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My Mom Thinks I'm Cool
14:08 / 24.03.08
I would happily shut up if someone could point out the dodgy thinking.

It has been pointed out. 437,302 times.

Would the law have have made it too easy for women, regretful their actions, to bring a sexual assault case against someone who otherwise obtained consent? What if such a woman claimed that she was drink at the time of the encounter?

This is the dodgy thinking. Okay? this is not me bringing up Australia. this is not me calling you anything-ist. this is me pointing out the dodgy fucking thinking.

you chose to make this statement and not some other statement. that means you thought this was important to say. that means, as Haus has said, you are worried about the small (you yourself say it's small) chance of a woman crying false rape, and saying that it's a possible reason to not pass a law which is meant to prevent the use of alcohol to facilitate rape. can you see that this sounds like dodgy thinking?

it is important, if we want to change the way things are and make rape less frequent, to call out and question statements and arguments like this. this does not make you an anything-ist. it means you need to think about what you say and why you say it and how what you say changes how other people around you think and whether, in the end, you are supporting the way things are or helping to make things better.
 
 
Anna de Logardiere
14:30 / 24.03.08
Fungus, if you don't want to discuss an issue don't bring it up in this thread. No one forced you to talk about the Australia thread, you brought it up here. No one else referenced it, your name was mentioned by Haus in an off hand way before that Dead Megatron had his moments on that one before being grandfathered, Fungus of Consciousness is getting that way now.
 
 
Dead Megatron
14:44 / 24.03.08
what?
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
14:51 / 24.03.08
You get on people's pecs but you've been around too long to chuck out without doing something more outrageous than usual, maybe?
 
 
Dead Megatron
15:51 / 24.03.08
You get on people's pecs but you've been around too long to chuck out without doing something more outrageous than usual, maybe?

Some people get on my pecs too, rest assured*

I like to believe I simply learned to differentiate when I'm engaging in a enlighting, productive argument (or trivial conversation) about a given topic, and when things have degenerated into this or this.

Also, I pretty much just don't care enough to bother anymore. (It can happen to us all at any moment). Not that I don't feel hurt when my name is mentioned with no other purpose than giving examples of wrong things past and present, even though I was not even engaged in the conversation to begin with, tho. However, since in this board there is a tendency to use some variation of the phrase "I hate to admit it, but...", whenever someone happens to agrees with me, I'm not really surprised. Thankfully, as mentioned above, I just don't care all that much anymore.

If anyone is curious, I am totally in favor of the law, even though I find it baffling it is necessary to pass a law on something that should be oh so fucking obvious (that having sex with someone that is too drunk to say no or fight back is rape, duh!) and am curious on how will such law be regulated as to cover every possible variation of sexual innebriated exchange between two or more people**. So, please oh please, keep me out of this mess.

The thing I'm finding annoying on Barbelith today is, ironically, the Barbannoy thread. It feels like being trapped in a time-loop. And not the "next-time-I-can-fix-this" kind of time-loop.

*not you, Mordant, in case you're wondering. I usually take you being angry/annoyed at me as a clear sign it's time to back out and retract a few thing said by me. Which is not true for a lot of other people.

** just as an example, it strikes me that the atacker/raper/abuser could just as easily claim ze too was too drunk to realize consent was not given and claim "temporary insanity" or "impaired judgment" or something similar as a defense, which could render the law pretty much mute. Which, just to be extra clear, I'd find very unfortunate. Will it be full of clauses and paragraphs describing every possible situation, or will it be left for judges, prosecutors, investigators, and forensic/medic personnel to decide whether there were rape or not? Does anyone have access to the exact wording of the law?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:02 / 24.03.08
You get on people's pecs but you've been around too long to chuck out without doing something more outrageous than usual, maybe?

Not exactly... grandfathering is not quite the right term, as people who are grandfathered are still treated as if an old law was still in place, even when a new law has been introduced that supersedes it. When the fifteenth amendment made denying the vote to US citizens on the grounds of race illegal, some states made voting conditional on passing an exam or paying a poll tax, from which one was exempt if one's grandfather had been able to vote - that is, in effect, if you were white. These days, you often find it in the case of organisations or installations which are protected from the effect of new legislation for political reasons - for example, if a car plant which will be replaced by a new facility in a few years is a major employer in a state, it might be exempted from new safety or emissions legislation until the end of its life.

In this context, it means, effectively, that simply by persevering around for long enough one can become a well-respected member of Barbelith. Which, since nobody gets banned any more, means basically that perseverance creates community. There's a knock-on effect there, where one's expectations of a community are likely to condition how long one sticks around in it and what effect that has, but that is largely outwith the field of inquiry.
 
