OK was going to start a new thread but bottled out as I decided not 'serious' enough - I'm after some advice in the partnership market.
My current situation is this: There is a girl currently asleep(?) in my bed who I quite "fancy" in more personality way than physical, she's a newish friend (more of a friend of a flatmate, also new friend) and I have no idea of her feelings towards me other than she obviously trusts me as she's slept in my double bed, with no touchy feely stuff, on several occasions.
I am, due to be visited tomorrow at work by a gorgeous untouchable work colleague who I've only met on a week long training course and had the massive hots for and shared some in depth drunken conversations, but didn't think she really felt the same way about me, until perhaps, some other (female) work colleagues told me on the way home from said course that they reckoned she had a "thing" for me, but then proceeded to take the piss heartily whenever her name was mentioned (oooh Nicola, you'd better be dressed to impress when she comes down etc...)
Also, there is my ex of 5 years good times, who has recently been in touch to tell me about her woe-begotten love live, which to be honest is similar to mine in the last few months since we split, and although has not said per-sae that she's interested, I get the feeling that she regrets the whole split thing.
And finally, there is the sophisticated older woman (by a massive 2 years) who has been involved in some drunked snogs and one highly awkward "date" experience, who I get on very well with on a regular e-mail basis, but doesn't seem that keen on meeting up again, although I can't be sure as she is very regularly in touch many times a day.
Now I know Barbalith is no Marjorie Doors lonely hearts type place, but I cannot think of anywhere else to turn as all my mates are too heavily involved one way or another (don't even get me started on my flatmate, who is on the 2nd of my mates but has tried it on, on one drunked occasion - which I gallantly refused-ish). Anyone got any suggestions based on the Ltd info supplied? - and quick as I need to sleep soon as the (one of) aforementioned Nicola will be in town tomorrow????? I know this is not really relevant, but guidance required, help Barbelith, you're my only hope |