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grant
01:54 / 31.07.06
The Grant tartans.

Craig Ellachie.
 
 
33
02:58 / 31.07.06
it may have been , most tartans seem predominantly red to me for some reason..

arr
 
 
redtara
19:48 / 06.08.06
So, after persistant whining, my mate gets me to accompany her to the pictures to see 'Sunshine of the Spotless Mind'. It's been running for a couple of weeks and we are the only people in the auditorium when we sit down at the start of the trailers.

The film seemed to be about the inevitability of true love (what ever the fuck that is) and was saying that you can run from it and even take steps to erase it, but if it's there two people will find their way back to each other. Or sumfink.

I love the film and as the credits role the tears are blinding me. It pulls up stuff about a relationship that I had never really laid to rest, that scaled the hights and plumbed the depths of what two human beings can do and be to each other. We both have the some jobs as the characters in the movie and several other startling similarities.

As we stand to leave there are now two other pairs in the auditorium. One of them is aformentioned ex, (reffered to as my hex) and his mate. I felt the earth pitch underneith me. It was a huge deal at the time.

I cry for a solid ten minuits in the car before i get my shit together enough to drive. My long suffering mate points out how poisonous our relationship had been and I explain that I'm crying incase this means we are inevitably going to get back together.

Ffwd a year or more. We do get back together. I concieve triplets. Bu-bum tish!

If he had gone on a different night I wouldn't have given him the time of day. Coincidences, (and Jim Carey) I'm a sucker for them!
 
 
redtara
10:21 / 07.08.06
I've spent this morning feeling like i've just walked through tesco's with my skirt tucked in my knickers. To have brought three new people into the world on the back of how impressed I am by coincidence makes me feel like a flakey meff, to have admitted to it here...well!
 
 
Mister Saturn
12:37 / 07.08.06
Today, I decided to take a different path and ended up in popular Greville Street, an offshoot of trendy Chapel Street in Melbourne.

On another impulse, I ducked into its well-known bookstore, and immediately made for the comic shelf, and spied "BLACK HOLE" by Charles Burns. I had a familiar sense of deja vu, as I'd been thinking about black holes in relation to occultism and fate.

I opened it up, right to a page where a girl introduced herself to a voyeur, as Eliza - one of the infected teenagers, she had grown a tail much alike a skink's, and as she led the other main character into her bed room, where thousands of her artworks were pinned up all around, she spoke of the nickname others had given her - The Lizard Queen.


My name's Elizabeth, an artist with artworks studding my bedroom, and on occasion I like to declare myself The Lizard Queen (more on a relation to the reptile, a little to JM). She even looks like me, when my hair fell past my shoulders.

(not really surprising, as my magick spills more and more into the realm of time and space, coincidence and fate)
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
12:42 / 07.08.06
The other day I'd done a bit of shopping and noticed that my purcahses came to exactly €7.77. That afternoon I went to see Superman Returns. The aircraft that featured in the film was a Boeing 777.
 
 
Quantum
13:08 / 07.08.06
redtara- I thought it was sweet! I always say coincidence is a sign you're on the right track, and it got you triplets so there you are.
Mordant, maybe it's a sign to read Crowley's book 777. Or Johnny the Homocidal Maniac, he lives at number 777.
 
 
redtara
20:33 / 07.08.06
Bless you for that Quantum. I now feel they were at least clean knickers.
 
 
Ticker
21:41 / 07.08.06
I agree it was an affirming tale.

On my way back to work after lunch I passed a group of people on the sidewalk. Touristy types but the last lady in the group may not have been with them just bunched up in the flow of peds...Anyhow I got this vibe off of her, this old woman dressed in pink. She was looking at the ground and said very clearly:

"Oh, someone's lost an earring!"

Part of me assumed she spotted one on the ground but the other more intuitive part of me said "Nah-huh she's talking about you."

Sure enough when I reached up to check I was missing one of my earrings. If only I had looked down at the time I might have found it lying there happily. Sigh.
 
 
Unconditional Love
10:47 / 08.08.06
On my way to therapy yesterday, i thought i should pack a book, currently reading Raven Kalderas The ethical psychic vampire, but for some reason decided not to, got into town to look for flat swaps and then went around the charity shops looking at clothes, ended up in the adult book section in the heart foundation shop and picked up what so far is turning out to be a very good text, The tao and the tree of life, since i have recently been combining my taoist practices with kabbalah it has come as a very timely addition to my practice.
 
 
EmberLeo
22:23 / 08.08.06
Okay, I've just read two independant references to Raven Kaldera and Ordeal Path in about 15 minutes - one on LJ, the other here.