 
Dead Megatron
16:08 / 24.03.08
There's a knock-on effect there, where one's expectations of a community are likely to condition how long one sticks around in it and what effect that has, but that is largely outwith the field of inquiry.

I hope such period of time is shorter than Godwin's law.

Btw, Haus, thanx on the link to the 5 geeks fallacies. Interesting, useful, thought food.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
16:32 / 24.03.08
In this context, it means, effectively, that simply by persevering around for long enough one can become a well-respected member of Barbelith



Barbelith in 6 months time?
 
 
Twice
17:21 / 24.03.08
That 'Last of the Summer Wine' thing you've got going, Glenn. Reminds me very much of "I'll scream and scream till I'm sick".
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
17:22 / 24.03.08
Fung? Wrong chap, old chap.

[Ah, see you've changed 'Fung' for 'Glenn' using the quick edit feature. Right chap, then.]
 
 
Twice
17:23 / 24.03.08
Thought I'd got in quick enough then, luv. Addled.
 
 
Anna de Logardiere
21:43 / 24.03.08
I laughed and I laughed til I made myself thick.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
01:24 / 25.03.08
Would the law have have made it too easy for women, regretful their actions, to bring a sexual assault case against someone who otherwise obtained consent? What if such a woman claimed that she was drink at the time of the encounter?

This is but one point of many in my post. Now some people might not find it "likely" that this might happen, but like I've said on a million and one occasions, you don't make laws on a "She'll be right mate" basis. What the fuck about that is so hard to understand? Imagine someone being locked up for 14 years because someone withdrew freely given consent the day after? Oh sorry mate, you know, it just wasn't likely to happen, so bad fucking luck, go to gaol!

What about the point that by introducing a law that says consent cannot I repeat, CANNOT be given while intoxicated you introduce a mode of defence on the basis of:
a) intoxication
b) consent
Which actually makes the absence of consent LESS provable, not more. Nobody has engaged this argument. Everybody seems to think that I'm arguing on the basis of some bloke getting a woman pissed up to dribbling and then taking advantage of her, when, in my original post I stated that this was UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOUR and ought to be investigated vigourously!!!!!!

Rather than having to prosecute someone on the grounds of consent, you also have to establish whether or not the person was intoxicated, because if they said yes because they maintain that they felt threatened and ere also intoxicated at the time, by introducing reasonable doubt about their intoxication you introduce reasonable doubt over the whole case. Oh, no worries, she'll be right!

But, you know, I'm wrong and the learned scholars of law in Barb are right. The NSW legislature is wrong, but the elders of Barbelith are right, the NSW judiciary are wrong, but the crack legal minds of Barb are right. The media is wrong, but bloody Barbelith is right!

For fuck's sake. Take a snippet and argue it as an entire stand alone case without reference to any other part of the argument. What the fuck....? I was trying illustrate a broken law that pertained to consent which introduced a number of questions and loopholes, not just one. But people only seem interested in that one question....
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
01:41 / 25.03.08
Oh dear.

Is this the bit where you lose it completely and start putting lots of exclamation marks where lots of exclamation marks don't belong, Peter? Is that going to do us much good, really?
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
05:15 / 25.03.08
No, I'd say it's the bit where I ask the same question as I've asked 407,302 times and have nobody answer and go straight to the bit about "women lie"...
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
05:32 / 25.03.08
Damnit, after am Easter weekend away doing other things I woke up this morning and hoped that I'd dreamt the lot of you. No such luck...
 
 
jentacular dreams
08:57 / 25.03.08
So you are arguing that such a change in the law would make 'frivolous' rape convictions more likely? What about convictions for real rapes? What do you believe that it will do for real and frivolous *reporting*? And wouldn't you consider couples taking a bit longer to get to know each other before getting pelvic whlst both somewhat smashed be an acceptable price for a reduction in alcohol-based rape?
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
09:27 / 25.03.08
Mouse,

I've stated that one of my concerns is that it might actually be harder to secure a conviction.

It's probably not much point bothering all and sundry going over and over the arguments time and again.

Why don't we all take a break?
 
 
Anna de Logardiere
09:37 / 25.03.08
Fungus, what proportion of rape cases go to trial in your country? What percentage of potential rapists are charged and how many are convicted?

I would appreciate it if no one else answered this question. If you do I am going to flame you.
 
 
Liger Null
10:41 / 25.03.08
And wouldn't you consider couples taking a bit longer to get to know each other before getting pelvic whilst both somewhat smashed be an acceptable price for a reduction in alcohol-based rape?

