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Quantum
18:33 / 27.10.05
I once read that multiple exlamation marks were a sign of madness!!!!!!!!!
 
 
Ganesh
18:36 / 27.10.05
More a sign of kerra-a-a-ayzeeness, I think.
 
 
Harrison Ford, in a battle suit, wheels for feet, knives and guns
18:44 / 27.10.05
No. Boredom.
 
 
Sax
08:08 / 28.10.05
So. How can we make it fun again?
 
 
Loomis
08:36 / 28.10.05
Role play?
 
 
Sax
10:01 / 28.10.05
Do you mean pretending to be in a customer complaints department or pretending to be in a dungeon?
 
 
Axolotl
10:05 / 28.10.05
The 2 are remarkably similar: the cries of the damned, the torment, strange meaningless tasks to complete. Unfortunately there's less gold & XP available in customer services.
 
 
Loomis
10:16 / 28.10.05
We'll all go to the pub separately and pretend not to know each other. It'll be just like in Glasgow, Sax. As I recall we were halfway back to your hotel room before we realised that we were both there for the barbmeet.
 
 
Sax
10:53 / 28.10.05
Your miniskirt had temporarily clouded my brain.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
11:46 / 28.10.05
Has anyone read conversation in the last 24 hours? It seems to me that everything is wrong with barbelith.
 
 
Char Aina
11:55 / 28.10.05
in what way?
i was a bit worried at the lack of traffic last night, but that was because i was on a skive spree.
 
 
Harrison Ford, in a battle suit, wheels for feet, knives and guns
12:09 / 28.10.05
Has anyone read conversation in the last 24 hours? It seems to me that everything is wrong with barbelith.

I second that in a massive way.
 
 
Char Aina
12:22 / 28.10.05
well perhaps you could expand a little, then?
it seems like it might be useful to identify the issues you see as important.
 
 
Smoothly
12:36 / 28.10.05
I think the Convo's pretty good right now. Horses for course maybe. Interested to hear people's complaints.
 
 
Char Aina
12:39 / 28.10.05
likewise.
nina?
indy?
 
 
Tryphena Absent
12:42 / 28.10.05
The content is rubbish and it turns over about once every 20 minutes in the middle of the day. The best thread in the top 10 is about adverts and no one's actually discussing anything. It's called conversation, not snappy one-liners, the sympathy forum or recurrent problems in our lives that limit our ability to discuss issues.
 
 
Char Aina
12:46 / 28.10.05
i know what you mean.
its a bit like too many people are watching without participating; waiting for the barbelith to entertain them rather than entertaining each other.
i find myself a little guilty of that.
how about you?
 
 
Smoothly
12:49 / 28.10.05
Bollocks. The Hurricane thread is great, the Canada thread has turned into an interesting dispute about terminology, the accents thread has been worth bumping, the Organ donation thread is really interesting, the Newbism thread is staying broadly on topic and makes a good companion to this discussion….
The turnover might not be great, but it’s not terrible. The one-liners are, by and large, pretty good (grant’s got wood, etc). *shrug* There’s a thread for properly discussing troubling adverts in FTVT…
 
 
rising and revolving
14:03 / 28.10.05
This leads into some other thoughts, relating the reason I started the "how do we change?" thread. Message boards in general are hard to change. Distributed moderation combined with moderators who are 'just like everyone else' means that we can correct spelling errors wherever they strike and ... not really make any change of substance. The technology just isn't there - nor is it likely to be in a hurry.

Which leaves the classic ways for creating and guiding change on a message board :

a) Bitch about it. This one seems (just looking back through policy) to have a success rate of something approaching zero.

b) Change by doing. This seems to actually work. Go, create and participate in the sorts of threads you'd be interested in seeing more of. This seems to work well - Randy has done an excellent job of this in G&G. It's still a young forum, still a ways to go, but it's doing better in a lot of ways than many other parts of the board.

c) Start a policy thread. See a)

I'm coming to the point where it's hard to see the point of even discussing things - although this thread has managed to be a delightful meta-level commentary on itself, by virtue of demonstrating almost every quality that's been raised.

