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Burning down the Haus part 2 - Attack of the Clones

 
  

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Mistoffelees
20:26 / 23.08.06
Do it! I already got some cute bear pics lined up...
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
23:01 / 23.08.06
I was confused by your seeming anger at Reid's use of an example where compassion was evidenced on the board.

I'm not a big fan of autobiography, trampetunia, but I have a feeling that you and reid might not have been where I was and indeed where Flyboy was on and after the 7th of July last year. There's a strip in the Barbelith Blue Book, I think, about this.

He had the manners to bring his annoyance here, instead of carrying on in the Policy thread.

After I shepherded him away from it.

I found his lampooning of Flyboy's post to be quite an amusing critique of the overt cynicism found there.

A successful lampoon is accurate. If Reid had successfully identified what Flyboy had said, he might have successfully lampooned it. As it was, not so much. Have another look at what was written; there's a lot of supporting material around. Incidentally, my question about whether Reid was in fact suffering from some form of cognitive or reading disfunction was perfectly sincere; if he is, we have not got mechanisms in place to deal with it, and Ganesh is currently attempting to address this. We can look at that. In the past, members have either identified as or been identified as suffering from a number of disabilities that have their own implications - most commonly depression and low self-esteem, but also dyslexia and ADHD, off the top of my head - and for various reasons. Good practice suggests that we attempt to accommodate this.

And holding your ground for the sake of holding your ground - just to "win the argument"

Hello, Dead Megatron. Could you please show me where xk said "just to 'win the argument'"? Cheers. Only, I have a feeling hir point was that what was happening here was not about "winning the argument" - it was about not giving in to avoid bruising other people's egos, and in doing so allowing bad behaviour to slide, so that when resolution was reached it was worthwhile resolution. Your mileage may vary, but it has to be your mileage, based on your reading. Support with examples. As for warm fuzzies, I linked above to a place where I apologised for overstepping - supporting with examples, yes? - you might have read it. Alternatively, here is a picture of some baby bears nuzzling:



So lovely.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
23:46 / 23.08.06
I'm certainly just scanning for funnies at this point. But I'll keep an eye out for bears (and pandas) too from now on.
 
 
Dead Megatron
23:52 / 23.08.06
Hello, Dead Megatron. Could you please show me where xk said "just to 'win the argument'"? Cheers

Hello yourself, dude. Ze didn't. I did. Because, sometimes, you seem obsessed with that very thing: winning the argument, no matter how pointless it has become (this current case being a perfect example).

And, if we're going to obsess over details, pandas are not really bears, only a close relative - 8 to 12 million years of evolution apart, according to wikipedia - of the same family.
 
 
Dead Megatron
23:57 / 23.08.06
Sorry, that was 15 to 18 million years, not 8 to 12.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:04 / 24.08.06
Bears, raccoons, what does it matter? You're just nitpicking semantically with rhetoric.

I did. Because, sometimes, you seem obsessed with that very thing: winning the argument, no matter how pointless it has become (this current case being a perfect example).


Actually, this case is a case in which another person resurrected this thread in order to attack me (at least in doing so ceasing to rot in the Policy; since this was my intention, I can hardly complain, though). I have simply responded to that. I don't feel it to be pointless for as long as it gives the message, to some if not all, that Barbelith is not a place where you can say whatever you like about whomever you like without consequences. There may be other examples of the behaviour you are describing, but I don't think my aim here is winning the argument - it's rather more varied and, I like to think, more selfless than that.

Also, here are two pottos. You can't see, but they have just kissed noses:

 
 
*
00:09 / 24.08.06
DM. Stop. Look out. That's a cliff, dude. And that thing you're reaching for, overbalancing yourself at the edge?

That's a wasp's nest.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:23 / 24.08.06
On which note, I think it's time for bed.

 
 
Dead Megatron
00:25 / 24.08.06
Can't help it, id. I'm the giant transforming robotic version of Winnie the Pooh: if it looks like honey, I just can't help it but to reach out and have a taste.

But, don't worry, I'll flee like crazy once I see the venomous bugs..
 
