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Squirmelia
11:05 / 28.04.06
A quiz that only you can see with no questions, one question, or every question.
 
 
William Sack
11:58 / 28.04.06
Yes, Shrug, rural Devon is absolutely wonderful, though I would rather visit than live there. I have a teenage nephew and a pre-teen niece who are growing up there and will soon have to make the decision as to whether to become outdoorsy sportspeople or stoners. I believe there is no other option in the corner of south Devon they live in.
 
 
Ex
12:04 / 28.04.06
I'm splendid. Thanks for starting the thread, Seth, and all contributors.

I'm in a productive mood, which is fun, but now it means that I'm waiting on a lot of replies about submitted material. A little nerve-wracking, but who could be cross? All non-fiction things; I still haven't sent my teen novel to an agent, but want to do so by the end of next month.

I'm researching a Victorian sensation novel and I love it to bits. I may start a 'sensation' thread in books. It was the most popular/populist genre from about 1860 onwards for a couple of decades, and it's based in bigamy, murder and horsewhipping. My current heroine, when accused of a middling misdemeanour (bigamy, of course) instead of saying 'It's a fair cop, guv', pushes her accuser down a well. Class in a glass.

I've just finished teaching, which is always a bit wistful; because I'm part-time, I never know if I'll get any again next year. So that may be the last time I do it, which is annoying, because I'm getting good at it.
On the other hand, I'm very optimistic about a job that's just become available. If I get it, I will buy every single one of you a drink. Very small drink.

I'm also going for runs, which has again taught me the value of flexibility in self-image. As in, I don't think I'm the kind of person who enjoys 'going for runs', but I'm quite enjoying it. The park changes a little every time I go - if I miss a few days, the blossom tree that smells of honey has lost all its flowers, or the crocuses have vanished. So I must go often.
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
12:20 / 28.04.06
To be less doom than I was, today I am going to see my nephews. Which rocks. My sis and bro having twins>>my having nephews has been an enormous change of the last year, and almost entirely a thing of utter JOY.

I'd anticipated it being a thing of equal parts indifference and tedious family duty. NOT SO!

Haven't seen them for a month or so, and they're bound to have changed out of all recognition/be tearing apart my parents' house. Really excited.
 
 
Spaniel
12:31 / 28.04.06
It amazes me your sister has managed to cope.

I may be a twin, but the idea of having twins scares the shit out of me.
 
 
sibyline, beating Qalyn to a Q
14:26 / 28.04.06
yeah, i definitely want to keep this thread going. it makes me feel warm and fuzzy about barbelith, which doesn't always happen.

i got a pm yesterday about the "sex please!" thread that i started, with the person being annoyed about me "posturing" and "boasting," not just about that but it seemed to be a comment about my entire approach to barbelith so far.

i apologize to everyone here who has gotten that impression. i don't know why, but i seem to suck at making friends in online contexts. i'm fine in person, but the random overenthusiastic goofiness coupled with occasional moments of geeky academicness somehow doesn't translate online. i'm burying this here because i feel like this thread is nice and safe and warm and friendly like a baby blanket, so i feel like i can indulge in my self-pity without people interpreting it as a wanton act of attention-seeking desperation. wah!

aside from that, going out with an ex this weekend, and possibly getting involved again. this is new territory for me so not sure if i can handle it. but we got together at big crisis points in both our lives, and just maybe it might work out this time.
 
 
Seth
17:22 / 28.04.06
I'm also going for runs, which has again taught me the value of flexibility in self-image. As in, I don't think I'm the kind of person who enjoys 'going for runs', but I'm quite enjoying it.

I'm assuming you're not talking about diarrhoea?

Just come off shift and have the weekend off. Intrigued by the possibiity of actually going out in Southampton on a Friday night, an old friend has invited me out with a crew I used to be friends with in my school days. Will it actually happen? Who knows?

Enjoying a verse by Talib Kweli:

The real hip hop/try to test me you get stopped/why try?/you get caught up in the paparazzi like Princess Di

Goes quite well with another great line of his:

You think you're the shit/somebody in the wings will force you to quite/could be your crew, your clique or some random kid you smoked Buddha with
 
 
Mirror
17:35 / 28.04.06
I've barely seen the sun in the last few weeks, between working for money and working for my degree. I'll likely be spending the next four days and nights without getting out from in front of my computer at all.