It's impossible to make the board anything other than what it is - the sum of its parts. Be a good part, or be a bad part. That's the bit you have control over.

Do things that make it easier for other people to be good parts.

Because, for the most part, I think everyone wants to be a good part. Some people just don't know how. Telling these people they're stupid bastards isn't likely to cause any change in their behaviour. SHOW them how to great. Offer a hand. It's not exactly hard.

Keep doing different things until you find one that sparks an actual exchange. It took Haus and I a TONNE of PM's before we could stop fighting and come down to what we actually want. Surprise surprise - it's the same thing. If we hadn't both been willing to try communicating in every manner we knew how we wouldn't have gotten anywhere.

Maybe my idea of what's good for Barbelith is different to yours. Maybe my idea of what's a valid conversation topic is different to yours. But if I assume that your greatest aim is to make this as vital a place as it can be, as challenging, as majestic as possible - and you do the same for me, then we're going to go a long way together.

Today, for me, is "Only post good stuff" day. I'm going to try and make everything I do a model of my ideal Barbelith. That's what I should have been doing the whole way along. It's easy to get lost along the way, though. But not for today.
 
 
Ariadne
14:53 / 28.10.05
I'm with Smoothly, I've enjoyed the conversation over the past day or two. Though I've only read it at hourly-ish intervals, being forced to work for once.
 
 
Ganesh
17:59 / 28.10.05
Me too. I wish there was a quicker turnover of new comments, but I don't think the subject matter's bad at all.
 
 
Char Aina
18:42 / 28.10.05
do some folks have problems with signing in at work?
i had issues with getting caught if i signed in at a previous job, as the cookies it left set off some kind of alarm in the IT department.
well, that's what my boss said.
he didnt mind as long as they didnt give him shit, and he said not signing in was a way round that.

i cant think of a good solution to the issue,if it is one.
is it an issue?
 
 
Jack Vincennes
19:07 / 28.10.05
It is for me, certainly. I tend to only log on at lunchtime and log off after that, so have a one-hour window in which to reply to things. It makes it harder to have (or rather, for me to participate in) the faster moving conversations of the kind I think would be good the place as I only have access for more than a 3/4 hour stretch at home.
 
 
Spatula Clarke
21:12 / 28.10.05
Just going back a bit to when Ganesh was reminiscing about how tea used to be, I think it's important to remember that posting levels were far lower than they are now. We'd sometimes go for days without a post being added to the board - it's not just a matter of how many members there were, but how often each member felt the need to post.

Is that an issue now? That people just feel the need to post, regardless of whether or not that have anything to say?

It's also tied to the in-jokes thing that you mentioned. We didn't really *have* in-jokes back then. We even had one thread where we talked about how shit in-jokes are and how they can effectively kill a board. They're repetititive (obviously). Their continued use always leads to stagnation and a lack of imagination. They provide a barrier to entry for new members and increase the sense of the board being a private members club.

I wish we could get away from them. There should be some sort of automatic kill-switch the wipes them from existence after seven days and requires people to come up with new funnies. I swear to God, every time somebody goes "pirates harr harr!" I despair.
 
 
The Falcon
23:24 / 28.10.05
I'm finding it quite hard to post anything useful at all just now . I mean, I've been following this thread from inception, and have observed feeling kind've useless, distant and mildly depressed. Could just be a transitional phase in my life, trynna grow up, going back to University on a vocational course, blah blah( no fishcakes*.)

Or I might just be internalising. I'm probably a lot more guilty of what toksik's describing there (waiting to be entertained) than he, for example, is. It's a rarity for me to try and engage with the revolution fora, e.g.

