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Questions and Answers - Part 3

 
  

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Ticker
16:38 / 17.01.07
Britain's peasant underclass

%yeah, let them eat cake!%

For a minute I thought WP's link was some sort of farce and then I was chilled to the center of my peasant's heart. Utterly horrific.

toksik, I think WP's right in saying if you show people what they are aligning themselves with they can usually sort themselves out. That or they need a refresher course in Othering.
 
 
Char Aina
16:42 / 17.01.07
do you think it's appropriate to approach the issue, then? should i expect the editor to listen, or should i approach all the writers who use it personally?

i don't want to be ostracised, being a n00b to the publication, and i also want to do some good rather than make folks think i want to score Right-On points.

should i write a feature about the issue?
i'm fairly sure everyone would read it, as the 'chav' thing is a totally zeitgeist issue, and they will probably think it's going to more of the usual scorn filled funny... but is that a good way to do it?

i guess i now the answer to that. it depends on how well i write the piece.
 
 
Char Aina
16:45 / 17.01.07
apologies for the many posts, but i was also thinking...
while chavscum might work, i can well imagine a 'but i don't mean it like that' defence, possibly coupled with a 'some people take anything too far, though' gambit.

i'd hope the editor is smarter, but i don't know for sure.
i do know him socially, which may or may not help.
 
 
Ticker
19:09 / 17.01.07
well can you bounce it off of him over a pint and see what resonates?

Sometimes verbal exchanges can help to find the right pitch to use later in your written approach.

I'd frame it as an out-there-in-the-world you see this labeling happening and would like to address it. Let the use of it in the collective group endeavor sort of be someone else's call perhaps....

Maybe a straight review of cultural othering with several different lables can be used across an entire issue. Maybe you'll have someone point something out that you do and aren't aware of that way?
 
 
MattShepherd: I WEDDED KALI!
20:00 / 17.01.07
I've done my share of community media management (a campus paper and a community radio station), toks, and I'd've been horribly hurt and offended if somebody felt like their opinion on something they found troubling wouldn't be valued unless they were staff.

You should totally bring it up, and just point them to Chavscum and the Rural Savage thread. I'm sure they'll get what you're driving at.
 
 
Whisky Priestess
12:52 / 18.01.07
Does anybody (almost certainly London-based) want my ticket for Spamalot, on tonight at London's Palace Theatre (where Les Mis was for ages), for just £32.50 (price I paid)? Starts at 7.30. Stars Simon Russell Beale. Written by Monty Python.

I'd love to go, but I'd love to go to a magazine launch followed by my friend's band's gig more.
 
 
Char Aina
15:00 / 18.01.07
thanks, matt.
i need them vibes.
 
 
Quantum
18:35 / 22.01.07
If someone is transitioning (F to M) am I right in thinking they have to live as the gender for a year before they're given the hormones?
 
 
Ticker
18:47 / 22.01.07
are you asking specificly in context to some UK medical institution or in general out in the world?
 
 
Quantum
18:49 / 22.01.07
UK- concerned about a friend
 
 
ibis the being
19:44 / 22.01.07
Does anyone know of good sites where I could find and save good clipart? Free would be nice. I'm looking for bits of Art Deco, Art Nouveau, Arts & Crafts, or similar style design styles - florals, borders, even wallpaper designs, etc.
 
 
gridley
19:57 / 22.01.07
If someone is transitioning (F to M) am I right in thinking they have to live as the gender for a year before they're given the hormones?

That's what they said in a relevant episode of "The L Word." I assumed it's true, but I may be giving the writers too much credit.
 
 
Corey Waits
21:09 / 22.01.07
I'm almost certain it was a similar deal in Transamerica (again, could be giving the writer's too much credit though).

I'm sure it would be a little bit more complex than that though. In Transamerica the main character's psychologist has the power to veto the operation if she thinks it isn't the right time.

That rings true to me - You'd expect there to be some psychological examinations taking place to make sure that it is the right thing for the person in question.
 
 
Olulabelle
21:38 / 22.01.07
I think you should say something Toksik. Perhaps you could frame it in an, "I've just learnt" sort of way. You know, "Lot's of people don't realise, I certainly didn't..." That kind of approach. Then you don't look like you're taking the moral high ground. Not that you would I'm sure, but people can get tetchy about such things.
 
