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Alex's Grandma
06:06 / 21.03.08
'The horror ... the horror ...?'
 
 
Jack Fear
11:33 / 21.03.08
The obvious answer, Tuna Ghost, is that it all started going downhill the moment you arrived.

Best just kill yourself now, and save Final Message the trouble.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:13 / 21.03.08
Well, the differences include:

a) People being able to join Barbelith.
b) People being able to leave Barbelith by main force.
c) People having their viewpoints challenged by more than about four people.
d) It being possible to ban people.
e) People feeling that it was worthwhile to have discussions om issues which would now not get threads started about them, because experience has shown that nobody will post anything to them which will move the discussion on in a useful way.

If you want to use Barbelith to exchange pictures of cats, or talk about the most recent issue of "All Star Batman", or to create lists of your favourite music, or indeed to hang around with a few regulars in the Late Shift, it's still totally workable. However, if you think that it is unchanged in quality over the last eight years then - well, I was going to say "you are wrong", but that's not exactly true. You have a very narrow conception of what the board is or does. Which is fine - if you are looking for a board dedicated to the discussion of Grant Morrison comics with about a dozen other people, you've come to the right place.

However, Barbelith as a place where you could get an intelligent discussion going about the things around which it used at least notionally to be focussed? Not so much. The most recent activities in the Head Shop, for example, have essentially revolved around responding to offensive or reactionary statements.

There's a lot of good still to be had in Barbelith, which i think is something Flyboy is no longer able really to process, which is very sad. However, it is no longer a place where the discussion available is consistently better than one might get from a similar discussion in, say, a pub. It is clinging on, just about, to its one real value-add - that it is a community without a specific focus on gender, sexuality or race issues in which offensive attitudes to gender, sexuality and race are challenged (although of course they can no longer really be moderated for, so that is one really committed offender away from sheol - Dead Megatron had his moments on that one before being grandfathered, Fungus of Consciousness is getting that way now). However, what it is actually providing at present is a social space, really, and the claims made for it being anything transcendent of that are largely not functional.

Unfortunately, one consequence of its current state is that people who have been heavily invested in its status, even if they are no longer confident that it will ever change from being what it is at the moment - primarily, a chat and comics/film rumour site - still have to frequent it to some extent in order to vote on moderator actions, or else it will stop functioning. This appears to have driven some members basically insane, or insane qua Barbelith. Possibly we should organise a handover of suits some time, but I think the same investment issues would arise.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
12:30 / 21.03.08
Fair points all, but I think that up to this current state of brokenness (which is clearly not good) it was pretty much up and down at a fairly consistent average.

However, that said... thinking about it, this current state of brokenness has been going on for a very long time, hasn't it?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:45 / 21.03.08
Oh, absolutely. Before it broke, we had good spells and bad spells. 2000-2001 was very exciting, 2003-2004 or so had a lot of very high quality. Since then, the board closure, the functionality decay and a few other things have essentially created barriers for which there is progressively less incentive for people to try to engineer ingenious human solutions. Livejournal, for example, created another model for filtered social intercourse, where the filter was not limited simply to shouting at people with racist views and hoping they would change them or go away. It became progressively easier to create communities, technically speaking - we are now at the point where people are creating successor communities, or new communities - the fragmentation is in some ways a shame (and I occasionally do find myself rather wryly thinking thanks for bringing a load of anti-Semitic or delusional wrongfucks onto the board and then leading the actually bright people decamp to another community, o powers ov majick, but what are you going to do?) but you can't really unify a diaspora, pretty much inevitably.

Personally, I think it would be best either to fix Barbelith (which I imagine won't happen) or shut it down, so that the quality of the archives is not retroactively tainted by a lot of bad feeling and despair, and to give people a set time in which to say their goodbyes and work out where they can go. However, both of those require positive action, and as I said in the Miserable thread, the relatively small server and bandwidth costs mean that it can function as a chat and comics/film rumour board for a small group of people indefinitely. It's just a shame that moderators have to either stay logging in or commit themselves to damaging its functionality by leaving; that's a very awkward position to be in, especially when one has been so heavily invested in a community for so long, especially, of course, if they still also feel some responsibility for maintaining it as a space also.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:45 / 21.03.08
Or, short version:

However, that said... thinking about it, this current state of brokenness has been going on for a very long time, hasn't it?

Yes.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
12:58 / 21.03.08
I keep thinking of it as a relatively recent development, and then I look at the timestamps...
 
 
Tuna Ghost: Pratt knot hero
15:51 / 21.03.08
If you want to use Barbelith to exchange pictures of cats, or talk about the most recent issue of "All Star Batman", or to create lists of your favourite music, or indeed to hang around with a few regulars in the Late Shift, it's still totally workable.

I, um, don't do any of those things. I've never been a fan of the music forum or the lateshift stuff. I guess I could try, if you're correct about those things being the strengths of the current Barbelith.

However, if you think that it is unchanged in quality over the last eight years then - well, I was going to say "you are wrong", but that's not exactly true. You have a very narrow conception of what the board is or does. Which is fine - if you are looking for a board dedicated to the discussion of Grant Morrison comics with about a dozen other people, you've come to the right place.

