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ONLY NICE THINGS
11:58 / 09.06.06
I can't think of anyone offhand who has become a troll as a result of their thread being locked...

Otherwise, I don't think any of those statements can be discussed unless you give a better idea of what you mean, possibly with examples.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
11:59 / 09.06.06
Could you provide some example of 1, 3 & 4, waggling naughty finger, me old mate, me old mucker, me old chuck?
 
 
electric monk
12:51 / 09.06.06
Here's mine:

1) Locking threads also creates opportunity to re-approach a subject on a different tack. Members are always free to create new threads dealing with past subjects unless there's an issue of offensive content.

2) See #1

3) There are members here, both male and female, who've invested a lot of their time, thought, and talents in Barbelith. If they seem angry, I think it's fair to say they're trying to defend something important to them.

4a) From a standpoint of individual perception, some threads are more worthwhile than others. What is "worthwhile" varies from person to person. We all, individually, support the threads we find interesting. Every member is free to make his or her own choice along these lines. This idea creates diversity.

4b) True, some members of Barbelith are more highly regarded than others (see #3). This is a natural reward for involvement with, and valuable contribution to, Barbelith. Every member has the potential to earn this regard.
 
 
electric monk
12:52 / 09.06.06
And yeah, linkage would be keen.
 
 
Evil Scientist
13:48 / 09.06.06
1. Locking threads creates resentment. Participants are liable to feel slighted. Resentment is a seed that breeds trolls.

Does this mean that you feel no thread should be locked? Regardless of content?

Locked threads can be unlocked. It's not an irreversible step. If someone feels strongly enough about getting their thread unlocked and makes a decent case for it then it'll happen.

2. I do not subscribe to the opinion that anyone else knows better than myself/oneself what I/one ought to be discussing.

I'm not really sure what you mean by this, can you expand on it a little? Is it a call for posters to self-regulate?

As to points 3 and 4, well I'm pretty much in agreement with Monk on those.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
14:16 / 09.06.06
EC: I think 2 is what is known as a "get-out clause". It means never having to say you're sorry, or what you meant by something, or whether you actually think it.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
15:40 / 09.06.06
Calm, dude - if it was "what one/I ought to be saying" or "what one/I mean" I'd see that, but i think it's something more like "people should not be asked to stay on topic", or something to that effect... hard to make out, though, which is why I think an example woould be useful.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
15:53 / 09.06.06
1. Locking threads creates resentment. Participants are liable to feel slighted. Resentment is a seed that breeds trolls.

Really? Don't you think that a person must actually be pretty disfunctional to respond to such a minor slight with more than a passing sense of resentment? Even if it happened repeatedly, is trolling--in the sense of deliberately posting offensive or harrassing material to generate a negative response--a terribly mature or effective way of responding?
 
 
matthew.
16:46 / 09.06.06
What's stopping anybody from making another Howl thread? I think it was a good idea to lock the shit out that first thread.

A similar thread was the H.P. Lovecraft thread that talked about his politics and racism. But, that thread was designed to discuss those issues.

Perhaps a Howl general thread and a general "Should We Read This Person Even Though They Are Icky?" thread?
 
 
matthew.
16:48 / 09.06.06
Mmmm...

I also think that there's currently very little wrong about Barbelith in terms of thread-locking and overmoderation. We haven't really had too many spats between an overzealous mod and a censored, woe-is-me, poster.
 
 
Evil Scientist
19:59 / 09.06.06
I also think that there's currently very little wrong about Barbelith in terms of thread-locking and overmoderation.

Yeah, it's been nice and quiet the last few weeks on that front.

