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On gender - I didn't say that gender was (always, absolutely) biologically determined. I said it was a biologically valid category, which, i think, is subtly but importantly different.
I actually didn't believe that for the majority of my life - in fact, for quite a few years, i had a hell of a lot emotionally invested in believing that gender wasn't a real, biological category, but purely a sociological one, and that the concept of "brain gender" didn't exist - in short, i had the same sort of views on gender as the likes of Janice Raymond (except without so much of the trans-hate, but i a) didn't really understand what it was to be transsexual at all and b) the only motives i could possibly imagine for someone physically transitioning would be "misguided" sociopolitical ones).
Then a friend of mine, who has a biology degree, came out as a trans woman, and i ended up living with her, and we had an extremely long and deep series of conversations which drastically changed (and possibly even saved) my life (and who knows, maybe hers too), and i realised the huge wrongness of the gender-is-totally-sociological view, which, although it's an extremely attractive view, especially for those (like me) which don't identify with binary gender, utterly disregards and attempts to invalidate the life experience of those who do have biological gender, but due to accidents of biology have brains of a different biological gender to that of the hormone-producing parts of their bodies.
(Note that "biological gender" basically boils down to "a brain which requires female/male hormones to function without severe clinical depression, and which is programmed to include female/male genitalia in its body-plan", and has absolutely fuck all to do with what sort of clothes you like to wear, what sort of role you like to play in relationships or in society-in-general, or who you find attractive...)
There quite blatantly isn't anything remotely comparable with regard to "race", which is the point i was making. Apologies for assuming that everyone here was aware of, and agreed with, the above analysis of gender (and thereby for potentially looking like a gender-essentialist).
But I would remind you that your promised responses to the posts of myself and others, in that thread in which you compared Jay-Z to Skrewdriver, are still forthcoming.
Fuck, i totally forgot that thread. I've got a shitload on at the moment, including hopefully getting myself the permanent housing situation i've been lacking for the past several months, within the next couple of days. When that's sorted, i'll be in a much better place emotionally, and will probably feel able to get back to the large number of threads i've intended to get back to for a long time (altho the Ashley X one is probably going to be my priority, and will by itself probably take up so much of my intellectual and emotional energy that all the others may still have to wait quite a bit longer)... |
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