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Our Lady Has Left the Building
16:24 / 11.05.06
I'm not willing to start 'Stump-Fuckingate' up again but I just thought it would be nice if thread titles had some scintilla of relevence to the contents of the thread, and aren't about some non-vanilla sexual act to try and appear cool. As no-one else is bothered I'll leave it. I agree that it should probably stay in Conversation though.
 
 
Cat Chant
17:20 / 11.05.06
I read it as like bobbing for apples, too... I might be a bit literal-minded, but having it on the front page of the Conversation means I get images of someone sucking the cock of a dead dog in my head every time I check that forum, which is quite often, and I'm not enjoying that. It's not a huge deal or anything, it's not like I think I can or should control every piece of text/image/reference that floats past me on the 'lith... just that it would have been a nice side-effect of an edit to the title.

The girliness of the squick is just the idea that it's girly to be squicked at all. I was thinking vaguely about a connection between masculinity and locker-room 'filthy talk' - that sort of tradition of competitively gross imagery/language.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
18:57 / 11.05.06
I don't mind at all if the title's changed, and apologies for any bad feelings caused by it in the first place. It all came about because I was looking at the can of beer I was drinking at the time, and reflecting on how, as a consumer of this product, I was being implicitly dragged into a celebration of an event that I'm, erm, really not sure about. 'Kronenbourg,' I vaguely remember thinking, 'With these allusions to the World Cup in the design of your packaging, you have really let me down.' Everything else seemed to follow on logically from there.

Perhaps just something like 'Against The World Cup'?

I'll also re-write the thread summary if this seems like a plan.
 
 
Olulabelle
19:45 / 11.05.06
Alex's Grandma I would actually like you to change the title because it also makes me 'squick'. Like Deva I thought I was being a bit 'girly' (only for me that also came through as a feeling of over-sensitivity in my brain).

I do think there is an issue around the titles of threads. It is surely reasonable to feel uncomfortable with a title which makes a person picture the fellatio of a dead dog when actually the thread is about dislike of football?
 
 
Alex's Grandma
20:32 / 11.05.06
I'm afraid I was very, very drunk when I was writing that. Really, I'd be delighted, happy and basically relieved if the thread title was altered, it's just that I'm not sure how I'd go about doing that.

And I would quite like to - feelings of tiredness, depression and pretty much incoherent rage are a kind of unacknowledged side effect of major sporting events in the UK, and elsewhere, I guess, and they should have an outlet. My worry is that, with this idiotic thread title, I've in some way made being against football sound like a bad thing. Which really wasn't the intention. So, apologies again, and how do I go about fixing it?
 
 
Loomis
20:59 / 11.05.06
You've made drinking Kronenbourg sound like a bad thing, and that can only be a good message to the kids.
 
 
Olulabelle
21:27 / 11.05.06
Yay, thank you Alex.

You should have an edit topic link on the bottom right hand corner of the page when you first open the post.
Click that and it will take you to bit where you can amend the title. If for some weird reason you don't have that link, post your title amend here and I guess the first mod who sees it will put in a request to change it.

I would do it but it's your thread and your title and since I am an 'objector' it feels a bit odd to wade in and start changing things to how I would like them to be.
 
 
Olulabelle
21:30 / 11.05.06
Fuck. Left hand. Left hand side.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
22:41 / 11.05.06
I don't seem to have 'change title' as an option. I've put in a request about this, but if that's a slow way of doing things, could the thread be called 'Oh God, It's Happening Again' instead?
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
05:40 / 12.05.06
Thanks for that AG.
 
 
Ganesh
09:14 / 12.05.06
Aww, I liked the old thread title. It was squeamishly grotesque imagery (reminded me of the Stewart Lee monologue on comparitive religion, where he claims world religions are essentially the same "in that they all suck a dead rat's cock"), but isn't that the point of hyperbole? Fair enough if Alex is changing it, but I wouldn't have changed it otherwise: for what it's worth, I disagreed your original mod request, Flowers.
 
 
Ganesh
10:02 / 12.05.06
I just thought it would be nice if thread titles had some scintilla of relevence to the contents of the thread

I agree it would be nice, but is it policy to alter titles which don't? If we're to embark on a plan to change Conversation thread titles which aren't relevant, we'd better get going; there's plenty in there. I'd argue also that Alex's original title did have a small degree of relevance to the thread's subject matter, in that it was essentially "I'd rather do [horrible thing] than deal with that" - "that" being, as the abstract explained fully, the World Cup. We know before opening the thread that Alex is strongly opposed to it, and we know it's a spleen-venting thread. Taking abstract and title together, I'd say it conveyed considerably more about contents than do most threads.

and aren't about some non-vanilla sexual act to try and appear cool.

