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Questions and Answers - Part 3

 
  

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Liger Null
00:48 / 03.12.08
Now that I've got the DSL, I'd like to get some torrents of movies and such, but I'm confused about how this torrent thing works.

So, how does torrenting work? And how do I avoid such things as viruses and entertainment industry lawyers beating down my door to get at my hard drive?
 
 
pony
03:46 / 03.12.08
easy answer on a relatively modern computer (1 gig of ram or better, or at least 512kb) is to just download azureus and let it be your all in one download machine. not the best, but a very simple and affective start.

http://azureus.sourceforge.net/

after you start wanting more options than the basic piratebay/mininova/whatever stuff azureus pulls up, i'd recommend a demonoid account. i can send you an invite if you'd like.

in terms of hiding behind 9001 proxies so the law doesn't get you, i personally count on the statistical mobs of downloading popular stuff and the lack of legal teams of unpopular stuff to protect me. i also try to see musicians perform live and watch movies at theaters to keep my karma up. other people can prolly tell you more about properly using proxies or TOR or port-forwarding or whatever. they're all supposedly good things, but i'm never patient enough to properly set them up.
 
 
Liger Null
02:02 / 18.12.08
Ok, so I got a date-type thing on Saturday with this boy I've never met in person.

It's really weirding me out because he seems like pretty cool guy, and I would like to be friends, but I think he might be looking for a girlfriend or something and I don't want to be in a relationship right now or probably ever.

How do let him down easy if the subject comes up?
 
 
iamus
05:01 / 18.12.08
That would depend entirely on how the situation comes up, surely?
 
 
Automatic
07:54 / 18.12.08
How about;

"I'm sorry, I'm not looking for a relationship right now."
 
 
Triplets
08:55 / 18.12.08
"I am gay"
 
 
Liger Null
12:18 / 18.12.08
Good advice, though if I tell him I'm gay, he might try to hook me up with his sister or something.

Truly, I think I'm being melodramatic as usual, and I should just relax and have a good time.
 
 
grant
17:12 / 18.12.08
Exactly.

A few deep breaths, enjoy the company of an interesting person.
 
 
trouble at bill
17:21 / 18.12.08
I'd have thought if anyone formally asks you to be their partner on the first f2f meeting then you don't say anything, you just run like hell!
 
 
Jack Fear
19:40 / 18.12.08
(I'm pretty sure Nuke was channeling Homer Simpson there; it's a pretty funny line in its proper context, but not terribly helpful here, alas.)
 
 
Liger Null
19:45 / 18.12.08
Actually, I was thinking more in terms of Automatic's advice.

Honesty being the best policy and all.
 
 
Triplets
08:41 / 20.12.08
I'm pretty sure Nuke was channeling Homer Simpson there

True.

but not terribly helpful here, alas.

Also true.

Just have fun and see what comes up. It's possible you might be reading him wrong and, if not, if he's a cool dude he'll understand what you're not looking for.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
00:02 / 21.12.08
Is 'helpful' usually something you're interested in being, JF?

I doubt it - I haven't forgotten about that time, you know? About what you tried to do to me. I haven't forgotten about that, at all.

How dare you attempt to get me kicked into touch on Barbelith? You, of all people?

You, of all people.
 
 
Jack Fear
00:50 / 21.12.08
One need not possess the impulse towards helpfulness to decry the lack of it in the advice of others, Gran—just as one need not be a dancer oneself to snicker when the prima ballerina falls flat on her arse.
 
 
Liger Null
00:54 / 21.12.08
Erm, all righty.

I went on the date, and the guy is actually pretty cool. I told him about how I wasn't really into getting involved right now, and while he seemed a little disappointed (which was, admittedly, flattering) he understood.

So now I guess I've got a new friend.
 
 
Baroness von Lenska
08:38 / 21.12.08
Serious Question: Oh, what's the point?

Alternately: Is running headfirst toward a dream one knows is probably doomed to failure over and over throughout a lifetime noble or merely stupid? Is it wiser to cling to that ambition or to admit defeat and organize one's life to the best of one's ability?

Or: Say that there are two dreams, one ultimately impossible to achieve and the other mindbogglingly difficult given current resources; the impossible dream provides happiness, comfort, opportunity, recognition and rich and meaningful relationships, but the lifestyle carries a strain that can only be fought off so long. The difficult dream promises a life of solitude, loneliness, obscurity and so on, but is paired with a sense of completeness and satisfaction with one's work. It's assumed both are incompatible. How does one come to a decision between the two? Can a decision be reached, either by circumstance or will?