(Although now I've said that we'll cut to a grave marked "Shadowsax", there'll be a rumble of thunder and a hand will shoot up out of the dirt).
 
 
foolish fat finger
20:57 / 09.06.06
I can't think of anyone offhand who has become a troll as a result of their thread being locked...
if you read back, haus, you will find that I said thread locks create resentment, and resentment creates trolls. But on that point, you have piqued my interest. What exactly has created trolls in the past?

evil cyberman, I am happy to try to clarify my points. point number 1- I am saying that thread locking creates resentment. I am not suggesting that you should never lock a thread, ever. I wouldn't want to try to tell anyone how to do their job as moderator. I have never been a moderator. but I think there may be other ways of tackling these discussions, to give a more positive outcome.

point two... yes, it is a bit convoluted this one. I’ll try to re-write it.

I do not subscribe to the view that another person has the right to censor me, or indeed anyone, on the grounds that their opinion about what I am saying is more correct, or intelligent than my own.

that's about it.

In 3, I am talking about dumping, not anger. There is a difference. Anger is legitimate, in defending your position, in getting opinions across. Dumping on others is not.

some posters are indeed more valued, and rightly so, for their contributions. My point is that I feel that a small minority of members may be somewhat elitist about this, which may create an ‘us and them’ scenario.
Of all my points, this one is the weakest- it is something I have noticed in discussions, but it is just an opinion, rather than something substantial.

For those who have asked for links- I will not furnish links, for several reasons. I have made my point, and I can think of at least one example for each point. I do not wish to do anyone’s thinking for them. If I can think of examples, and I am fairly new here, then others should be able to, if they have come across them. If you can’t think of any examples, then you will disagree with me; barbelith is fine as it is, and there is no problem. If you can think of examples where these things have happened, to you or others, then you will agree with me, and the discussion then becomes ‘in what way, if any, to act on this?’

if nobody agrees with me, it is no skin off my nose- I’ll just put it down to the workings of a paranoid and feverish mind. Either that or too much coffee.

Also I am making general points about barbelith, and it is not my intention to funnel the discussion into consideration of a few specific threads.

the points were as simple as I could make them, to be understood by all (with some clarification…!). To discuss them would muddy the meaning. You either agree, disagree, or you don’t know.

I am happy to clarify any points, as I have for evil cyberman, and should anyone agree with the points I have made, which seems unlikely at the time of writing, I am interested in a discussion of what might be changed to make barbelith a better experience for all. Cheers.

EC: I think 2 is what is known as a "get-out clause". It means never having to say you're sorry, or what you meant by something, or whether you actually think it.

No, it doesn’t mean that. I am making a point about censorship ‘for the greater good’- which is not a point of view I happen to subscribe to.

Darque Lorde, I can’t really comment on the psychology of trolls, having never been one, but I certainly don’t think that it is a mature way to behave. I am simply saying- if barbelith has a troll problem, here are some possible reasons that this has come about.

Anyway, I am heartened that a few people think that barbelith is running smoothly lately, and trolls and thread-locks are down. That is really positive. Maybe I should cut down on the coffee, the sniff and the minty nightnurse… straighten up and fly right, finger!

apologies if I have missed any points made- this is already a long post.
 
 
Ganesh
21:17 / 09.06.06
if you read back, haus, you will find that I said thread locks create resentment, and resentment creates trolls. But on that point, you have piqued my interest. What exactly has created trolls in the past?

Check out the Psychology of Trolling thread. The whole "treat someone badly and you make them a troll" theory is explored therein.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
21:18 / 09.06.06
I think the reason some people do have the perception of over-moderation is, ironically, because it doesn't happen. Bear with me and I hope this will make sense.

When a thread gets locked and it's controversial, there's usually a fair amount of discussion before, during and after the event. When someone gets booted, there's a godzillion times as much.

If you look at a lot of other boards, where people are getting booted and locked left right and centre, nobody makes a big deal because it's so commonplace. Because it's such a big deal on Barbelith, people notice it more.

I don't think this is a bad thing at all- I think there should be discussion about this stuff, and I especially think banning people SHOULD be a big deal. I just think it's worth bearing in mind that it may skew people's perceptions of the way the board works; especially if, like a depressingly large proportion of the board, they don't usually read this forum.
 
