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Jawsus-son Starship
14:41 / 23.04.06
Sorry, still confused. You seem to be saying that we would require an absolute 100% consensus from every poster who expressed an opinion on whether or not a poster was a misogyinst before banning waas acceptable, but racism or holocaust denial would not require such a consensus. I'm sure you're not trying to say that as it seems rather an odd position to espouse.

I really am quite rubbish today. Lets hope third times the charm.

With cases like racism or HD it is quite easy to see that these biggoted opinions are being brought into play - for example, when somone denies the holocaust, it is easy to see them do it, usually because they are saying that the holocaust didn't happen, or it was exagerated. However, with this case, I can argue that SS is not a misogynist, or that he doesn't hate women, because I have yet to see a statement where he says either of these things outright, or that I cannot give him the benefit of the doubt on (rightly or wrongly). Any insinuations he has made/been accused of making can be viewed as being the statements of a misogynist, but they cannot be enitrely proved - for example, it would have been dificult to ban zoemancer when he was arguing that David Irvin was a martyr for free speech. It was only posible when he finally drank the kool-aid and started to spout his theories about the holocaust.

Am I making sense yet?
 
 
Ganesh
14:41 / 23.04.06
He seems like he may be quite clever, and as such I hoped that as a quite clever person he might be able to view himself fairly, and make resonable responses.

Me too. Sadly, cleverness does not automatically map onto self-insight.
 
 
eddie thirteen
14:49 / 23.04.06
Sorry, still confused. You seem to be saying that we would require an absolute 100% consensus from every poster who expressed an opinion on whether or not a poster was a misogyinst before banning waas acceptable, but racism or holocaust denial would not require such a consensus. I'm sure you're not trying to say that as it seems rather an odd position to espouse.

I'm not trying to put words in anyone's mouth, but I don't think it's an odd position at all. Leaving ShadowSax out of it for a minute here, Holocaust denial and the kind of racism I was talking about when I mentioned it as a zero tolerance issue are readily indentifiable by anyone -- someone who says "the Holocaust never happened" is definitely a Holocaust denier; someone who refers to an ethnic group by an unpleasant epithet is definitely a racist. Determining that such people are bad news should not require a vote of any kind, because the problem they pose should be clear to absolutely anyone.

Less blatant displays of prejudice probably require some analysis. Saying that doesn't in any way make misogyny a lesser offense -- someone who outright says "all women are whores" is a misogynist by any definition, and determining that should also not necessitate any discussion.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
15:11 / 23.04.06
But what if I were to come on Barbelith do something like...

I say "Well, I'm not a racist, I love ethnic group X, but here's a scientific study that proves that ethnic group X are less intelligent, more likely to cheat in exams, and get given free popcorm because they secretly control all the cinemas!" I am duly challenged and go on to try back up my assertion with facts and figures--but all my supporting evidence is derived from EthnicGroupXAreWasters.com and GroupXAteMyHamster.org. When other people offer me contradictory material I tell them they are misinformed and ignorant, and I counter with yet more material from EGXGetMorePopcorn.net. Every time people tell me, "You are biased against group X and you are a racist" I deny this forcefully, claiming that I have nothing against any ethnic group, not even group X, just the ones that hog the popcorn, and I'm definately not a racist...

...I'd still be a racist, yeah?
 
 
eddie thirteen
15:18 / 23.04.06
...I'd still be a racist, yeah?

I think you would be. I never said it would be a long discussion.
 
 
Spatula Clarke
15:22 / 23.04.06
Ganesh: With respect, E Randy, it's been 'dragged out' for one week which, in terms of the amount of time ShadowSax has been posting stuff that some people have found offensive, seems a small price to pay for properly gauging community opinion.

Not so much talking about this thread in isolation, G, as the whole SS affair. Talk of banning was originally brought up a while ago. And it's less about the period of time as the number of working hours that have been dedicated to the subject - there's a hell of a lot of pages devoted to SS's presence spread out through Policy, Switchboard and Conversation.