Ugh! Gross.

At any rate, I'm certainly willing to admit that for me Barbelith functions in a different way than many of the old guard, but if you are serious when you say this However, it is no longer a place where the discussion available is consistently better than one might get from a similar discussion in, say, a pub then I must ask "what kind of pubs do you hang out in and how can I get there".

Wait, don't answer that. I might ruin your favorite pub too. *sobs* I am cursed....
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
17:28 / 21.03.08
I occasionally do find myself rather wryly thinking thanks for bringing a load of anti-Semitic or delusional wrongfucks onto the board and then leading the actually bright people decamp to another community, o powers ov majick, but what are you going to do?

Just as I occasionally find myself musing on the impact on the wrongfuck-receptiveness and overall health of some notional magic forum of a small but continuous dripfeed of non-practitioners who make it their business to undermine challenges to IJC theories and dangerous or maladaptive belief systems in general with, basically, "well you believe some weird shit too, now get out and let me enjoy the funny trainwreck." Sure once in a while there's a "Magic as maladaptive coping mechanism," a "Talk to the Cynic," but it's gone too fast and the taste is too fleeting. You end up with nothing but broken ideologies and teeth shattering gematria.

One might also, were one so inclined, go back over the various discussions that in the past have touched on the Temple catflap effect, and how when you tot up the figures many of the supposed Magick/Temple wrongfucks actually started life as Lab wrongfucks or Switchboard wrongfucks, or were wrongfucks of such ubiquity and voluminous internet presence they were sort of bound to end up here eventually; but that would require a level of can-be-arsedness that I don't currently possess. Whatever the Temple may have been, whatever it might once have had the potential to become, it is now destined to slide gracelessly /x/-wards. Anyone who might notice the difference will have left soon anyhow. Everyone else, enjoy your fail.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
19:29 / 21.03.08
HAHA DISREGARD THAT.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
10:52 / 23.03.08
OK,

My two bits worth would be as follows.

What I hoped for when I joined Barbelith, based upon the discussion I had witnessed was some discourse on what can, at times, be sensitive issues. What I have found at times is a willingness to jump to conclusions when people make an attempt to stand for a couple of moments on an opposing viewpoint and make an argument. I think we have all seen how that can be handled quite poorly (Cronullagate anyone?). What annoys me most (and hence why I'm posting it in Barbannoy) is the willingness of certain correspondents to throw around accusations if some sort of "-ism" or that someone is some sort of varying kind of "-ist" without actually engaging, or indeed bringing anything new to, the conversation at hand.

An example of this might be my poorly handled effort at explaining a sort of Zeitgeist, impression, or group consciousness that had occurred (in Cronulla) that I had been a witness to. Now, as poorly written as that was (and the point of contention seemed, in the end, to come down to the placement of a comma), you have to ask whether some of the more breathless and indignant posts that were happening at that time were justified by the argument presented, as unpopular as that might have been. Were certain correspondents behaving in a way similar to those whose actions they were so quick to deride? Were these correspondents indulging in a similar type fundamentalism that allowed the bigotry of that day to thrive? By asking this I'm not pointing out the well written and reasoned refutations that eventually caused me to take back large parts of what I'd said, but those who had no other investment in the conversation other than to throw around an accusation of "-ism" or "-ist" and think that they'd done their bit to put the world to rights for the day.

What I was kind of hoping was that Barbelith would be a place where the society and the human condition could be explored and discussed in a mature fashion. As Haus mentions, it is quite easy to sit around and discuss comics, but if that is all Barbelith wants to be then it should tear down the the Headshop, the Temple, the Switchboard, and possibly the Lab. If it is going to maintain these threads intact then it has to face up to the fact that by exploring society, the human condition and life-it-bloody-self, it is necessarily going to explore some dark corners from time to time. It's all very well to set some sort of rock solid conversational standard fixed at an immutable and cardinal point, but once you do that, your community will die because there's nothing left to discuss, nor will there be any room left for growth.

Another thing that gets up my goat is the tendency to only engage with certain sections of posts while completely ignoring others. For example, I'm yet to hear, even though it has been asked in just about every post I've made in the "Consent" thread, anyone's thought about the criminal defence argument. This argument centres around the question of whether in introducing a law prohibiting "Consent while intoxicated" you don't thereby introduce a defence based upon the proof of that intoxication. Not once. Yet it has been there since post one of my contribution to the issue. On the other hand people seem willing to assume, and then argue on the basis, that I endorse getting someone, who has previously denied my advances, drunk in the hope of securing a dubious consent from them. Where is the evidence for that? By personalising the argument I was only hoping to illustrate that a young, inexperienced and nervous young man, who frankly was too polite to brooch the subject, might not try to ease the transition from platonic to sexual relations with a wine or two. By introducing a law that also states that you can't "persuade" someone who is "intoxicated" I was merely hoping to illustrate that you were introducing two nebulous phrases that could make victims of either party who are otherwise innocent. So really, it seems that there is only a willingness to engage in argument on half of the argument put forward while completely ignoring the rest of that argument. Furthermore, as long as an assumption or an argument emanates from some sort of perceived moral high ground, there is no requirement to justify such assumptions, so long as you can make an argument based on snippets.

