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Gypsy Lantern
09:59 / 25.03.08
Beta testing is going well. Designer is currently working on a visual look and feel for the place. Once that is sorted out, it won't be far off opening its doors.
 
 
Gypsy Lantern
14:46 / 15.04.08
 
 
Gypsy Lantern
14:47 / 15.04.08
Getting there...
 
 
Imaginary Mongoose Solutions
01:55 / 16.04.08
Looking forward to it more and more.
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
20:05 / 16.04.08
Wow.
First day here and I stumble upon this thread... Crazy. In the past month I had an easier time securing a place in Taylor Elwood's upcoming anthology...
I'm very interested in seeing where Liminal Nation goes, especially since I joined barbelith for some "magickal insights"... Perhaps one day I may be able to contribute to LN, as well.
I see a lot of people sick of Barbelith: As a newbie, I find it fascinating to see how it's grown from an Invisibles discussion... What a strange road.
If things seem claustrophobic, or stagnant, it's because it's a huge site. It's overwhelming to new blood. Cliques seem to have been formed, it's not easy to jump right in...
Luckily I have no problem scattering my 2 cents all over... Never know who may find it usefull.
As I've said: LN sounds very interesting. And while I agree with the zero tolerance of haters in principal, I would be cautious: Sometimes racism, sexism, etc... is, or can be a part of the road on the way to enlightenment. These ugly things should not merely be squelched: Pretending they're not there is not helpful. Ignorance breeds ignorance, and if those magicians of a darker notion never come in contact with the light, well... But then again, it's going to be your board, and if you've experienced that kind of crap too much in the past, well you've certainly got the right to want to avoid it. I'm a relative web-virgin, in the past more a lurker than contributor...
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
20:24 / 16.04.08
Hi freektemple! Welcome aboard.

Sometimes racism, sexism, etc... is, or can be a part of the road on the way to enlightenment.

Ooh, I beg to differ on that one, mate. I mean, when you're on any magical path worthy of the name, you will be brought face to face with all of your issues, including those kinds of prejudices. That said, I do not think that these prejudices need to be tolerated or pandered to. Personally I find it very valuable to have a space where I'm not expected to conform to a particular set of behaviours or magical practices just on account of my gender, or expected to "just ignore it" if I get harrassed, and so on. I want similar freedoms for people from other groups too.

I'd also argue that prejudice and being a crap magician seem to go hand in hand. If you're not prepared to examine your attitudes deeply enough that you no longer blindly accept stereotypes, you are unlikely to be able to embrace the kind of flexibility in outlook that a healthy, functioning magician really needs.
 
 
pacha perplexa
20:38 / 16.04.08
Beautiful logo, beautiful drawing, great colours! I could eat it!
 
 
Blue Eyes Not Innocent
22:35 / 16.04.08
Wow, I'm going to echo all the other newbs in saying "dammit, I came here for the Temple and everybody's jumping ship!". I hope you guys aren't going for good, but maybe it's not that bad a thing that you guys get to move on to your own place; I kno it can get annoying seeing the same topics rehashed even though to a lot of us, they'll be all new.

I hope you guys don't leave for good, though; it'd be nice to have a couple wise old sages around the joint.

Now, as for racism and sexism in an environment, I don't think they should be tolerated, but I have this thing against squelching them right from the get-go. It's a very fine balancing act; on the one hand you end up with a nanny state for a board, which isn't really conducive to discussion because everyone is too busy walking on eggshells to discuss anything controversial. On the other hand, absolute tolerance for every bad behavior creates an environment where people just assume that bad behavior is acceptable(I've seen it in real life and online).

So, yeah, having now rambled enough on this, good luck with Liminal Nation; I'm sure I'll lurk around there when it opens to the public. And freektemple, congratulations on getting into Ellwood's anthology.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
22:44 / 16.04.08
I think having spaces with a definate anti-hate stance is really, really important. There's a terrific amount of unexamined prejudice in modern magical thought (and thusly plenty of places to express it unchallenged), so setting up a few basic ground rules such that ill-conceived bigotry does not get a free ride is hardly a repressive move.

