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Lord Morgue
08:55 / 03.12.04
Told you you wouldn't like it.
Far as I'm concerned, you're both asshats, and if I've been hanging around the M.M.S. thread, I've been waiting for your combined stench to dissipate.
Now go swallow a lectern, you doddering essayist.
 
 
tituba
09:08 / 03.12.04
PsionicNurse: I said in the Comic Books thread that you were not worth trying to engage with. Nothing you have just said in your trollsome attempt to insult me has altered this.

You've said this a thousand times yet you insist on engaging. A bit slow? I wasn't trying to insult you, sorry if you got that impression, I was only trying to point out the fact that you have difficulty placing words in the correct order in sentences. Just trying to be helpful
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
09:15 / 03.12.04
PsionicNurse: I said in the "Marvel Mythology Survey" thread that you were not worth trying to engage with. Nothing you have just said in your trollsome attempt to insult me has altered this.

Hey, I think this stock response thing has legs. Anyone want to have a crack at a form of words for general usage?

Speaing of which... So, Morque, you have nothing constructive to add, no worthwhile commentary or response, you did not react to PsionicNurse's racist comment in the MMS thread despite claiming to have a miracle cure, and you will further not actually be doing anything to try to deal with racist posts on Barbelith?

What. A. Surprise.
 
 
Tom Coates
09:40 / 03.12.04
I'm going to suggest that you all go for a walk somewhere peaceful and come back when you're feeling more inclined to talk to each other without feeling a compulsion to win. Barbelith is a place for grown-ups where people should feel able to talk about any subject as long as they are respectful to the other people in the conversation and on the board. I'm seeing precious little of this at the moment on this thread.

I'll repeat the criteria - sustained racist, anti-semitic, homophobic comments on Barbelith are considered harrassment of our Jewish / Black / Gay members, and as such are bannable offenses. It's completely appropriate to draw people's attention to such comments. It's totally reasonable to challenge people who make these comments. It's even perfectly reasonable to try and explain why the comments were made or to articulate the intent behind them. It's good that - until now - we've managed to have a relatively intelligent conversation about these comments. But now everything's got a bit bloody stupid and I'd like to ask you all to go for a walk outside, come back calmer and try and talk to each other like reasonable human beings. I'm tempted to suggest locking the thread to force you to take a breath and start again.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
10:50 / 03.12.04
Fine by me. I'll start a new thread inviting a form of words to draw people's attention to their own use of offensive language in a minimally aggressive.

However. Put in microcosm, we've pretty much got the issues we are going to have to deal with here.

PsionicNurse is not interested in examining her behaviour. If forced, she will accuse others of ruining her joke, non-apologise and then attempt to harass those she feels are guilty of limiting her right to say whatever she wants. We have seen all these behaviours before.

Lord Morgue has no real interest in challenging racist language on Barbelith, although he has an opinion, of course, about how to challenge it, and will happily clog up any thread. We have seen this behaviour before as well.

Those are the two poles of the problem pretty much summed up, both of them inimical to the successul application of the statement of principle:

sustained racist, anti-semitic, homophobic comments on Barbelith are considered harrassment of our Jewish / Black / Gay members, and as such are bannable offenses. It's completely appropriate to draw people's attention to such comments. It's totally reasonable to challenge people who make these comments. It's even perfectly reasonable to try and explain why the comments were made or to articulate the intent behind them

One side will refuse to admit wrongdoing and attack any criticism as unjust and unmerited, the other side will at best be complacent and at worst obstructive with regard to any efforts to censure or challenge offensive speech. At both poles, the discussion will quickly move into personal abuse and flaming, because it is a level that the representatives of both poles are usually more comfortable with.

Now, I am happy to talk about anything like a reasonable human being, with reasonable human beings. If you can find me a *single incidence in this entire thread* of PsionicNurse or Lord Morgue managing an entire post that makes you think throughout "yeah, that was reasonable, on topic, and in no sense ad hominem, irrelevant or offensive", I will kiss your nose. Just one.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
12:05 / 03.12.04
If someone is doing something you don't like, stop them yourself. Defend yourself somehow.... Don't use administrative power to censor people unless they have demonstrated that they are willfully attempting to wreck the community.

The funny thing is, on some level I agree with this - this is exactly what I mean about people doing their duty and protecting the values of their community. Whilst I would stress yet again that I do not for a moment buy into the idea that how one structures an online discussion forum has to, on principle, mirror exactly the political or civil structure of the ideal society one would like to live in, I do find the idea of grass roots opposition to racism, sexism, homophobia on the board more attractive than the idea of appealing to an existing structure of authority. That’s what ought to happen, yes – the majority of people here ought to a) oppose homophobia, racism, misogyny and other forms of bigotry (eg, hatred of the working class), and b) feel secure in being able to actively oppose the online manifestations of these attitudes themselves, with the possibility of calling on back-up if required.

But what happens when instead of getting back-up, people get scorned and castigated for taking a stand? What happens when someone taking individual action to defend themselves/their values is interpreted as needless harrassment in itself? The fact is that Barbelith does have an existing structure of authority (moderation), which allows people to complain to a higher authority if they see what they consider to be harassment on the board. Sadly, it also now has a significant block of users who take the view either that racist/etc humour is GREBT, or that it is of no negative import, or that those who take a robust stand against it are causing as much if not more disruption to the board than the racism itself. At worst, this last position manifests itself in facile, wilfully ignorant statements such as “isn’t being against homophobia just as prejudiced as being against queer people – ahhhh, do you see?”, “ah, but aren’t racists just another oppressed minority?”. At best, it manifests itself in Tom’s well-intentioned but, I have to say, in my opinion misguided attempt to move the discussion on by acting as if any kind of remorse has been shown by PN.