 
Mistoffelees
06:27 / 24.08.06
It took a while, but I finally found one.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
07:49 / 24.08.06
Oh, I do have a question here:

For his sake? Being unable to accept any error or modify your views in the slightest seems like hell to me.

Yeah, I'd be there with you, if I thought it was working. But I don't. Haus is still Haus is still Haus is still Haus is...

DM, just looking in this thread - in fact, on the first page of this thread - did you miss this:

Oh, Randy - yeah, you're right about the Revolution Controller. I was flippant, and expected to be able to get away with it because my observation of akira gave me reason to believe that he could not sustain any length of threadrot. I was intending to go back and steer the conversation back, but have been a bit busy. My bad.

Only, you were reading this thread at the time. Possibly you skimmed it.

Kay, Reidcourchie and others depend on people not questioning their assertions because they chime with their prejudices - in effect, people believing what was said last, as long as what they said last is in line with what they want to believe. Going along with this damages Barbelith, because it means that those who might otherwise have something useful to say have to spend our time separating the credulous from their unhealthy convictions.
 
 
Dead Megatron
08:42 / 24.08.06
Ok, you have apologised on a few ocasions. That means you must have changed.

You win.

I loose.

Scott, Im still waiting that beam-out...
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
08:51 / 24.08.06
Ok, you have apologised on a few ocasions. That means you must have changed.

There's another possibility, DM, and I might be about to totally blow your mind:

I might never have been what you thought I was. You might, in fact, have been suckered by Kay, who has offered you a feeling that your own assumptions about me are being validated in exchange for moral support for his own. You might have made a bad bargain.

Anyway, shouldn't you be in bed, young man? What is it over there? 2am? Have you been out having fun?
 
 
Dead Megatron
09:06 / 24.08.06
Have you been out having fun?

I wish. Just woke up (at 6 am) and I'm off to work.

Good day to you too, sir.

I said, good day!
 
 
petunia
11:06 / 24.08.06

I'm not a big fan of autobiography, trampetunia, but I have a feeling that you and reid might not have been where I was and indeed where Flyboy was on and after the 7th of July last year.


You're probably right.

I'm sorry for any distress and pain you have had to suffer due to that day's events.

But I still stand by my comment that "I don't think there's anything particularly offensive about what Reid said, and I disagree with your diagnosis of 'Godwinisation' and emotional manipulation."


After I shepherded him away from it.


Yes, I take back my comment about Reid's 'good manners'.

A successful lampoon is accurate.

I may have lower standards than you; I simply require a lampoon to amuse me. If you prefer, we could just call it a piss-take and avoid any further confusion.

For the record, I also found Flyboy's post to be rather amusing and accurate. There was indeed a strange overpouring of relief and compliments that followed 33's 'apology', which Flyboy observed wittily, if rather caustically.

I just happened to find Reid's response to this post amusing as well. I suppose it blows Flyboy's position out of proportion somewhat, but I find that adds to the humour. Is charicature a better-suited word?

Incidentally, my question about whether Reid was in fact suffering from some form of cognitive or reading disfunction was perfectly sincere

Fair enough. I was just concerned because your post read a little too much like 'Are you retarded, or just an idiot?' to me.
 
 
petunia
11:16 / 24.08.06
Oh, and:

Teddy Bares it all... (Possibly NSFW)
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
11:35 / 24.08.06
I think there's a difference between blowing something out of proportion somewhat and pretending that it something means something it obviously does not. Flyboy very obviously referred to the actions of a small number of people in a specific Policy thread. Reidcourchie ultimately responded as if he had said that Barbelith as a whole refused to offer any sympathy to anyone unless as a response to that person making sexist, racist or homophobic comments: his misrepresentation had to keep getting bigger and bigger to justify his continued threadrot. This would be poor form in the Conversation, but in the Policy it's unacceptable, because people are trying to talk about what has actually been said without dealing with what has not been said. Faced with the choice between acknowledging that he had in fact misrepresented what Flyboy said or just shutting up and letting the conversation get back ontopic, Reid instead made a lurch for the moral high ground, inexplicably, by claiming that Flyboy had insulted Barbelith as a whole, citing the rallying round during July 7th in his refutation of a point that Flyboy had never made. To me, that looks like grandstanding. It may be reading problems - Reid might be unable to understand the word "some" - in which case, as I said, we have to work out how to deal with that. If it is not a medical problem, we don't have to do that before deciding whether this is desirable behaviour.

