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Oh dear. : A thread about things that tick you off quite a bit, and might even elicit a frown.

 
  

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jentacular dreams
20:49 / 28.12.07
Best of luck COG! New housemates are possibly the riskiest of lotteries.
 
 
Hallo, Paper Spaceboy
16:56 / 29.12.07
I know that it's is probably delivered with only good will in mind, but I can not help but feel uncomfortable and ill-at-ease when people bless me -- a man at work this morning did it to me a little while ago and I felt immediately spun out. It feels very presumptuous when you don't know a body's personal beliefs, and it feels creepy and colonial at the worst of times.

I think it would be different coming from someone I know particularly well, but generally the Christians I do know well are not the kind who bless people as a rule.
 
 
iamus
17:03 / 29.12.07
A-CHOO!
 
 
Hallo, Paper Spaceboy
17:53 / 29.12.07
Yeah, see, there was no actual sneezing involved.
 
 
Twice
19:06 / 30.12.07
Ah. Glad I didn't have to drag this from the depths of page 7.

Now. Where to start? OK. Mister and Misses Doctors in A&E and on general wards in hospital, this is at you. I am aware that it is Christmas-time, and I am very aware that you are likely to be junior doctors clutching short straws and using matchsticks to hold your eyelids open.

However, when an ambulance brings in my friend who has fallen unconscious on his bathroom floor through blood loss because he's haemorraging as a result of a horridly aggressive and fatal auto-immune disease, please resist, in future, the temptation to just stick a load of white stuff up his nose and send him home for turkey and stuffing. Please, please, if you find yourself in a situation where you've never heard of the bloody disease just look it up and check. And maybe call the hospital that treats him.
 
 
Hallo, Paper Spaceboy
19:32 / 30.12.07
TFT-- You've got to be fucking kidding me. That's fucking disgraceful. I don't even have the words...

How's your friend doing?
 
 
Twice
07:49 / 31.12.07
He's not great. He went back in for Christmas but again was sent home after four days. He's feeling rubbish and has had all his self confidence stripped away. He's spending today trying to get hold of his consultant because he needs reassurance really badly, and it's clear to me that the disease is entering a more accute phase and he needs his meds changed. It's just a really bad time for it to be happening. I'm ticked off because it's happened to me before, too. I once attended Charing Cross A&E and when they heard the name of the disease refused to treat me at all and made me make my own way to Guy's by Underground. Hideous memory.
 
 
Papess
08:05 / 31.12.07
And people wonder why I have such disdain for conventional medicine, hospitals and doctors.

TFT, I sure hope your friend feels better and gets some quality care from a health professional with more than a few clues.
 
 
Triplets
10:37 / 31.12.07
And people wonder why I have such disdain for conventional medicine, hospitals and doctors.

To be fair, Papess, it's generally the second and third that make the first one shit.
 
 
Twice
13:32 / 31.12.07
Well, sure, but actually it's the first, second and third which have kept me and others alive for the last 30 years. That's really why this isn't in Untamed Hate.

While it's really irritating when it happens, I have to acknowledge the doctors' mistakes are inevitable and go hand in hand with doctors' brilliance. The system we benefit from in the UK is obviously shaky at times, but my experience of it has been overwhelmingly positive.
 
 
Triplets
13:40 / 31.12.07
Indeed. Perhaps I should have been more clearer but my point was that medicine, in and of itself, isn't inherently negative or malicious, it just is. It has no agency. It's the people who wield it or deny it that make it good or bad.

But, yes, public healthcare is, on the whole, a great thing to have as my brother and mother can attest to.
 
 
Axolotl
10:54 / 08.01.08
I don't know why I'm suprised but the Job Centre couldn't organise a bloody sunday school picnic. Off I go for my interview to find out if I qualify for the dole and housing benefit, it having been stressed that it's really important I'm not late for this "otherwise it could affect your benefit claim". Once I get there it turns out they'd screwed up and organised the interview in a job centre the other side of the city, despite having informed me by phone and letter that the interview was in my local centre.

They've assured me that as it was their error I won't be penalised but it was still a complete waste of time, and I've got to go back next week and try again. It's a fairly minor screw up in the grand scheme of things but I was hoping to find out if I'm going to be able to make next month's rent.
 
 
grant
18:52 / 09.01.08
 
 
Liger Null
19:03 / 09.01.08
Wrong thread, Grant. That belongs in Untamed Rage, IMO.

Then again, it is from the fifties. Which would make it quaint if there weren't people walking around who still think that way.
 
 
grant
19:39 / 09.01.08
What makes it an "Oh, dear" for me is that it's so wrong on so many counts in its depiction.

1. Buddhists don't pray to Buddha.
2. Buddha isn't a god, anyway.
3. That Buddha looks more East Asian than South Asian. (And Buddhism really isn't that prevalent in India to begin with.)
4. That praying person looks more Hindu than Buddhist.

It's just so wide of the mark....
 