Recently, right after reading the thread about relationships with Plant Spirits, I checked my email to find a friend had sent me a link to a book about relationships with Plant Spirits.

Barbelith is apparently a Message Board in more ways than I'd expected!

--Ember--
 
 
kidninjah
08:23 / 19.09.06
I've just been away on holiday and have plenty of stories to tell from it. Two jump out as pithy coincidences:

1) before getting on the first plane of the trip, i decided I needed a bright red hoodie, something with a logo representing my chosen tribe (a hiphop/graf/martial arts/urban cool icon of some sort). I couldn't find one in the airports, or the first city I went to. But, walking into the dive shop owned by the company I'd already been thinking I'd do a SCUBA course with, I found a bright red hoodie - with the dive school's logo on. My new tribe? I did the course, I bought the hoodie. Very happy on both counts.

2) Returning from my trip, my parents picked me up and took me to the family house, in Brighton. I live in London and had to catch an early train up to get to work on time. I was girl spotting on the train. A couple really caught my eye and one of those two got off at the same stop as me. We hovered around one another on the platform waiting for a connection. I'm usually too shy to talk to strangers, so I didn't, thinking "end of story".. During the day, a friend I've not seen for two years but have been playing txt-tennis with for a few months invited me to her brother's gig near my work. She'd brought a huge crowd of friends and family and amongst the friends was the girl who'd got off the train with me. Spooooooky.
 
 
crimson
23:31 / 24.10.06
So, I have a question about coincidences.

A while ago I had a whole bunch of them, loads of good omens. Whenever I played cards or shuffled them the ace of hearts would always always come out, drop out of the pack or something. I would fall upon things which made sense to my situation all the time, and would be so very positive. I took these to all be good signs about the significant undercurrent which was running between me and my friend.

So...we are at last in the same country, on holiday together and we acted upon the undercurrent. All of a sudden the signs disappear, which is fine, but then theres this night where the worst song plays at the worst moment. Not that I dislike Texas mind, but hearing "i dont need a lover, I just need a friend" while Im being told exactly that..not fun..but then he changes his mind :s

back at home (a country far away where Im temporarily staying) and the signs and coincidences and my feelings lead me to conclude its not to be, so I make my feelings known to my friend, even though Im sort of falling for him...its a tough one

So I can accept its not meant to be right, and coincidence is a remarkable thing. Only yesterday I dreamt that I got an email from my chap saying he wouldnt be around over xmas, and I woke up so disapointed, so evaluated my feelings for him and the situation a fair bit yesterday and came to the conclusion that its not meant to be.
This morning I get an email from him, hes dating someone. So I get the same feeling of disapointment I felt yesterday.

My question is this, I cant figure it out, Has this happened to anyone else? Have the signs been so strong but then seem to totally turn around? Whats that all about?

So, just to add my tuppence here this is.
 
 
Quantum
18:44 / 25.10.06
Sometimes the signs and omens are all present, but not for the other person. Maybe it's not the right time yet.
 
 
crimson
22:58 / 25.10.06
Thanks. Thats interesting. The feeling is that signs and omens are just signposts...alas Im all too inclined to take them more seriously than that

Im curious, how does this relate to things such as visions...is it possible that they come to pass when they include more than one person, have they ever been known to be unreliable? I guess my take on what youre saying is that if the thing just involves yourself than theres a much greater chance that its accurate.

If thats so...its interesting, where they come from. Ive had predictive dreams including hundreds of variables and the thing happened. This lends itself to suggest that there is overlap with time in the dreamstate right? And that omens and signs and coincidences are possibly calling cards, indicators of possibility?

For what its worth, I mentioned to a friend before the holiday that I figured that the thing with me and my chap had really bad timing and probably wouldnt come about but that it was a indicator that I could hope for a romantic relationship with someone just as good as our platonic relationship (which has magical qualities).

Thanks for being kind ID Quintum, I was kind of scared as a first time poster that I might get flamed...but I forgot that posters here are really cool. Youre kind sweetheart
 
 
ghadis
00:24 / 26.10.06
I don't think you should worry about being flamed Crimson. We're not all Ogres here! Welcome to the board crimson!

Your post is really interesting. Dreams and coincidence is facinating. For myself, i often don't pay a huge amount of attention to a lot of the dreams i have, even if they do involve my loved ones and tricky situations. I'll write them down, sure, but i don't always see them as omens or a prophecy of what may happen. I'll see them as a part of me that is expressing itself at a given time. All good personal stuff that can be put aside and examined at a later date.