Unless you're actually up to your knees in one of the affected groups, it's hard to see the virtue at first. From my perspective finding an anti-hate space is less like snuggling comfortably down into Nanny's capacious lap, and more like ducking into a doorway to wipe off my glasses and take a nip from the hip-flask before going back out into the storm. Creating an anti-hate space does not mean hiding from anything controversial, it means looking at the issues head-on and being prepared to call people on their shit. Stepping up. Making a stand.
 
 
Blue Eyes Not Innocent
23:08 / 16.04.08
I can see your point there, man, I'm just saying that in the past I've seen spaces that were set up with an anti-hate stance devolve into a place where nothing was challenged and very little was permitted. Not saying it's like that with LN, or will be, just that it's a potential pitfall that I've seen too many things fall into.

I know the feeling, by the way, though I don't really want to say why at the moment, and I'm not saying "hey, let's sling hate around without even looking at it and trying to figure out why we feel or think this"; I think self-examination is important. I much prefer your idea for an anti-hate space(i.e., calling people on the carpet for their shit) than the "bury your head in the sand" idea that I've seen implemented before.
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
00:54 / 17.04.08
TI*M*H - I agree, a magician should face all his/her issues, and while those with prejudices tend to be crap magicians, there are those who are bred prejudiced, or products of their time: Take Dion Fortune... Her quabbalic insights outweigh her racist leanings. Hell, most all those magickians from turn-of-the-century Imperial England were plagued with racism and "English Superiority". Even when using eastern traditions, they turned down their noses at those same teachings, or westernized them. Orientalism, it seems, is only now turning and biting our asses... and it's our own fault.
I tend to agree with theSauce, that these *asses* need to be able to make their point and then be argued down, or be made to see the error of their ways, BEFORE squelching them. If they don't learn, and are repeat offenders, by all means, throw them out, don't just dismiss them off-hand out of ignorance. The zero tolerance idea seems... facist. Kinda like a law student never being allowed to take the bar because they were caught once with a joint. Bad analogy, but I think you know what I'm getting at. Judging someone outright is a bad idea. I know if I had some stupid thoughts in my head, and I started posting them only to have my posts ignored and removed, I'd most likely just end up with one more prejudice. Maybe there is a percieved reason for my stupidity, however misguided...
Nazi punks need to be told the error of their ways before being told to fuck off. If that doesn't work, then by all means, squash them.
 
 
electric monk
03:53 / 17.04.08
Godwin!
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
06:24 / 17.04.08
Sorry, but I just don't see the problem with telling the Nazi punks to fuck off. If there's a clear TOC stating that no racism, sexism etc. will be permitted, and people choose to ignore that, it's their problem.

Not buying the argument about Dion Fortune et al's racist attitudes. Just because some mages writing 60 years ago or more had racist or otherwise dodgy beliefs, we have to put up with that forever? Don't think so. We have to be able to critically evaluate the works of people like Fortune, building on the good stuff and consigning the rest to the dustbin of history.

I get what you're saying about the benefits of educating people, but there's a trade-off there between the possibility of educating the one guy who's throwing around ethnic slurs, and the possibility of losing all the people who'll take off if he's allowed to continue unchecked. We hear a lot about the "rights" and "needs" of people who post abusively to online communities and how banning is going to have a negative impact on them and so on, but what about the people on the sharp end? What about their rights? What about the long-term effects on them? Don't forget that these are not abstract concepts we're tossing around. They're real-world issues with a demonstrable and serious negative effect on living people.

You can argue that it's "just words on a screen" but words have power and emotional weight. If you let one person run around spouting off about how (eg) women are merely vessels for the Divine Current and that's why they're not as good at magic, women and their allies are going to end up leaving your board. If you let people run around claiming that gay people are inherently unspiritual and subhuman, you will lose your queer contributors and their allies.