I don't think we have any particular policy on "non-vanilla sexual acts" in thread titles, do we? We also don't have an accurate way of gauging posters' motivations. In this case, I read it as extreme hyperbole describing Alex's depth of hatred for the World Cup, rather than Alex attempting to "appear cool". I thought it was very effective (in an icky kind of way).

I know this is after the fact and, in this particular situation it's all a little academic, but I'm starting to think we really need to have some sort of discussion about moderating for 'taste'. It's notable that, in both this case and with the 'Stumpfucking' thread, we've moved to change (or, in the latter case, lock/delete) threads with flippant necrophile references in the titles. We've come up with a variety of reasons for this (possibly offensive to someone somewhere, not relevant to subject matter, containing the word "fucking", etc.) but, essentially, it seems to boil down to personal distaste/revulsion.

(Unless there's an unspoken rule that anything that references necrophilia - or bestiality - is to be considered beyond the pale, however sick-jokey its context...)

I feel pretty strongly that personal distaste is not sufficient reason for moderator intervention. I'm pretty sure that, following 'Stumpfucking', Tom said something along similar lines. There may well be some space for discussion/interpretation of this, but I think if we're going to continue to suggest moderator intervention simply because moderators feel disgust at certain threads, then I think we need to talk about this further.
 
 
Cat Chant
10:24 / 12.05.06
I feel pretty strongly that personal distaste is not sufficient reason for moderator intervention.

FWIW, I agree with you.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
11:06 / 12.05.06
Oh, indeed. I made the mod request specifically because Alex had asked for the mod request to be made. That is, he had decided, as the author of the thread, that he didn't want people who were feeling icked as a result of reading the thread title to feel icked. If he wanted it changed back, I'd be OK with making that request also.
 
 
Ganesh
11:08 / 12.05.06
Like I say, this example's rendered a bit academic by Alex's decision to alter the title of his own free will. My concern's more the fact that the change was put forward as a mod intervention before he did so.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
11:36 / 12.05.06
Did the first mod to change the title occur before Alex's request?
 
 
Ganesh
11:47 / 12.05.06
I think so, but am not entirely certain. I thi-i-ink Flowers proposed a change to 'Eat Football. Drink Football. HATE Football.' or similar, yesterday, and that's the mod action I disagreed.

Flowers?
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
12:43 / 12.05.06
I was only made aware of it by Flyboy's post previous to mine on the last page. I wasn't sure that at the time the content merrited being transfered back to G&G but thought that changing the title might encourage a change in the discourse. As i said, this wasn't another 'Stump Fucking', this was changing the title because it was 'icky', but to something closer to the content, I was not trying to delete, lock or move anything.

In a sense AG's football hater thread doesn't matter in the great scheme of things, but we have a very poor search facility on the board and it wouldn't help matters if I called a Books thread 'Big Brother 2006' or changed that thread title to 'Desperate Housewives' would it? In this case AG hirself recognised the thread title wasn't a particularly useful one and asked for it to be changed. As someone who has had to spend ages manually working through the back pages of fora looking for a specific thread that doesn't turn up on searching I felt that people searching for stuff some time from now might need all the help they can get.
 
 
Ganesh
13:10 / 12.05.06
I appreciate that you didn't move for locking or deletion, Flowers, but I'd question your decision to begin altering thread titles because they don't reflect content - starting with that particular one. If the 'ick factor' genuinely didn't play a part, then why suddenly begin changing not-terribly-descriptive thread titles? It hasn't been moderator-wide policy before, has it? As Smoothly says, the abstract contained the words "World Cup" and "football", making it perfectly searchable, so this alone isn't sufficient reason to intervene. Are you absolutely certain that squeamishness didn't play any part in your decision?
 
 
Olulabelle
19:33 / 12.05.06
but I'd question your decision to begin altering thread titles because they don't reflect content

Ganesh I think Flowers specifically didn't alter anything because at that point no-one else was expressing concern.

I personally am glad that Alex changed the title, because I did find it a bit offensive and it made me feel slightly queasy but I would not have (and didn't) put in a change myself because I realise my feelings are my own interpretation and may not be shared by others.

