, or indeed anything else about you or about your state of mind—is to look at the textual evidence in your posts. People have repeatedly pointed to textual evidence to explain why they were drawing certain conclusions about your underlying ideologies and motivations. It is necessary to draw these conclusions—particularly in this situation, because it touches on racially problematic issues—and the evidence in your posts themselves is the only evidence that is available to us, so it is going to be the evidence that people use to support their interpretation of you.

The other factor that influences people's interpretation of your words will be cultural context. So you might have people saying "You said X are Y" which we can demonstrate with evidence, and then something like "Usually, people who say 'X are Y' are, whether they know it or not, promoting a racist agenda." The latter kind of statement rests on hundreds of experiences, examples in the media, and culture theory advanced by individuals who are very learned in this kind of experience, and is not something that can be proven with a simple statistic or by consulting a single court record or similar. Books upon books have been written to demonstrate an entire system of thought about how humans interact, a system of thought that has had explanatory and predictive results when applied to all kinds of situations. In short, people can prove that you said what you said, but in asking them to prove that it is racist, you are asking them to prove racism itself. That is a rather more difficult and time-consuming proposition, and one others have done already better than the majority of us could do or even summarize in a few handy posts.

Further, people have a right to understand what you say in light of the conclusions they can draw from what you say. If they don't, then your efforts to communicate are nothing more than lining up pixels in odd repetitive patterns.

So if you believe there is a different set of standards at work here, that's because a different standard of evidence applies to a statement declared to be a fact that can be easily verified. If you advance something as a "fact" you do need to be prepared to prove it. If someone says that you said something, they need to be able to point out where you said it. If someone makes an argument about the meaning of something you've said, they need to be prepared to explain why they believe that statement or at least why they said it. I think people have been doing the latter fairly consistently (with the exception of Disco's use of neonazi which he has since modified; I thought you gave him too little credit for his explanation of why he feels neofascist is appropriate while neonazi was hyperbolic).
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
18:01 / 10.02.08
Haus, it wasn't the bluntness of [your] tone that might be grounds for apology but rather your implication that I'm not worth treating as an adult, or as somebody with a worthwhile contribution to make. That said, thanks.

While I'm happy that you answered my question in such detail and at such length, I'm still not sure that reproducing the contents of Fungus / Peter's PM here (with, as you pointed out, Fungus/Peter's consent) would help bring about the consensus you mention. The post in which you asked Fungus / Peter for permission to reproduce the PM began: Did we miss the part where Pete likened everyone who disagreed with him, and specifically me, to book-burning Nazis, and then kind of chickened out of it? I'm no expert on conflict resolution, but this doesn't seem to be the best way to begin if you're looking for a happy finish.

That said, I do think your suspicion that there might be some profitable middle ground between Peter and Zippy's positions might be correct. Perhaps it might be worth pursuing these in a new thread, and one that doesn't focus so closely on a new poster who is rather unsteadily trying to find his feet here, and might well benefit from a little time away from this discussion to metabolise some of the very good points that, among others, you, Zippy, Wristwatch Nuke, and Olulabelle have all made. Possible title: 'Accusations of prejudice: making them and taking them'. Possible subtitle: 'How might we profitably point out the prejudices of those who do not self-identify as prejudiced, and how might we profitably react when our prejudices are pointed out to us?'. Not sure which forum would be best for this - perhaps the Policy?
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
19:40 / 10.02.08
Guys,

It appears as though enough people have been so offended by my statements that they have drawn conclusions as to what sort of person I am based upon those statements alone. If there is capacity in those statements for those conclusions to be made, as evidently there is, then I have to take responsibility for those statements. I have apologised for the fact that what I wrote in my introductory post could be seen as proposing some sort of racist agenda. There isn't much point sitting here trying to defend myself any further, it isn't getting me anywhere and there doesn't seem to be much that is being added to the argument other than invective. There isn't much point trying to defend myself as a reasonable person if I engage in heated debate and name calling. I take my responsibility for my part.

Haus, if you think that publishing my private message to you can aid in putting the issue to bed then by all means do so. If you are wanting it to put it up to further make a case against me a a nazi, neo nazi, fascist, neo fascist, racist, klansman or misguided dimwit then I ask that you refrain. I think that those cases have already been well made and the consensus already seems to run in these directions. You'll be preaching to the converted. By refraining from posting everyone will be able to infer what case you are attemting to make..... and add harassing as a prefix to the above descriptions.'

I hope that this can be my last or next to last note on the issue.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
21:01 / 10.02.08
I'm not sure if Haus has given you anything other than 'a fair go', though, Peter. In pretty much every operative sense, he's been a model of restraint.

Not to demonise him, then.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
21:10 / 10.02.08
But do keep posting! A lot of this warms the cockles of an old lady's heart, here alone, in a room, after dark, gazing out blankly, over the sea.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
23:21 / 10.02.08
Oh, cripes.

For the record, I didn't think Peter's PM was at all harassing. Perhaps a bit hectoring, but certainly not harassing. I actually thought it presented his case, away from the noise over in the Switchboard, in a lucid fashion which helped me to understand the whole thing better. Didn't want to give the impression that it was harassing at all.

I think I'm going to take a bit of a break on this one. Possibly Glenn and Alex are right and we're pretty much where we are, and the best thing to do would be to bury the whole thing and hope it doesn't erupt again later.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
02:01 / 11.02.08
I don't know if Glenn and I are saying the same thing, exactly.
 
 
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03:11 / 11.02.08
Yeah, well, Peter, I've been trying to explain that saying you said something racist doesn't actually necessarily mean people are making judgments about who you are as a person. You're not absorbing that, so okay. Let's go talk about the oil crisis or something.

What, is Mercury in retrograde? *checks* Oh, hello, yeah, it is. Maybe I'll just stop trying to post anything on Barbelith until Feb. 19th.
 
  

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