I disagree with you that his behaviour is "obviously trollish" (although this rather hinges on how one personally defines trolling)

Yeah, it does. He's not a troll in the same way as some we've had, but I still think his behaviour to date - with the possible exception of in this thread (which is impossible to take as anything other than evidence of a desire to stay here, for whatever reason, and not of a determination to change his behaviour in a broader sense) - has been trollish. Purposefully disruptive, single-issue posting designed to provoke a negative reaction from the board as a whole and with little concern for sticking to the real subject of a thread when he can twist it into something more to do with his one favourite subject. Getting a kick out of causing a fuss one in of the few arenas where he can legitimately call himself an under-represented minority. This is why he's here. The weight of his posts is, I think, fairly clear evidence that there's been no other reason for him wanting to be a member of the board.

I don't feel that anything which was previously clear-cut has become "blurred" through discussion, except in the sense that encouraging a wider cross-section of posters to comment has resulted in a wider, more nuanced, continuum of opinion.

The blurring is the way in which arguments that should not be a part of this discussion now are - the one that's foremost in my mind is the notion that we shouldn't allow one person to remain an active member of the board if their being here is driving certain other people away. I can't support that point of view at all, and yet by saying that I believe he should be banned, I can't help but be seen to be allying myself with it.

I'm also frustrated by what I see to be attempts to put some form of Barbelith Constitution together that defines not just acceptable posting behaviour, but also acceptable content - a formal set of policies which will include a list of things that can and cannot be talked about. Barbelith, imo, should not be a place where one set of political and social values is formally declared as the norm, or acceptable. Instead, that should be something that's made clear through the posts of its members. If somebody starts posting objectionable or offensive stuff, the community should take them to task *as* a community, not rely on a set of guidelines that it can point to without having to put any effort in. Banning should be something that's only done when the posts from the offending member

A) threaten the board's continued survival
B) are legally questionable
C) exhibit all the hallmarks of trollish behaviour - the fundamental one being a desire to disrupt discussion - and continue to do so for a significant period of time.

If the community attacks those posts as it should, the offending member will end up falling foul of one of the above guidelines and can be kicked as a result. But to discuss kicking somebody *only* because their opinions are offensive to other people here... well, it suggests to me that the community doesn't trust its own ability to deal with these posts effectively without formal and authoritative intervention.

I think you and I are generally in agreement on a lot of this stuff (if I've not fluffed all of the above and made it totally unintelligable, which I have to say is a very real possibility). I think he should only be banned if we're clear that he has no interest in being a member of the community for any reason other than causing a stir and furthering his own cause, not just because his opinions are, to be blunt, fucking stupid. I believe we have that evidence.
 
 
Ganesh
15:55 / 23.04.06
Not so much talking about this thread in isolation, G, as the whole SS affair. Talk of banning was originally brought up a while ago.

Yes, but as I've said, it was part of a general expression of anger/frustration rather than an explicit "ShadowSax ought be be banned because..." statement. It was expressed in a thread to which only part of the community was welcome to post, and several posters felt unable to state their views on the subject because they feared getting into a flamefest. "Talk of banning" needed fleshing out, via wider discussion, into an actual plan.

And it's less about the period of time as the number of working hours that have been dedicated to the subject - there's a hell of a lot of pages devoted to SS's presence spread out through Policy, Switchboard and Conversation.

You may feel negative about the number of "working hours", but I personally feel it's concentrated the discussion in terms of timescale and number of threads. In seven days, we've gauged the prevailing opinion of a significantly wider cross-section of posters than before and we are now moving towards a plan of action. If we'd done something like this earlier, the various Policy/Switchboard/Conversation threads might've been avoided, and discussion contained and further concentrated into one thread and one week.

Purposefully disruptive, single-issue posting designed to provoke a negative reaction from the board as a whole and with little concern for sticking to the real subject of a thread when he can twist it into something more to do with his one favourite subject. Getting a kick out of causing a fuss one in of the few arenas where he can legitimately call himself an under-represented minority. This is why he's here. The weight of his posts is, I think, fairly clear evidence that there's been no other reason for him wanting to be a member of the board.

I don't think it's "purposefully disruptive" and I don't think he's "getting a kick out of causing a fuss". I don't think any of his motivations are especially "clear", and talk about my reasons for thinking this in the Psychology of Trolling thread. I take your point that what you and Mordant refer to as "single issue trolling" is still trolling, but I think that point's an arguable one. I think we also have to be careful about ascribing 'one size fits all' motivations to individuals whose motivations we cannot ever truly know.