There are literally thousands of places on the net where you can make biased and bigoted comments and get your back slapped and your hand shaken. There are precious few spaces for high-quality magical discourse free of bigotry or sexist assumptions.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
08:04 / 17.04.08
But I'm veering off-topic a bit here. Some past threads that might be of interest:

Sexism in magic

Magical spaces and cultural signifiers

There's also some useful work on the subject in the Head Shop.
 
 
Quantum
08:09 / 17.04.08
made to see the error of their ways, BEFORE squelching them.

I disagree. Someone else can educate them, that's not my responsibility. I want to have a conversation without wanting to tear out my eyes with other people who agree hatespeech is bad.
 
 
Quantum
08:09 / 17.04.08
Yeah, what mordant says.
 
 
Gypsy Lantern
10:09 / 17.04.08
made to see the error of their ways, BEFORE squelching them.

I would imagine that any racist/ sexist/ homophobic fuckwit who turns up spouting vile ideas on LN will have no shortage of people stepping up to challenge those ideas with some eloquence and hard criticism ahead of any banning. That's just how these things tend to pan out. I know I certainly like to tell a fuckwit exactly why they are a fuckwit before flushing them away, and I can't see myself shirking my "educational responsibilities" in that regard any time soon. The only difference is that LN will actually have a facility to ban people when moderators feel that action is required - unlike on barbelith, where moderators have insufficient powers for managing a board of this size and scope.

However, you might like to think of LN as a nightclub with a dress code. We're positioning it somewhere between message board and online magazine, in that it is a discussion board but it has a clear editorial policy on what is expected from contributors. If you are going to apply for a log-in and start contributing content to LN, there are certain "submissions guidelines" that need to be taken into account. Anything which significantly transgresses these guidelines could be considered inappropriate content and grounds for moderator action. This is no more "fascist" or "repressive" than the editorial policy of any other newspaper, magazine or journal that strives to produce good content and uphold certain editorial principles regarding what it does and does not publish.

Liminal Nation's editorial policy can be simply expressed in three points:

1. An approach to the discussion of magic that is rooted in direct personal experience and/or a reasonable level of academic rigour.

2. A collective investment in interrogating one's practice and one's beliefs about that practice through peer discussion.

3. A zero tolerance policy on hatespeech, racism, sexism, genderism, etc.

These are the terms of the board, and they are in place in order to encourage a certain level and quality of intelligent discourse around the theory and practice of magic, religion and spirituality. They are not random or arbitrary decrees, but have developed directly out of the frankly hard-won culture of the Barbelith temple forum. This place has, frighteningly, almost been going for ten years now - and in that time, it's become fairly clear what is conducive to good discussion and what isn't. The idea behind LN is to create a space that takes these principles as its starting point, rather than as something that constantly has to be fought for and defended on a regular basis.

If you have a serious issue with any of this, go somewhere else. Liminal Nation may not be the place for you. There are plenty of other spaces on the internet where anyone can come along and post whatever mad racist bugfuck crazy shit they like. LN is attempting to do something a bit different. If this sort of editorial policy bothers you, nothing is stopping you from starting your own board that functions along lines that you would be more comfortable adhering to. If you would prefer an environment where hatespeech is aggressively challenged but where moderators lack the ability to ban problematic posters when they consider it appropriate... well... you're already here. Enjoy.
 