For the record, I was attempting to illustrate the difficulty of defining consent, and the dangers of doing so to tightly for both parties. My thanks also go to Jack Fear for actually engaging in the conversation without leaping to a default position of indignation.

My hopes for Barbelith are that someone could come aboard and express ideas without fear of retribution if those ideas are willing to be discussed and not dropped like a conversational turd without any justification or explanation of origin. I for one would hope it could be a forum for the exchange of ideas and arguments without the assumption that those ideas are and beliefs are held deep in the heart of the correspondent. That ideas can be discussed from different angles without the assumption that the people proposing them are arguing them as some type of unshakable world view that defines their very character. Maybe Barbelith isn't ready for that. Maybe it's just a place for like minded people to come and slap each other on the back for their perceived intellectual superiority. I don't know. Personally I'm just going to do what I do and if people want to work themselves up into a tizz about it then so be it. When I break the rules ban me. Or change the rules so you can. In the meantime I'll make a decision on whether Barb is right for me based upon the evidence I can glean from the conversations in which I participate.

Cheers.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
11:57 / 23.03.08
I should add,

I find myself enjoying large parts of what Barb has to offer. I think there are some incredible people on here who write with thought and care. My hope is that after probably five or six more controversies, and having the Barbannoy thread named after me, that I can become a valued, and (shudder to think) respected member of Barb. I would also like to think that exploring opposing or unfashionable wouldn't be an impediment to this over the long term.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:58 / 23.03.08
Now, as poorly written as that was (and the point of contention seemed, in the end, to come down to the placement of a comma)

It's worth noting that this is not actually the case, Peter. Obviously, your claim that there were multiple gangs of fifty-odd Lebanese men wandering the streets sexually assaulting women was a bit of a show-stopper, but there were a number of other lacunae or imperfections in your account which were highlighted but which were never addressed - to give an obvious example, you gave an account of the event which apparently sparked the Cronnula riots which tallies with various folk accounts, but has, to my knowledge, no actual basis in fact. Now, you may above be saying that you were attempting to capture the mood in Cronnula by repeating what racists said, as a kind of performance piece, which is a slightly different matter, but fits more accurately into a standard model of trolling with which you have not so far been identified.

However, it seems more likely that you have yourself responded selectively to the bits of what people have said, according to what caught your eye or seemed most worthy of a response at the time. This is kind of what people generally do - see the argument you advanced about drunkenness as a potential angle of attack for defence lawyers. Speaking purely personally, I didn't spend time on this because it wasn't a very interesting angle - the argument that the woman was not sufficiently drunk when giving consent would simply function in much the same way and occupy the same space as claims that consent was in fact given. So, the more interesting part of the argument was your suspicion that women would if not prevented by law from doing so claim that they were drunk, and thus had not given consent, to sex in preference to walking away from a sexual encounter they regretted, and that making it easier to report rape on these grounds would lead to a boom in frivolous rape trials brought by women to avoid the embarrassment of having had consensual but ill-advised sex with men. The women lieiness of this seemed more interesting than the points of law.

So, although Barbelith is not what it was, I do not believe it is the subject matter that is causing problems here, but rather the approach to the subject matter and the attitudes revealed by that approach, whether this is rebroadcasting unverified accounts of attacks on lifesavers by a gang of Lebanese men or suggesting that the mendacity of women should be a major factor for consideration when composing law - I think the God as Consciousness thread is a good place to look at this, because the discussion had no -isms of any kind, and featured subject matter familiar and uncontroversial, but still got quite bad-tempered quite quickly, although perhaps as a hangover from Lebgate elsewhere.
 
 
HCE
14:19 / 23.03.08
Fungus, you seem to keep thinking that if a) you just keep posting, people will become friends with you, and b) if people are friends with you, they'll be willing to overlook the extremely creepy content of your posts. You're wrong on both counts. You will not find a lot of friends here by posting more of the same, and when people do make friends, they tend to be more considerate, not less, about getting into arguments that may be upsetting. Incidentally, airing racist and sexist views is not controversial, it's just nasty and backward. The friends thing can be seen in the behavior of folks like Mordant over in the Temple, who never treat me like I'm wrong or naive for not sharing their beliefs, and few things are more controversial than questions of those kinds of belief.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
05:38 / 24.03.08
...unveriied accounts of attacks on lifesavers by a gang of Lebanese men

I think something that would be extremely refreshing would be for people to do their own verification before calling someone else's facts into question. What is the difference between someone posting "unverified facts" and someone else not verifying whether they should be called into question in the first place?

Please see the following link:

Teen avoids gaol over Cronulla assault

So can we now consider this verified? With respect, it seems that the whole argument really did centre on the placement of a comma.