But I still stand by my comment that "I don't think there's anything particularly offensive about what Reid said, and I disagree with your diagnosis of 'Godwinisation' and emotional manipulation."

Well, that's your right. On the other hand, no offence intended but we did just spend a page in Barbequotes talking about a post of yours which was if not homophobic in intent certainly remarkably open to being read as informed by homophobia, so I think we can also agree that one's own reading of text may not be the only available reading. You are free not to find Reid's citing of the bombing of London in an apparent attempt to draw attention away from his misrepresentation of what Flyboy said - or possibly a medically confused response to what he saw as inaccurate responses to his delusional but sincere misreading of what Flyboy said, perhaps - as manipulative, but I think that only works if you assume the latter - that Reid is for some reason medically unable to understand written statements, even when the meaning of those written statements is repeatedly explained, and thus was sincerely but incorrectly responding to a perceived claim that Barbelith as a whole etc.
 
 
petunia
12:46 / 24.08.06
Reidcourchie ultimately responded as if he had said that Barbelith as a whole refused to offer any sympathy to anyone...

Ultimately, yes. Reidcourchie seemed to see Flyboy's post as a comment on the whole of barbelith. However, I was refering to his orginal capitalised comment, and not his follow-up.

Quite frankly I thought his post was so ill meant and utterly inaccurate as to be offensive to the many people who do show consideration and compassion routinely on Barbelith probably everyday.

Seems to go some way to explain Reid's position.

we did just spend a page in Barbequotes talking about a post of yours which was if not homophobic in intent certainly remarkably open to being read as informed by homophobia

I have written a response to the comments made, and I have apologised for any offence I may have caused.

I personally don't find reference to erect, fighting bears (and metaphorical transpositions from arguing people to said grizzly situation) to be 'remarkably open to being read as informed by homophobia', but that is a matter for another thread...

As you say, one's own reading of text may not be the only available reading.

I still have issue with:

You are free not to find Reid's citing of the bombing of London [...] as manipulative, but I think that only works if you assume [...] that Reid is for some reason medically unable to understand written statements...

I agree that Reid's argument is rather confused, but I disagree with you where you say that his only excuse (other than deliberate misrepresentation and obfuscation) is some form of disability. We sometimes just get things wrong.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
13:18 / 24.08.06
OK - so, you think Reid was wrong. That is, that he at first mistakenly believed that Flyboy was referring to all of Barbelith, and that in some way he continued to think that in the face of being told otherwise? Fair enough. When it was brought to his attention yet again in this thread, he ended up saying:

Tenuous but I'll concede it. Though you may want to bear in mind that the change was a result of me not thinking through every possible connotation of my post rather than an actual attempt to purposefully misrepresent Flyboy.


However, he did not actually behave as if his view had changed at all, or, rather oddly, that he had actually now been told what Flyboy said. Further up the same post, for example, he says:

What you seem to be implying I should've done is assume that he didn't mean what he was saying and in fact meant quite the opposite (in that he wasn't suggesting that the best way to get compassion on the board is to be racist, sexist and homophobic).

Now, it's hard to tell exactly what this means because the grammar is garbled, but I think it means that he thinks that Flyboy was suggesting that the best way to get compassion (remember, a word Flyboy does not use, but Reid does) on the board is to be racist, sexist and homophobic. Whereas he actually said:

Astonishing: making racist, sexist and homophobic statements really is the best way to be on the receiving end of an unprecedented amount of kindness and compliments and hand-holding from some people on Barbelith!

This is why I suspect that the only circumstance that exonerates Reid from basically trolling is some sort of medical issue that prevents him from being able to read certain words, such as "some". Further down the same post he says:

Again "how dare you slur Barbelith" is your reading of my post not an objective fact. What Flyboy wrote seemed to fly very heavily in the face of my Barbelith experience, substantially enough for me to feel he deserved to have the piss taken.