When I picked trying to solve the problem of writing an AI system that can do lexical entailment for my semester project, I knew it was ambitious. I just didn't fully appreciate quite *how* ambitious. Note to self: don't automatically assume you can succeed where smart people have been failing for the past 50 years.
 
 
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21:25 / 28.04.06
Since the last time I checked in things have gone shitty, exhausting, and painful. Amazing how that happens.
 
 
Spaniel
21:31 / 28.04.06
I reckon we, as individuals, should only post to this thread occasionally, otherwise I think the magic is going to be lost.

Boboss pennorth.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
21:47 / 28.04.06
UPDATE!!!
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IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT!!!
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I think I've just swallowed some of my allergy spray. Now my throat feels weird.
 
 
astrojax69
23:00 / 28.04.06
are you ok??? not allergic to the spray, i hope! if you are have a seizure, i'd be calling for the ambulance while you have a voice...



aside from that, going out with an ex this weekend, and possibly getting involved again. this is new territory for me so not sure if i can handle it. but we got together at big crisis points in both our lives, and just maybe it might work out this time.

good luck sybiline. these things can be tricky, but you probably are more likely to be able to talk about things..?

just be sure to have fun, anyway!
 
 
Tim Tempest
18:00 / 29.04.06
I hope I'm not too late to join in on this excellent thread...I’ve been basically non-existent on Barbelith for a while...I’m mostly just swamped doing homework all the time, and trying to balance in a real life somewhere in there. I’m excited to graduate from High School, but am a little bit nervous about College/University/Wherever The Hell I Wind Up Next Year.

I am however enjoying my gym class to a VERY high degree: I am going paintballing next Wednesday, and in about a month we are going on an INTENSE camping trip: white water rafting, full-on tackle football (as in NOT soccer…(I felt the need to clarify)…), and a 40km biking trip through the fucking mountains. I’m trying to work out a lot lately, but homework is killing most of my time. I’m in talks with a gaming website about joining on as a staff writer, and am trying to branch out my musical interests a bit. As for magic...nothing in the past 2 months. Not a single sigil...nothing. I’m really in a point where I am stuck and really don’t know where to go with it. (Any help/ideas would be welcome…I’d love to do a group working, maybe launching a servitor or something...PM me, anyone, if you are interested in helping me out ).

And I turn 18 on May 30th, so that’s going to be badass. I don’t want it so much to go the bar/pubs as much as I want to be able to gain entry into local comedy clubs. Maybe someday I’ll even garner up enough courage, (probably in liquid form), to go up there and wing it myself.

But, I have to say it again because it is SO awesome:

I’m GRAAAADUATING FROM HIGH SCHOOL!!!
 
 
COG
16:32 / 30.04.06
I am freaking out slightly with fear and excitement. I've started the process of applying for jobs in Spain and the thought of possible interviews in foreign is giving me the wobblies. I'm a wobbly interviewee at the best of times. If nothing crops up in the next couple of months then I'm hoping to just up and leave anyway. I've set July as a deadline and my flatmate will be coordinating his life changes with mine, so it's starting to get more concrete by the day.

I'm excited because I know it's the right thing to do and that I'll enjoy life a lot more there. I lived there last year and it feels like a second home know. My Spanish will finally get to a good level and a new life will bloom before my eyes.

But....it will mean taking a hefty paycut (50% for the 2 jobs that I've applied for so far) and if I ever return to England, I can't imagine getting paid what I do now, for the job that I do now. Oh well, it's not about the money is it?
 
 
Jack Denfeld
16:35 / 30.04.06
Fucking A7 beats my AJ. So sick of this game.
 
 
Seth
00:08 / 02.05.06
For astrojax69 and anyone else who is interested, here is the Hunting Lodge = Party Band’s ZZ-Top cover for the tribute album. Never before has anyone been so upset about Waiting for a Bus. Hope you enjoy, it should be available via this link for the next week.
 
 
Suedey! SHOT FOR MEAT!
01:09 / 02.05.06
I am very sad please hug me.
 
 
Seth
01:14 / 02.05.06
Big bear hug. What's up old bean?
 