Saying that, i do have certain dreams that i instantly recognise as important. Magical dreams. I pay a lot more attention to them.

I think that there is a tendancy for us, as magicaians or whatever, to slip into divination, prophecy burn out. To see everything as connected in a certain way. I'm not saying that that is what you are doing here crimson but it's something i've done before.

I think that signs are signs and that a good part of this is recognising them. Signal and Noise. Weeding them out. There is a difference between magic and superstition in a way.
 
 
crimson
01:03 / 26.10.06
hmm..very true. I think that superstition is more passed down ritual, and perhaps with an element of self fulfilling prophecy so it can be good to observe established superstitions, than it can be used to describe something more immiediate and a persons reaction to that thing.

I think that the matter of burnout is interesting. I like not to look for patterns but I love it when they appear! Perhaps its tempting to look for things?

synchronicity is a beautiful thing isnt it? in regard to magic and to knowing what is what. Im with you in that magical dreams leap out...they tend to be few and far between with me. I would like to explore magic some more and I also think things are magical as they are.

Youre right its good not to get hung up on things Its good to reason everything out first and foremost
 
 
diz
05:25 / 01.11.06
Three noteworthy ones from the past few months, just kind of sticking in my head, going from most recent to least recent.

* Tonight I was Lost-geeking and Wikipedia-searching, and I saw that Damon Lindelof went to high school in New Jersey. I grew up in New Jersey myself, and I idly clicked on his high school's wiki entry, and then went over to my own high school's wiki entry. Under notable alumni, there was a cop named Edward Conlon who had written a memoir of his life as a cop named Blue Blood, which was published back in 2004. For whatever reason, I got into looking up things about Blue Blood, like Conlon's interview with Terri Gross and all that sort of thing.

Then I got up, went to the bathroom, and drove out to get a bite to eat and hit the local Borders for something totally unrelated. What's in the entryway as I come inside? A big shelf with copies of Blue Blood, newly marked down.

* About a month and a half ago, I was up in LA with a group of friends. We stopped at a hamburger place for dinner, and sat down at a table. The cooks were listening to a local radio station which was playing 80s music, and we could hear it where we were sitting.

Sitting on the table, face down, was a single playing card. A few others were scattered around the room, one on the floor, one on top of some other stuff in the corner, but this was the only one on our table or anywhere near us.

I flipped the card over. It was the Two of Hearts. As if on cue, the song on the radio ended, and what came on next? Stacey Q's "Two of Hearts."

* Back in the end of May, my girlfriend and I, along with some friends, were at Burning Flipside out near Austin, TX, which is the biggest of the regional Burning Man events. It's on a private campground, and there's this creek running through a sort of canyon, and then above the creek is the main site where people camp and all the art and music set ups are placed. We were camped right next to this group of very interesting magicky people (mostly Thelemites) from Dallas, who had a sound system set up.

My girlfriend and I were hiking along the side of the canyon. We could hear our neighbor's sound system booming out over the canyon, but we were at least half a mile away and down in the canyon. We had a lull in our conversation, and I started singing the theme song to the Hi! Hi! Puffy Amiyumi Show!, and she joined in, and we sang along, and then, wouldn't you know it, the DJ spinning from the camp next to ours dropped a new record... the theme from the Hi! Hi! Puffy Amiyumi Show!.
 
 
EmberLeo
08:48 / 20.11.06
Last Thursday my poetry teacher brought in pictures to inspire us for writing a particular kind of poetry (the name of which escapes me now). One of the pictures was this image by Julie Speed, which immediately reminded me of "Sunny Came Home" by Shawn Colvin

I wasn't sure if the correlation was direct or not (it was - the picture in question was the cover art for the album in question), but regardless, I thought little of it beyond "Hey, cool, I like that song, and haven't heard it in a while - thanks for the reminder!" and "Interesting picture. I like how the match is so far from the horizon that's lit, and there's a third eye, and hmm..."

But then Friday, when I finally got up and out into the world, what do I hear when I turn on the radio?

Sunny came home to her favorite room...

So I sit up and pay attention, because twice is a message, and I don't know that I would appreciate being bludgeoned with the third ieteration.

So I start thinking about fire, and why am I comfortable with it, and what exactly is it that I love about fire? I'm not interested in the destruction, per se. I'm not interested in setting the world on fire, or watching something people love be destroyed by fire.

But I'm interested in creative destruction, you know? Like the chipping away of all that is not the statue within the marble? Only I'd rather burn away. I like fire because it seems like it's this wild force, and yet I know how to control it.

