oh, hell no! bloody fuckin' mother of pain, NO!
i demand a proper answer to my post and not just a snarky, unmotivated "I think your optimism is cute, but misplaced." thrown my way.
at least i was bringing tangible suggestions to the table. yeah, sure, might be that they're all shit, but then at least muster the courage to tell me why they are shit. don't ignore me! for fuck's sake...
yeah, i could stand up and get going elsewhere. and, as a matter of fact, i already do. but i don't want to give up this place without at least having tried a couple of things. or do you guys just walk out of relationships that were brill but then sort of detoriated without having at least tried to fix it? and don't give me any of that 'oh, but we have tried, dove. wouldn't work, any of it, now would it?' - here, let me see why you don't want to try any of the things that have been suggested?
or if this REALLY is about what it says in the thread title - which i highly doubt or we wouldn't be fucking about like this for months now - then close it down (which you probably can't, because tom holds all the life/death power and he's not... well, here)! don't look back. walk away!
can't? won't? is it a group decision thing?
then cobble a poll together, let it run its course and then STICK to the decision that comes out of it.
let me say this: i really like barbelith. this isn't optimism, it's just that i really appreciate the things i've experienced here and the people that contribute to this place. and i don't want to give this up without having tried a few things. so, i'm throwing this your way one more time. anybody here prepared to help me? if not, i'm going to do it on my own. worst case scenario: it doesn't work. at least i will have tried. |