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grant
17:45 / 12.12.07
And it's been there since two Februaries ago.

Gone now, and a line inserted that this isn't a fan site in any conventional way.

I'm considering unlocking a lot of those wiki pages now to see what will happen, but that's a discussion for another thread.
 
 
MattShepherd: I WEDDED KALI!
19:16 / 12.12.07
Currently rasslin', mentally, with the Wonder Woman thread in Comics.

The OP went off on some bizarre and inappropriate tangents in the first post, which he immediately got called on.

But the current state of the conversation is such that, as Haus says, it would have to be about the beliefs about sex work that inform the language used to describe the belief in the ultimate fecklessless of men as opposed to women as recipients of loans, which in turn inform the underlying debate on the superiority of women that makes Wonder Woman such an enduring character to continue.

But the OP hasn't apologized or shown a lot of insight about the tangential issue at hand and why it's a problem, and people are going to continue to call him on it.

So the choices seem to be (a) drag the thread back on-topic as much as possible, which looks like you're trying to let the OP "off the hook" by changing the subject, (b) keep watching the thread derail until it's entirely about the tangential issue and has nothing to do with the topic at hand, or (c) start a new topic somewhere like Switchboard or even Convo, one I am wholly unqualified to start and wouldn't be comfortable instigating, and try to direct people there.

I'd appreciate the insight of more experienced mods here. I've been one on paper for quite a while, but generally I've just approved changes.
 
 
MattShepherd: I WEDDED KALI!
19:59 / 12.12.07
And then things kind of resolved themselves, thanks to some exemplary posts especially from miss wonderstarr.

I still think the above question stands, though, regarding how to deal with a thread that is getting "rotted for the right reasons." That's clumsy, but hopefully you see what I mean.
 
 
Aertho
20:30 / 12.12.07
The Comics thread in question is more about Grady's article on Wonder Woman than about the character itself. The OP is self-promoting, and has put his work up for review. The first page is a critique and an accounting of the author's ideas in the Sun article and the Comics Forum thread. While a discussion of Wonder Woman's relevance and staying power outside of the constraints of the OP's article and perspective is the expected progression of the thread, it is in fact off-topic.

Thus far, everything's fine.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
21:51 / 12.12.07
Well, the question of "when is it appropriate to call a halt to something I feel is offtopic" is, as you have noted, not quite the same as the question when what you feel is offtopic is a discussion of language or statements that are apparently causing unhappiness or discomfort to people on prejudicial grounds.

There's a fair amount of prior art on this, and one of the problems is that in specialist areas the area of specialism is generally going to be considered more important than addressing a felt injustice which might not impact the specialists at all.

So, for example, there was unhappiness in the rot of the Marvel Comics trivia thread when people started challenging the description of gypsies as smelly and illiterate. There was unhappiness when a perfectly good thread on the Gematria was disrupted by challenges of the idea of the international Jewish conspiracy. In more general parts, this actually happens less. When Vladimir commented that he feared that banging Indians would make his cock drop off, there was relatively little upset at a robust challenge, although continued challenging of what was egregiously offensive behaviour elsewhere caused a degree of friction. Ultimately, what should have happened at the start happened, and he was banned, which would have saved that heartache.

In the case of Hendrix, one imagines that there is not much malice - GH was just a bit inept, in his original choice of words and in his subsequent attempts to explain them. Represntations have been made and will probably now be left.

A comparable example might be the Ratatouille thread - here, where Nico's attempt to write off the examination of possible class issues in the film as overanalysis. This position was criticised, and the issues raised by her reaction were talked over. Also, just as in the Wonder Woman thread, hieronymus decided to abandon talking in any way about a subject about which he had nothing useful to say, in order to launch an attack on me, because hieronymus is a terrible moderator.

However, in defiance of the offtopic flaming produced by hieronymus, the thread moved back ontopic simply by those who were able to have a discussion having a discussion, and the quality of those posts meant that people responded to them and discussed them.

In general, a topic will return to its core if the original post was of decent quality, if the stupidity in the thread is not too egregious and if there is a discussion worth having despite challenges being made to threads. The Wonder Woman thread is a messy thread to start, since it is a link to an article, but also involves Grady Hendrix's views on (Marston's views on) women's superiority and the existence of a constant but submerged debate on the possible superiority of women to men - which also managed to pull in racial differences in intelligence and "tranny hookers". Given the richness of that stew of ideas, it's not wholly surprising that a degree of offtopic discussion ensued. However, Hieronymus' flameburst aside, the conversation appears to be stabilising and centralising, with an offshoot in Barbequotes.