 
Twice
19:40 / 09.01.08
...and I'm finding it hard to contain my curiosity about what's on the other side of that page.
 
 
Triplets
19:54 / 09.01.08
The following couple of pages ask the reader to describe what Africa is like before and after Jesus terraforms it.
 
 
Twice
20:11 / 09.01.08
Ah, thanks. I rather meant 'what's that faint picture of a ship and crowds all about?'.

(That looks gramatically ham-fisted. Is it right?)
 
 
Dead Megatron
21:27 / 09.01.08
Where.

The Hell.

Did you get that from???



Incidentally, I too got curious as to where it is going (and came from) with that story.
 
 
Princess
21:46 / 09.01.08
I like that it is a colouring book. Someone saw the beauty and creativity of a child with some crayons, and they thought "I can transform that freedom into isolation". Lvely.
 
 
grant
00:08 / 10.01.08
Click the picture. All questions will be answered.

The ship, by the way, is loaded with missionaries.
 
 
Twice
10:05 / 10.01.08
Oh yes, that's nice. Incidentally, DM, I (for some reason) happened to be looking at the image from below and to the right, and the opposing picture showed through very clearly. I really don't know why that should be.
 
 
Mysterious Transfer Student
17:24 / 15.01.08
76Gb in two months is above the limit implicit in the nebulous concept of 'fair use', apparently. Fuck.
 
 
Lama glama
15:27 / 17.01.08
This would be an "urgh fuck," but I just don't have the energy to write a particularly seething and indignant one.

I have an ecology lecturer, whose insistence on using images of overweight people to demonstrate some tenuous ecological principle is beginning to grate on me. Today it was to show us examples of omniverous predators, last week it was something else. He always finds a reason to shoehorn an image of somebody overweight into a lecture. Last week it was a picture of a large man holding a Nile Perch. The subtitle of the image was "Big, Fat and Ugly, but the Nile Perch is quite interesting." Hi-fucking-larious.

In fact, I've found the image here:


Casual racism and flippant anti-Americanisms merrily go hand in hand with his body fascism and his lectures are leaving an intensifying foul taste in my mouth. What makes it worse, is that the class find all of his jokes absolutely hilarious. It leaves me wanting to drop a module that's supposed to be a fundamental part of my course.

I'd like to address the issue with him, but know that he'll disregard any complaints made by e-mail and I just don't have the nerve to confront him face to face.
It's probably best to grin and bear it, I suppose (it's over in four weeks and there are other lecturers too).

Oh dear.
 
 
Princess
15:37 / 17.01.08
That's really shitty.

But, holy shit, that's a big fish.
 
 
Lama glama
15:38 / 17.01.08
Big fish. Introduced from the Nile to Lake Victoria and consequently proceeded to destroy most of the native species. That's another "oh dear," I suppose.
 
 
All Acting Regiment
16:34 / 17.01.08


Some crazy stuff starts happening about here. FISH INTO LAMBS!
 
 
All Acting Regiment
16:35 / 17.01.08
OUR FIRST HOME WAS THE GIBBOUS MOON
DANCING FOR THE SHRIMPEMPEROR
 
 
Eloi Tsabaoth
16:38 / 17.01.08
WE WET OUR LIPS WITH THE WINE AFTER STARS
I'M AFTER YOU ON THE LION
 
 
Triplets
22:24 / 17.01.08
It's probably best to grin and bear it, I suppose (it's over in four weeks and there are other lecturers too).

Tape some of his classes with either a small camera or a voice recorder. Stick it out for the next couple of weeks then, when you're done, write a polite but firm e-mail or letter to his boss about the way he handles his classes; providing any evidence if you can. Make it clear that you thought bringing this up at the time might have affected your grade. You can make a difference, just not right now. Anyway, sorry you're in a sucky situation. It's likely that a lot of the class is laughing along for the sake of not getting on your tutor's bad side.

Good luck.
 
 
Tsuga
23:33 / 17.01.08
Introduced from the Nile to Lake Victoria and consequently proceeded to destroy most of the native species. That's another "oh dear," I suppose.


You could bring it up here, if you wanted to.
 
 
Papess
01:23 / 18.01.08
Llama, how does that man qualify as overweight? Not that that lecturer should even bring up the matter, but I just can't see that man as being overweight in the first place. Which, may even make the lecturer even more annoying.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
04:59 / 18.01.08
I think there's a bit of a belly going over the belt there. Never mind that to haul such a big fish out of a lake he must be quite strong compared to most people. Fuck, when the zombie apocalypse comes, I'd rather have him watching my back than Kate Moss.

Is your lecturer a perfect physical specimen Llama?
 
 
Hallo, Paper Spaceboy
05:10 / 18.01.08
Not just the zombie apocalypse, either-- he'd be handy if those fish bastards started making the devonian leap and stealing our stuff.
 
 
Evil Scientist
06:41 / 18.01.08
he'd be handy if those fish bastards started making the devonian leap and stealing our stuff.

Hey, some of us are proud of our Innsmouth heritage.
 
  

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