The blurring is the way in which arguments that should not be a part of this discussion now are - the one that's foremost in my mind is the notion that we shouldn't allow one person to remain an active member of the board if their being here is driving certain other people away. I can't support that point of view at all, and yet by saying that I believe he should be banned, I can't help but be seen to be allying myself with it.

Why shouldn't those arguments be part of the discussion? If they aren't discussed, then we run the risk of their being tacitly accepted. I see this thread as a range of opinions rather than "allying" camps, and don't see the problem with those opinions being stated. I'd see more of a problem if decisions with strong precedent were made without them being stated. For what it's worth, I'm in entire agreement with you on the people-threatening-to-leave thing, and am happy to make the same point.

I'm also frustrated by what I see to be attempts to put some form of Barbelith Constitution together that defines not just acceptable posting behaviour, but also acceptable content - a formal set of policies which will include a list of things that can and cannot be talked about. Barbelith, imo, should not be a place where one set of political and social values is formally declared as the norm, or acceptable. Instead, that should be something that's made clear through the posts of its members. If somebody starts posting objectionable or offensive stuff, the community should take them to task *as* a community, not rely on a set of guidelines that it can point to without having to put any effort in. Banning should be something that's only done when the posts from the offending member

A) threaten the board's continued survival
B) are legally questionable
C) exhibit all the hallmarks of trollish behvaiour and continue to do so for a significant period of time.


That's fine, and broadly I agree with it. I think "all the hallmarks of trollish behaviour" is up for grabs, as well as "for a significant period of time". The latter, in particular, would seem to rub up against your earlier suggestion that this has all gone on too long, and should've been tackled long ago. Defining "trollish behaviour" and the length of time which is "significant" would appear to require discussion, if we're to avoid the sort of "Barbelith Constitution" to which you refer. Isn't that discussion what's happening here? I don't think we're trying to set out concrete rules on content - I'm not, anyway - but attempting to establish some sort of working framework for deciding, as a group, whether individuals who are perceived by some to exhibit "all the hallmarks of trollish behaviour" ought to be banned from the board.

If the community attacks those posts as it should, the offending member will end up falling foul of one of the above guidelines and can be kicked as a result. But to discuss kicking somebody *only* because their opinions are offensive to other people here... well, it suggests to me that the community doesn't trust its own ability to deal with these posts effectively without formal and authoritative intervention.

... which is why the community needs to have a discussion. I'm in agreement with you on all this, E Randy, but am finding myself confused as to why you seem to be saying this thread's added to the problem (apologies if this is not what you're saying). I think we share similar concerns about people being permanently banned on the grounds of some people finding their posts offensive; it's just that I rather see the problem being better addressed by having a wider discussion rather than not having that discussion. If we require a formal framework within which to have the discussion, so be it. I don't see that as threatening or especially problematic. Certainly no more problematic than the alternatives.

I think he should only be banned if we're clear that he has no interest in being a member of the community for any reason other than causing a stir and furthering his own cause, not just because his opinions are, to be blunt, fucking stupid. I believe we have that evidence.

I don't think we can be clear on those things, because we're not inside ShadowSax's head - and we're therefore obliged to infer the above from his posting. I don't think we are in any way certain of this, and I don't want to shoehorn his motivations, as I perceive them, into a conventional Attention-Seeking Troll box simply because it fits nicely with a general sense that he ought to be banned.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:11 / 23.04.06
I think I covered this before this thread was started. Yes, it is much harder to ban somebody for Holocaust Denial if they do not say "I don't think the Holocaust happened". In fact, zoemancer was suspended when he started the Head Shop thread on arguments from "a friend" for the Holocaust not happening, and only banned when he emailed Tom to clarify that, yes, this was actually what he believed. We don't really have an efficient mechanism for getting rid of people who don't make our lives easy like that - who make racist comments but deny being racists, or behave in a consistently sexist way but deny being sexist. This needn't be a bad thing, but it does force us to slog through threads like this and "What does constitute banning behaviour", working out what is to be tolerated, what subjected to social pressure, what moderated, what banned. However, I see no reason why whether somebody likes or dislikes a person needs to be assumed to be a motivation for them holding a viewpoint on this other than one's own.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
16:16 / 23.04.06
I'd certainly accept that we needed this thread, and that a few posts in the WFB thread would not be sufficient grounds for banning. I confess that at times I have felt extremely frustrated and angry at what's been said here because in my eyes ShadowSax's misogyny was pretty clear-cut. For this reason, I admit that at times I had a great deal of trouble not reading some posts as essentially misogyny apologism. To me, it often seemed as if there was this person on the board who was effectively an enemy--an apologist for violence against women (including sexual violence), a denier of the oppression of women, and someone who frequently seems to have far more empathy for the abusers than the abused (see, for example, "should fathers with a history of abuse have fewer rights in family court?") and that people were sort of blind to this.