Going back to the n00bs issue, I do understand the degree of protectionism that seems evident - I've seen far lesser messageboards sink into just utter, meaningless garbage because of an influx of people with/applying little investment and plenty posts. It'd make me really, really sad to see that happening to Barbelith, but - conversely - I'd rather try and be inclusive and school people gently because, perhaps foolishly, I'd like to think the best of them. Deva's 'mulatto' example is perfect; while it's not a term I'd often (have) use(d), I had no idea of its etymology, and identify very strongly as 'anti-racist'. I *believe* this is the case with a large percentile of this mb's posters. Knowledge of how to be anti-racist, pro-gay, etc. is not innate and people are, I think, socialised into bad habit unconsciously. I'd prefer the deprogramming - whilst acknowledging I'm unlikely to be the one doing it regularly - be less abrasive. On the flipside, and almost certainly more importantly, I see no reason for Barbelith to accept hate-speech in any form, which is why I proposed a list of some what? ten, twenty words that generally are not an aid to any real form of communication anyway. Standardised actions and expansion to an FAQ seem like pretty good ideas then.

*I really hate the in-jokes; they're trite, exclusive and irritating, almost without exception.
 
 
The Falcon
23:28 / 28.10.05
While we're in confessional mode, I must note that I'm fucking terrible at starting new topics as well. I have about half the average for posters of similar standing, and half of them are probably like 'New X-Men 141' or something. A topic which would have inevitably occurred at any rate.

So...doing, not complaining. Arse, gear, into.
 
 
All Acting Regiment
00:01 / 29.10.05
I second the idea of hammering ten or twenty words we don't like. I think that would be a good thing to do, concrete, right now, and I'd like to do it if someone tells me where and how.
 
 
The Falcon
00:19 / 29.10.05
Here you go.
 
 
Loomis
08:22 / 29.10.05
Just going back a bit to when Ganesh was reminiscing about how tea used to be, I think it's important to remember that posting levels were far lower than they are now. We'd sometimes go for days without a post being added to the board

I disagree, but I suppose it depends which period you're referring to. For me, the busiest time of the board was 01/02, and I would often find it hard to keep up with the board during a day at work. I'd say by 2003 it had slowed down and has never really returned to that level. But as has been said, the only cure for that is to start posting the kind of threads and posts we want to see, and I've noticed a definite increase in enthusiasm over the last week, which is brilliant. I know I've tried to post more and start more threads this week.

I wish we could get away from them. There should be some sort of automatic kill-switch the wipes them from existence after seven days and requires people to come up with new funnies.

That's pretty unrealistic though isn't it? We're not goldfish. Imagine hanging out with your meatspace (oops -is that an injoke?) friends and not referring to anything said more than seven days earlier. Part of what keeps any relationship alive is reference to a shared past, and a lot of that is injokes. Honestly, you only need to lurk for a few days to pick them up. It's not exclusive at all. I thought we were agreed that any n00b worth anything would have lurked for weeks or months before posting in order to get an idea of what the board is about. If they haven't picked up on a few injokes by then, then they're not really paying attention. Furthermore, I don't see a lack of injoke knowledge preventing anyone from engaging with the more serious parts of the board (or indeed any of it, really).

And to top it all off, while I agree that pirates/ninjas is fairly tiresome, a lot of the injokes are funny. And a lot of them were around in the Good Old Days (TM), at least as I define them, which is 01/02. As I said earlier though, you may have a different period in mind.
 
 
Ganesh
09:20 / 29.10.05
Morrissey isn't an in-joke. Morrissey understands...
 
 
Mourne Kransky
09:21 / 29.10.05
If you want an online community, I think in-jokes are an inescapable feature.
 
 
Tom Coates
09:47 / 29.10.05
Pirates versus Ninjas is the future d00d. Jeez. You non Pirate/Ninja people make me sick. Er. Um.