 
Ganesh
21:38 / 09.06.06
With you 100%, Stoatie. While the seeming-interminable discussion can seem wearying at times, I hugely appreciate the fact that Barbelith does it rather than simply kicking people out. I like the fact that we explore this stuff.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
21:47 / 09.06.06
waggling naughty finger, what I dislike is the vagueness of your reply.

I think there may be other ways of tackling these discussions, to give a more positive outcome.

Perhaps you'd like to outline the method of tackling that you're talking about.

My point is that I feel that a small minority of members may be somewhat elitist about this, which may create an ‘us and them’ scenario.
Of all my points, this one is the weakest- it is something I have noticed in discussions, but it is just an opinion, rather than something substantial.


You say this is your weakest point. It's weak because you don't want to tell us who you're talking about. If you've observed it you must be able to give some names to us so just get on with it or leave the argument alone. Don't hedge around gently prodding at ideas if you don't want to support them. I know this is common to the Internet, particularly in a community when you're sure you're going to get jumped on but what on earth is your post meant to be doing here? Are you just trying to get people riled or change something that I personally remain unclear about because you haven't described it accurately? Your post may be an attempt to clarify what you were saying but it kind of hasn't worked.


I will not furnish links, for several reasons. I have made my point, and I can think of at least one example for each point. I do not wish to do anyone’s thinking for them.

I think it would be your thinking that I was doing for you so I suggest you post some links or refrain from hinting at... something.

So a brief summary: there are better ways of tackling problems that you haven't outlined. Some barbelith members may be elitist but you don't want to say who or provide links.

Barbelith might be a better experience for all if you could elaborate, make your points lean a bit more towards the positive than the negative...
 
 
foolish fat finger
22:29 / 09.06.06
ganesh, thanks for the link- I will read as soon as I have finished writing.

stoatie, I liked your post, and I have taken on board what you said. I don't know from my own experience if what you have said is correct, as I am fairly new here. however, I trust your judgement, and this has put me at ease, on the subject of thread locking/ bans. it is no longer an issue for me.

Anna, well, firstly, I would not wish to 'name and shame' anyone who I thought had an elitist attitude. in fact, I don't have any names in mind. it is a feeling I get from encountering a very few members who seem to have this attitude. I am happy to drop this point, as I do not feel it is especially relevant. I think it is true, but not a big problem on the boards.

in regard to other ways of dealing with off-topic threads... I wish I could post a link, but I actually forgot where I read it, and indeed the poster. it is in the policy forum somewhere.

anyway, to summarise from my memory- a thread was posted where various members were joking about a certain issue. the nature of the jokes made a few members feel uncomfortable, and they mentioned this in the thread. the thread then changed direction, and included the 'uncomfortable' members in the fun. the person posting felt 'warmed' by this, and felt that barb to them was like a friendly family.

I guess I haven't dispelled your accusations of 'vagueness' particularly with this explanation(!)(perhaps someone with a better memory than I can produce the link) but the process described is along the lines of what I would consider to be healthy interraction between members. that is basically what I wish to explore- healthy interraction versus moderation. (I am not saying that moderation is unneccesary) It was good to read that post, and to see that positive change can come out of members speaking their mind.

I don't believe anyone is on here specifically to give others a hard time- if they seem to be doing so, then communication with them may neutralise the reason they are doing so. maybe I am naive, but I do believe that people become a 'problem' because they feel misunderstood.

I know nothing of the 'shadowsax' situation- I vaguely remember him/her from when I joined... can anyone point me to a thread where I might become enlightened? ok, maybe not, but can anyone point me to a thread where I might understand more about what happened with shadowsax?
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
22:40 / 09.06.06
waggling naughty finger- try here. Be warned, there's a lot of it, but if I recall correctly it's a pretty good example of what I was talking about it my above post.
 