I'm still pondering what it may signify - it can't hurt to ponder, eh?

--Ember--
 
 
Hawthorn
23:28 / 23.11.06
Okay so here's one

I go to an art college and today I broke down and asked the metal shop technician what had inspired him to create a large steel holloware raven sculpture.
He told me he'd walked out into his backyard one day and saw a raven perched on his barbecue, looking at him. After a few minutes it hopped into the air, spread a 4 foot wingspan and flew away. He wants to make a series of these sculptures, and illuminate them with a few barbecues with coals in them.

Now the reason this is a coincidence is that about a year ago I was tapped by the Morrigu, and I've been doing rather intense work with Her since that time. This follows on the heels of a couple other "coincidences" involving crows and stuff. If you're interested in that sort of thing you can find folklore that connects Her to ovens and cooking spits as some sort of metaphor or sacred symbol. I'm a little concerned as my work has spilled out into other peoples artwork as well. Or else it's all just a coincindence.

I guess you had to be there. Thought I might share.
 
 
EmberLeo
00:48 / 24.11.06
I'm a little concerned as my work has spilled out into other peoples artwork as well. Or else it's all just a coincindence.

Or the cause is shared, rather than linear.

--Ember--
 
 
Hawthorn
11:34 / 24.11.06

Could well be. But it seemed like a geographically limited area (a university) to have that much activity going on unrelated to my experience.
 
 
EmberLeo
20:34 / 24.11.06
*blinks* I take it you don't live in an area where there are lots of Pagans?

Then, also, not everyone who is "under the influence" of some power or other is concious of who or what that power is.

--Ember--
 
 
Papess
07:31 / 18.12.06
Read in newsletter:

The Moon enters philosophical Sagittarius at 4:09 am EST...

At exactly 4:09am EST. Go Moon!
 
 
EvskiG
19:26 / 03.01.07
Lying in bed last night with my wife. We both were reading.

She looks up from her book: "How do you pronounce 'wizened?'"

"I've only seen it in print. We should look it up."

I turn back to my book.

There towards the top of the left-hand page is the word "wizened."

Oooooooo . . .
 
 
unheimlich manoeuvre
18:38 / 08.01.07
Suddenly I realised I was reading about the New Wave and the
New Rave.
 
 
Quantum
18:53 / 08.01.07
I just contributed to the New Wave thread and then came straight here...
 
 
Dutch
22:18 / 11.01.07
I was just reading some amusing posts about the good ole times on the pre-barbelith fora over in policy when someone asked what RAW meant. Apparently, it stood for Robert Antony Wilson, who I never heard of previously. And coincidentally, he seems to have died today.

RAW
 
 
FinderWolf
00:08 / 12.01.07
I'm researching the Bottle City of Kandor for possible inclusion in a Jenny Everywhere story I'm just about to finish and then decide it isn't right for the story. After looking at countless versions/depictions of the famed Bottle City, and realizing that the DCU and Super-books haven't referred to or mentioned the Bottle City of Kandor in a loooong while (nor have I really thought of the Bottle City much in years; why would anyone?), I open up this week's 52 and the plot involves the Bottle City in a major way.

Also, I just recommended the book Fortress of Solitude to a friend and was thinking about it, on my way home from the comic store (where I purchased said issue of 52), someone is reading Fortress of Solitude right across from me.

Both Superman-related things, now that I think of it.
 
 
Aha! I am Klarion
04:36 / 12.01.07
I was lying in bed, reflecting how utterly boring my history of India class has been. The political and religious history of India is something that interests me greatly, but the professor is uncharismatic bore. Serious snooze fest. Well, I got an itch and decided to drop the class this evening. Search for class to replace it with I find a class called Promethean Myth and Art, in the humanities section. Something clicks (It seemed so specific that it obviously was a class developed by a teacher who had studied that exact subject...which usually means they care about it...which is usually good) and I add it, replacing the other class.

I go to the campus book store's website and look up the books for the class. I plan to go tomorrow morning to pick up the books...but just so I don't forget them I copy and paste the text into a word document (since it is easier to print than screwing with internet formatting and all the adds and colored pictures, etc. on the web)and print.

I press paste and something goes wrong with the formatting and the copied text which should only take up a few lines copies to !6! pages on the document.

And the title of the book that got repeated on 6 pages?