So what I’m saying is, I’m happy to do as I have been doing and as Jack Fear does and just hit the moles on the head with a hammer whenever they appear, but sooner or later, this strategy is likely to clash with the existing moderation system – only it won’t be the people who oppose homophobia/racism/sexism who are asking moderators intervene. It will be the people who think they’re being hounded and subjected to personal attacks and having their threads derailed because they dared to engage in a bit of “harmless banter” about the gypsies… You’re also either assuming that the anti-homophobia/racism/sexism block will have enough tenacity or even strength in numbers to keep going, or taking the view that it doesn’t matter if they’re eventually drowned out by an alliance of the proudly bigoted and the “don’t care” brigade. Given the trends in Barbelith’s demographic over the past four years, this seems counter-intuitive at best.

Finally, I remain unconvinced that Barbelith has lost the presence of any worthwhile individual because that individual felt the board did not provide a forum for them to engage in some hilarious ‘edgy’ racial humour. nightclub dwight’s comments were in themselves designed to make a very valid, insightful and challenging progressive political point, for example, and I hope dwight knows they are appreciated as such.
 
 
Ganesh
12:11 / 03.12.04
As the partner of an ex-nurse who's sadly rather limited in the psionic skills department, I find your own name deeply insulting, PsionicNurse. Etc.

Boring.

That's my last bit of troll-fodder. I think it's now fairly clear what PsionicNurse is about.
 
 
HCE
22:53 / 03.12.04
"But what happens when instead of getting back-up, people get scorned and castigated for taking a stand?"

Or when the few people who have to do this again and again simply get tired of it, as seems to be happening? There are a number of "off" posts on which I don't comment because I don't think have anything new to add to what the regulars have already said. Perhaps this should be reconsidered, not for the effect it may have on the person who posted the questionable material, but rather for the effect it may have on those who feel they'll scream if they have to repeat themselves yet again.

I know it's a frightening thought, but even giant eyeballs are but human, and grow weary.
 
 
Cherielabombe
07:28 / 04.12.04
Hmmm. Wow. Well... (I'm sure this doesn't add anything either but, I'm just catching up and still "processing." )


First off, believe me I am a massive fan of free speech, but Barbelith was created for a specific purpose and I see absolutely no reason why hatred and bigotry of any kind is a necessary part of Barbelith. Excuse me but conservative racist boards don't allow alternative viewpoints on that particular subject. So why should Barbelith? And I am *SOOOOOO* tired and bored of people playing the "but it's not racist! see I was being ironic!" card with hateful comments. I'm even MORE tired of the "But I'm a victim too so I can be hateful to other groups." No you fucking can't.

I can't help but wonder about this cited episode of the Simpsons PN has mentioned, about the delivery and context of this joke. I suppose it's entirely possible that within the context of that plotline such a joke wasn't offensive.. but the joke as told here has been removed from that context. The Simpsons often uses such jokes to make fun of bigots and bigotry - that's not clear when the joke is removed from its context, and should perhaps be considered when posting such things.
 
 
Tom Coates
11:48 / 04.12.04
Let me explain how I've learned to act with really difficult people online. Sometimes people know they've done something wrong, or are horrified by the reaction to something that they've done and said. In fact most people are not immune to social pressures. They know when other people think they've done something horrific and are normally scared and mortified by it.

But that doesn't mean that they can just apologise and back out of things easily. If the response to their initial actions is tough enough, then they can feel under attack, under enormous pressure, cornered and unjustly persecuted. People who feel like this tend to get more aggressive, more fiery, more infuriated. When faced with abject humiliation or fighting for an unjust cause, more often than not people will fight. Abject humiliation is fucking difficult to live with.

Now here's the problem - someone acts up on Barbelith and our instinct is to punish them and tell them off. If we go at it too hard then they'll entrench. If we got at it too softly then they'll just do it again. This is why every so often you have to bite your own tongue, recognise that YES YOU ARE RIGHT, and YES THEY HAVE DONE SOMETHING REALLY FUCKING STUPID and that actually they know that full well but are just trying to save a little face by not going down in an explosion of flames, and aren't quite prepared to offer up their arses for some kind of weird prison sex heirarchy subjugation thing.

Now I pretty much don't give a crap any more whether Psionic Nurse is Satan or Father Christmas. What I give a crap about is that you guys are leaving me no options whatsoever. Is your plan really to leap on anyone who says anything stupid and hound them until they fess up and prostrate themselves in front of you begging for forgiveness? Because if so, it's NOT GOING TO WORK. People are not going to suddenly crack under the pressure and sob for mercy and accept a new god inside them. All that will happen is that the person who has said something stupid will just get cornered, and fight and scratch and the pressure will continue and they'll continue to fight and scratch until in the end I have to boot them out. There's no option for redemption in that scenario at all. It's escalating conflict followed by ejection.

If you'd like we could just cut to the chase - you guys could just have a thread and post names in it as it took your fancy and I could boot them all out. Would that help? We could have Jack vs. Nick vs. Tann vs. Ganesh vs. Me all night if you'd like. The only reason ANY of us would back down in this world is because you know each other a fair amount online and have enough knowledge about each other and standing in the community to know that we'd survive quite comfortably, that our egos wouldn't take too much of a knock. By the way, I'd win in the end because I can boot all of you bastards out of here, although it would be a pretty lonely place if I did so, and a pretty hollow victory.