It's castrating for a moderator to admit, but that probably would have happened with or without the mod hat - the best thing a moderator can do is often to try to come up with a strand of the argument that is of interest and likely to inspire further discussion, while acknowledging the need for a space to deal with challenges to what might appear as offtopic and unnecessary responses to what to him or her do not seem overly contentious ideas, and letting that pay out unless it appears to be in danger of severely damaging a thread worth saving.

It's all a bit vague, I realise. Hands-off moderating helped to kill the Head Shop, but seeing if a thread has a centre to spin back to can be useful, I think.
 
 
miss wonderstarr
09:25 / 13.12.07
The currently ongoing conversation about how you could build on the mainstream understanding of the WW "brand" and produce a successful film from it is technically off-topic, I think; and I'm perpetuating that, but my personal view is that given the apparent lack of healthy discussion in the Comics forum recently, it's better for the board to continue a promising discussion about Wonder Woman on that forum even though it means straying away from issues raised in the original post. The thread title is just "Wonder Woman!!" I think. The subtitle could be expanded to cover the discussion as it's evolved.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
09:49 / 13.12.07
Yeah, I think it's good that that discussion continue in thread. Further discussion of what is and is not a compassionate way to talk about and regard sex workers belongs elsewhere, as does wondering how in the name of fuck a dedicated axe-grinding troll like Hieronymous ever got to be a moderator.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
10:49 / 13.12.07
We were giving out moderator status like candy at one point, remember? A bunch of people who felt that they ought to give something back to Barbelith got it, and it turned out that what some of them had to give back was bug-eyed lunacy. See also Modzero and Jack Frost.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
10:53 / 13.12.07
There is, incidentally, a thread in the Head Shop about sex workers, which could be revived.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
11:26 / 13.12.07
Is anyone else imagining miss wonderstarr as Han Solo right now? You know, taking leave of us, then when a thread's all going to shit and Darth Vader's about to blow it out of the sky, there's mw coming back out of nowhere saying "let's blow this thing?"

It's very good, if you ask me. (And welcome back).

(Oh, and Darth Vader blowing it out of the sky was a figure of speech- I didn't mean any particular poster by that).
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
11:31 / 13.12.07
(It was kind of a rhetorical question.)
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
13:18 / 13.12.07
What was? Sorry, I'm all flu-ed up and my brain's not working.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
13:22 / 13.12.07
How in the name of fuck a dedicated axe-grinding troll like Hieronymous ever got to be a moderator.
 
 
Ticker
13:56 / 13.12.07
For the mods tracking this, GH responded to my post in the WW thread with a very thoughtful PM regarding my criticism. The response indicated a definate willingness to listen and learn and included a sincere apology which I personally didn't need but was nice to have offered.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
14:00 / 13.12.07
I'm still a bit baffled as to why people use PMs like that, though, unless an explanation/defence of a previous public statement requires one to disclose private information.
 
 
Ticker
15:01 / 13.12.07
I think it was partially motivated out of a desire not to rot the thread as it was finally back on topic. Also GH seemed concerned that he had personally offended me.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
15:24 / 13.12.07
On Final- ah, right! Got you.
 
 
Hieronymus
21:58 / 20.12.07
Could someone PM me what exactly my crime was rather than swing about terms like "cock awful" and "bug eyed lunacy". Would be appreciated.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
22:27 / 20.12.07
Really, why bother? You pretty much have to sex up lemurs to be banned around here, and people who have actively begged not to be moderators have remained moderators, so I imagine you will not cease to be a moderator and cannot be induced to leave. So, you will keep on lowering the tone and the image of Barbelith moderation with your weird outbursts, and there's not a lot that can be done to prevent it. Pretty soon, there will be nobody left on Barbelith with the social skills to try to discourage you, and you can be king of the dungheap. Well done, King Dungheap!
 
 
Hieronymus
22:28 / 20.12.07
Are you done?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
22:32 / 20.12.07
Well, you did ask. To restate: you give moderation a bad name, and contribute to the moribundity of Barbelith by giving the impression that moderators are appointed by throwing darts at a wall covered in polaroids of idiots. Your inept moderation has come up quite a few times now. Why have you not learned from any of them? Do you really need to be taken through them again?
 