I don't want to get back into the whole Cronullagate thing again but I think those who are going to be so invested in the argument ought to have as much responsibility to check their facts as the original poster.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
06:06 / 24.03.08
brb,

Just throwing around accusations of racism and sexism doesn't make them so. If you can point out any "sexism" in my posts more power to you and I'll happily apologise. I don't see how asking legitimate questions makes one sexist.

This is what I find frustrating. People can come along and cast aspersions on the basis of some pretty shaky evidence. It appears that, while these have been two sensitive issues, there isn't a level of maturity to have a conversation without making personal attacks on people.

Another example of this is when I said during Cronullagate "Why don't we start burning books", in reference to the denial of history. I did then follow this by saying "There is a precedent for that". But, within that, where did I actually call anyone a Nazi? Straight away this was leaped on and I had all of a sudden I had accused all and sundry of being Nazis. The indignation over this went on for quite some time, even though I'd never actually expressly called anyone a Nazi! Yet, when I was expressly called a neo-Nazi this was quickly written off as "hyperbole" and everyone seemed quite comfortable when we settled on "fascist" instead. Oh I see! Double standards anyone?

brb, I think if you review the content of all of my posts (not just the first one) in the "Consent" thread, you'll see that I am making as sincere as possible an attempt at discussing a sensitive issue. I think if you review all of my posts since being on Barb you'll also notice that I'm not above apologising for or taking back things that I've said where I think it is warranted. Unfortunately, if you've got an idea of me as being sexist or whatever I can't really do anything about that but feel hurt due to the fact that I don't think it's justified.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
06:34 / 24.03.08
the argument that the woman was not sufficiently drunk when giving consent would simply function in much the same way and occupy the same space as claims that consent was in fact given

No it wouldn't.

If the the prosecution's case was based on the fact that, under the proposed law, consent was null and void due to the intoxication of the victim, then all the defence would have to do is cite a reasonable doubt over that intoxication for the case to be thrown out of court.

Surely this is an important (if not terribly interesting) consideration?

Thanks for the benefit of the doubt on the "Consciousness" thread. From my point of view it certainly felt like I was being followed around with the express purpose of portraying me as an idiot. I definitely was frustrated at that time and I certainly acknowledge that I got cranky unreasonably in that thread.
 
 
Evil Scientist
09:06 / 24.03.08
From my point of view it certainly felt like I was being followed around with the express purpose of portraying me as an idiot.

You don't need any help from others Fungus.

I got involved in the Conciousness thread because I felt it was poorly thought out low-quality pap of the kind that really brings down the standard of Temple and therefore felt that I'd point that out the massive holes in your "philosophical musings" in-thread. That I was also confronting you in the Australia thread was pure coincidence.

Now you seem to feel that you didn't call anyone Nazis because you inferred it rather than outright saying it. However you and I both know who's most famous for the ol'book burning don't we? You tried to paint yourself as the brave little soul being surpressed by the nasty forces of anti-intellectualism and it failed because we don't tend to accept that shit on Barbelith (even in these dark days).
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
09:08 / 24.03.08
It might be your opinion that it was "pap" but others engaged with it so there was obviously some sort of value.

Personally, what I got out of it was having my attention drawn to Kabbalah. I had only a passing knowledge of Kabbalah and this allowed me to investigate it more fully. So, for me, that was a good outcome, even if it threatened the destruction of the entire board......

Is it wrong to formulate an idea that you've never expressed and explore it so that the idea becomes better expressed through the feedback of others? Or is it that you are the arbiter of what can and cannot be discussed? Are we allowed to call people Nazis or not, expressly or otherwise, or are we not, or are you comfortable exercising a clear double standard?

I'm trying my best to engage with Barb as a constructive member. Frankly, you've been of bugger all utility to that end.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
09:17 / 24.03.08
And it would be probably be fairer if you quote me in full.

From my point of view it certainly felt like I was being followed around with the express purpose of portraying me as an idiot. I definitely was frustrated at that time and I certainly acknowledge that I got cranky unreasonably in that thread.

Which would seem to indicate that I was happy to leave it there with an apology. Can we move on?
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
09:51 / 24.03.08
A quick review of the History of Book Burning will quickly reveal that it was by no means peculiar to Nazism nor is it an indicative trait.

Posted more for interest than anything else. But I think you can see that there is a fair difference between alluding to book burning, and actually calling someone a Nazi (which I was called). So if we can excuse "hyperbole" then surely we can excuse more subtle examples of the same.....
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
11:00 / 24.03.08
Way-ull - kinda yes, kinda no. What you said was:

In the weeks leading up to the riot there had been an increasing incidence of groups of young Lebanese men attending the beach and verbally and physically abusing "Aussies" particularly young women. This culminated in an assault on a volounteer lifesaver at the beach. The gathering on the day of the riot was initially intended as a "reclaiming".