Once again, he appears to have forgotten that he has conceded, albeit in a fairly incomprehensible fashion, that he was indeed missing the word "some". So, what Flyboy wrote seemed to him to etc - but that "seeming" has to take into consideration that for some reason he was unable to read Flyboy's post. So, in fact, what Flyboy did not write seemed to fly very heavily in the face of etc., as his Barbelith experience of the response to the July 7 bombing and elsewhere has absolutely dick all to do with what Flyboy wrote.

Sometimes people are indeed wrong. If they spurn opportunity after opportunity to cease to be wrong, which involves expending more and more effort, unless their wrongness is the result of some form of cognitive disfunction, on maintaining their ignorance of the facts of the case, then after a while one has to start considering the possibility either that they are reading things wrongly on purpose, or that there is something wrong with them.

Incidentally, you say here:

I personally don't find reference to erect, fighting bears (and metaphorical transpositions from arguing people to said grizzly situation) to be 'remarkably open to being read as informed by homophobia', but that is a matter for another thread...


And yet you also say:

Again, I apologise for any offense caused by what could easily be read as a homophobic post.

Which would you like? I think the second is probably an easier sell, since the first depends on leaving out your subsequent injunction that Reid and I kiss and/or feel each other up.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
13:42 / 24.08.06
(Which is not to say that the intent was homophobic, obvs - only that I didn't realise that you would take issue with the statement or find it unfair, because I kind of thought that you had already _said_ it.)
 
 
The resistable rise of Reidcourchie
15:41 / 24.08.06
Trampetunia thank you for the post and the wonderful imagery (though personally I prefer a duck analogy as there is a lot of quacking on both sides, though it would mean we both had smaller penises).

And you must admit that sometimes you are unwilling to admit error or apologise. Just sometimes.

Undoubtedly, though I hadn't realised I had enough of a presence on Barbelith for that to be a feature of me as a poster.

Reid - Your posts aren't as unfounded, stupid or nonsensical as Haus seems to find them. But that doesn't mean that they're a bastion of rationality and good sense. You might do better just to go read your book, listen to some music and post in some other threads.

You're absolutely right however I do need something to do in my afternoon tea break and I suspect this has become one of these stupid and pointless male arguments that I don't really feel like giving up because I'm stupid, pointless and male, fits with your imagery in many ways.

I'm not really trying to set myself up as bastion of good sense and rationality and apologise if I come across that way. What I object to is Haus assuming the role of the ultimate arbiter of what can and can't be written in threads.

Just out of interest, how many people are reading this stuff all the way through and how many, like myself, are scanning it for the funny bits?

I'm so tempted to admit to this.

A successful lampoon is accurate.

Excellent, we're making progress; I wasn't even sure how successful it was.

Only, I have a feeling hir point was that what was happening here was not about "winning the argument" - it was about not giving in to avoid bruising other people's egos, and in doing so allowing bad behaviour to slide, so that when resolution was reached it was worthwhile resolution. Your mileage may vary, but it has to be your mileage, based on your reading.

And I thought I was just being stubborn, it's really very kind of you to say this.

Actually, this case is a case in which another person resurrected this thread in order to attack me

Come now. Critique you, which I thought the thread was for. You are one who's been using words like stupid, histrionic and a liar despite the fact that even if you don't agree with my reading of what went on I'm clearly not lying (Unless of course lieing, a word I have no knowledge of but as discussed I'm quite stupid, means something different to lying (an untruth), perhaps lieing is Latin).

Mistofelees, that's beautiful man.

Haus just out of interest can you think of any other posters who have to search through threads to find evidence of reasonable behaviour? Do you think that's normal? Are you the victim here?

Oh and you were doing so well:

Kay, Reidcourchie and others depend on people not questioning their assertions because they chime with their prejudices - in effect, people believing what was said last, as long as what they said last is in line with what they want to believe. Going along with this damages Barbelith, because it means that those who might otherwise have something useful to say have to spend our time separating the credulous from their unhealthy convictions.