 
Suedey! SHOT FOR MEAT!
01:19 / 02.05.06
Ah, well, there's the thing! It's mainly some things to do with some stuff and bit of this and that. I'm fine, honest.

*convinces self*

Sorry, that wasn't particularly enlightening, was it?

But thank you for the manly bearosity.
 
 
Scrubb is on a downward spiral
11:27 / 02.05.06
Lovely thread, although a little late to the game. Rather long, this...

Things in Scrubbland suprisingly good, given that this was meant to be the year of DOOM, is actually turning into the year of “Good Lord, this is all rather pleasant”.

Workwise - In the final(ish) stages of writing up the bloody thesis. I moved from a one-bed flat in Big City to a shared house in Nice Seaside Town 3 months ago, and that was definitely a turn for the best. Housemates are lovely - like me, also final year PhD-ers. We’re all working in various aspects of socioeconomic theory but in different fields (them = anthropology, healthcare, South East Asia; me = technology, adult entertainment), so can have theory discussions in the kitchen at midnight. Writing up, although painful, bloody and confusing, is happening slowly - keep reminding myself to take it in short chunks rather than seeing the monstrosity in its entirity and wailing (the “eating the elephant” thing also gets repeated frequently). Have been doing lots of conferences and seminars which is both scary and exciting, and is also helping me realise my work is ok and valid. Mind you, I’m still living in fear of the annual department review in 3 weeks time. I’ve been kept grounded and informed by fellow academic chums, and also by the good folks over at Phinished.

Otherworkwise - Comic shop still going well, and having fun setting up a very exciting small press group and doing its launch exhibition with MacReady. Unexpectedly picked up a freelance technology journalist gig for a US syndicated news agency a few months ago too - very strange to be writing in a non-academic style and using words like “zippy” and “sluggish” instead of “problematise” and “engender”. These, plus teaching, should hopefully also see me through the next academic year when the funding gets pulled. If not, will also dance for pennies on the seafront. Very much sympathise with Kit-Kat’s scenario of “Too many THINGS! and not enough time...”, not least since I’m also involved in various bits and pieces of queer activism stuff.

Otherwise - good relationships, lovely mates, car that still runs and a spider called Wilbur in my bedroom (he’s hiding behind the printer and won’t be lured out). This bout of late sping weather is just bloody gorgeous, the South Downs are fab and there are bunny rabbits on campus. The only major squeaks on the horizon are the uncertainties of stuff after the autumn, but I’m trying to plan and prepare for that now rather than being caught on the sly when it happens.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
11:57 / 02.05.06
Ken Wilbur or Wilbur Smith?
 
 
Mistoffelees
13:14 / 02.05.06
Ken Wilbur

Aaarrgh! Déjà vu!
 
 
_pin
13:25 / 02.05.06
Seth! I keep hearing reports from kids who've not seen Hunting Lodge declare yr rep leads them to expect "retard disco".

Little flutters of pride. Every time.

So! Me! Yes! Today, I gave my dissertation away to bind (for those who want to know, I decared that Alasdair MacIntyre basically was Jurgen Habermas), and handed in my final politics essay and... yeh. It's all done. Now it's just revision for exams and actual exams, which is fine, because that's just getting drunk and talking too much. With your hand.

On the forward, I'm preparing myself for veganism, on the level of "the enviroment is stupid and someone needs to do something, and I've got time on my hands" and also some undefined, nebulous idea of having a meaningful relatioship with my food (my family's rather cheating idea of Catholic fasting prescriptions finally making me think- what if maybe I did something properly?). We'll see. Everyone I articuated that to so far didn't really seem to get why I would consider limiting myself to be a good thing.

Fried chicken and the stringiness of melted cheese, I loved you so.

Everyone who wants to drink on Thursday in Southampton will do so in the Hobbit! At 7! And you'll tell me, so I know!
 
 
Feverfew
16:01 / 03.05.06
Nice, Seth.

I still feel like I'm sat on the poolside dipping my feet in the water, here, but maybe I'm starting to find my bearings a little as time goes on.

It feels a little less strung out here, in my humblest opinion, than it has for a while, but there's still occasional oddities popping up to the surface that leave me wondering.

In real life, my work is cluttered, meaning that I'm having to spend day after day de-cluttering only for other people and circumstances to mess times and dates around again, which makes my working life interesting. Perhaps I am going against the flow of the Great Magnet.