Throughout, I've been unhappy with the idea of "culmination", as I have been with the claim that the subsequent rioting started out as "reclaiming". I have yet to see either of these contentions demonstrated. Plus, of course, that conviction was secured in the face of a not guilty plea some years later - as has already been pointed out, what people were reacting to at the time was hearsay. I linked to transcripts of commentary from the time in-thread. Of course, other issues were raised in that discussion - such as the way an Australian monoculture might favour white Australia rather. I was thinking later of starting a thread on the apology for the stolen children, but I'm afraid that I thought it probably wasn't worth the hassle.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
11:02 / 24.03.08
Also:


Another example of this is when I said during Cronullagate "Why don't we start burning books", in reference to the denial of history. I did then follow this by saying "There is a precedent for that". But, within that, where did I actually call anyone a Nazi? Straight away this was leaped on and I had all of a sudden I had accused all and sundry of being Nazis. The indignation over this went on for quite some time, even though I'd never actually expressly called anyone a Nazi! Yet, when I was expressly called a neo-Nazi this was quickly written off as "hyperbole" and everyone seemed quite comfortable when we settled on "fascist" instead. Oh I see! Double standards anyone?


Dude, own your Godwin.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:06 / 24.03.08
And finally:

My hopes for Barbelith are that someone could come aboard and express ideas without fear of retribution if those ideas are willing to be discussed and not dropped like a conversational turd without any justification or explanation of origin.

Yes and no. People can get away with indefensible viewpoints because it is couched politely, due to Geek Social Fallacy One. However, this is not hard and fast - in the past people have been slung out because, for example, they have politely and with a willingness to engage in debate proposed that the Holocaust, on the balance of probability, did not happen. Proposing that women as a gender have to be prevented from having the ability to bring rape charges on the grounds of intoxication because it would lead to a number of mendacious women so numerous as to affect the composition and application of the law trying to avoid the embarrassment of having had consensual sex by attempting to go through a traumatic and lengthy process of having their sexual behaviour examined in open court won't get you banned, for a number of reasons. However, it is in my humble a belief that Barbelith, and indeed the world, would be better off without. It's actually a bit of a tribute to how discursive we are around here that we're talking about it.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
12:14 / 24.03.08
Throughout, I've been unhappy with the idea of "culmination", as I have been with the claim that the subsequent rioting started out as "reclaiming".

Right, so we've moved from contesting that an assault on a lifeguard did happen, which until recently you vehemently denied was the case, to contesting whether the riots were a reaction to that assault?

I guess there's no way of proving that the riots were a culmination of events. But unless we draw a fairly reasonable conclusion that the riots were a culmination of these events, which are well enough documented, then the only conclusion we're left with is to assume that the riots were completely spontaneous and had nothing to do with the incidence, perceived or otherwise, of crimes being perpetrated by young men of Lebanese descent at that time. Bare in mind that this perception had some basis in fact if we accept that the conviction of 14 men of gang rape, the conviction arising from an assault on a lifeguard, and the establishment of a police task force to deal with the issue of "Middle Eastern crime" actually occurred, post riot or not. Whether, at the time, the issue was hearsay is moot. Because the fact is that that "hearsay" turned out to be factually correct do a large degree. Remember, we're not talking about crimes in the dead of night with few or no witnesses here, we're talking about assaults on a busy beach in broad daylight with tens of witnesses.

I really don't want to get involved in the whole "Cronullagate" thing again, because I understand that the riot was racist. Like I've said, I was intending to put a different perspective on it, not justify anyone's actions, and frankly, if I get accused of racism one more time, I'll break some valuable computer equipment. My apology for my posts that could have been taken in a racist context are sincere. It seems like people are taking that interpretation, formulating an opinion on what sort of person I am, and projecting it onto the consent debate. Which is fair enough in some ways I guess. I'm just asking people to isolate the issues and take each at it's own merit.

As for any breach of Godwin's Law, why is my transgression more heinous than that of others?

To be honest, debate about "flamings" probably isn't really helpful to anybody. So we should probably leave it there and make out a commitment to carry out any further debate in a more mature way. Which, quite frankly, whether you agree with my posts or not, was happening quite well (in my opinion) in the "Consent" thread. I think that if you have a look at my history on Barb that I have been the subject of many, many accusations and character assassinations. Surely those points have been well enough made by now? Surely we can move on?

As for putting together thread about the "Stolen Generation" and the apology, go ahead! It would make for an interesting conversation!
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
12:25 / 24.03.08
Proposing that women as a gender have to be prevented from having the ability to bring rape charges on the grounds of intoxication because it would lead to a number of mendacious women so numerous as to affect the composition and application of the law trying to avoid the embarrassment of having had consensual sex by attempting to go through a traumatic and lengthy process of having their sexual behaviour examined in open court won't get you banned, for a number of reasons.

The first reason probably being that I never made such an outlandish proposition! I should bloody-well hope I wouldn't be banned!

We're descending into stupidity here.

Can you point out where I have proposed "the prevention of women as a gender bringing rape charges on the grounds of intoxication"?

That's out of control!

All I've ever argued for is better laws. Laws that don't introduce loopholes. Laws that protect the innocent. Laws that protect victims. What is so controversial about that?

Or is it just that if you tell a lie big enough and keep repeating it, people will eventually come to believe it?