I imagine the subsequent reduction in unplanned pregnancies and STD transmission would also be a bonus.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
10:46 / 25.03.08
just as an example, it strikes me that the atacker/raper/abuser could just as easily claim ze too was too drunk to realize consent was not given and claim "temporary insanity" or "impaired judgment" or something similar as a defense --Dead Megatron

You mean, as when people who shoot each other dead over crack deals gone wrong whilst on crack can then say "well it was the crack" and get let off? Oh, hang on, they can't.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
11:03 / 25.03.08
(PS: not really an annoy, but the mute/moot thing is such a common question I thought "Hey! Why not take the lemons of queasy and insensitive speculation around sex crime laws and make the lemonade of clarification on a minor linguistic point!")
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
11:45 / 25.03.08
I dunno, I've been making a mute point for the last three or four pages...
 
 
Dead Megatron
12:04 / 25.03.08
You mean, as when people who shoot each other dead over crack deals gone wrong whilst on crack can then say "well it was the crack" and get let off?

Sort of, yes, I'm afraid. Rape and murder are two different crimes, and jurisprudence may have eliminated the possibility of such defense in the latter case, but has it in the former?

Mind you, I'm not saying the law is flawed and should be droped because of that, I'm just wondering how such case can be prevented from happening. swear. My previous argument is not a rhetorical argument, I really want to know how will the law work. I just want more information, I swear.

Plus, this was just a random example for which I have no special feelings, and I'd happily drop it the moment it is proven wrong, or even if simply so requested. I also would like to know, for instance, if such law would cover intoxication by other - less legal - substances, like ecstasy, crack, heroin, etc. Are drug users also covered? Because, you know, I think they should.

Once again, let me re-state that I have no desire in participating of this debate. I want the law to be passed, and I want it to work as it is meant to work. I don't see what else needs to be said by me on this.

And sorry for the moot/mute thing. Won't happen again.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
12:21 / 25.03.08
So out of queasy and insensitive speculation over sex crime laws and a minor linguistic error, you choose to apologise for the latter after indulging in some more of the former? Bless you, DM.

And by bless you, I mean please shut up.
 
 
Dead Megatron
12:38 / 25.03.08
That's because I don't think it was queasy and insensitive. I just want to know how the law will work during trial. Lawyers will use any defense at their disposal to get their clients out, including the temporary insanity thing - which I do think is very wrong in many levels, but will probably happen anyway - and all I want to know is how will this be prevented.

Really, can anyone point me to where I can find more information on this new legislation? Or will people only complain that I'm curious on the details of the law instead of just praising it (which I also do)?

Plus, how many times I have to say that telling me to shut up will always cause the opposite effect?
 
 
Dead Megatron
12:46 / 25.03.08
On a second thought, never mind. If making questions regarding details of a given subject will label me as "insensitive" instead of "concerned", I'll just find out by myself somehow. You people are not listening anyway.
 
 
Anna de Logardiere
13:03 / 25.03.08
can anyone point me to where I can find more information on this new legislation?

Actually if anyone can do that I would also be interested to read any articles or information on the subject.
 
 
Anna de Logardiere
13:05 / 25.03.08
If making questions regarding details of a given subject will label me as "insensitive" instead of "concerned", I'll just find out by myself somehow.

Try listening to Mordant and adapting your language Megatron, a little tact goes a really long way and there's no harm in spending more time on your sentences.
 
 
Dead Megatron
13:11 / 25.03.08
That is a fairer point. But worry not, I'm done talking about this. I didn't want to, to begin with.
 
 
My Mom Thinks I'm Cool
13:17 / 25.03.08
This is but one point of many in my post.

dear sir,

you said:

I would happily shut up if someone could point out the dodgy thinking.

so I fucking did. your entire post was not the dodgy thinking, so I did not respond to the entire post. I pointed out the dodgy thinking. as you asked me to do. please forgive me if I don't have a reply to every fucking point of your posts in every single one of my posts. jesus.

when, in my original post I stated that this was UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOUR and ought to be investigated vigourously!!!!!!

yes, you did. I said you did. I said I do not think you purposefully intoxicate people to bring them home.

I also said that these questions,

Would the law have have made it too easy for women, regretful their actions, to bring a sexual assault case against someone who otherwise obtained consent? What if such a woman claimed that she was drink at the time of the encounter?

are dangerous, for reasons I and others have pointed out, and that I think you need to do some self-reflection.

it seems obvious to me at this point that you did not mean any of your apologies because you are carrying on doing the exact same fucking thing you supposedly apologized for. you're ranting and raving and throwing exclamation points all over the place and repeating yourself as if that will somehow convince us. you're stuck on the idea that we are calling you a sexist and aren't we horrible people for hurting your feelings, and ignoring the advice behind what we're saying. this is not about the great people of Barbelith never being wrong. this is about us trying to get you to think. I'm kind of giving up about that.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
14:19 / 25.03.08
King of Iron Pants,

I guess I reacted in a manner very similar to you in your previous post. That is, when you feel people aren't really listening, you tend to get frustrated. You are frustrated at me. I'm frustrated at several people, up until now, not including yourself. So with a lot of noise coming in, and frankly where the discussion (I suspect) has only been taken up in Barbannoy and not reviewed in the "Consent" thread by many posters, it gets frustrating answering questions that are irrelevant, already answered, or, at times, just plain stupid.