 
Smoothly
22:45 / 09.06.06
Also, Post-banning discussion thread
 
 
foolish fat finger
22:46 / 09.06.06
wow, there is indeed a lot of it! I need a 3 week pause button on my life to digest all the stuff that interests me at barb... (still reading the troll thread posted by ganesh!)

cheers for the link, stoatie
 
 
enrieb
22:53 / 09.06.06
You know there’s a lot that’s right about Barbelith I have considered posting here sometimes when I also felt that my own posts got a negative response other that I had intended or when people misread what I was trying to get across with my words, but was this really the fault of the reader or did the fault lie with my own posting style? I am glad I did not post in this thread in anger, as my opinion has greatly changed of Barbeltih and I could have wrote things here that I would afterwards have deeply regretted, as I did in some of my earlier posts .

I can understand how new posters can perceive that there is something wrong with Barbelith but in my case it had more to do with my style of posting generating responses that I had not intended.

I found myself facing two options, learn how to post on Barbelith or learn not to post on Barbelith.

I had to take sometime out and reconsider the way I put my thoughts and ideas across in here, I read deep into the policy threads and spent time studying the basics of Critical Thinking and Philosophy in order to better understand the flaws in my own ideas, thus giving me the opportunity to correct them pre-post rather that posting blindly and generating what I perceived as a negative response. This for me is an ongoing process and to quote an old teacher of mine ‘there is no end to learning’

I began to impose some basic rules for my own posting as a new member.

1. To never post when angry
2. To wait at least 24 hours before responding to any question if I felt there was a chance that I could be over reacting in a negative way.
3. To attempt to redraft my replies to remove anything that could be perceived as snark
(Which seems never to be helpful in any situation)

I would ask you to consider that some new posters may find it harder than others to get up to speed with the standard of discussion on Barbelith. I know that I had difficulty at first when my previously unexamined ideas of how everything works crumbled to dust being unable to withstand some basic critical questioning.

Barbelith has forced me in a positive way to question my own thoughts to a level that had previously gone unchallenged this was at first a very painful experience but well worth the pain and effort and I still have some way to go along this road.

I am not saying that there is nothing wrong with Barbelith, just that there is probably a hell of a lot more that’s right with it, otherwise non us would be here. I am now critical enough of my own opinion to understand that what I previously perceived may be wrong with Barbelith could just be my own lack of association with this place. I fully understand that you have no duty to educate, but all I ask is just a little more patience at times with some of us newer members.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
23:00 / 09.06.06
For those who have asked for links- I will not furnish links, for several reasons. I have made my point, and I can think of at least one example for each point.

That's fine, WNF - as long as you don't want anyone else to respond to your feelings in any way, positive or negative. If you want other people to treat these as actual concerns that have some impact on how Barbelith works, you'll need to illustrate what you're actually talking about.
 
 
Ganesh
23:18 / 09.06.06
In terms of general advice, I'd say take time to read and absorb the various linked threads, and don't post again until you've had a chance to chin-stroke for a bit. It's cool.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
23:27 / 09.06.06
in fact, I don't have any names in mind. it is a feeling I get from encountering a very few members who seem to have this attitude.

I'm not trying to pick a fight here at all and I understand why you don't want to tackle specifics but I think this is a bit contradictory. If you aren't aware of the identity of the few members you mention then it's an unexamined impression and there's not much point suggesting it until you've thought it through. Alternatively you don't want to say who these people are, in which case you need to question the wisdom of bringing the point up. I understand that it's something to back away from and you don't need to respond to this if you don't want to. My intention isn't to exasperate you but this is the type of comment that reads like a veiled criticism and it happens too often on message boards in general. Either a place has an elitist element and you think that through and address it as a problem that is tangible or you accept that people agree with each other on certain points simply because they agree with each other and have the same general response/attitude to both the space and the behaviour of other people. I don't particularly mind either point of view but I would very much like it if, just once, someone discussed their perceived segregation of people on the board using the word elite or dumping and could give a reason for the use of the word.