I accept that I may be being unfair here, though, and I don't dispute that the people arguing against a ban were/are doing it for the right reasons. It's just been difficult to see posters, often people I like and respect, seeming to continually minimise the situation. It's felt like a huge struggle to get the message across; I don't know if that was just inevitable owing to the slight fuzziness of the case, or if I could have done more earlier on with a more coherent argument.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
16:29 / 23.04.06
OK, I still don't make sense, so I'm gonna say it one more time for the cheap seats, then if I still don't make sense, I'm gonna cut my tongue out.

Shadowsax is viewed as a misogynist by some. Misogyny = dislike. Misogyny = Ban. Therefore, dislike = ban.

So when I say I do believe that the majority of people who do want SS banned are saying so due to their dislike of SS, which I do not believe is a good enough reason for expulsion.


I should have said The majority of people who want SS banned are saying so due to the fact they view SS as a misogynist. As I don't think that this has been proven sufficently, I do not think it is a good enough reason for expulsion. When it is proven, put my name down in the ban camp.

There, that's better right?
 
 
Ganesh
16:33 / 23.04.06
It's just been difficult to see posters, often people I like and respect, seeming to continually minimise the situation. It's felt like a huge struggle to get the message across; I don't know if that was just inevitable owing to the slight fuzziness of the case, or if I could have done more earlier on with a more coherent argument.

Both, I'd say, but perhaps more so the latter. If, in future, people feel there is a particular "message" to be got across (and I'd see the situation more in terms of a range of opinions/perceptions which are all valid enough to be articulated and read), I'm hopeful that we might have established one way to do so.

Personally, I've been frustrated by seeing posters I like and respect seem to continually close down discussion, apparently seek to invalidate dissenting opinion and passive-aggressively spray their angry criticism at members of Barbelith who don't (in my opinion) deserve such treatment - rather than coherently address the situation. I'm pretty sure that's me being unfair, but I felt personally certain that this was more than a Game Of Two Halves, and wanted it to be handled in a nuanced way. I now feel it has been.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
16:36 / 23.04.06
Yeah, that makes more sense--although it's not what you initially said.

If you still don't feel that we've proved beyond reasonable doubt that ShadowSax has serious issues with women and has consistantly allowed those issues to colour the way he posts and has consistantly failed to engage with the board in a constructive way yet, can I ask what it might take to convince you? In all sincerity.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
16:38 / 23.04.06
(That last to Math, of course.)
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:38 / 23.04.06
Ah, right. So you never actually meant that people disliking him was relevant, only that some people believe that his behaviour justified a ban, and others do not, and that you are of the latter party? Fair enough.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:47 / 23.04.06
My post also to mathlete, although I'd like to put in a plea for the avoidance of the term "passive-aggressive".
 
 
Spatula Clarke
16:49 / 23.04.06
This needn't be a bad thing, but it does force us to slog through threads like this and "What does constitute banning behaviour", working out what is to be tolerated, what subjected to social pressure, what moderated, what banned.

But this is it - we never appear to learn anything that we can then take with us and apply to other cases. We have to go through the same slog every single time.

Ganehs: I think we also have to be careful about ascribing 'one size fits all' motivations to individuals whose motivations we cannot ever truly know.

I don't know that this is practical, though. It's definitely the responsible, intelligent thing to do, but I think we sort of *need* to look at it as a binary good/bad thing when we're talking about banning. It has to be boiled down to something that simple (and maybe that unfair) for us to reach a firm conclusion.

I guess I'm exhausted by Barbelith's inability to deal with trolling swiftly and decisively. SS could have been banned after his post in the SR thread, with trolling as the reason - that was the clearest example of him joining an ongoing thread in order to attack majority opinion on the board without any other concerns.