 
Smoothly
21:43 / 22.01.07
Isn't that the Real Life Test?

That link suggests that 2 years is normal in the NHS, and just one part of the process.
But there are people here who know a lot more about this than me though, so I'll shut up.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
21:46 / 22.01.07
It is more complex than that. I'm not an expert, but essentially, if you are looking to have your reassignment on the National Health Service then your treatment would be guided by the Standards of Care identified by the World Professional Association for Transgender Health - formerly the Harry Benjamin Institute. It was these standards of care who postulated the "Real Life Test" - the idea of living without hormones or surgery as a member of the gender you are transitioning towards for a year. However, the latest edition of the Standards of Care, I believe, acknowledge that in some cases it is simply impossible for the person to "live as a man/woman" _without_ hormones, and that there's not a lot of point in forcing someone to live as a person-who-gets-harrassed-a-lot for a year when that would not usefully reflect their experience post-therapy. So, in some cases there are arguments for providing hormone therapy to make the Real Life Experience period more real. I think, though, that transmen find it harder to get early hormones through official channels like this.

However, the extent to which those standards are being modified in the UK I don't know. For a surgeon to go ahead with surgery requires approval from two psychotherapists, and a real-life test of a year remains standard, as far as I know, to get that approval.

I'm no expert, mind. It might be best to seek professional advice.
 
 
Quantum
09:40 / 23.01.07
I think, though, that transmen find it harder to get early hormones through official channels like this.

Maybe because there are more drastic irreversible changes? Thanks for the help, a friend of mine is the reason I ask- her g/f suddenly decided she wanted to trans, but it seems rather ill-considered and hasty (wtf do I know about hir life, obviously, but warning bells sounded) so I wanted to get the low down before talking to her.
 
 
Jub
14:02 / 23.01.07
I'm on the look out for a carpenter. Does anyone know anyone who might be able to help - or the ebst way of finding one?

Essentially I would like a board game I have (Tripoli) made out of wood as the moulded plastic version I have is literally falling to bits. Imagine a decent size board (maybe 70cms by 35cms) and that it's raised by about 3cms. Within the board there are various holes and pits where players through their chips per round. It's really good fun but I digress.

Either I need a cheap student type place where I can give someone a design and let them get on with it, or I need to buy some wood and crack on. What sort of wood is best? Where would I buy such things? Any tips for the best way of chiseling / not fucking it up?
 
 
Char Aina
14:35 / 23.01.07
Does anyone know anyone who might be able to help - or the best way of finding one?

dude!
summon jesus!
he's sure to be a fully contactable godform by now.
 
 
MattShepherd: I WEDDED KALI!
14:44 / 23.01.07
Are you in the UK? Here in Canada, every high school has a wood shop class and a teacher desperate for projects to give the students so he can grade something other than lathed fruit bowls every *&?% year.
 
 
Jub
16:54 / 23.01.07
Hmm. I was thinking of bowling into a school and asking, but thought it might just look like I was trying to get cheap labour! (Which I am, admittedly).
 
 
Ticker
20:04 / 23.01.07
I'm looking to find a good way to donate to the Tasmanian Devil Facial Tumor fund but am not having great luck finding secure online methods.

do you know of any you might suggest?

I'm not sure if https://www.utas.edu.au/ is the best option...can anyone vouch for them?
 
 
Paralis
00:50 / 24.01.07
Jub: my family's always played Tripoli on a largish vinyl mat (alternate versions involving a standard plastic board or, in a pinch, cups or saucers, will do, but not nearly as nicely). They tend to travel better (since tripoli boards need to have either large or deep pits), and is the sort of thing you could probably do easily yourself. Or could trick a small child into doing for you.
 
 
Jub
07:49 / 24.01.07
Paralis - yeah I've seen those, and I don;t think they make the version I have anymore - but I eally like it. Also I wanted a nice meaty wooden version that I could keep for ever and ever!
 
 
Dutch
12:15 / 24.01.07
why is yawning contagious?
 