THERE IS ANOTHER WAY. Even if you think people are fucking idiots, or even EVIL fucking idiots, if when you think you've made your point you give them a way out of the argument - a direction that they can go into which allows them to save face without debasing themselves for your satisfaction - then that gives them the opportunity to privately lick their wounds and return to the fold. Potentially to actually have a decent conversation. And if they come back as viciously and stupidly as before, then GUESS WHAT - NOW YOU HAVE EVIDENCE THAT THEY WEREN'T GOING TO CHANGE, NOW YOU KNOW THAT FOR CERTAIN RATHER THAN JUST ASSERTING IT. That's a good enough reason to eject someone from a community.

I'm vaguely stunned that i'm having to say this to all of you people - you frankly should know better by now. My fundamental interests are about keeping this community vaguely on track and not killing each other, and sure - I don't want homophobic, sexist or racist crap on here any more than anyone else does, but that doesn't mean that I'm pro-bloody-lynchings. And if you actually took a breath for a moment, you'd realise that none of you want them either.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
13:20 / 04.12.04
What I give a crap about is that you guys are leaving me no options whatsoever.

With respect, Tom, I cannot relate your post to the thread so far, nor do I think the language it's couched in - prison rape? - is very useful. The suggestions made have been:

1) To have a thread in the Policy, so that offensive language can be tracked by moderators without all of us having to read every new post on Barbelith.

2) A form of words for moderators to use in-thread if the usage is agreed to be offensive. I thought something to the effect that somebody's language is causing offence, that they might not believe this or believe that they are just being funny and thus by definition not offensive ("the use of "seditious" and "scarcastic" above seems to suggest that people often think things are funny without really being able to explain _why_, which is worth keeping in mind), and that nobody is suggesting that they are racist/sexist/homophobic per se, but could they look at their post again and see if they wouldn't think editing it might not be a bad idea. And that if they continue to do this, it is going to cause problems with them and Barbelith. This would, for starters, help to obviate the problems caused by those relatively few people prepared actually to make a stand being sufficiently pissed off that they just call them racist fucks, which I have freely admitted was not a very helpful reaction, although I still feel a reasonable one.

3) A clear policy on sexism/racism/homophobia and its relation to harassment and moderation.

4) A compulsory code of conduct explaining that policy that needs to be agreed to before anyone joins Barbelith.

5) Implementation of that code.

No bloody lynching there.

Now, there is another part of this thread, which is PsionicNurse and Lord Morque in effect trolling it. PN had the option of keeping out of it and resolving to avoid being open to such criticism in the future, she had the option of trying to explain herself rationally, she had the option of apologising. She has done none of those things.

Clapping hands together and saying "OK! As far as I'm concerned PN has apologised, and all is well!" when she has clearly not is not good social management - it's appeasement, and it lowers the bar for behaviour in the future.

Personally, I don't care if PN apologises and feels regret, although I think it might make her life easier and possibly ultimately make her a more likable person. I care whether she thinks before the next time she posts something which is clearly racially offensive, and whether everyone else who reads this thread does the same. Beyond that, she can be as remorseful or not as she wants. Others want to change her mind as well, which would be lovely too. I don't see any need to pat her on the head for being graceless, but I don't see any baying mob, either.
 
 
Tom Coates
16:05 / 04.12.04
Can I just check something. This is all because some guy posts a comment about gypsies smelling of cabbage that he thinks is funny and heard on TV or something, and his apology doesn't quite cut the mustard? And I'm saying that after four pages of highly animated arguing about it including sniping in both directions, maybe we should back off a bit and see if anything that people have said might have sunk in. And you're claiming that this reaction is some form of appeasement - a word normally associated with Chamberlain's capitulation to Hitler!?! And you still don't think things have got out of hand?

There's more offensive stuff than that in pretty much any episode of Little Britain! The statement that carnies smell of cabbage is in Austin Powers. The Simpsons has gay and ethnic characters that are stereotyped no less heavily than this. People say that sometimes THe Simpsons shows idiots stereotyping to satirise them, but that still doesn't demonstrate unpleasant ongoing attitudes - people are allowed to self-satirise as well, to play roles and characters and to take the piss out of them. It may be clumsy, it may be stupid, we may stand up and fight against it, but every vaguely off-colour remark doesn't require a new monitoring regime or a tightening of board policy. Nor does it require four pages of increasingly vitriolic name-calling. It's just not helping.

The issue is serious and deserves to be treated seriously. But it also needs to be treated SOBERLY and I'm increasingly of the opinion that the conversation on this thread is no longer sober.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
20:02 / 04.12.04
Tom, as I said in that post, PN is not particularly the issue, just the example. As such, I don't think your understanding of what this is all about - This is all because some guy posts a comment about gypsies smelling of cabbage that he thinks is funny and heard on TV or something, and his apology doesn't quite cut the mustard? - is accurate.

I have made some suggestions about how we should react to "everyday" racism, sexism and homophobic language and statements on Barbelith. I would like to know what people think of them. If they are seen as a hysterical overreaction, that will become clear. However, the Policy is where people who have an interest in the running of Barbelith tend to gather, and so it seems a sensible place to discuss it. If you feel that this thread is hopelessly bad-tempered (and, actually, where it has not been trolled, it seems to me to have been quite polite), it may be worth moving to lock this thread and starting a new one asking specifically about the wisdom of those proposals, or any other proposals anyone else might have, or indeed the idea that we are fine as we are, which is a perfectly valid opinion, but not the only valid opinion.
 
 
Ganesh
20:08 / 04.12.04
There's more offensive stuff than that in pretty much any episode of Little Britain! The statement that carnies smell of cabbage is in Austin Powers. The Simpsons has gay and ethnic characters that are stereotyped no less heavily than this.