Why shouldn't those arguments be part of the discussion? If they aren't discussed, then we run the risk of their being tacitly accepted.

They're part of this discussion now, yeah, and that's allowed us to tackle them head-on. I'm disappointed and annoyed that they were ever raised in the first place, that anybody felt the need to say "well, if so-and-so's not posting here because of this, then that's a good enough reason to ban". I'm glad that we've been able to attack that argument, but I fear that it's going to set a precedent, regardless of our objection to it.

I think "all the hallmarks of trollish behaviour" is up for grabs

Agreed - there's a minor edit to that post in the queue where I try and shrink it down into oen simple identifying feature. I don't know if that's for this thread or the other one, though.

I'm in agreement with you on all this, E Randy, but am finding myself confused as to why you seem to be saying this thread's added to the problem (apologies if this is not what you're saying).

I just think that we've missed the opportunity to make it a nice, clean cut and we're now stuck with having to ban SS, whether you believe he should be banned or not. We've given ourselves no other option - if he stays we end up with derailed threads and a damaged image caused by yet another instance where we had to argue everything to death, and were seen to be lacking in any sort of consistent policy - and I would have much prefered for it to be a decision made because it was the right thing to do, not because we'd squeezed ourselves into a corner.
 
 
Ganesh
16:50 / 23.04.06
I'd like to put in a plea for the avoidance of the term "passive-aggressive".

I think it's applicable to the previous situation, but I'll avoid it if the term "misogyny apologist" can also be dropped.
 
 
Ganesh
17:09 / 23.04.06
But this is it - we never appear to learn anything that we can then take with us and apply to other cases. We have to go through the same slog every single time.

A week's worth of community-wide "slog" is, to my mind, preferable to months and years of circular agonising. That's how this slog differs from previous slogs: it's explicitly time-limited.

I don't know that this is practical, though. It's definitely the responsible, intelligent thing to do, but I think we sort of *need* to look at it as a binary good/bad thing when we're talking about banning. It has to be boiled down to something that simple (and maybe that unfair) for us to reach a firm conclusion.

The binary aspect would be the yes/no (and, I suppose, abstain - ruining the binary) response to the question, "should Poster X be banned?". I don't think we need further polarisation, especially if it's contingent upon assuming a particular behavioural motivation which may be inaccurate.

I guess I'm exhausted by Barbelith's inability to deal with trolling swiftly and decisively. SS could have been banned after his post in the SR thread, with trolling as the reason - that was the clearest example of him joining an ongoing thread in order to attack majority opinion on the board without any other concerns.

I guess I see a week's worth of discussion as 'swift and decisive' - certainly compared with the amount of time, effort and general angst lavished on previous disruptive individuals. Generally speaking, I don't see a single post as ever being sufficient reason to ban someone without discussion, and I have a problem with it being taken as representative of any more universal conscious intent to "attack majority opinion on the board without any other concerns". The fact that I hold a different view from you here indicates the need for wider discussion.

They're part of this discussion now, yeah, and that's allowed us to tackle them head-on. I'm disappointed and annoyed that they were ever raised in the first place, that anybody felt the need to say "well, if so-and-so's not posting here because of this, then that's a good enough reason to ban". I'm glad that we've been able to attack that argument, but I fear that it's going to set a precedent, regardless of our objection to it.

Other people frequently disappoint and annoy. I don't share your fatalism regarding "I'll leave unless Poster X is banned" becoming precedent, and I certainly don't think the fact that it's been tackled here necessarily makes that more likely to happen.

I just think that we've missed the opportunity to make it a nice, clean cut and we're now stuck with having to ban SS, whether you believe he should be banned or not. We've given ourselves no other option - if he stays we end up with derailed threads and a damaged image caused by yet another instance where we had to argue everything to death, and were seen to be lacking in any sort of consistent policy - and I would have much prefered for it to be a decision made because it was the right thing to do, not because we'd squeezed ourselves into a corner.

The problem with a "nice, clean cut" is that a) not everyone was/is of the opinion that that's what's required, so the "cut" would have been made on the basis of opinions expressed by a small number of people to Tom Coates. The same decision, made on the basis of opinions expressed by a much larger number of people to Tom Coates, would appear to be preferable, and has only cost us seven days of discussion.