 
Quantum
10:54 / 17.04.08
As you can see, freektemple & thesauce, we don't share the view that giving -ists a second chance is the best way. Fuck 'em, frankly, we've had more than our fair share and they always go the same way.
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
11:48 / 17.04.08
All valid, all fair.
As I've mentionned, I've never been regular enough on any board to seriously be affected by hatespeech. I guess also being a white male hetro North American I have never been hurt in the same way that others might. While my life has neither been sheltered nor privilaged, I can easily admit that I am sometimes insensitive because when a word does not seem to have the power to hurt me, I imagine it incapable of hurting others. I have had the luxury of being over-tolerant, because in the society into which I was born, I have never really been shit on. I have also always taken on the role of devil's advocate: Trying to see through the eyes of that which I'm not. Sometimes that turns me into a bit of an apologist... even on behalf of the "bad guys"... But I do become just as passionate arguing down an intolerant bastard. It's my dream to shatter all borders so people will see how much common ground we actually have, and it's hard to shatter borders when walls keep being built.
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
11:51 / 17.04.08
P.S. In enough time I might completely reverse opinions being crushed by the sheer numbers of fuckwads. I'm still newbie enough to see the world through rosy coloured glasses, and while I claim to be a jaded fuck, I'm really quite the innocent optimist. I haven't been fighting the fight as long as most of you seem to have been...
 
 
Closed for Business Time
11:57 / 17.04.08
Compared to a couple of other newbies we've had the displeasure of meeting lately, freektemple, you are a veritable fountain of common sense and sensibility. Now get to posting some meaty, juicy stuff!
 
 
Blue Eyes Not Innocent
12:26 / 17.04.08
As you can see, freektemple & thesauce, we don't share the view that giving -ists a second chance is the best way. Fuck 'em, frankly, we've had more than our fair share and they always go the same way.

Fair enough, man, I can see where you're coming from on this one; after awhile, dealing with the idiots is just way too stressful, and nobody likes a stressful board.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
12:49 / 17.04.08
I have also always taken on the role of devil's advocate: Trying to see through the eyes of that which I'm not.

Yeah, devil's-advocate can be a useful role to take, allowing people to road-test arguments and ideas. However, I notice that quite a few of the people I run into online who claim to be playing devil's advocate and seeing through other's eyes tend to be more comfortable putting themselves in the bigot's shoes, rather than those of the person on the recieving end of abuse and harrassment. Maybe taking a peek through a broader range of eyeballs could be profitable..?
 
 
Gypsy Lantern
12:55 / 17.04.08
I gave up playing Devil's Advocate myself right after I saw that terrible Pacino film of the same name - just on principle.
 
 
Spaniel
19:31 / 04.05.08
How's this going, then?
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
21:50 / 04.05.08
We've got a dartboard now, but the kettle's bust and we could do with a few more chairs.
 
 
Gypsy Lantern
08:23 / 06.05.08
Everything is extremely quiet on LN at the moment as we've got the decorators in. Once the final designs are in place and it is moved over to its new home on a different server, we'll be much closer to opening it up and publicising it properly.
 
 
kiafi
22:39 / 15.05.08
Figures that I get in to this forum right as half the people flee for greener pastures, damn. Eh, I'll just absorb much as I can from both places, once this new deal is started.

I would be very interested to see on the new site: More ways that practitioners can collaborate, have group workings, and have personal progress journals that can be private or public for criticism and support.

I.E - If I wanted to start a group working(in a thread), as defined by x rules, then people can apply and be accepted into the working, choose to make it all visible or private, etc. I think more structuring of daily practices and comparisons of our techniques are invaluable to interesting/effective discussion and results, and I see very little of that on Barbelith. Seems to be more general discussions about concepts rather than 'Hey guys, I did this crazy fucking Yogic thing the other day, here's how to do it to the best of my explanation, lets all try it daily for a week and post results.' <---- (I wish there was more of this here.)

My only worry about all of this is that there seems to be a sort of angry, defensive attitude regarding people's feelings getting hurt. I feel that racist/homophobic/personal criticisms and attacks are part of the human interaction and while they may very well be trite or sometimes non-conducive to intelligent discussion, it just sounds like you guys want to have a thought police to stamp down on the occasional 13 year old posting swastikas and lollercaust gifs. I mean some of us evoke gods and use sexual fluids for ridiculous purposes and act out death trances and people are really concerned about bro-dudes calling someone a fag? If a person turns out to be an asshole then you just probate them or ban them, or better yet just more tightly moderate and make more of an attempt to encourage healthy equals of comfort and tension and originality. Basically I just shiver whenever I hear the phrase 'Zero Tolerance'. That is a signifigant statement and rule to make.