This is the kind of point that it's no good expressing unless you're willing to outline it in real terms. If you don't do that then it's not fixable and it's something you have to let go of rather than spuriously reference. The biggest thing about barbelith is that you have to hold back until you understand what you want to say, what you mean, whether you can go far enough to make that point. A lot of people don't like that and others (me) slip up on it all the time but that's the biggest defining character trait of this space, which I think enrieb has outlined pretty effectively.
 
 
foolish fat finger
14:10 / 10.06.06
I am taking ganesh's advice to read and absorb, so this is not a contribution to the discussion- I just wanted to say a thanks to enrieb for his 'basic rules for posting'. great advice (for any message board/forum).
 
 
foolish fat finger
11:50 / 12.06.06
it has entered my awareness that it is possible that some members may have taken my points as an underhand personal attack. I apologise if this is the case. it was not my intention to make anyone feel criticised- my point was a general one about barbelith across the board, which is one reason I did not want to furnish links to individual examples. I have no desire to kick sand in anyone's face, or make anyone feel attacked. I did not post in anger, and was not motivated by personal resentment.

my intention in posting was to strengthen barbelith, not knock it. apologies if this is the impression I have given. I am thinking very hard before I post any such point again.

any personal disagreements I may have I will deal with in the thread in which they came up. to do otherwise I feel would be devious- it is not my intent to be devious.

cheers- wnf
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
12:11 / 12.06.06
It's fine, waggling naughty finger. Just carry on refusing to substantiate anything you say, and we'll carry on giving your posts the attention and respect they deserve. Everything's cool.
 
 
foolish fat finger
12:27 / 12.06.06

further to my previous post... I get the feeling I may have been looking down the wrong end of the telescope- there are plenty of things that are right with barbelith- I wouldn't be here otherwise. for starters, a group of members with an incredibly broad knowledge base, and range of interests. some amazingly witty people here, and there's a nice sense of sharing on some posts.

I have found people to be friendly, generally patient with my mistakes, and generous with posting interesting links... cheers all!
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:38 / 12.06.06
I did not post in anger, and was not motivated by personal resentment.

I don't know... I think that somebody here is seeing fit to dump his personal anger on others.
 
 
Smoothly
12:47 / 12.06.06
I think wnf is trying to recant and ask for his two-cent back. He's apologised. Can we let it lie?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
13:09 / 12.06.06
Steve, under the current terms of the engagement I am behaving in precisely the correct way. Saying that some people are dumping their anger and resentment on people is apparently entirely kosher, as long as one neither names names or provides any examples of this behaviour. I just don't think that's going to fly, is all.

The idea that wnf will think very carefully before making the same approach is a welcome one, but I think it's important to make it quite clear that if one's intention is honestly not to make anyone feel attacked, then to make a series of assertions about the personal failings of other people and then refusing to substantiate them is not only not the right way to go about things on Barbelith, but also not the right way to go about things in the everyday conduct of one's affairs on Earth. This especially true if it seems that any dissenting opinion can be written off as the dumping of anger.

So... I think the point is that it's fine if wnf wants to apologise, but the important thing here is not whether some members may have taken (his) points as an underhand personal attack, which is the condition that needs to be fulfilled for the apology to be offered, but rather that this aproach to talking about whether or not there is something wrong with Barbelith is unhelpful, and leads to a lengthy wastage of time where people try to tease some sort of useful starting point to a discussion that was never actually intended as a discussion. "The management apologises if (x)" is nice, but "the management is examining why the possibility exists that (x), is taking on board lessons learned and is thinking about how to avoid such a situation occurring again" is, I think, in terms of the discussion more useful.
 
 
foolish fat finger
19:14 / 12.06.06


a) I don't know... I think that somebody here is seeing fit to dump his personal anger on others.

Steve, under the current terms of the engagement I am behaving in precisely the correct way. Saying that some people are dumping their anger and resentment on people is apparently entirely kosher, as long as one neither names names or provides any examples of this behaviour.