Ooops, Godwin again!
 
 
Anna de Logardiere
12:26 / 24.03.08
Look Fungus it's really fucking simple, earlier in this thread you wrote What I hoped for when I joined Barbelith, based upon the discussion I had witnessed was some discourse on what can, at times, be sensitive issues. If you want to discuss sensitive issues you need to approach them with sensitivity and with some respect for both sides of the argument. You did not do that but when people pointed out that you weren't doing that you started to complain that you were being taken out of context:

"How many time would you like me to say it? Can you justify your comment that I appear to be the "stand[ing] up for the Caucasian rioters"

Both your attempts to ask people to explain your position (which was clear, you were taking the position that crime was frequently perpetrated by people of Lebanese origin and that meant that the rioters probably had some ground for their response) and your refusal to answer comments that apparently editorialised your post was absurd. If people don't understand you it is still your fault, you did the typing, you weren't clear and you have to assume responsibility for that. you provided no alternative argument that made any sense, there was no other explanation for your position because you did not give those reading the thread anything else. Isn't it time for you to understand that and stop scrabbling for points? You're not going to get any because your explanations don't make any sense.
 
 
Anna de Logardiere
12:29 / 24.03.08
And please stop accusing Haus of lying, constant repetition does not make something true.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
12:35 / 24.03.08
Point taken Natalia, hence my original apology which stands.

I'm refering specifically to Haus' contention in this thread that there were "unveriied accounts of attacks on lifesavers by a gang of Lebanese men.

I merely pointed out that these were not unverified, and in fact, a conviction had been secured against the perpetrator.

I suspect that in the absence of evidence that I justify rape on the grounds of intoxication, the tactic is to undermine me by bringing long resolved threads back up. Just as several people told me would happen.
 
 
My Mom Thinks I'm Cool
12:54 / 24.03.08
With respect, it seems that the whole argument really did centre on the placement of a comma.

...the well written and reasoned refutations that eventually caused me to take back large parts of what I'd said...


if the only thing wrong with your argument was the placement of a comma, why did you eventually take back large parts of what you said?

I think if you review the content of all of my posts

you keep saying this, over and over, about all your posts. but we're all here, reading your posts, and we're all having these problems, and we're not seeing what you seem to think we'll see if we keep reading them over and over. your posts do not seem to say to us what you seem to think they mean when you write them.

you say you've apologized sincerely in the past and saw some good in what people were saying. yet you seem to be making the exact same mistakes in the consent thread that you were making in the australia thread, and denying that you are making the mistakes, and telling us that what you've said can't possibly sound like what a sexist would say because you know you're not sexist...

what you've said about vagueness in law being a problem is probably true. several people have agreed with you on that point. you do not consider yourself to be the kind of person who slips a roofie into someone's drink and takes them home. okay, you're probably not. your posts still sound like there's some or a lot of dodgy thinking going on in there. that doesn't mean you're an evil person and you fit neatly into box X which is labeled Sexist or Rapist or whatever. it does mean that you should shut up and think for a bit.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
13:00 / 24.03.08
King,

I would happily shut up if someone could point out the dodgy thinking. I'd happily shut up if someone could point out the sexism.

But all that is happening is that arguments are being brought up from previous threads to justify an unsupportable claim on the "Consent" thread. Namely, that I justify rape in the case of intoxication, and that I'm sexist.

Why should I just roll over and say, "yeah, because I poorly expressed my thoughts during "Cronullagate" every negative thing that people want to write about me is justified"

Bugger that!
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
13:05 / 24.03.08
Right, so we've moved from contesting that an assault on a lifeguard did happen, which until recently you vehemently denied was the case, to contesting whether the riots were a reaction to that assault?

We haven't moved anywhere. I said on the 6th February of this year:

First up, NSW crime reports do not reference the racial origin of the alleged perpetrators. So, one could say factually that there had been an increase in crime reports of verbal and physical harassment - whether that was a statement of true fact could then be examined from police reports. I am not sure how many weeks you include in "the weeks leading up to the riot", since you were using a fictitious set of sexual attacks based on something that happened four years previously as an example of a recent flashpoint.

The statement that these culminated - that is, reached their peak - in an attack on a volunteer lifesaver again looks like a fact. However, is there a crime report? Is there an official report of any kind? As far as one can ascertain, there was a fight between a group of young men on one side and a smaller group of lifesavers on the other. However, the run-up to it, the cause of the fight... these are not clear. There's quite an interesting bit in the Four Corners Programme transcript about how the runours proliferated - the lifesavers stepped in to prevent an Australian woman being harassed, the lifesavers were attacked after saving the life of a Muslim woman by a crowd of Lebanese men outraged that she had touched her, and so on.

So, again, I think you're taking "accepted wisdom" as historical fact, without taking into account that your own filters are determining what wisdom you find acceptable.


I believe you get very upset when you feel that people are not reading your posts holistically, so I'm not sure where to go with that one. In light of that, I am going to respond to your post here in its entirety, FYI.