Sure, including Jewish stereotypes and occasional allusions to Jews running Hollywood and, hey, even the world. That also is something of a comedy trope, mined by Mel Brooks, Jon Ronson and others - yet (and I'm sorry I keep returning to this) a previous thread along those lines was deleted, and provoked an oddly similar Tom Coates 'I'm ashamed of you all' rant precisely because it was reckoned that insufficient objection had been raised. You were "fucking scandalised" that the question was even being asked.

If, Tom, you feel this thread's no longer rational, that's at least partly why. The clue's in the title. You have previously excoriated the board for underreacting to racism; we are now, it seems, overreacting.

Personally, I think you're more correct this time: there is a degree of overreaction (although I think it's worth pointing out that not all of us are reacting to the initial 'gypsies' comment). IMHO, the last 'look at yourselves' diatribe was an overreaction on your part, Tom. An overreaction which was, I suspect, influenced by individuals contacting you to say they felt offended, and anxieties about our Google-spidering - but an overreaction nonetheless. I think it's an overreaction that's now causing problems, because it's set a sort of precedent.

Just my opinion. Please don't get upper-case on my arse.
 
 
w1rebaby
20:35 / 04.12.04
Well, I don't know. There *is* a difference between the Fetch's sustained anti-Semitism, which could not be argued with (if anyone thinks it would be practical to rationally argue with the Fetch on the subject I would like to politely disagree), and a throwaway comment made in a post that maybe indicates some sort of casual racism, or maybe a joke gone wrong. People quite frequently don't want to withdraw comments or show any sort of weakness online, even if challenged in a way they actually agree with, because to show weakness on the internets is death, at least that's how it usually works on most forums when you're a new poster.

I think it was fairly clear from the Fetch's posts both on Barbelith and elsewhere that s/he was quite determined to stay on the "Jews are occult conspirators" tack. On the other hand, I don't see any reason to ban someone because they make a remark that I consider offensive. Address, certainly, pursue, but until there's a definitive indication, roll eyes and let it be. When there is such an indication, ban and bin, but that takes either a while or some really clear evidence.
 
 
Tom Coates
22:08 / 04.12.04
I think Fridge has it - I don't see that it is particularly difficult to see evidence of a phase shift between clumsy humour gone wrong and sustained problems with someone peddling an anti-semitic agenda. I'm prepared to accept that the borders between what we should make our opinions known about and those things that might require banning aren't necessarily clear. And I'll also accept that - IIRC - part of the reason that I felt getting rid of Fetch (blurry memories here) was because a few members of the board had come to me and had VERY LONG CONVERSATIONS with me about whether we thought it was appropriate or not. I have one of the conversations still saved as an IM in which I explained that banning was a measure of last resort, that it sometimes did more harm than good, that people should be encouraged and persuaded to hold different views etc. etc. In return a cogent and well-supported argument was made that the comments were sustained and that there seemed more support on the board than might have been appropriate for them and that the poster in question was nervous of replying on the grounds that they might be attacked for being Jewish as a result. As the member had come to enjoy Barbelith a great deal, s/he was very uncomfortable about the possible consequences of participating and had stayed silent, instead talking to me. If I recall correctly (and I may not), I allowed the situation to progress for a while until it became intolerable and I felt compelled to ban the person involved.

I'm not going to say outright that this was definitely the appropriate response, it felt right at the time, it fitted with my understanding of our position on harrassment and discriminatory abuse (one that we've had for a LONG TIME - back to when we were trying to work out how comfortble we were deleting tire-ironing black people posts from you-know-who) and it hasn't kept me asleep at night. That it doesn't provide absolutely clear and precise borders that we can all conform to easily is because people and language and potential impact / damage are all things that have to be assessed by people and can't be easily reduced to a formula. In this situation, I'm asking you guys to do the same as I asked the Jewish posters to do last time. If it doesn't work, then banning might be a legitimate option. I would like us to give it that chance.

I should also point out that we've used these tactics dozens of times before and the result has been that we finally banned many of our most annoying trolls without throwing the baby out with the bathwater. Modzero, Fetch even you-know-who all got warnings, opportunities to change and relatively easy get outs that they could have taken if they'd wanted to.
 
 
sleazenation
23:46 / 04.12.04
I'm a bit concerned about the inplication of Fridge's assertion that some posters, particularly newbies, would attempt to defend the indefensible statements in the face of any and all criticism and this is something that should be pandered to, allowing those posters to 'save face', go away and think again.

Cheifly, I'm concerned that the same 'face saving space' could be misconstrued by the initial poster and any other readers as tacit approval for whatever the initial poster has posted. I would be concerned that 'face saving space' will only serve to inspire both the initial poster and any passing like-minded individuals to post more of the same successfully lowering the standard of debate across the board as a whole.

I appreciate that this is a fine balencing act, and that less snarky, more rigerously thought-out posts should be pursued by *everyone*, but, as i say, I am concerned.
 
 
Lord Morgue
00:25 / 05.12.04
"Other people's posts don't just help you to contribute meaningfully to the thread - they also contain useful and fascinating information."

like

"Haus, you manufactured this entire situation."

You're not acting like a mod. This is what a troll does.

However, as I feel I have right to defend myself, as long as you keep bringing my name up (and deliberately misspelling it) I will continue to respond. I'm certainly not doing this for Psinurse, who I feel is a garden-variety idiot and not the raving nazi you paint hir to be.
This is about you climbing to the top of Barbelith and swinging your dick around like a caveman. The Nurse was just a convenient excuse. And while normally I respond to racism with violence, I feel absolutely no guilt for not joining in on your little boot party, as you hilariously suggest I should.
Now, as neither of us are prepared by temperament to climb down and stop swinging our dicks around, I suggest we agree that we are both mighty warriors and stop the cockfight before one of us has an orgasm.
AND DELETE MY MOTHERFUCKING DRUNKEN RANT IN PRIVILEDGE, YOU SMUG BASTARD!
 