 
MattShepherd: I WEDDED KALI!
14:20 / 24.01.07
Jub:

Having looked at some Tripoli layouts, you can totally do this yourself with some pretty basic tools and a couple of days of free time. But I think that "building up" might be a better option than "building down." Here's one approach that might work, but feel free to ignore me:

All you'd need, really, is a piece of smooth-sided plywood, some laminate sheets, square dowelling, an angle box, a handsaw, and stain that matches the laminate sheet when staining pine, which is probably going to be what the square doweling will be made out of. And whatever you want to use to paint the information on the board.

Cut a big-ass octagon out of the plywood, apply the laminate, then just cut the square dowelling using the angle box, stain it, and glue it to the laminated plywood at the appropriate angles to make an inner octagon that radiates out to the outer octagon. Probably best to do the inner octagon and the outer octagon (outer edge of your octoganal board) first, as those'll be all the tricky joints -- you can cheat the "spokes" by putting them in the middle of the flat sides of the octagons, so all your "pie segments" will incorporate one corner instead of going from corner-to-corner).

Apply the information using a stencil kit and some model paint, or freehand if you're feeling daffy and reckless. If you went with some light laminate and a light stain, bright red model paint would look awesome. Once you're done the whole thing, varnish like a mofo to lock the paint down, seal little imperfections where the doweling meets, and give the whole thing a nice sheen.

Probably a full-weekend project, but definitely DIYable if you're game.
 
 
Axolotl
16:06 / 24.01.07
Phriar: why is yawning contagious?

Short answer: No-one really knows.
The purpose of yawning is unknown. People used to think it was to do with getting more oxygen into the blood in order to wake you up but they don't anymore. Other physical-based theories include yawning for regulation of body temperature, it being caused by neuro-transmitters, or for stabilising pressure in your ear drums.
Other theories reckon yawning has a social function, either as a group bonding exercise, a way of enforcing social dominance (look at my big sharp teeth) or as a way of ensuring that all of the group have the same sleep pattern.
If it is caused by outside factors, like stuffiness or room temperature then it would seem likely if one person is yawning, then others will as well. If it's a social thing, then it's obvious why yawning is contagious.
This has all beeen stolen from Wikipedia.
 
 
Char Aina
19:32 / 24.01.07
where do you get rid of electrical goods?
i have two broken toasters and no idea how to dispose of them.
 
 
MattShepherd: I WEDDED KALI!
12:15 / 25.01.07
North Americans: how much does it cost to move from coast to coast?

I'm talking like a full house worth of stuff (I'm single, but I have a lot of crap, esp. books and furniture); and a total move, where you pack everything up and haul ass to the Pacific from the eastern half of the continent to permanently relocate.
 
 
Kiltartan Cross
12:47 / 25.01.07
where do you get rid of electrical goods?
i have two broken toasters and no idea how to dispose of them.


(UK) Your local junkyard / tip / rubbish place will probably have a white-goods pile that you can take that sort of thing to. Local councils will usually take fridges &c. if you pay them to do so, but they might draw the line at toasters.

If you wanna get rid of them in some more ecologically-friendly matter, 'fraid I don't know.
 
 
Ticker
13:12 / 25.01.07
North Americans: how much does it cost to move from coast to coast?


My friend just moved from The People's Republic of Berkley CA back here to LFOD-Fuckin' New Ham'p'ster for 3k$. She has a shit ton of stuff and had a big old truck with drivers bring it across country. The truck shows up, you load it, they drive it, you unload it.
 
 
Axolotl
16:56 / 25.01.07
Has anyone had any experiences with any Quakers? Anyone a Quaker on the board? It's a faith I've always had a lot of respect for but no direct contact with.
 
 
ibis the being
17:13 / 25.01.07
MattShepherd... I'm not exactly sure how much a shit ton is, but the PODS website has a quick quote function. My friends used a POD to move from CA to MA. I just moved from MA to NE but I did a major purge and then spent a couple hundred mailing boxes of junk via USPS.
 
 
Quantum
17:22 / 25.01.07
Anyone a Quaker on the board?

Why do you ask?
 
 
Axolotl
17:26 / 25.01.07
As I said, I'm interested, or at least curious about Quakerism and while I have done a certain amount of research I was hoping for some more direct information.
I apologise if I came off as nosy/rude, and of course if people would prefer to communicate via PM I'd be more than happy to do so.
 
  

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