In Summary: Should I stay or should I go, oh?

And because I'm sure this post will appear far more melodramatic and vague--and far less clever and playful--later today, I may as well complete the spell by adding that I'm currently listening to Jóhann Jóhannsson's Fordlândia, an ear meltingly beautiful gift from a friend. Anyhow, off to the Youtube thread with me.
 
 
Liger Null
20:03 / 21.12.08
Baroness, you are me, and I claim my five pounds.
 
 
Tsuga
20:55 / 21.12.08
Oh, what's the point?
Keep on living, enjoy yourself when you can.
 
 
Baroness von Lenska
23:32 / 21.12.08
Good answer.

Liger, will you accept five pounds' worth of ice cream?
 
 
Liger Null
23:39 / 21.12.08
Hells yeah!!!
 
 
grant
16:32 / 22.12.08

So, Liger - will there be a second date? Even if it's not a date-date but more of a going out and doing something social?


Baronness: Noble, of course. Possibly also stupid, but generally better to try than not.
 
 
Liger Null
21:49 / 22.12.08
I thought there would be but now I'm not sure. We chatted again on IM last night and he mentioned something about cuddling and I pretty much repeated what I'd told him on Saturday. Then we talked about music for a while and he abruptly signed off and I haven't heard from him since. But it's only been a day, so who knows?
 
 
grant
15:10 / 23.12.08
IM and texting is really awful that way.

I generally avoid it for that reason.
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
15:25 / 23.12.08
I don't want to be in a relationship right now or probably ever.

This comment made me a bit sad. Did you mean never wanting to be in a relationship, ever, period, or just never with this particular person?

Either way, I'm sure you have reasons, but writing off relationships period! strikes me as kinda sad. If this is the case, can I pry a bit and ask why?
 
 
Liger Null
17:11 / 23.12.08
IM and texting is really awful that way.

All the popular kids are doing it, though. When in Rome, and all that.

Either way, I'm sure you have reasons, but writing off relationships period! strikes me as kinda sad. If this is the case, can I pry a bit and ask why?

I don't recall that I wrote off relationships period, though I may have made a mistake when I used such a general term as "relationship" to describe what I didn't want.

I enjoy meeting new people and hanging out with friends, but when you throw sex into the mix, the resulting drama and nonsense is usually more trouble than it's worth.
 
 
Liger Null
17:25 / 23.12.08
And could someone else please ask a completely unrelated question? I'd like to get off the spot now.

KTHXBAI
 
 
Jack Fear
17:33 / 23.12.08
I'm learning to play chess. Is there any adjective meaning "chess-related," in the same way that "numismatic" means "relating to coin-collecting" and "philatetic" means "related to postage stamps"?

Also, is Grandmaster Flash an actual grandmaster? And if not, is the World Chess Federation aware of it?
 
 
Blue Eyes Not Innocent
17:34 / 23.12.08
Okay, just for you Liger.

Is it weird that I went "awesome!" when my friend pointed out a few gray hairs at my temples? Or weirder that I didn't notice until she pointed it out?
 
 
Blue Eyes Not Innocent
17:40 / 23.12.08
I don't think he's a recognized Grandmaster.

Because humanity can't see that much awesome without going blind.
 
 
Saint Keggers
17:40 / 23.12.08
Depends...are you going for that older Marvel superhero look?
I think it looks great.and no, its not weird at all.
 
 
Blue Eyes Not Innocent
17:48 / 23.12.08
To be honest I was thinking more Hal Jordan. Just need a power ring, a bomber jacket, and a prediliction for sucker punching people.
 
 
astrojax69
21:44 / 29.12.08
dunno about a chess-ish word generally, jack, but 'zugzwang' is a chess term indicating a play where you force the opponent into a disadvantaging move...

and you could always challenge grandmaster flash to a game and see how he stacks up. man of many talents there, but don't push him, 'coz he's close to the... edge.

i know i could look it up, but does anyone know the collective noun for hippopotamuses.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
23:08 / 29.12.08
Hippopotamuses, or hippopotami. Hippopotami is more correct, but hippopotamuses is accepted usage - see stadium.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:20 / 30.12.08
Gah! Bleach in my eyes. Wrong answer to a question that was never asked. WORDS FROM THE DARKNESS!
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
00:21 / 30.12.08
Herd, by the way.
 
  

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