I don't think we've squeezed ourselves into a corner. I think ShadowSax has squeezed himself into a corner. He had several opportunities to demonstrate some ability to self-reflect, consider the validity of others' opinions and sincerely apologise. This, if he'd managed it, might have got him out of that corner.

I can see why you might feel weary, E Randy, but it seems to me that you're saying the soliciting of a more representative cross-section of community opinion over seven days is more damaging than making a decision based on the articulated opinions of a much smaller subgroup. I strongly disagree.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
17:32 / 23.04.06
Mathlete Shadowsax is viewed as a misogynist by some. Misogyny = dislike. Misogyny = Ban. Therefore, dislike = ban.

Alternatively Tiger= 4 legs. Tiger= furry, therefore 4 legs=furry. But then what of the humble turtle?

So when I say I do believe that the majority of people who do want SS banned are saying so due to their dislike of SS, which I do not believe is a good enough reason for expulsion.

But why do you think that this majority of people dislike Shadowsax? What possibly could he have said or done to engender that dislike in people?

Claim that you're not explaining your position clearly if you want Math, claim that I'm misrepresenting your position if you like, but the next logical progression from your above statement is: "But ignoring all his misogyny and belittling of women, what has Shadowsax actually said that was offensive?" People have gotten angry because of what he's said! You're arguing that we should not ban him precisely because he was offensive! That is moronic.

I should have said The majority of people who want SS banned are saying so due to the fact they view SS as a misogynist. As I don't think that this has been proven sufficently, I do not think it is a good enough reason for expulsion. When it is proven, put my name down in the ban camp.

What proof do you consider sufficient? A photo of Shadowsax in an 'all women are bitches' T-Shirt signed 'Your ever-lovin', woman-hatin' Shadowsax. PS All women are bitches'?
 
 
Cherielabombe
17:35 / 23.04.06
Maths: I appreciate your attempts to quantify what you meant when you said that many Barbeloids were for banning simply because they didn’t like SS, as they didn’t like misogyny. But quite frankly, I think that oversimplifies what is actually a more complex situation.

I'm also frustrated by what I see to be attempts to put some form of Barbelith Constitution together that defines not just acceptable posting behaviour, but also acceptable content - a formal set of policies which will include a list of things that can and cannot be talked about. Barbelith, imo, should not be a place where one set of political and social values is formally declared as the norm, or acceptable

I agree with that, and that’s certainly why I was initially opposed to banning ShadowSax. I do think that, with ShadowSax, enough damage has been done, and enough ill will has been generated that it’s probably best for us to cut our losses and ban him, but like many of you I come to that position extremely reluctantly.

If any precedent is set from this, I hope it is that if/when we have a similar situation, it is taken on a case by case basis. That’s to say I’d rather that there NOT be clear-cut guidelines for banning. I realize that may mean a great lot of bandwidth expended in the future, but, outside of the case of actively malicious trolls a la the Knodge, I’d rather banning someone not be an easy or simple decision.
 
 
Ganesh
19:01 / 23.04.06
If any precedent is set from this, I hope it is that if/when we have a similar situation, it is taken on a case by case basis. That’s to say I’d rather that there NOT be clear-cut guidelines for banning.

Agreed. My objective in pushing for this particular experiment was not to establish clear-cut guidelines for banning but to establish a clear(ish)-cut framework for talking about banning. With minor exceptions (such as the return of old familiar trolls of yesteryear), I think it's vital to discuss things on an individual basis.
 
 
Tuna Ghost: Pratt knot hero
20:09 / 23.04.06
I can see why you might feel weary, E Randy, but it seems to me that you're saying the soliciting of a more representative cross-section of community opinion over seven days is more damaging than making a decision based on the articulated opinions of a much smaller subgroup.

Seems that way to me too.

I strongly disagree.

As do I.

I think the thread has accomplished just about everything it was supposed to, and within the pre-set time limit, so by my ruler its a success.
 
 
Ganesh
20:22 / 23.04.06
It also occurs to me that one other possible secondary benefit of discussing things more widely is that, if Poster X does get banned, he's aware that that's happened on the basis of everyone (or, at the very least, a reasonable proportion) feeling he should be banned. In the past, we've had persistent trolls returning to the board with a sense of terrible injustice, convinced that a tiny subset of Teh Barbelite has queered their pitch and, actually, the majority of the board really really liked them and wanted them to stay. The more posters are involved in one's banning, the harder it is to maintain this sort of I AM CENSORRED!1! self-justification - in theory, anyway.
 
 
netbanshee
21:12 / 23.04.06
Been playing catch-up here and wanted to give the whole thread the thorough reading it deserves so I could ingest it all and kick it around in my head properly. Phew!