 
Ganesh
00:36 / 05.12.04
There *is* a difference between the Fetch's sustained anti-Semitism, which could not be argued with (if anyone thinks it would be practical to rationally argue with the Fetch on the subject I would like to politely disagree), and a throwaway comment made in a post that maybe indicates some sort of casual racism, or maybe a joke gone wrong.

Well, apologies again if I misunderstand the situation (this was a period during which I was rarely attuned to Barbelith); is the Fetch the same individual as RaelianAutopsy? I didn't think the latter's thread necessarily constituted "sustained anti-Semitism" but hey, I could well be wrong - especially if I'm not up on the fictionsuits involved, and their respective histories.

However, I must admit that, personally, I find "casual racism" - the stuff that might readily slip under one's rader - almost more worthy of comment. It's certainly more insidious. If it's an open question in a discursive context then, to my mind, it's at least being discussed - and refuted on grounds of evidence. I kinda feel that allowing space to talk about these notions gives us the space to show why they're insupportable. Inserting casual racism in the guise of throwaway humour is, to my mind, more insidious and harder to challenge, as any comeback sounds killjoy.

I may very well be mistaken, though.
 
 
Ganesh
01:13 / 05.12.04
I think Fridge has it - I don't see that it is particularly difficult to see evidence of a phase shift between clumsy humour gone wrong and sustained problems with someone peddling an anti-semitic agenda.

I disagree. I think it is difficult to define those borders - and I think you dodge the issue by claiming otherwise. But then, as I say, I'm not especially aware of the individuals behind the suits. If the Fetch (the same person as RaelianAutopsy?) has previously peddled frankly anti-Semitic material, then I daresay I could see the grounds for deleting his thread.

I'm prepared to accept that the borders between what we should make our opinions known about and those things that might require banning aren't necessarily clear. And I'll also accept that - IIRC - part of the reason that I felt getting rid of Fetch (blurry memories here) was because a few members of the board had come to me and had VERY LONG CONVERSATIONS with me about whether we thought it was appropriate or not. I have one of the conversations still saved as an IM in which I explained that banning was a measure of last resort, that it sometimes did more harm than good, that people should be encouraged and persuaded to hold different views etc. etc. In return a cogent and well-supported argument was made that the comments were sustained and that there seemed more support on the board than might have been appropriate for them and that the poster in question was nervous of replying on the grounds that they might be attacked for being Jewish as a result. As the member had come to enjoy Barbelith a great deal, s/he was very uncomfortable about the possible consequences of participating and had stayed silent, instead talking to me. If I recall correctly (and I may not), I allowed the situation to progress for a while until it became intolerable and I felt compelled to ban the person involved.

All intriguing enough, but rather non-specific. I'm assuming your decisions were based on the supposition that a) RaelianAutopsy and the Fetch were the same person, and b) that person was affirmedly, determinedly anti-Semitic.

it fitted with my understanding of our position on harrassment and discriminatory abuse (one that we've had for a LONG TIME - back to when we were trying to work out how comfortble we were deleting tire-ironing black people posts from you-know-who) and it hasn't kept me asleep at night. That it doesn't provide absolutely clear and precise borders that we can all conform to easily is because people and language and potential impact / damage are all things that have to be assessed by people and can't be easily reduced to a formula.

Indeed. Which begs the question, what makes this situation fundamentally different from the 'Do Jews Run The World' example? Is it more acceptable to be racist if it's casual/humorous (as opposed to sustainedly discursive)? Is the 'assessing factor' the context within which the trope has previously appeared - 'The Simpsons'? Is it the fact that no gypsies have complained directly? Is it the fact that we knew RaelianAutopsy so well that we could tell with 100% certainty that his thread was going to become offensively anti-Semitic?

I think these are legitimate questions to ask.

In this situation, I'm asking you guys to do the same as I asked the Jewish posters to do last time. If it doesn't work, then banning might be a legitimate option. I would like us to give it that chance.

What did you ask Jewish posters to do last time, Tom?

I should also point out that we've used these tactics dozens of times before and the result has been that we finally banned many of our most annoying trolls without throwing the baby out with the bathwater. Modzero, Fetch even you-know-who all got warnings, opportunities to change and relatively easy get outs that they could have taken if they'd wanted to.

As I say, I'm not terribly au fait with the fictionsuit names. If the Fetch has a sustained history of offensive anti-Semitism, then I can appreciate the reasons for wanting to nip him in the bud (although I can't necessarily see why a thread asking a particular question merits deletion and mass excoriation, if that particular thread has not yet become openly anti-Semitic). If we're operating along the lines of 'X is anti-whatever; any threads they start will eventually become anti-whatever', then you might want to consider deleting any threads ModZero has started in his current fictionsuit - on the grounds that they might, at some point, become frankly offensive. You might also want to consider a more aggressive policy toward obvious Knodge-suits.