I guess there's no way of proving that the riots were a culmination of events.

It is also awkward when you don't read your own posts. You said:

In the weeks leading up to the riot there had been an increasing incidence of groups of young Lebanese men attending the beach and verbally and physically abusing "Aussies" particularly young women. This culminated in an assault on a volounteer lifesaver at the beach.

This is the use of "culminate" being questioned. So, the next section:

But unless we draw a fairly reasonable conclusion that the riots were a culmination of these events, which are well enough documented, then the only conclusion we're left with is to assume that the riots were completely spontaneous and had nothing to do with the incidence, perceived or otherwise, of crimes being perpetrated by young men of Lebanese descent at that time.

Is not relevant.

Bare in mind that this perception had some basis in fact if we accept that the conviction of 14 men of gang rape, the conviction arising from an assault on a lifeguard, and the establishment of a police task force to deal with the issue of "Middle Eastern crime" actually occurred, post riot or not.

Oh dear. 9 convictions, 14 charges. Being charged is not in itself a proof of guilt. Being convicted, for that matter, is not always a proof of guilt, but certainly charge+Lebanese != guilty. We have the conviction, certainly, but you seem to have forgotten what Task Force Gain is up to again. Let's go back to your quote:

"I am advised that current planning will see a core group of about 60 detectives deployed as a central unit of Task Force Gain. In addition, 20 target action group officers will continue to operate with the task force to address the identified organised crime groups and increase the focus on mid-level drug trade. The task force will continue to operate with its Arabic translators and interpreters, and a new 30-member target action group, focusing on street to mid-level drug trafficking, will be attached to the greater metropolitan region. As well as that, a 30-member high-visibility, high-impact policing unit comprising uniformed officers will operate from the south-western under the control of the operations manager of the greater metropolitan region and be on hand to provide the muscle when Task Force Gain asks for it.

As I have said previously, Gain stage three will pave the way for a permanent State Crime Command squad, targeting the same types of crime that led us to establish Task Force Gain 12 months ago. That squad—currently slated as the Middle Eastern Organised Crime Squad—will become the tenth State Crime Command specialist unit."


Organised crime. Mid-level drugs trafficking. Not, as far as I can tell, Lebanese beach hassle.

Whether, at the time, the issue was hearsay is moot. Because the fact is that that "hearsay" turned out to be factually correct do a large degree. Remember, we're not talking about crimes in the dead of night with few or no witnesses here, we're talking about assaults on a busy beach in broad daylight with tens of witnesses.

Well, hearsay involved a series of contradictory accounts. Ergo, "hearsay" could not have turned out to be factually correct to a large degree. For example, the hearsay that the gang were attacking lifesavers attempting to save a Lebanese woman turned out, I believe, to be incorrect. However, if your argument is that there was enough factual accuracy to the rumours to explain the race riots then fair enough - I don't really have a metric there.

I really don't want to get involved in the whole "Cronullagate" thing again, because I understand that the riot was racist. Like I've said, I was intending to put a different perspective on it, not justify anyone's actions, and frankly, if I get accused of racism one more time, I'll break some valuable computer equipment.

You know, having people talk about the racist assumptions inherent in one's beliefs really isn't that bad a thing. For example, the jump from "charged" to "convicted" of those 14 chaps above - simple factual error? Factual error facilitated by inherent attitudes? There's scope, I think, for looking at this and things like it in terms of what might be going on below the surface. As has already been said, there's a difference between "you are a racist" and "there's some stuff there which I think might be flavoured by unspoken attitudes to race".

My apology for my posts that could have been taken in a racist context are sincere. It seems like people are taking that interpretation, formulating an opinion on what sort of person I am, and projecting it onto the consent debate. Which is fair enough in some ways I guess. I'm just asking people to isolate the issues and take each at it's own merit.

Well, I think the issue at present is the "women lie"iness of the consent discussion, and whether such statements should be protected by a polite tone. It's hard never to think about what someone has said or done previously when responding to what they are saying now, especially when they appear to interact in awkward ways. I think, though, that this is the issue that is being isolated.

As for any breach of Godwin's Law, why is my transgression more heinous than that of others?

That's a fair question. Generally, he who casts the first Godwin has to expect a degree of shoutiness, but you're quite right that it was unhelpful to call you a neo-Nazi on the strength of the available evidence, and indeed to call you a fascist, since we weren't talking about your political views.

On preview:

The first reason probably being that I never made such an outlandish proposition! I should bloody-well hope I wouldn't be banned!

You said:

I agree wholeheartedly that most women would not wish to go through the trauma of a frivolous rape case. But this may well be because of the current difficulty of such a case. Were such cases to become "easier" would this situation change? I don't know. The point is that law must be as watertight as possible, even if we all know it never reaches the point of impermeableness

This is my point - you keep suggesting that maybe - just maybe, I don't knowm, who knows, really, what motivates the heart of that varium et semper mutabile creature, mulier - the only way to stop a statistically significant number of women from waking up after a drunken night next to some wowzer and thinking that the only way to protect their reputation would be to drag said wowzer and themselves into the courts is to make it difficult for charges to be brought on these grounds.