I think that quoting me before you wrote a) just might be considered a hint that you had me in mind when you wrote it?!
this, though you will probably not believe me, was written with genuine affection. I have a smile on my face, and I genuinely hope you are happy too, and that if you are watching the match right now, that the team you like wins. I hope this doesn't sound sarcastic- it isn't.

thanks for your post, Steve; yes, I am retiring to muse for a while. since no-one agrees with me, I must therefore conclude I am probably wrong. I can live with being wrong once in a while (tho twice in a week is pushing it)
 
 
feline
11:03 / 29.06.06
My 2 cents' opinion on the "is there something wrong" discussion...

As a new member, I found
this comment really interesting (hope I've got that linking thing right).

ie (in case link not working), back in 2003 little/no reaction was made to a lot of very dodgy jokes, whereas now they (quite rightly) get picked up. Surely this is improvement not regression?

Do you think there's a possibility that the longer-serving members are looking at Barbelith days-gone-by through rose-tinted specs?

Personally I think Barbelith is fantastic and the overall level of discussion is amazing (especially compared with what most of us experience IRL), so I'm not sure why there's such an emphasis on "what's wrong with it..." It's a bit depressing as a newcomer, as it implies I've already missed the boat somehow; you know, it's a bit "hey kid, this is nothing, you should have seen us back in 99" or whatever. It is great that so many people care about it enough to argue the point though.

The references to A-list members are a tad offputting I find; I know there are some members who are the heart and soul of the place, but it's a bit depressingly cliquey for the new.

Or maybe I'm just being oversensitive!

lazy feline (on the zzzz-list)
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
12:57 / 29.06.06
I think some things have got better about the board. There are things I miss, but those things sort of had to change (like being able to have lots of suits). Some fora have got waaaay better in the time I've been here, like the Temple f'rinstance.

The references to A-list members are a tad offputting I find; I know there are some members who are the heart and soul of the place, but it's a bit depressingly cliquey for the new.

Ye-e-e-e-sss... but you'll notice that references to 'A-list members' are very seldom actually made by the members who might be seen as being on this notional A-list. Also, this A-list changes over time and depends on who you ask. If you asked over in the Temple I might be on the list, coz I have a lot invested in the Temple and I'm a very vocal (not to say vociferous) poster over there. If you asked in Film & TV or Games & Gameplay though, my name might not even come up.

Also also, being seen as an 'A-list' member isn't all soft cusions and bon-bons. Because you're seen as being in a position of nebulous and ill-defined power, people can be, well, rude. Downright obnoxious, some of 'em, especially behind the veil of the PM or off-board. It's as if some people sort of assume that everyone else on the board is sending you OMGponiesYOUROCK!!! fan-mail, and their healthy dose of bold iconoclastic blah blah ect. will do you good. (This is before we get onto the seriously dodgy types, who will fixate on 'A-list' members and stalk them off the board and occasionally IRL. Rare, but does happen.)

I honestly don't believe that n00bs get a hugely rough ride here. Sometimes there's a scratchy transitional period while we all get used to each other, but as long as the new member isn't heavily invested in, say, challenging the Evil Feminazis, that passes.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
15:03 / 29.06.06
The references to A-list members are a tad offputting I find; I know there are some members who are the heart and soul of the place, but it's a bit depressingly cliquey for the new.

Six posts. Six posts.

In answer to your question, LF - Barbelith is a very self-critical place, or more precisely a place in which various people criticise various elements. Call this a drive for improvement or a drive for in-fighting - it can usually go either way. Broadly, I think, it's positive thing, although it can cause interpersonal conflicts. Just like not exertign a critical perspective, it has advantages and disadvantages. In the course of this thread, good and bad things about Barbelith old and new have been employed.

As for the A-list; there's no real official recognition of such a thing. Arguably, it could be the mods, but that's about it, and I'm not sure they constitute a friendship group. As Mordant says, whom any individual member thinks of as the member of an "A-list" will vary wildly from time to time, member to member and perceived injustice to perceived injustice. In actual, formal terms I don't really see how membership or not of such a list would confer significant advantages.
 
  

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