Haus, haus, haus, are we going to be two geeks locked in disagreement for all eternity? Or words to that effect. You know full well that is what you do, you do it a lot, it only works if you assume you're smarter than everyone and if you then enforce it by telling people that they're not allowed to disagree with you. I have conceded everything factual you’ve said in this thread up to including semantic difference between what I said and what Flyboy said. What I object to is you setting yourself up as the arbiter of what is and what isn't allowed when very transparently what is allowed is what you agree with, and what isn't allowed is what you disagree with. You still have not explained in anyway shape or form why if two posters, one of whom is you, disagree you are not only right but automatically right.
Is it divine mandate? Go on say it is, I'll accept that. Because that is what you seem to be doing, from the above quote only you know, Kay can't see through my dastardly lies but you can. Special powers? And really it is thing like this that makes me want to ascribe the battle cry of the Greenland Posse "Can't you see! Can't you see!" but I won't because you've told me that sort of thing is bad. (Well okay I sort of did but at least I know it's wrong now.) Once again you can't seem to make up your mind whether I'm stupid or some kind of threat to Barbelith, which you've bravely stepped forward to defend. If I’m smart enough to get one over on Kay but if I'm stupid how stupid is he/she? (Kay please rest assured I don't think you're at all stupid.)

I'm not a big fan of autobiography, trampetunia, but I have a feeling that you and reid might not have been where I was and indeed where Flyboy was on and after the 7th of July last year.

Though you have brought it up again.


Reidcourchie ultimately responded as if he had said that Barbelith as a whole refused to offer any sympathy to anyone unless as a response to that person making sexist, racist or homophobic comments: his misrepresentation had to keep getting bigger and bigger to justify his continued threadrot. This would be poor form in the Conversation, but in the Policy it's unacceptable, because people are trying to talk about what has actually been said without dealing with what has not been said.

And we would've immediately had you not decided to take issue with it.

Oh but a break through!:

To me, that looks like grandstanding. It may be reading problems - Reid might be unable to understand the word "some" - in which case, as I said, we have to work out how to deal with that. If it is not a medical problem, we don't have to do that before deciding whether this is desirable behaviour.

Exactly Haus to you, to you. I disagree; other people have read it differently to both of us, yet you insist that yours is the only voice that matters. See like this thread you could have left it alone anytime you wanted or do you really expect people to just roll over when you're being unpleasant even if the reason for doing so is you can't understand the funny coloured English? You could just ask for help. Also why do you seem to double post so much?

Well, that's your right. On the other hand, no offence intended but we did just spend a page in Barbequotes talking about a post of yours which was if not homophobic in intent certainly remarkably open to being read as informed by homophobia, so I think we can also agree that one's own reading of text may not be the only available reading.

Lucky Trampetunia but silly boy/girl she's disagreeing with Haus so reference to another thread not to deal with the issue at hand but to attack his/her's validity as a poster, yet another juvenile and slightly underhand debating tactic. You do that a lot as well, why?

You are free not to find Reid's citing of the bombing of London in an apparent attempt to draw attention away from his misrepresentation of what Flyboy said - or possibly a medically confused response to what he saw as inaccurate responses to his delusional but sincere misreading of what Flyboy said, perhaps - as manipulative, but I think that only works if you assume the latter - that Reid is for some reason medically unable to understand written statements, even when the meaning of those written statements is repeatedly explained, and thus was sincerely but incorrectly responding to a perceived claim that Barbelith as a whole etc.

Haus you can shout this as over and over again it does not make it true. It's not a misrepresentation, we disagree on the reading but you are the only one that can be possibly right, judging by your argument, ...just because, or rather to disagree with you means you are a liar or having mental health issues or learning disabilities (I can’t believe you’re pushing that angle.)

The thing is I really struggle to see where you get your reading from, and I have done a number of times when you've responded to other people's post when you've seemed to be concentrating on the minutiae rather than the substance of the post and I couldn't for the life of me work out why. An idea occurred this morning, you're not looking for information from these posts are you? You're looking for mistakes.

Do you agree, like myself, that Bogart was robbed when he didn't win the Oscar for the Caine Mutiny?