I think you're being inconsistent, Tom. I think you're being inconsistent and unfairly excoriating the rest of us as a result. I don't think we deserved your 'I'm fucking scandalised by your bullshit' rant after the 'Do Jews Run The World' thread, and I don't think we deserve your current 'this particular example of racism is much less racist than the last one' rant. As well as being inconsistent, it's fucking patronising. I appreciate that this is your board, but I don't believe that necessarily gives you the right to act this way and expect everyone to anticipate your whims. You may filter racism in a particularly idiosyncratic way, but that doesn't mean the rest of us are mind-readers. What you do and don't find "fucking scandalous" isn't always immediately apparent to those of us without telempathic abilities.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
01:26 / 05.12.04
Ganesh: Nope - raelianautopsy was somebody else entirely. The Fetch started a bunch of threads in the Temple, and was eventually bounced for anti-Semitism, failure to engage with the Board and generally having a profoundly dubious agenda - in fact, he was partly banned on the strength of anti-Semitic and homophobic posts he made elsewhere on the Internet, which suggested that he was inserting the thin end of a wedge - see here. The subsequent "do the Jews rule the World?" thread was a spin-off, which revealed that some of our more enthusiastic conspiracy theorists were happy to treat the Holocaust as just another conspiracy theory, which Tom felt crossed a line, but a thread-killing line rather than a suit-banning line. I was personally glad that the holocaust deniers were being mocked and challenged, but there certainly were a fair few of them and the thread was certainly pretty tooth-grinding. I don't see a problem with Holocaust denial being something that we simply do not allow on Barbelith, if only because the people who are likely to leave because of such a prohibition are unlikely to be missed. I do see your point, but I do think it is much easier to draw a line - if somebody says "hey, let's discuss whether the Holocaust actually happened", one can simply say "Let's not". A throwaway comment about syphillitic Indians, the xenophobic Japanese or the baby-killing Bengalis of old Whitechapel town in an ongoing thread is a trickier proposition.

Morque: who I feel is a garden-variety idiot and not the raving nazi you paint hir to be.

If you read the thread, you will find this to be a contemptible misrepresentation of my position. Other people's posts don't just help you to contribute meaningfully to the thread - they also contain useful and fascinating information.

I'm a bit concerned about the implication of Fridge's assertion that some posters, particularly newbies, would attempt to defend the indefensible statements in the face of any and all criticism and this is something that should be pandered to, allowing those posters to 'save face', go away and think again.

Honestly, I don't feel that it is any duty of Barbelith's to provide a safe space for prejudice, whether that prejudice is expressed through bad jokes or holocaust denial. However, there is clearly a material difference between the two, and it is useful to have a way of differentiating them. Also, there is no point in simply generating flamewars, which are not only no fun to watch or participate in, but also disruptive to the quality of Barbelith. Hence, among other things, my suggestion that a thread in the Policy would allow people to check whether the gag about stinky gypsies, say, was a one-off or part of a set of behaviours by that suit, just as a standard form of words asking a member to think more carefully about what they have just said and what it has achieved does not seem to me either an unrealistic request or a sure-fire invitation to people to become aggressive: it is providing that easy way out that Tom has mentioned - all you have to do to stop being identified as behaving like a racist is to stop behaving like a racist, in essence, which should actually not be very difficult. The presence of a statement below such a comment making it clear that board policy is not to allow language or statements that perform as acts of harassment to board members go unchallenged helps to avoid the problem both of the perception of tacit approval and the turd-in-the-living-room issue I raised waaaay back in the first post of this thread.

Incidentally, on TV shows:

There's more offensive stuff than that in pretty much any episode of Little Britain! The statement that carnies smell of cabbage is in Austin Powers. The Simpsons has gay and ethnic characters that are stereotyped no less heavily than this.

Well, maybe so. However, Barbelith is not a television programme, and functions differently. Let's say that Little Britain introduces a comic Indian/Gay/Whatever character. Let us say, further, that an Indian/Gay/Whatever viewer, seeing this, decides that, although they enjoy a lot of Little Britain's humour, this particular portrayal is upsetting to them, and they don't feel it is, on balance, enjoyable to watch anymore. So, they stop watching it. That doesn't actually change Little Britain at all - it's a broadcast medium, and if one audience member stops being an audience member it doesn't have any immediate effect on the show, just as turning off a single tap does not have any profound effect on water.

Now, let's look at the case of Barbelith. Let us assume for a moment that, as a result of unchallenged "jokes" - like that banging Indians makes your cock drop off, say, or that Gypsies smell of cabbage - any one of a number of posters who actively and reliably contribute value to Barbelith decide that, although they enjoy a lot of Barbelith, the prevalence of this kind of racially-motivated "humour" is making it something they no longer wish to be involved in - just like our Jewish member with the Fetch and the Holocaust conspiracy theorists. That immediately impacts negatively on the quality of Barbelith, because Barbelith is not a one-way broadcast but the ongoing creation of its members. This strikes me as contrary to the aim of Barbelith given in the wiki as:

to create an online space where the standard of conversation, discussion and debate is higher than anywhere else online

So, I think different considerations apply.


Annnyway - it seems that Tom thinks that tempers are running high. Personally, as I say, apart from a couple of people trolling the thread everyone seems to have gotten on pretty well despite not necessarily agreeing. However, is it worth locking this one and maybe starting new threads to address specific bits of it, like, as I suggested above, a form of words for asking people to consider their statements and funnee comments without inciting confrontation? Or just locking this one and them moving to reopen it in a day or two, as a colling-off period?
 
 
Lord Morgue
06:29 / 05.12.04
Y'know, Haus, I'd like to believe you're the grown-up here, but there's that little thing of you still calling me "Morque", which shows exactly where your head is at when it comes to moderating behaviour v.s. trolling behaviour. Still trying to get a rise out of me? You put your cock back in your loincloth first, Caveboy.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
08:19 / 05.12.04
Behave like an adult and I will treat you like an adult. If you are seriously saying that if I start calling you "Lord Morgue" you will stop rotting threads, trolling for attention, generally behaving as if to "reach its potential" Barbelith should behave like an anime porn forum (plenty of flaming, no attention to thread contents, 200x500 GIFs to go with every suit name), and demanding that the rest of Barbelith changes to suit your lowest common denominator, then I am Morguing the night away. However, mighty warriors and cavemen are not in it. You are a minor annoyance, I am one of the people charged with dealing with it. Genuinely that simple.