If I make a post while I'm emotionally uncentered and I get torn apart, fucking good, I deserved it, and I'll learn from it. Harsh criticism can be loving.

I'm realizing this subject is a god awful black hole of semantics and other things that people have already said, but there's my initial response. This is making me optimistic, keep at it!
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
23:42 / 15.05.08
Good gravy, dude, haven't we just been over this? Look, I'm sorry if this comes off as harsh, but I'm getting a bit frazzled at this point.

I feel that racist/homophobic/personal criticisms and attacks are part of the human interaction

Would you please unpack that?

For one thing I don't see why you lump racism and homophobia in with personal criticism. It's possible to criticise someone without attacking hir race, gender, sexuality etc--in fact it's more effective to tackle the real problem than to go for cheap irrelevant hatespeech. There is a vast gulf of difference between being "torn apart" for " mak[ing] a post while ... emotionally uncentered" and being on the recieving end of racial abuse, homophobic abuse, sexism, or other harrassment.

For another, what do you mean "part of human interaction?" I'm perfectly capable of interacting with others without attacking their race, gender, or sexuality. In fact I don't know why I would ever want an interaction where I was "allowed" to attack someone's race, gender or sexuality since none of those things are any skin off my nose. I'd certainly agree that harrassment based on race, gender, sexuality, and having non-normitive spiritual beliefs are part of many people's experience, but this is something to be striven against online and off, not embraced and replicated for Heaven's sake.

it just sounds like you guys want to have a thought police to stamp down on the occasional 13 year old posting swastikas and lollercaust gifs.

Please rethink the over-emotive and prejudicial term "thought police." Nobody on LN is going to come round your house and shoot you in the back of the neck. We just want one tiny bloody corner of an internet filled with 13-year-old boys posting swastikas and lollercaust gifs in which to have a sane, rational discourse on topics of mutual interest, which would be better done sans swastikas, lollercaust gifs, and so on.

I mean some of us evoke gods and use sexual fluids for ridiculous purposes and act out death trances and people are really concerned about bro-dudes calling someone a fag?

I'm not sure who "us" is in this context, or indeed why using death trances or bodily fluids for any purpose, ridiculous or otherwise, robs one of the right to challenge homophobia and other forms of prejudice. This is a total non-sequiter. There is no equivalence between engaging in whatever weirdness your little heart desires alone or with consenting adult chums in the privacy of your own home, and engaging in hatespeech in a public or semi-public forum.

LN is a community for, and I quote: "[a] discussion of magic that is rooted in direct personal experience and/or a reasonable level of academic rigour ... A collective investment in interrogating one's practice and one's beliefs about that practice through peer discussion."

That is to say, you have to actually have some goddamn respect for your craft and other people's craft before you can play. If you are taking the position that magic is inherently irrational to the extent that anyone practicing it should essentially be removed from any form of rational philosophical or political discourse for good and forever, you have clearly come to the wrong shop. If you are taking the position that the only problem with calling someone a fag is that it's irrational, rather than offensive and likely to alienate contributors, you've still come to the wrong shop.

Yeah, people are really concerned about bro-dudes or anyone else chucking around hatespeech. No, people do not consider the inalienable right of 13-y/o-boys to post swastika gifs to have primacy over our right to hold one small space where as diverse a group as possible can have a reasonable discussion. No, people are not going to change their minds about that.