I agree that moderating for personal taste is not a road we wish to go down, but actually I think we should have a discussion about whether fellating dead dogs is something we want to read about and if we come to the conclusion that it is not perhaps it should not be acceptable even in a jokey title?

I'm not saying I think this, I'm just asking a question.

I think I might be sounding all censorious here and I don't intend to come across that way. Really it made me feel a bit sick is all. I don't very often picture oral dog sex, dead or otherwise.
 
 
Ganesh
20:06 / 12.05.06
Ganesh I think Flowers specifically didn't alter anything because at that point no-one else was expressing concern.

It was put up for moderation yesterday, by Flowers. The reason, he's saying, is not that the former title was causing concern or offence but because it didn't, as he saw it, relate to the subject matter. If this were true, then whether or not people expressed concern is immaterial - unless they were specifically expressing concern that the title didn't directly relate to the subject matter.

I'd argue, again, that there are plenty of Conversation threads whose titles do not give a clear indication of subject matter - but, generally speaking, we haven't moved to moderate those. In this case, the abstract was adequately descriptive and searchable. If both title and abstract are opaque, then I'd agree that there's a problem. Not the case here.

So... if Flowers moved to moderate purely because the title wasn't sufficiently descriptive (as he appears to be claiming) then, again, I'd ask why start altering Conversation threads on this basis now?

If "expressed concern" were a factor, then I'd also have a problem with the decision, but a different problem: it'd worry me that we were altering titles because moderators found them 'icky'.

I personally am glad that Alex changed the title, because I did find it a bit offensive and it made me feel slightly queasy but I would not have(and didn't)put in a change myself because I realise my feelings are my own interpretation and may not be shared by others.

Absolutely. I still think it's worth discussing the reasoning behind putting the title up for moderation before Alex self-edited, however.

I agree that moderating for personal taste is not a road we wish to go down, but actually I think we should have a discussion about whether fellating dead dogs is something we want to read about and if we come to the conclusion that it is not perhaps it should not be acceptable even in a jokey title?

I'm not saying I think this, I'm just asking a question.

I think I might be sounding all censorious here and I don't intend to come across that way. Really it made me feel a bit sick is all. I don't very often picture oral dog sex, dead or otherwise.


Being hyperbole intended to indicate the degree of dislike for World Cup football, I'd see faint nausea as part of the intended effect.

I'm not sure "we" did "read about" fellating dead dogs: other than the imagery evoked in the hyperbole of the title, Alex didn't go into a great deal of detail. If you're asking whether particular subjects ought to be considered beyond the pale because "we" don't want to read about them, then by all means feel free to initiate such a discussion. I can think of at least half a dozen popular Conversation topics that I'd rather not read about. It hadn't occurred to me that these topics, jokily expressed or otherwise, should be considered unacceptable, merely because they weren't to my taste, but I'll happily engage with such a discussion.

First step would be to hone your question. Are you asking "do people want to talk about fellating dead dogs?", "should it be acceptable to talk about fellating dead dogs on Barbelith?" or "what should be on a list of unacceptable topics?" These questions all intersect, as I see it, and I'm interested to see how you address them. Defining "we" would also be helpful.
 
 
Ganesh
20:16 / 12.05.06
And again, the question of how often people do or don't "picture oral dog sex" is, obviously, beside the point. I don't picture myself raising children, but we have various threads about children, and I'm not moving to change their titles. I think the fact that something surprises you and makes you feel slightly sick is neither here nor there, really, in terms of deciding what is and isn't acceptable.
 
 
Olulabelle
20:30 / 12.05.06
I meant 'we' as an internet community. I'm sorry that wasn't clear.
 
 
Ganesh
20:37 / 12.05.06
Okay, now all you have to do is confirm what question you're asking, decide how to elicit the opinion of "we" the internet community, and consider the implications.
 
 
Olulabelle
20:45 / 12.05.06
I feel slightly like you are engineering this conversation Ganesh and that you are trying to get me to say something I don't think. That's partly to do with the scare quotes around 'we' because I think you are saying by this, 'not you'. I was using the word in relation to the community as a whole and so that does include you. I was suggesting a discussion and I don't think the scare quotes are necessary really.

Regarding picturing oral sex with dead dogs, I was not implying that anyone else did or didn't think about it regularly, only stating that I didn't. I do find it a fairly difficult subject to deal with, I don't find it a pleasant thing to think about and I don't think I am that weird to not particularly want to be presented with that kind of visual image in a thread title.