Okay - right then. Interesting thread all things considered. Back to the person who was discussing the divergence between TMO and Barbelith - I think I can remember what happened there - it was when we all decided that Barbelith should be about more than Grant and gradually started to work out what we meant by that. As we did so, I gradually came to the conclusion that the biggest distinguishing characteristic of Barbelith was that it was higher quality than pretty much any other discussion board I'd seen. And at that point, I started talking about the possibilities of the board as being, "The aim of Barbelith is to create an online space where the standard of conversation, discussion and debate is higher than anywhere else online and in which everyone has a say in the running and management of the board" which is now entrenched in the wiki. People generally liked the idea and we went with it and it has been - in the first regard at least - I think enormously successful.

The second regard - not so much, and that's my fault and the fault of my absence of technical skills and time to learn and/or develop them (or build relationships with people who can build em).

Some of the other stuff that happened is also a matter of public record - our long concerted troll attacks, which I found myself dealing with almost daily for a long time, came at a point where I started having a massive upswing in daily work-related stress. Each attack would destroy all conversations going on around the site, and people started leaving in their droves. I tried my hardest to deal with these situations as they occurred and put out fires, but I couldn't, and the moderators were restricted in their abilities to do anything either because of the technology. Eventually my mind snapped, and it came down to one decision for me - we'd either have to close to new members or I'd have to shut the place down and encourage people to start a new community elsewhere. At the time, I think people accepted that the current state of affairs couldn't continue and there was general (but not total) agreement that we should close the doors to new members for a while, until we could figure out a better solution.

Of course, initally everything got back to normal, but after a few months it became clear that an online community like Barbelith really needs new members in order to stay fresh and have any value. During that time, I think I'd argue that the community that was here lost some great people, and got slightly set in its ways, and felt a bit sorry for itself. I am as responsible for that as anyone - more so probably. But then we opened the doors to new people under pressure from some of the existing board members. This was partly because I'd made the board searchable on Google, which it had been originally and then had stopped being when Cal and I developed the new software. Because the conversations we have here should NOT only be of use to the privileged few who post here, I was very very keen that we should help other people find the place and be able to read the great stuff people wrote. Unfortunately it brought with it some more aggravating people. Which - along with renewed troll attacks - put paid to an open door policy in about a week. The existing users practically begged me to shut the doors again. Obviously this wasn't optimal.

Anyway, a long time passed and we gradually came to some new conclusions - that we could handle a vetting process for new users collectively - working as a group, without support from software. Clearly it's not ideal, but I have to be honest with you guys, I think it's basically working. It puts a bit of a barrier up to people joining, some fairly simple hoops that anyone actively interested in a longer-term engagement with the board will have no problem going through. And it means we get a manageable influx of new users.

Now, my personal opinion about what's going on at the moment is that the board is just starting to come back to life again in a meaningful way. We have a way of getting people in (and there's no reason at all that we shouldn't be approaching people as well that we really think have something to contribute and getting them through the process), and we have a sold basis and structure for running the place. The older posters, myself included, have a lot to offer the board in terms of helping people get their heads around the place and representing all the accreted knowledge about how to run a community effectively. And the newer posters have different perspectives, new ideas, challenges to some of the entrenched positions and a new energy that we all need.

The question we've got is quite simple - how do we turn that relationship from one of friction between old and new into both feeding off the other. At the moment the elders are slightly brittle and resistant to change (and I include myself in that), where the n00bs are over-confident and aggressively revolutionary. We just need to find a way for them to work together, to help the older users trust the newer ones and the newer ones understand the mission of the community and the problems we've experienced.

To be honest, I really think we need to reinvest in the idea of the project itself. We need to get back to the creative and excited visionary heart of the enterprise, rather than scrabbling over details and getting resentful. If we're aspiring towards something great, then these differences will evaporate. So at the smallest level we need to get these Terms and Conditions together - have you guys got anywhere with that yet? We need to have conversations about the governance of the place - do we want to find new ways of choosing moderators? People were keen on that a while back. Do we need local FAQs for each fora, managed by that fora's moderators? Do we need to start thinking about organising Barbelith events that are about the subjects we care about as much as they are about socialising? The Donnie Darko Halloween trip a couple of years ago was amazing and I'm completely prepared to help that kind of thing happen again if people liked it. But we should be thinking about real-life equivalents of the discussions at their best. How to get in speakers and people we rate from outside the community. That kind of stuff.