Now, please stop trying to rot this thread. I know that flamewars are easier to handle than concepts. That is why we have the Conversation. If you want to raise a genuine and meaningful complaint against me, gather evidence, compose some sort of coherent argument and start a new thread. You have, it seems clear, nothing worthwhile to add to this one.
 
 
w1rebaby
09:49 / 05.12.04
I'm a bit concerned about the inplication of Fridge's assertion that some posters, particularly newbies, would attempt to defend the indefensible statements in the face of any and all criticism and this is something that should be pandered to, allowing those posters to 'save face', go away and think again.

That wasn't really what I was trying to say - rather, that the fact that someone gets defensive and possibly attacks back when challenged isn't necessarily an indication that they are some sort of relentless and hopeless troll, facist etc. It's what people often do when new to a board, particularly if, shall we say, robustly challenged, even if they actually realise they made a mistake in phrasing or tone or whatever and wish they'd never said whatever it was in the first place. So it's something to bear in mind when making judgements as to what they might do in the future.

(Not making any specific judgements about the issue in question here, this is a general point.)

In fact, pretty similar to what Tom said in the first three paragraphs of this post.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
10:50 / 05.12.04
That wasn't really what I was trying to say - rather, that the fact that someone gets defensive and possibly attacks back when challenged isn't necessarily an indication that they are some sort of relentless and hopeless troll, facist etc. It's what people often do when new to a board, particularly if, shall we say, robustly challenged, even if they actually realise they made a mistake in phrasing or tone or whatever and wish they'd never said whatever it was in the first place. So it's something to bear in mind when making judgements as to what they might do in the future.

Agreed, and I think that's another polarity - it's unthinking to whack up something about syphillitic Indians without wondering whether it might a) not be funny and b) be offensive, but, to quote Deva, "you're being racist" needn't mean that you have something as incurable as syphillis - it might mean that you have something as unpleasant as having a bogey dangling out of your nose - wipe it off and move on. But it is also unthinking in most circumstances to barrel in with the shouting, at least at once. Calling somebody a racist is likely to make them shut down (hands up, I was shocked and angry that PN had been so stupid and that the other posters to the thread had been so complacent, and my immediate response was not entirely productive). Hence the suggestion that we work out a way of telling people that, regardless of whether or not there are racist (or whatever), what they have just posted makes it look as if they might be, and that Barbelith is a safe space for racism (or whatever), and could they have a think about it/would they mind if it was edited or moved for deletion. It would be useful to have a form of words for the Wiki, in lieu of a proper code of conduct, also, as/and a guide to how moderators and board members are advised to deal with this kind of issue.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
16:23 / 05.12.04
(Imagine this bit in a stern voice)
Haus- FFS. Call him Lord Morgue. It's about as amusing as the whole Greg/Grant Morrison thing. Grow up.

Tom Coates Can I just check something. This is all because some guy posts a comment about gypsies smelling of cabbage that he thinks is funny and heard on TV or something, and his apology doesn't quite cut the mustard?

(Imagine this bit in a voice alternately amused and surprised)
What apology? You mean this one? Or this one? Or were you thinking of this one, redolent as it is with the whiff of 'I can say what I like about fucking gyppos because I is black'?

So, we engage with and ridicule the anti-Semite, and you complain, we ridicule the rascist and you complain? If anyone is talking of banning, it's only because you opened that door. Please tell us, O Tom, which are the bad people we must shun as unclean? Which are the minorities it's okay to joke about on Barbelith? If we can find someone on here with gypsy foreberes to write you a long PM about how they feel PN's actions makes them feel Barbelith is unsafe for them, would that do? I'm afraid you made this particular mess.
 
 
sleazenation
17:29 / 05.12.04
that the fact that someone gets defensive and possibly attacks back when challenged isn't necessarily an indication that they are some sort of relentless and hopeless troll, facist etc.

I didn't think I was saying that 'defensive' actions are an indication of a hopeless troll per se - but I do think that accepting a 'defensive response' reprisent a lowering of accepted and acceptable behaviour on barbelith which may well have a detrimental effect on the level of of debate.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
18:40 / 05.12.04
Flowers: I'd suggest you calm down a bit. I already pointed out that Tom's understanding of the thread was off. To be honest, PN's apology or otherwise is a side issue. PN is trolling this thread, and should not distract us too long from the question of the thread, which is how to deal with racism and other assorted -isms. Do you have any thoughts about my proposed steps?

(Also, Greg Morrison is *hilarious*, and deep down you know it)
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
21:27 / 05.12.04
I'm quite calm on this, I even pointed out that fact because I *didn't* want to misunderstood as being shouty, thankyewvermuch.
 
 
Tom Coates
23:28 / 05.12.04
Look guys, I agree with you all - the apologies aren't really very convincing. The guy's behaving badly and now Lord Morgue appears to be using my attempt to cool down the debate as some form of encouragement to riot. Quite how he managed to interpret things that way is unclear to me, but hey.

I get the feeling that the problem with this one is less to do with the specifics of racism in this case, but that we didn't go into enough public detail about the Fetch situation when the anti-semitic stuff came up. I wish I could remember it all more clearly, to be honest. If this one was the situation where the guy concerned was all over the internet writing conspiratorial propaganda and holocaust denial stuff though, then I should probably have explained that stuff to the board more fully before banning him.