 
Hieronymus
22:39 / 20.12.07
The request has been sent to Tom. If you've any other recommendations, do send them my way.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
22:48 / 20.12.07
Most recently, you lost it in the Wonder Woman thread, with this rant:

How is it you can bitch about threadrot, Haus, while making your own long contributions to it... or continue to make your complaints about others taking the "last word" as your last word.... or fail to recognize complaints about your hairsplitting on grammatical errors and syntax for what they are, an overwhelming desire to see you to wrap up any further threadrotting?

Now, as mentioned in Barbannoy, I'd like to ask: can you point to anywhere I pointed out a grammatical error or a fault in syntax in that thread, which I assume you read before posting?

If you are going off on these rants without any substantiation ... well, that seems to fit "cock awful" and "bug-eyed lunacy" pretty neatly.

You moderated the Doctor Who threads into chaos, and it took a chunk of effort to sort them out. You trolled the thread on school shootings, and then started a thread in Policy to justify trolling it. You trolled the Ratatouille thread , and then started a thread in Policy to try to continue the trollery when other people, including myself, got the thread back on track by actually talking about the film.

On preview: If you have actually contacted Tom asking to remove you as a moderator, then that might be a progressive step. Of course, non-moderators can also troll and harass, and it might be a good idea to stop that as well.
 
 
Hieronymus
22:54 / 20.12.07
Nope. That last part shouldn't be a problem either.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
23:06 / 20.12.07
OK. I am unusually irritable tonight, and you are being enigmatically and unhelpfully laconic. Let's come back to this fresh another time. Basically, I feel you've been looking for fights, with me and others, for quite some time, and it has not been useful. The hairsplitting on grammatical errors and syntax was the latest example of this. I would like it to stop.
 
 
Hieronymus
23:25 / 20.12.07
I can understand that. It was not done to pick a fight with you but if that's how it come out looking, I apologize for my statements. As I said in my PM, I have no interest in fighting with you. Or anyone here.

That said, I would like an apology for the insinuating insult that I am an idiot and a king of the dungheap. It's not helpful given that I'm trying to understand and remedy what I've done, as it tends to make me defensive and I have to resist the urge to fling pejoratives back.

Which solves nothing.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
09:04 / 21.12.07
Well, it might solve _something_. But fair enough. If that was sincerely not intended to pick a fight, and was simply _appallingly_ phrased, then I apologise for responding in combative wise.

Having said which, if it was genuinely not intended as an attempt to pick a fight then I think delivery needs some work. In particular, I was caught by your statement:

How is it you can bitch about threadrot, Haus, while making your own long contributions to it... or continue to make your complaints about others taking the "last word" as your last word.... or fail to recognize complaints about your hairsplitting on grammatical errors and syntax for what they are, an overwhelming desire to see you to wrap up any further threadrotting?

The first two claims here are arguable, although in my humble opinion untrue (talking about Grady Hendrix's article in a thread started by Grady Hendrix with a link to his article is not threadrot, and I neither complained about others "taking" the last word nor sought it myself). The third, however, appears to show an innocence of the actual content of the thread, suggesting that you had either not read it or had not understood it, but instead hopped onto the word "semantics", the problems of which word have been covered at length. As such, I would again like to see a moment in the thread where I hairsplit on grammatical errors and syntax identified. I am also aware that when asked to substantiate these claims, it is often tempting to retreat to accusing the accused of pedantry. Resist this temptation.
 
 
Hieronymus
16:24 / 21.12.07
That's only part of the issue, Haus. And yes, it does include you spending massive amounts of time correcting people on the proper use of diction, et al, using your education as a truncheon. My statements regarding "hairsplitting on syntax" were less based rationally and more based emotionally on the following.

It's the fact that you can heap cruel and arrogant abuse on other people with absolute impunity (in fact, you're often congratulated for it) that has made me so emotionally reactive. You've just shown your work in that capacity in the way in which you talked to me, categorizing me unreasonably as an idiot and a king of shit. And while your apology is appreciated, it is exhausting to watch when it is unapologetically inflicted on others, much less to endure it.

Because, for all of your astute education, it still comes across to some Lithers as you exercising your right to be an intellectual sadist and an excuse to cross the line of civility.