As I've said, time and again, you don't introduce laws with loopholes where possible. You certainly do not introduce laws that seek to close a loophole by introducing two other loopholes. And, in law, you have to consider the likelihood of innocent people being charged as a function of the law who would otherwise not be considered offenders. This point is key. As I've said, time and again, we all know that no woman would want to bring a vexatious rape claim against someone. But this is only in light of current law. So who's to say that if it wasn't made easier, more people (and they wouldn't only be women) wouldn't be encouraged to bring a frivolous case to bear? This is not to say that rape cases shouldn't be made easier to gain a conviction, because clearly there isn't enough cases upheld compared to reports, and what we can reasonably extrapolate as being unreported cases. So my point is not that being convicted for rape shouldn't be easier, it just should be better than to throw a blanket over the problem and say there is NO lawfull consent while intoxicated. Furthermore, you don't knowingly introduce laws that allow prosecution of people on extremely serious charges who would otherwise not be considered an offender by the community at large. By this, I mean large sections of the male community who regularly have fully consensual sex with their partners while intoxicated. Bare in mind the proposed law makes no distinction on the time you have known someone nor on the status of your relationship. The amendment made the provision of consent while intoxicated unlawful. Pure and simple. I just don't see what is so controversial! Nor do I see it as being particularly hard to grasp. It's not about going out and getting someone pissed until dribbling to gain a dubious consent. A point I made in both my first and second posts on the issue, and in many thereafter.

And this is before we get to my point that nobody wants to discuss about introducing intoxication as a mode of argument or contention in court. So If the particulars of the case are that a person "acquiesced" to sex while drunk, then if the defence argues reasonable doubt over the intoxication of the victim at the time, then there is reasonable doubt over whether there was a rape in the first place. If you think this wouldn't be argued you've got rock in your head, because the law states that "consent cannot be said to have been lawfully obtained if at the time of that consent the victim was intoxicated by drugs or alcohol ". So clearly, if the defence establishes that the only point of contention was the intoxication of the victim, if reasonable doubt can be cast over the status of the victims intoxication, then there is reasonable doubt over the while case. This is the 50% of my argument that has received less than 1% of the discussion. Maybe because it is less "sensational". I don't know. But is the opposite side of the same coin, so surely it deserves roughly 50% of discussion? But I guess it's kind of hard to cast me in a negative light on this point.....

Technically, the effect of the law would make a rapist of a husband and wife sitting in their lounge room, drinking wine and going to bed to have sex. Now let's be very clear on this. I understand that there aren't many wives out there who are going to report their husbands for rape. But the law doesn't make the distinction between apprehended and un-apprehended crime. If you've stolen something, you've stolen something, regardless of whether you are caught. You've committed theft, regardless of whether you are caught. If you rape someone you have raped someone, regardless of whether you have been caught.

I'm sure, that given that I have been explaining this since post one, none of that will get through.
 
 
Fungus of Consciousness
14:25 / 25.03.08
Just another point.

If you think that changing a law to make something easier doesn't encourage people to do it, think again.

In 2005 in NSW there was a law passed that effectively decriminalised the theft of goods valuing less than $500 for the first offence. Those caught would have to supply only a fingerprint and pay a nominal fine. They would no longer have to face a magistrate to have their case heard as, for the first offence, there cannot be a criminal conviction gained.

Sure enough, according to the Australian Retailers Association, theft climbed dramatically, up to 50% in some of their members outlets.

So you can see, that where a law is made easier, or harder to prosecute, their will always be people willing to take advantage of it for their own nefarious ends.

But, as I said, this is only part of my argument. I have only used it to address the argument that people wouldn't bring a vexatious claim to hearing.
 
 
Evil Scientist
14:40 / 25.03.08
Bare in mind the proposed law makes no distinction on the time you have known someone nor on the status of your relationship.

No reason it should though. The majority of these crimes are committed by someone the victim knows and the nature of the relationship is irrelevant if consent is not (or cannot be) given. Bringing relationship status back into the procedings sets a dangerous precedent for the return to times gone by where a husband was, legally speaking, incapable of committing said crime against his wife.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:10 / 25.03.08
You're not alone, King of Iron Pants. I spent a vast post cleaving to this insistence that every single syllable of what Fungus says is recorded and taken into context, here, and got nothing for my pains. There seems to be a double standard operating here.
 
  

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