As has been pointed out repeatedly, this is essentially saying that legislation should take into account that women lie, and that women's mendacity is such a force that it needs to be controlled by the legislature. This seems to me rather like saying that because a shopkeeper can throw a brick through his or her own shop window, one should not legislate to make the throwing of brick through a window a justifiable place to start charges of vandalism, since shopkeepers could do it themselves to avoid admitting that their window display was unattractive, and that it was their own fault for arranging it that way when they were a few sheets to the wind. Except it isn't like saying that, because it's about women being raped. This basic point tends towards undermining the reception of your other arguments, such as the one that establishing reasonable doubt about cognitive impairment would collapse a rape prosecution (which I think is problematic in itself, but, as I just said, it's not somewhere I want to go from here).

So, yes. Like that, basically. Back on your original post:

To be honest, debate about "flamings" probably isn't really helpful to anybody. So we should probably leave it there and make out a commitment to carry out any further debate in a more mature way. Which, quite frankly, whether you agree with my posts or not, was happening quite well (in my opinion) in the "Consent" thread. I think that if you have a look at my history on Barb that I have been the subject of many, many accusations and character assassinations. Surely those points have been well enough made by now? Surely we can move on?

This is a tricky one, because you can't compel reception. What you see as accusation and character assassinations others may see as accusations and character assessments. One of the sad things about life is that one simply cannot draw a line on something and expect nobody to step over it. If you want people who refer back to previous behaviour to be disciplined, we could certainly moot that in Policy, but I don't think it would go very far. Your feelings of victimhood and injustice may or may not be shared. Likewise the model of maturity being put forward - where, again, maturity may mean radically different things to different people.

As for putting together thread about the "Stolen Generation" and the apology, go ahead! It would make for an interesting conversation!

Thanks, but after the morass of "Is Australia etc", I don't think I have the resolve.

Anyway, I'm off. This is not a profitable use of time. Stick around for a while, fungus, and you'll get grandfathered, and the people who might raise objections will probably leave, so you're all right.
 
 
Anna de Logardiere
13:16 / 24.03.08
Fungus, if you could read the post that Haus has written and actually accept that your responses and the majority of your posts up to now have rested on assumption rather than fact you might get somewhere. Haus hasn't twisted what you've said, he has taken the facts, stripped of the cultural assumptions that you have applied to them. If you cannot understand that you really should not be here.
 
 
Twice
13:22 / 24.03.08
Fungus, it’s not going to get better. Endless discussion about what you actually said, or actually meant to say, or actually meant, or actually meant us to understand seems unimportant. What is important to me is what you wrote, and how I understand what you wrote. It’s pretty obvious that virtual winks and innuendo and, help me with this one, ‘subtle hyperbole’ don’t go down well on Barbelith.

Very early on, I think, perhaps even during your first flounce, you said you’d come here hoping for interesting discourse (forgive me for not looking up the exact words; they seem unimportant) with the board. The problem seemed immediately obvious: you’d rather expected to arrive with a flash and a bang and wow everyone with your insight and wisdom. Sadly, you didn’t. As King of Iron Pants points out, it seems unlikely that you do fit neatly into any particular box, and your distress at having this thrown at you is understandable. However, what Barbelith is very good at is making people think very carefully about what they write, and frowns quite severely at people who seem unwilling to take responsibility for their own statements. Again and again, people have pointed out very serious concerns about things which you have written, and your reaction appears always to go on the offensive, rather than to sit back, have a think and perhaps acknowledge that what you wrote was a little bit dubious.

Myself, I’ve committed some monumental fuck-ups on Barbelith, but have benefited a great deal from what I have understood to be a very patient group of posters. I’ve really hesitated about addressing you directly, because The Big Doodz have clearly been struggling. Even when you are forced to retract, or apologise, your retraction or apology seems, more often than not, to be followed immediately by a barb which lessens the effect of it. You seem to need to have the last word, even when you are wrong. When I first came here, I made a rash generalisation on a dear thread which seemed to hasten its demise. I was hauled across the coals for it, and rightly, and it was awful. I have had to learn, though, that it’s best to read carefully and think more than once before hitting ‘post’. Moreover, I’ve had to learn that when somebody calls me on something, it’s highly likely that it’s for a good reason.

I have to ask: have you actually worked out why the Cronullagate stuff was racist, or do you still think that everybody was just having a go?
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
13:36 / 24.03.08
"Cronullagate" is done and dusted as far as I'm concerned. My point was the contention that the assault of a lifesaver was unverified. I simply pointed out that it wasn't unverified. It seems that I walked into the trap as it allowed the whole thing to be brought up again as evidence that I'm sexist and justify rape, not to mention racist as well.

I'm actually reasonably comfortable with the way the conversation went in the "Consent" thread. There was no name calling and no need for personal insults. I also think that a discussion was happening that was interesting and challenging.

It's a pity that there'll be no discussion of the apology to the Stolen Generation. It would have been nice to agree for once.....
 
  

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