If you don't like it, /x/ is that way.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
00:10 / 16.05.08
...In closing, I would just like to quote GL again:

These are the terms of the board, and they are in place in order to encourage a certain level and quality of intelligent discourse around the theory and practice of magic, religion and spirituality. They are not random or arbitrary decrees, but have developed directly out of the frankly hard-won culture of the Barbelith temple forum. This place has, frighteningly, almost been going for ten years now - and in that time, it's become fairly clear what is conducive to good discussion and what isn't. The idea behind LN is to create a space that takes these principles as its starting point, rather than as something that constantly has to be fought for and defended on a regular basis.

Italics mine.
 
 
kiafi
01:45 / 16.05.08
Phew. Well this is what I meant by semantic black hole. Let me try and clarify.

To unpack: I feel that racist/homophobic/personal criticisms and attacks are part of the human interaction.

Just because I say that human interaction has parts of hatred, anger, judgement, racism, sexism; does not mean that I'm playing some arrogant nihilism card and that I feel we should just dismiss these issues and the intentions behind them. I think that all of these things are just... Stuff. Psycho-emotional fluff and remnants. People develop these feelings as a result of their experience, which is just as legitimate as yours, if not as noble.

I am not saying that these people should just be allowed to run free and spew angry ineffectual criticism, and I do understand the difference between intelligent discourse(progress) and hate fueled circular arguments that go nowhere. I appreciate that you have a 'frankly hard-won culture of the Barbelith temple forum', but being a super newbie I guess I just don't see whatever went down to create this seemingly hardcore stance on what is and isn't cool to say or do.

I retract (just like that, right?) my thought police statement, you are correct about it's implications and I was being sensationalist.

I'm not sure who "us" is in this context, or indeed why using death trances or bodily fluids for any purpose, ridiculous or otherwise, robs one of the right to challenge homophobia and other forms of prejudice. This is a total non-sequiter. There is no equivalence between engaging in whatever weirdness your little heart desires alone or with consenting adult chums in the privacy of your own home, and engaging in hatespeech in a public or semi-public forum.

This seems like I was just completely misunderstood. Robs one of the right to challenge? Huh? My (sensationalist) point was that many people in the temple are probably struggling with intense magical experience, godheads, trauma, pain, exodus, and in comparison there seems to be this big elephant in the room about making sure people's feelings don't get hurt? My argument is that proper moderation, good intention, and good example will do far more to eliminate negative attitudes and outbursts more than blanket terms like 'No tolerance policy', which is really the only reason I brought up the topic at all. I feel that things should always be judged case by case, always, and I am just making an observation that some of the people involved in this subject seem jaded about past experiences involving negative hate filled jabs directed at people. It's easy for me to come in and be an idealist, and perhaps I'm jaded and disaffected myself, but that's what I'm trying to say.

I would like to mention that you assume I do not show respect for other people's beliefs, which I never alluded to in any way. You also mention A collective investment in interrogating one's practice and one's beliefs about that practice through peer discussion, yet you seem to not want to examine your own beliefs on this subject, besides sticking to your solid, 'hard won' experiences.

If continued this will become thread rot, if you need to be convinced I'm not evil/want to send me links to show examples of negative, fucked up things that you made you all feel this way about the no tolerance subject, message me, I'm down.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
02:19 / 16.05.08
kiafi: Thanks for your response. I'm going to need a bit of sleep before I get back to you properly, but one quick point in the meantime: you seem to be conflating various different kinds of emotional distress here, most notably the distress felt by someone who has had an idea or intellectual position critiqued in strong terms, and the sense of offense experienced by someone who has been subjected to racial, sexual, gendered or other harrassment.

I think if you have a trawl around the archives, you'll soon see that "hurt feelings" aren't really something that the Temple is terribly careful of. Positions are attacked, cherished ideas and assumptions are torn into, models and concepts are critiqued with more or less vigour depending on the poster and the nature of the position. Have a look at some of the older threads, especially the ones on deity work and "energy" and you'll see what I mean. Yeah, it can smart to have your most darling concepts ripped to shreds, but it's done with the best of intent: to keep people's practices sane, healthy, and adaptable. A minor ding to the ego is generally deemed a small price to pay round here.