"Memphisto" by Thomas Mann

I don't place much stock in the relationship between number 6 and the devil...in the "I'm the devil! Heh Heh Heh!" Sort of thing. And I find Satanism—though I am probably poorly informed and unfairly bias—unattractive (in the sense of appearances and semiotics and in the philosophy), but that is just quirky.


p.s.
Oddly enough, at a local sub shop I discovered that if you buy a chicken sandwich and tea it will always turn out 6.66.
 
 
Aha! I am Klarion
04:42 / 12.01.07
okay the thing with Kandor is cool.


But Superman at a comic shop...that is truly mind boggling

(I will accept a verbal bitch slap if that was too caustic for this thread.)
 
 
Aha! I am Klarion
04:45 / 12.01.07
And it's

"Mephisto"...bad spelling :I
 
 
miss wonderstarr
05:27 / 12.01.07
I was just reading Bret Easton Ellis' Lunar Park on the train to work, and at one point he mentioned "Rocket Man" by Elton John ~ so that got stuck on replay in my head.

I realised I was still internally listening to "Rocket Man" as I came out of the station.

Two minutes later, I picked up my order from the dry cleaners. I suddenly realised the music wasn't in my head anymore, but on their radio. "And I think it's gonna be a long long time..."

Unfortunately I couldn't think of what to do with this coincidence.
 
 
kan
08:28 / 12.01.07
I had my ears pierced as a teenager but let the holes close over years ago and now there are just little hard lumps in my lobes.

Last night I dreamt there was some sort of infection in my earlobe and I had to go and get it treated, cleaned out, the nurse or whoever said afterwards "at least you'll be able to wear earrings again"

This morning my colleague returned from her extended Christmas hols with a gift from a mutual friend - a pair of earrings.
 
 
EmberLeo
06:18 / 31.01.07
Last Friday I had the odd sense of being babbled at by the Universe. Bear with me, this is a bit silly:

So I'm at Starbucks, as I am wont to be, and looking at a CD for Corinne Bailey Rae while I wait. I get a sense of ping because of the words in the song that's playing, but not enough to even retain what the words were, much less worry about it.

Later on, driving North on 101, and I realize I'm exiting the freeway for 84 East when I'd meant to go all the way up to 92 East. It's a bit rare that I exit the freeway without conciously meaning to (last time I did it twice in a row for no apparent reason on Yule, and wasn't able to drive on the freeway again until after I passed a house with a really lovely setup of deer on their lawn) - whatever. At least I don't have to pass a graveyard before getting back on track anymore.

I turn on the radio for the traffic report out of curiosity to see if I should indeed take 84 across the bay, or take 92 like I usually do, and the announcer is talking to a woman who has just won a Corinne Bailey Rae CD, and a chance to win a trip to see her in concert in Paris. The woman's name is the same as mine. Huh. Well, maybe I should have bought that CD when it caught my attention. I'll look into what songs are actually on the thing sometime soon to see if it correlates to anything I'm working on.

Later on in the same driving trip, I'm heading North on 880, listening to a different radio station. When I get to the ramp for 238 East, I hear another radio contest go by. Somebody else has won another CD of some kind, and a chance for a trip somewhere East of here (Puerto Rico I think). The woman's name is the same as mine.

Okay, NOW I'm actually paying attention. Why is it that turning off a Northbound freeway onto an Eastbound freeway is connected to women with my name winning CDs and a chance to take a trip somewhere across Eastern water? If it were a dream I'd think it was some kind of code, but digging deeper I don't find much in the way of CONTENT. (Except, perhaps, "GO EAST!")

I feel like the Universe is demanding my attention and then shrugging at me.

So I get where I'm going and relate this to my lover, who finds it as amusing as I do. Later on, while we're shopping, we pass a fountain, and I get a couple of dimes from him to toss into the water. But I didn't make a wish, I just sent them as a sort of return ping in response to the pings I'd recieved earlier. And I thought to myself "What would be nice is if the Universe could use the telephone."

Two steps away from the fountain my phone rings. We both laugh. I answer "Hello?" and a man responds "Hello?". We go back and forth this way a few times and I finally point out that this is my cell phone, and he called me so I sort of figured he wanted something? "Oh, I'm sorry, I must have the wrong number." Well that does indeed sum up my day.

Last, but not least, walking down the sidewalk in that very same shopping center, another couple approaches us, chattering away incoherantly. When they're paralell to us, the only two words that reach my ear clearly are "...the Pagans..." Now, nothing is impossible, but the two were definitely not dressed like most pagans I know, nor did they move or sound like them, so I definitely wasn't expecting to hear those words go by at that moment.

I finally just threw my hands up and shouted "WHAT?!"

Ahhh well.

--Ember--
 
  

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