And sure, if we need to start thinking about changing the name, and moving on in a new fashion with a new sense of what we're here for, then that's good too. I can move the software to a new domain if you think up one you'd like, I can do a refresh of the look and feel if it's really necessary. It might take a while, but it's not impossible by any means.

I think we need to get ambitious, but in different ways - let's concentrate less on the failings of the software which we can't do a lot about, and concentrate more on the social structures around the site and see if we can use other bits of software elsewhere to organise things. Are there other sites that you guys use a lot that we could simply integrate - Flickr for example? Or del.icio.us? Do we need meetup groups, or a relationship to upcoming.org? Do we need to find people who are prepared to start finding out about local events on given subjects from around the web?

There's too much of value here to throw away, too much good intention to be treated as if the enterprise were cynical or insular, too many good people to let fall away. The community needs to grow with its members, our project needs to change with its people, our aspirations change with those of the people who made this place possible. And it's all manageable and we can do it.

So where do you guys want to start?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:09 / 29.10.05
Well, I can write sample terms and conditions - will try to do this over the weekend.
 
 
w1rebaby
12:25 / 29.10.05
Moving from the bottom up there, I think given that changes in board software aren't going to happen, it would be potentially a good idea to use services that are out there and specialised for particular purposes. A Barbelith Flickr group, why not; a Barbelith Meetup would be useful too.

Issues though:

(a) using them is migrating a significant amount of content to other sites over which we have no basic control, and where we're at the mercy of ToS changes, buy-outs etc - they should only be used as a secondary resource, things shouldn't depend on them, copies should be kept. It's only on your own server that you know that you're not going to lose copyright on all your pictures, have your meetups declared illegal or suddenly be charged for the privilege.

(b) there are a lot of people out there who've never even seen the wiki and still can't format links, let alone used Flickr et al. Unless it is really easy and obvious how to use these resources, they're going to get left out. Perhaps this would be a good use for the space on the right hand side - a Barbelith control panel, with links not only to bits of the board and the wiki but also to external sites. Each external site would need a wiki page explaining how to use it, as well, which should be linked underneath the main link.

People are already doing this stuff to an extent of course; for instance many lithers have Flickr and Livejournal accounts, and there's a Barbelith Tribe. Probably there are others. None of this would stop those popping up and indeed shouldn't, but it would be interesting to have external groups that were run on the same basis as Barbelith itself rather than as a side project owned by a few people.

Incidentally, a list of these external things would probably be a good start. Livejournals are listed on the bloglist but the other stuff isn't anywhere as far as I know. I'll start a wiki page on the subject.
 
 
Spatula Clarke
15:47 / 29.10.05
As I said earlier though, you may have a different period in mind.

Possibly. I was thinking about the UBB days, the board's first reincarnation after the Nexus collapsed. There were definitely periods of total inactivity then - I clearly remember somebody asking if the fact that there hadn't been any new posts for two or three days meant that Barbelith was dying and being told that it wasn't all that big of a deal, what with it being the weekend and a holiday. That'd never happen here now.

Part of my dislike of the in-joke may be due to my dislike of catchphrase comedy, I suppose. It just seems like an easy way to be lazy and encourages that whole 'posting when you've not really got anything to say' thing. Why think about a post when you can reel off something about asscandles?

I'd say it's quite different from "hanging out with your meatspace friends and not referring to anything said more than seven days earlier" - it's more like hanging out with your meatspace friends and repeating the Dead Parrot sketch at each other all the time. In-jokes are a good way of *not* conversing.
 
  

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