Sometimes people are indeed wrong. If they spurn opportunity after opportunity to cease to be wrong, which involves expending more and more effort, unless their wrongness is the result of some form of cognitive disfunction, on maintaining their ignorance of the facts of the case, then after a while one has to start considering the possibility either that they are reading things wrongly on purpose, or that there is something wrong with them.

A cry for help? Oh you mean me? Really Haus your justification, relying on semantic minutiae aside which have already been explained (though it would seem not very clearly, even I have become confused by the bizarreness of Haus' claims) only work if we all agree with you apparently to the point where we live in Hausworld.

Incidentally whilst you’re having a crack at my grammar dysfunction is spelt with a Y sweeteness.

Anyway see you tomorrow.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
15:48 / 24.08.06
Are you the victim here?

I think, to be honest, that anyone who has had the misfortune to read your posts in this thread is the victim here, reid. It's an experience akin to being sealed in a vat full of runny bum gunge. Why don't you just stop? Just stop, there's a good lad, and we'll say no more about it.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
15:56 / 24.08.06
Incidentally whilst you’re having a crack at my grammar dysfunction is spelt with a Y sweeteness.

Quoted without comment.
 
 
MattShepherd: I WEDDED KALI!
16:05 / 24.08.06
Okay, I think I've worked out that this is some sort of tag-team performance art piece, but I can't quite figure what it's meant to represent.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:08 / 24.08.06
The danger of people with something worthwhile to add to Barbelith being prevented from doing so by their susceptibility to the specific and specifically toxic combination of stupidity, self-deception and arrogance played tonight by Reidcourchie, I think.
 
 
Ticker
16:34 / 24.08.06
Okay, I think I've worked out that this is some sort of tag-team performance art piece, but I can't quite figure what it's meant to represent.

The anguish and uncertainty of two Artificial Intelligences bound to endlessly circulate generated text based on the styles of famous fictional adversary intellects (Homes/ Moriarty, Mrs. Claus/Mrs. Grundy). Peppered throughout with striking use of red herrings tied into a subtext of human sexuality and the demiurge as manifested through expulsion from perfect understanding (Eden/Paradise/Death) and dissolution paralleled with a descent into madness and juxtaposed with reminders of lost perfect love (snugly pics).
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:42 / 24.08.06
Homes/ Moriarty

Dude, I'm hungover and running on about three hours' sleep and Reidcourchie is doing the absolute best he can. You might want to aim a bit lower. Cheech/Chong?
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
16:54 / 24.08.06
Bill & Ted? Tango and Cash?

no, no - better one; Turner and Hooch!
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
17:10 / 24.08.06
Thank God you're here. I was starting to worry about you.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
17:21 / 24.08.06
Mwah!
 
 
Tryphena Absent
17:39 / 24.08.06
Now that's a pure and true love.
 
 
Char Aina
17:40 / 24.08.06
who the fuck are homes and moriarty?
are they famous bears?
 
 
Tryphena Absent
17:45 / 24.08.06
Oh honestly Toksik, that's elementary!
 
 
Char Aina
17:48 / 24.08.06
lissen up, holme-girl, i dont know what you're incinerating, but there aint nothing periodic about my godamn tables.
 
 
*
17:52 / 24.08.06
Haus, Reid— when you each suggest that the other is suffering from a disability, are you being sincere or are you being ironic? My reading is that you are being ironic— you don't really believe there is a good chance that the other is suffering from a disability that makes it impossible for him to read and comprehend your posts.

If that's true I ask you both to please stop. It's ableist. It sets up a dichotomy between nondisabled people, who will understand and agree with you, and impaired people, who may not. It relies on stigma against people who have disabilities. That makes me uncomfortable, and it's hard for me to support either of your arguments.

If you are actually considering with empathy whether the other is suffering from a disability, it may be more helpful not to make implications about it in such a provocative way. If I had a medical condition of some kind which was coming into play in a discussion, I would have good reasons for choosing not to disclose it. I would not appreciate my interlocutor making provocative remarks about my possible impairment that I don't feel safe challenging.
 
  

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