Contrast this with the experience of someone who is subjected to sexual, racial, or other forms of harrassment. First off, what is the aim there? To help the person pick up on some correctable error? To get them to recognise an unhealthy pattern of behaviour? Hel no, it's to make someone feel shitty just for being who and what they are. That's the only motivation and that's the only likely outcome. If I say to someone "look, I think the way you're applying the energy model to your practice is overly literal" or "why on Earth would you use a sigil working for that?" they might experience a stab of emotional discomfort, but my ultimate motivation respectful, the hoped-for outcome for that person is positive, and their response is likely to be further engagment.

If I instead chose to jump up and down yelling "Sigils, you stupid [insert slur]! God you [slurs] are so fucking dumb," they'll ignore the "maybe a sigil isn't the best thing to use" part of the message, respond with hostility and probably leave the forum. Why? Because instead of critiquing their ideas, I've attacked them. I've gone after some core part of who they are--and given the nature of the society we live in, that core part probably comes under attack enough and to spare as it is.

And no, I know you're not evil. I think you've got some ideas that need challenging, is all. Given your stance on "feelings," I hoped you'd be up for that.
 
 
EmberLeo
07:07 / 16.05.08
I feel that things should always be judged case by case

Of course they will be. Mordant is describing where the line is drawn. Figuring out which instances constitute crossing that line can't be anything other than case-by-case.

Perhaps I should point out that I have been on the receiving end of a well considered and polite, but insistent conversation that I analyze prejudices I may have (in this case the topic was my use of the word "Mundane"). Since our conversation was conceptual, not personal, and I was willing to listen and consider, I was not simply rejected out of hand. But then I hadn't actually specifically confronted anybody else on the forum with a bunch of ad hominem attacks.

This is not, fundamentally, an environment where racist, sexist, or other non-spiritually specific -isms are the topic of choice for analysis. But if somebody comes with assumptions in the background of what is otherwise their seriously considered magical or spiritual practice, and doesn't attack anybody with hate speech, they're unlikely to get tossed out of hand. But they are very likely to have their -isms critically considered.

In other words, we're not set against people having unpopular thoughts - as long as we can have a constructive conversation. We're set against specific negative and disruptive behaviors.

Do you see the difference?

Mordant, Gypsy, have I got the right idea here?

--Ember--
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
09:06 / 16.05.08
This seems like I was just completely misunderstood. Robs one of the right to challenge? Huh? My (sensationalist) point was that many people in the temple are probably struggling with intense magical experience, godheads, trauma, pain, exodus, and in comparison there seems to be this big elephant in the room about making sure people's feelings don't get hurt?

Then I'm afraid your point was a bit badly expressed, because you didn't talk about "people's feelings being hurt," but about people using homophobic slurs.

I've struggled with some pretty intense magical experiences myself, usually on top of whatever psychiatric or neurolgical shit was hitting my personal fan at the time, and whilst I might not always have conducted myself as I would wish I certainly didn't use the experience as an excuse to start wantonly abusing other people with hatespeech. If people happen to get hurt by an honest description of my experiences as I interpret them I would agree that's kind of their problem, but that's different to using hatespeech. Is that a bit clearer?
 
 
Gypsy Lantern
09:40 / 16.05.08
Take a glance over my history of contributions to barbelith, and you'll see that "hurting people's feelings" is not really one of my overriding concerns when writing about magic. However, the house rules of Liminal Nation are: no sexist, racist, genderist, or homophobic abuse. If you don't like that, go somewhere else or open your own board where people can post up "funny" pictures of the suffering, bang on about the Jewish conspiracy, or tell us how female magicians can only ever be vessels for the male will. There are plenty of places on the internet where that sort of stuff is par for the course. Liminal Nation isn't one of them. I don't care whether you have a problem with that or not. It's not up for discussion.
 
  

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