However, I am not having a Mary Whitehouse fit about it as I did try and point out earlier so I won't be fighting the 'ban all dog sex references' corner that I feel currently you are wanting me to. However, if you want to start a thread about moderating for taste or personal opinion then go ahead, I will gladly contribute because I think my dead dog sex thing will probably fit in there somewhere.
 
 
Ganesh
20:58 / 12.05.06
I feel slightly like you are engineering this conversation Ganesh and that you are trying to get me to say something I don't think. That's partly to do with the scare quotes around 'we' because I think you are saying by this, 'not you'. I was using the word in relation to the community as a whole and so that does include you. I was suggesting a discussion and I don't think the scare quotes are necessary really.

I think scare quotes are necessary around "we" because attempting to suggest that this Internet community wants or doesn't want to do X is a deeply iffy proposition. For what it's worth, I think you're rather attempting to engineer the conversation by repeatedly bringing it back to the "dead dog sex" thing - which is patently and obviously silly - and deemphasising the wider implications. The wider implications (of deciding what's acceptable within a community on the basis of a subjective disgust response) are what concern me here.

Regarding picturing oral sex with dead dogs, I was not implying that anyone else did or didn't think about it regularly, only stating that I didn't. I do find it a fairly difficult subject to deal with, I don't find it a pleasant thing to think about and I don't think I am that weird to not particularly want to be presented with that kind of visual image in a thread title.

Which, as I say, is not the point here as I see it. The point is whether or not a community decision on a topic's 'acceptability' should be based on subjective disgust response - which images individual posters do or don't find pleasant to picture mentally or think about. Personally, I think it's the thin end of a rather nasty wedge.

However, I am not having a Mary Whitehouse fit about it as I did try and point out earlier so I won't be fighting the 'ban all dog sex references' corner that I feel currently you are wanting me to. However, if you want to start a thread about moderating for taste or personal opinion then go ahead, I will gladly contribute because I think my dead dog sex thing will probably fit in there somewhere.

Okay, I'll do that.
 
 
Olulabelle
21:14 / 12.05.06
Well gosh, ok... I can't really see why you think that because I absolutely am not trying to bring it back to the dead dog thing, that is just my example of when thread titles can be iffy beasts. I don't really have another valid one which I have been involved in so I used that.

For the record, I at no point was trying to dictate what we-the-community thought. What I was doing was asking. One can only speak for one's own opinion so in order to understand others people sometimes say, "I think X about Y, do you?"

This does not mean they are telling the others that they should think X about Y and I certainly wouldn't want to appear to be doing that. I thought I'd clearly stated that previously when I deliberately didn't mod Alex's title so I apologise if I didn't make that clear.

I like your thread suggestion and I think we could really do with it. I don't feel strongly enough to start it but I will certainly get involved and I am glad you plan to.
 
 
Ganesh
21:24 / 12.05.06
It's not really about the number of examples. It's about repeatedly asking "do we want to talk about dead dog sex?" when your point about acceptability inevitably leads onto the question of who determines acceptability of topic on Barbelith, and how - and I'm not sure you're fully engaged with the implications of that. As I see it, the issue is not "do we want to talk about dead dog sex?" but the more serious "do we want to start making certain topics unacceptable - even in a flippant sense - because some of us find them unpleasant?"

That, in essence, is what I'm keen to thrash out. And yes, I'll start the thread shortly.
 
 
Olulabelle
21:29 / 12.05.06
Yes I do understand that. I was only using it as an example of where one person can feel a title is 'not right'. I can see the broader picture. Hence my comments about sounding censorious.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
21:40 / 12.05.06
This is getting a little off topic so as you've already agreed any further comments would be best placed in a new thread.
 
 
Ganesh
21:52 / 12.05.06
And here it is.
 
 
sleazenation
12:40 / 15.05.06
Can a head shop mod change 'athiest' for 'Atheist' in the title of this thread...
 
 
Jake, Colossus of Clout
20:36 / 16.05.06
There are currently two introduction threads for new members in the convo. Maybe someone would like to merge them?
 
 
Sam T.
00:15 / 18.05.06
Can you please move the thread I've started in Convo about the Bates method to the Laboratory?

I think the Laboratory is the logical place for it. I'm of course open to any advice.

Thanks!
 
 
Smoothly
01:08 / 18.05.06
Done.
 
  

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