I'll accept that my tone in this thread (and in the anti-semitic one) hasn't been particularly helpful. In the first case it was probably the result of having more information than everyone else. In this last case, probably it's the result of having less. Can I just ask people to remember that whether I want it or not, when these situations turn up it's normally my role to think about protecting the greater community rather than to go for the obvious fights. Because I control the software I am effectively too powerful to let myself just react as I would if I didn't have to think about other people's opinions and beliefs. So normally - as in this case - I appeal for people to back off, calm down a bit and come back to stuff later if necessary. I personally feel that there are very few situations that can't be helped by this kind of tactic. This doesn't mean that I'm pro-racist taunts or pro-people-not-apologising or pro-troll by any means though. As I said earlier, one of the main reasons I think we should give people the benefit of the doubt and a way out of arguments when they spring up like this is to see whether or not they have been cornered by their own stupidity into a situation they can't get out of (even though they'd like to) or whether they're quite happy where they are and will continue to troll and fight regardless. If they're systematic rather than stupid then I think they deserve a banning. If they make dumb comments like these people have, then I think we should shout at them, ridicule them, make them look dumb. And then when we've made our point, back off for a bit and see if their stupidity is evidence of a systematised prejudice or not.

I hope that's a better explanation of where I'm coming from on this stuff, and I hope that the tone is slightly less patronising and stroppy. Sometimes the role I find myself in around here is more of a burden than on other times, and that can come through in the way I sound. Sorry.
 
 
grim reader
00:11 / 14.12.04
i read things like this by Anna de Logardiere:

I think it's pretty clear that gypsies get all kinds of shit from people all the time, it's perfectly acceptable within middle class British society to generalise their race, their culture and to accuse them of smelling of cabbage. I put up with that nonsense a lot when I was 17, mostly from ignorant middle class boys who thought that one dumped sofa was a reason to perpetuate a bias against an entire group of people. I don't want to hear that anymore. You said something that was racist, it was racist because you ascribed a negative characteristic to an entire race.

aaaaanhd i just want to shout 'FUCK OFF!!!FUUUCKK OFFFF! FUUUCCCCKC OFFFFFFFFFR!' and i know i can here because its alrite to call Psionicnurse writings 'turd that's been dumped in the thread', a 'fuckwitted piece of bigoted shit', 'dickheaded ignorance' ...for an innocuous remark involving stereotypes of gypsies in comics? i mean, fuck.

Phyrephox talks sense: non-american characters in the Marvel Universe are often portrayed in an extremely stereotypical manner

the girl was only trying to engage with some comic buddies, and here Tannhauser gleefully remarks: 'I said in the Comic Books thread that you were not worth trying to engage with.' Am i understanding this right? you're gloating about dissing her in the comic book threads that she hangs out in with her mates? What a cunt.

while Ganesh assures Psionurse, 'Not everyone contributing to this thread is keen to 'vilify' you; some of us don't give two shits about you either way, but are interested in the more general issue. Incredibly, it's not always about you', this jarrs with the personal nature of the opening salvo...but by now you're too busy watching your explosive masturbatory intellectual fireworks to worry about the feelings of an offended member.

Haus says: yeah, PsionicNurse is hopefully provincial rather than hateful. She does live somewhere sufficiently off the trade routes that she probably doesn't encounter much heterogeneous culture. I've posted some links in the thread, since i doubt she will follow the discussion here.

this is way more offensive than the gypsy remark you twat with cosmopolitan pretentions
not to mention someone being so condescending as to recommend holocaust articles from the guardian ...

rite-on qalyn %-%, i think you've made some real insightful comments on here that i would be far too impatient to formulate to this pile of bastards... Also, Tom Coates is a wise man, ex cept he wussed out to you guys toward the end there
 
 
Tom Coates
07:11 / 14.12.04
Hm. Having read your last message, can I just please ask that you stop being on my side? I see absolutely no value whatsoever in calling people names just because you don't agree with them. It seems only designed to start another bloody shouting match.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
08:12 / 14.12.04
Am i understanding this right?

No.

However, it sounds to me like you're probably a troll anyway, so I wouldn't worry. Your first actions in - what? - a year or so have been to post two links to Andrew's weblog and to abuse me and Ganesh. If it looks like and smells like...
 
 
Z. deScathach
08:33 / 14.12.04
What apology? You mean this one? Or this one? Or were you thinking of this one, redolent as it is with the whiff of 'I can say what I like about fucking gyppos because I is black'?

"I is black?" Does this not show an attitude and belief that the average person of color doesn't know proper grammar? Is this not a racist comment? There, that should be good for another 10 pages and 250 posts! Truthfully, I stayed out of this until this thread came back up like a water-logged corpse. This is REDICULOUS. I've been on a number of boards and I've never seen such a tempest in a teapot. Has anyone here thought about how negative an endless flamewar about a foolish racist slip-up is towards people's impressions about us? Lady Has Lost All Hope's comment should show just how EASY it is to make such a comment... and one more thing, why on earth doesn't someone LOCK THIS THREAD? Otherwise, my pointing out the racist overtones of Lady Has Lost All Hope's comment really WILL cause 10 more pages of comment, and 250 more posts, causing anyone who google's the damn thing to not come to Barbelith. Overcome with guilt at causing the demise of the forum that I so love, I will walk out into the frozen tundra in which I live, strip naked and freeze to death, to be found by sexists,who will say, "Why the hell didn't she keep her clothes on?!"
 
 
Z. deScathach
08:40 / 14.12.04
to be found by sexists,who will say, "Why the hell didn't she keep her clothes on?!"

awww shoot........another 200 posts.......
 
  

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