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OK, well, I've thought a lot about this issue, because like many in this thread have said, and as many of you do, I take the issue of banning someone from the Barb extremely seriously, and so I've been hesitant to post until I've had the time to fully enough read and re-read SS' post, and make it through the epic tome that this thread has become.
I'm very nervous about removing someone from the board simply because we disagree with hir views. Rather, I welcome a myriad of opinions to Barbelith and think that they make the board a richer place. It is clear that ShadowSax holds different opinions on feminism/misogyny/women than many of us Barbeloids, and that, I could live with.
However, in my opinion, ShadowSax' posts go beyond simply voicing a different opinion from the BarbeMajority or the Barbelite. Rather, he has repeatedly been consciously or unconsciously, offensive and disrespectful in his expression of those opinions, and to my mind many of his posts have quite clearly expressed misogynist views. (I'm happy to link to some examples if asked, but as plenty have been linked to in this thread already, for the moment I won't.)
The problem, as I see it, these views, coupled with many Barbeloids'(and I'm not even talking about the members who are so pissed off they're not contributing as they used to) impression of you, means that the effect of ShadowSax's presence in a thread tends to be some sort of derailment. The thread becomes more about ShadowSax (and Barbelith's collective opinion of hir) and less about what the thread was originally supposed to be about (thinking in particular of the Duke rape case thread). So to me, that's a negative to having ShadowSax remain on the board.
My opinion of ShadowSax's responses to this thread, with a view to the fact that approaching a thread which is about banning you in which many of the posters already want you gone could put you on the defensive, is that SS seems relatively unable to take these things on board. The most recent posts are promising, but taken with the "I was joking/haus is a dick/ganesh is uptight" response, coupled with his previous posting behavior (behavior that, judging from the Duke rape thread doesn't seem to be all that changed), I don't have much hope for a huge improvement.
And so, bearing these things in mind, I come down on the side of banning. BUT - banning forever?? I don't know about that. I am an optimist and I do believe people can grow and learn and change. So I would like to propose a ban with an opportunity to reapply after a certain period of time has passed (3 months? 6 months? 1 year?) - and the application would be subject to Barbelith approval. |
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