And actually, now that I think about it, I wouldn't go so far as to describe it as having any intellectual sincerity at all. Because you really do just get fucking personal sometimes. Which serves no dialectical purpose.

This is the reason I've acted so angrily to your posts. I see no real community in that kind of environment, and only a kind of entropic insulation when vicious judgment and cruel critique is ready to descend from on high the moment someone misspeaks or makes a blunder of a mistake. And given how long it's gone on, and how often it's been mentioned and never remedied, I see no reason why it will change.

I don't say this to attack you, Haus, and frankly I hate that just mentioning this will be misconstrued as my flinging poo at you on the way out, which is such an adolescent interpretation it barely merits mentioning. I'm just worn out at seeing you disparage and blast someone over the littlest thing. Others here applaud it and I guess that's where it will end.

I will say though, that were the possibility of change to exist or communication here even at a point where dialogue might be started, real dialogue, then it would be worth staying for. But it's simply a point of fact that you, sir, will continue to harangue Lithers as if someone had appointed you to do so. Just as I reserve the right to withdraw from a board that fosters it.

And so it goes.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:40 / 21.12.07
And yes, it does include you spending massive amounts of time correcting people on the proper use of diction, et al, using your education as a truncheon.

If I've spent such massive amounts of time doing this, Hieronymus, you should be able to find one example. Just one example of me doing this before somebody else has lowered the discussion to that point. One example, which if I do it at every opportunity should be terribly, terribly easy to find, especially since actually one would get such opportunities fairly frequently.

I don't think I do spend massive amounts of time correcting people on the proper use of diction, et al, using [my] education as a truncheon. I did not do it in the thread where you have just claimed that I did it. You told a lie about that. I would offer that you are telling lies about my doing it all over the place now. You are no doubt perfectly sincere in your belief that I do, and you no doubt feel that this totally imaginary crime of mine justifies your behaviour. This does not, however, actually make you justified. It makes you delusional, and it makes you a person who feels entitled to behave badly on Barbelith as a consequence of your delusions.

It's a shame that you are leaving without feeling any need to back up your claims, because it means that you are going to get into these situations over and over again, where you invent offences and use them to justify misrepresentations and attacks. That's assuming you manage to stay off Barbelith.

(Sets watch)

However, I am not responsible for the things that you imagine, or for the anxieties that might lead to those imaginings, only for dealing with the consequences of those imaginings. In that context, I regret to say that you leaving Barbelith is probably, overall, a good thing, if there was no option in which good order and calm might prevail.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
17:14 / 21.12.07
In the six or so (blimey!) years I've been on the board, I do not think that I have never, ever--not even one little time--seen Haus pull someone up on poor grammar or syntax. Ever. Unless--this is the important bit, so pay attention--they had already done this to him or to someone else first, and they had done it in such a way as to attack or belittle the other person. (He's even sat still through all of my horribly mangled Lat. and Fr. quotes over the years, which surely merits some kind of recognition.)

What I have seen is this same accusation repeated again and again until it's got sort of stuck in the collective psyche: Haus is an intellectual bully and a snob who continually uses his superior ejamucation to make snide irrelevant digs at poor innocent posters. The "Haus picks people to bits over typos" thing comes up just about every time there is any trolling on the board; it has never been substantiated. It is fanon, not canon.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
17:20 / 21.12.07
Thanks, TTS. I can see a lot more justice in Nick's criticisms - although if I ever was better-read than the average Barbelith poster, I am certainly not _now_ - but they are completely different from the comments which H. appeared to read, and which supported his case.
 
 
This Sunday
20:20 / 22.12.07
Can the appropriate mods adjust the misleading title and summary for the Lakota People seceede from US, intending to create their own country thread?
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
22:08 / 22.12.07
I've put in a request to change the "Cops Say Drug Rape Is A Myth" thread's title, as actually the cops didn't say that, and it's been bugging me for ages. (And it's been bugging me more that I've had to defend the cops on this one). Someone less drunk than me could maybe come up with a better summary, too.
 
 
jentacular dreams
10:43 / 03.01.08
Can someone please stick the relevant parts of benny's last post in the I am Legend thread under a spoiler tag?
 
 
Benny the Ball
18:22 / 04.01.08
have just put in a request for this - cheers.
 
  

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