Outside of my working life things are going strangely well, although for the last week or so I seem to be developing insomnia, which isn't so much fun, as I have ended up with some crackly mental static for the last few days, which makes de-cluttering that much harder.

I get the feeling that if I knew where I wanted to go in life, I'd have arrived a long time ago and now I'd be bored... So here I am!
 
 
Ender
06:16 / 05.05.06
Hello all, just /checking in/ I recently got married, and am honeymooning in Japan.

We dont have internet access, so I am typing away at the local internet cafe.

Japan is a strange and wonderful place full of small and wonderful people. I have noticed that the buildings are very well taken care of here. My wife says that it is becuase the japanese dont have open space to expand to when a location gets rundown.

Living in the US I have noticed that areas do get run down and people that can afford to build newer homes further away and the cycle continues.

It is nice to walk through streets of obviously older builings and see that they are well kept.

anyway, take care Barb, I will catch you all in a month when I get back to my home PC.
 
 
sibyline, beating Qalyn to a Q
15:32 / 17.07.06
[picking up this thread]

congrats on getting married ender!

how's everybody doing now?

i'm snazzy. leaving my 9-5 job for the joys of grad school in a week, dating someone really great (exclusively, for those of you who were following the mono/poly/etc. thread), and feeling really good about my novel in progress.
 
 
sibyline, beating Qalyn to a Q
15:34 / 17.07.06
what about now?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
15:38 / 17.07.06
Much the same as at 18:32 Barbelith time, really... bit older.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
15:48 / 17.07.06
Yeah, congratulations Ender. And good on ya sibyline. What's the course?

Me? Well, I woke up today to another bailiff's letter, and I'm still sadly waiting for a cheque from a copywriting job so I can use it for leverage to get a bank account. It's not all shite though, I've written a new tune (which I like), there's coffee in the house, and through my window the sky looks like Tony Hart's been lazy with his chalk strokes and couldn't be arsed to finish chalking over all that blue.

How's everyone else keeping?
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
15:57 / 17.07.06
Nice one Ender (would it be rude to ask who the best man was?), good on you Sibyline and good luck pw!

Me? Ah, same as ever. Finished work for the week, and off to Bug Jam at the weekend, so feeling pretty good, though with a strange sense of unease which I'll put down to my being a miserable git and try to ignore.

A good friend of mine is fucking off to Venezuela for ever in a couple of weeks, which makes me sad... but he gave me his "Mr T In Your Pocket" as a parting gift (apparently he's never seen such joy on the face of someone receiving a gift in his life. I'm 34 years old, you know), which has made me happy. I'm currently trying to figure out whether it can be used as a Sheena training aid. It would be so cool if I could get her to respond to "quit your jibber jabber" when I want her to stop barking, for example.

My poor sister's chugging her way through a lovely summer lost to chemotherapy, but seems to be coping alright- or at least alright enough to convince my mum to stop freaking out, which is almost as good. She's got until September, I think, when fingers crossed she gets the all clear and can get on with her life. She always sounds okay when I speak to her, but it's hard to tell cos she's REALLY good at sounding okay.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:02 / 17.07.06
(would it be rude to ask who the best man was?)

Come on, dude, you know who the best man is. And not just at the wedding, but in life. The. Best. Man.

Congratulations, Ender and Sib, and hope the cheque arrives soon, PW...
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:10 / 17.07.06
Oh, cock- forgot the main bit. I'm thinking of your sister, Stoats - my mother was diagnosed with cancer at the start of this year (you might have noticed I wasn't my usual adorably lovable self...), but she's in good shape now. Treatment's exhausting and stressful, but it is treatment...
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
16:19 / 17.07.06
Thanks, Haus and Stoat.

Haus, sorry to hear of your mother's illness, and I'm glad to hear she's doing OK now.

And Stoat, I pray everything goes well for your sister.

Best wishes to y'all.
 
 
sibyline, beating Qalyn to a Q
16:20 / 17.07.06
really sorry to hear about your sister stoatie... i hope she pulls through ok.

i'm doing a master of fine arts in fiction writing. time to write. time to write. yay.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
16:26 / 17.07.06
Huggles to your mum likewise, Haus.
 
  

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