I certainly appreciate the amount of work that everyone has placed here and I think that we are all collectively getting a better grasp on what Barbelith policy is and will be in regards to issues like these.

I can see the frustration that can be caused by not having a more direct way of dealing with issues like these but I agree with Ganesh (and others) that hashing incidents out like this on an individual basis is pretty much required. It would be great to save the energy expended here and put it into something more enjoyable (a rigorous bike ride comes to mind) but the bar is placed a bit higher here and that requires careful and thoughtful maintenance to continue.

As far as my opinion is concerned, I believe that a good case has been made for SS's banning. It's a reluctant "yay" since everything isn't clearly cut and placed into small packages but I recognize that it's not entirely possible anyway. I started to perceive some of the ideas being presented by the community as making it into the lad's head but unfortunately it's too little too late. Hopefully he can glean something from this experience and apply it to some other things. Hope springs eternal.

If anything, I think that beyond just obviously picking it up from the debate and conversation style that's present everywhere at Barbelith, it should be occasionally hammered home to newer people that engaging topics with other posters here should generally be careful and measured. Hell... this reminds me of the thread in convo that spoke of how many times we start replying or posting and just closing the browser window. All I can say is don't be afraid but certainly be prepared.

There's not much I'm adding here, but as time permits, I'll try my best to engage in some of the other policy discussions that are being reexamined and created in light of this incident.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
21:26 / 23.04.06
Things have jumped ahead a little since I've been down the pub. Ok;

If you still don't feel that we've proved beyond reasonable doubt that ShadowSax has serious issues with women and has consistantly allowed those issues to colour the way he posts and has consistantly failed to engage with the board in a constructive way yet, can I ask what it might take to convince you? In all sincerity.

I think this is the $60,000 question, and it's one I'm afraid I'm not capable of answering. Maybe due to the fact that I really enjoy it here on Barbelith that I feel that banning is such a major punishment that I don't want it handed out lightly. However, and this is not at all helpful, I'm sure I'd know what would suffice if I saw it.

although I'd like to put in a plea for the avoidance of the term "passive-aggressive"

Did you view my post as passive aggressive? If so, that was not my intention, and as such I'd like to say sorry - when I wrote it in my minds voice I sounded gentle and calm and occasionally funny.

Alternatively Tiger= 4 legs. Tiger= furry, therefore 4 legs=furry. But then what of the humble turtle?


Lady is crazy funny. Yeah, good point. Is it worrying that in my mind it's all that simple, that black and white?

But why do you think that this majority of people dislike Shadowsax?

I didn't actually say that the majority of people dislike Shadowsax, but I get your point. I think it's possible that the majority of people dislike me sometimes, though I don't feel I've done anything to create this situation. Shadowsax has, so fair point.

What proof do you consider sufficient? A photo of Shadowsax in an 'all women are bitches' T-Shirt signed 'Your ever-lovin', woman-hatin' Shadowsax. PS All women are bitches'?

Again, I'm ashen faced because I just don't know. His crime could be one of misunderstanding, though it looks less like that. Maybe i just love an underdog. Who knows. However, I think that it is unfortunate that his crime is misogyny, which can be the hardest to prove, and the one that offends and effects the most people. I'm also loathed to see a ban as I'm not sure it can be entirely proved in this case. In the same way that everybody is sure that shadowsax is a misogynist, is it not at all possible that there is a chance this might be down to misunderstanding? Probably not, but I'm sure that the true answer to this question lives at neither side of these poles, but somewhere near the centre. I guess when this is worked out, the question of his banning will also be answered.
 
 
Ganesh
21:40 / 23.04.06
In the same way that everybody is sure that shadowsax is a misogynist

I don't know that "everybody" has stated with certainty that ShadowSax is a misogynist, although large parts of this thread have been devoted to discussion of the (arguably - and convincingly argued) misogynist content of his posts. This could be down to "misunderstanding" (and ShadowSax himself opined that every single person who'd taken issue with him had likely failed to understand him and/or his humour and/or irony, etc.) but the more people who think otherwise, the less statistically likely it is that they've all simply misunderstood him.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
21:46 / 23.04.06
Claim that you're not explaining your position clearly if you want Math, claim that I'm misrepresenting your position if you like, but the next logical progression from your above statement is: "But ignoring all his misogyny and belittling of women, what has Shadowsax actually said that was offensive?" People have gotten angry because of what he's said! You're arguing that we should not ban him precisely because he was offensive! That is moronic.


Also, I think this is unfair. If someone wants to queery my statements, then that is fine, all I can do is try to explain myself again. If I again fail to do this, it is quite unfair to hold this against me. I am not ignoring his misogyny, but I am having a hard time finding all of it. The arguments of misogyny in the Duke thread I disagree with, and the F4J thread is now so long that I haven't had the time to entirely go through it, which leaves me ill-informed to make a complete assesment. This is why I have yet to say "He is a misogynist" or "He isn't", I have just said that I have yet to see something that shows me that SS is defiently 100% a miogynist.

In the past, you have expressed offense over things that I have posted. You may even believe I hate women because I referenced the word "poontang". This is your own opinion, and may not be one shared by everybody. As such, if someone offends you with something you find misogynistic, it may not be something someone else finds misogynistic. I am not defending a man's right to hate women, and I feel it is disingenuous to paint me as doing such, and I feel that this has happened on occasion when people have disagreed with this banning request. Please do not view my posts as such, as this was not my intention.

Also, I'm trying really hard to explain my ideas and feelings in a calm way, so bear with me if I'm a little confused in my thinking. It may take me SIX posts to get there, but I may eventually do just that.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
22:02 / 23.04.06
They're not "screams".
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
22:04 / 23.04.06
which leaves me ill-informed to make a complete assesment

I suggest that entry level for contributing to this thread is to read the threads it references, and then to read the thread itself, and then to read the thread again. Banning is, as you say, a very big step, and it deserves better consideration.
 
 
Olulabelle
22:04 / 23.04.06
I'd like to ask what the consensus of opinion appears to be regarding banning Shadowsax, because on reading this thread it currently seems to be a fairly evenly balanced divide and I should not like to have to call it.

Therer are people here who have agreed to a ban for a specific behaviour, but not for another, so presumably there will be a decision at some point on the bannable offence?

Currently Nina seems to have made the most acceptable and evidential case for banning SS. In one way this is worrying. It would be very easy for us to ban him for being a troll because we can ban him for that. This would mean though that we had not in effect made a decision about banning him for misogyny, and therefore perhaps would have not reached a consensus on whether or not we will ban people for this in the future.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
22:15 / 23.04.06
I think you can have a little from column A and a little from column B, Lula - that is, Shadowsax is trolling, and his trolling is driven by and aggravated by a compulsive need to register protest at what he sees as a failure to recognise the oppressive dominance of feminism and the unfair advantages this gives to women, which he is not prepared to substantiate in any way except repetition. This combination has a negative impact on Barbelith.
 
 
Ganesh
22:15 / 23.04.06
Therer are people here who have agreed to a ban for a specific behaviour, but not for another, so presumably there will be a decision at some point on the bannable offence?

If so, it'll presumably be Tom's decision, based at least in part on the community response expressed here and the PMs he's received in answer to his Conversation question.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
22:17 / 23.04.06
Banning is, as you say, a very big step, and it deserves better consideration.

But not all of us can so whole heartedly devote ourselves to the boards. Surely it is best to give my opinions as opposed to remain silent? I'm doing the best I can.

I notice also that neither Haus or Flyboy have really engaged with my post. I try and engage when someone critiques what or how I say something, maybe you guys could help me become the better poster that you, Haus, have sort to help me do in the past.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
22:20 / 23.04.06
They're not "screams of misogyny", Math. They're not "screams". They are arguments as to why what has been said by Shadowsax is misogynistic. I believe them to be very convincing, well-observed arguments. The fact that you call them "screams" is insulting and cheap, but not, at this stage, surprising.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
22:26 / 23.04.06
The fact that you call them "screams" is insulting and cheap, but not, at this stage, surprising.

I'm sorry that you feel this way flyboy, it was only one word, a word that you've really unpacked. I'll ask that "screams" is changed to "argument".
 
  

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