BARBELITH underground
 

Subcultural engagement for the 21st Century...
Barbelith is a new kind of community (find out more)...
You can login or register.


Lay Down Your Guns

 
  

Page: (1)234

 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
14:32 / 06.03.03
I've had enough fighting. Not physical fighting (I'd sprain my wrist if I tried to punch even a defenceless kitten), but the mental fight. I always loved that line in Blake - "I shall not cease from mental fight, nor shall my sword sleep in my hand" - 'Jerusalem' may have been co-opted as a nationalistic anthem, but Blake was a revolutionary, a heretical Christian mystic with socialist/anarchist leanings, and I've always thought it was a good sentiment. Keep fighting. Fight the Power. Strike the Empire back. That kind of thing.

Problem is, I'm not actually doing any fighting, and yet just the mental process is driving me crazy. Even while luxuriating in my own apathetic middle-class filth, the simple process of being aware of certain things and wanting to take the most basic steps to inform people about them produces a feeling in my head akin to having rats scratching at the inside of my skull. Nobody can convince me that Tony Blair isn't worse than Myra Hindley, or that there isn't such a thing as evil and Donald Rumsfield is it.. and yet the level of hate I've found myself feeling for these people just *can't* be healthy. It can't possibly be good sign that you find yourself fantasising about anyone's violent death - even David Blunkett. Then when it extends to contemplating what should be done to Christopher Hitchens (an apologist and advocate of mass murder, but aren't I in favour of freedom of speech?)

Equally, I can't cope with feeling endlessly scratchy on Barbelith anymore either, it's just wearing me down. I still think that there are certain kinds of fuckwittery that just need a text-based smackdown, I still think there's a level of debate that we should strive to attain to, and I still think just leaving ignoring things can be too much like complicity or tacit consent, but... I can't cope with constantly expecting the fight, or with sitting there and grinding my teeth instead of posting because I don't want to just type flaming capitals and spleen. And I'm sick of feeling like I'm shooting off friendly fire, and slowly alienating everyone on the board (okay, I'm probably projecting here).

I feel like I need a soul colonic. And I'm wondering if anyone else feels the same (is it the War? something else?), and if anyone has any bright ideas. Plus, I just needed to vent.
 
 
Kit-Cat Club
14:42 / 06.03.03
I have been feeling very much like that, except with less anger and more despondency... very frustrating. In fact I was thinking of starting a thread in the Switchboard on a similar topic: how the imminent war has effectively stopped anyone from talking or thinking about anything any more... and what a problem that is, not just politically, but generally, because it makes everything else seem so much less vital... I don't know if that's quite it, but it's getting close to how I feel about it. I want to be talking about representation vs participation, and books, and interesting stuff which I don't know what it is yet because that's what Barbelith is for, and yet here I am wondering whether to post at all because I feel so depressed and apathetic about everything...

In my case it might just be academic pressure that's doing it right now, and I am being completely flaky at the moment, but judging by things other people have said, everyone's feeling a bit of a slump right now. A year and a half of intense political interest has made everyone jaded (maybe that was the plan? Commentate people into submission....) and so we're all nervy and scratchy with each other.

We need a holiday... I'm going to start a thread on my ideal chocolate bar... surely we can't argue about that?
 
 
Matthew Fluxington
14:50 / 06.03.03
I feel very similar, I think. General anger and frustration with things far beyond my control is eroding my sense of hope for the future. I know exactly what you mean about the *hatred* that builds up, I'm starting to become very concerned about how deep and possibly irrational my loathing for the Bush administration and the large corporations of the world has become. It is kind of sick for me to wish and hope and dream that the majority of the people in the Bush administration meet violent, terrible ends, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't, at least half of time.

This feeling of powerlessness in most parts of my life right is really killing me - I'm very concerned about what it's doing to me. I feel like I'm being a major prick whenever I'm on Barbelith these days, and I'm not sure why. I've become a little too aggressive with my moderation duties, I'm generally kinda snotty and mean, and I really don't intend to be. I feel like I'm sometimes unconciously using Barbelith as an outlet for repressed aggression, and that's no good.
 
 
Unencumbered
14:55 / 06.03.03
I know the feeling only too well. Sometimes it's all I can do just to haul myself out of bed in the morning, but it's important to realise that things do pick up and you will start to feel better at some point.

I know it's corny but it's true: try to look on the bright side and see the good in even the worst situations/people. It helps, really it does.
 
 
Matthew Fluxington
14:56 / 06.03.03
how the imminent war has effectively stopped anyone from talking or thinking about anything any more.

See, I'm the opposite - though I keep up on news and read some of the more political threads here, I just can't bring myself to talk about the topic very often, mostly because it makes me so angry and frustrated that I just can't handle it. I identify strongly with what you said about the feel of despondency - I feel hopeless about everything, I really want to think that there's a way out of this mess, but I have no faith in my country now. I have pretty much resigned myself to the idea that Bush is probably going to win the next election (without even having to rig it).

I swear to God, the only things keeping me together right now is music, comedy, comics, movies, and some friends. If I didn't have those things, I'd go completely batshit insane.
 
 
Jack Fear
14:59 / 06.03.03
I think I know where you're coming from, and I think it's the war.

It remakes everything in its own image. In a time of war, everything is a war.

I've spent months in a miserable fury —maybe even longer: it might have started right after 9-11, I can no longer remember (though I seem to vaguely remember a time when I wasn't this angry all the time, but that may just be post-traumatic nostalgia of some kind).

The only comfort I can find is to not attribute to cynicism (i.e., wickedness) what can be explained by idealism (i.e., stupidity): that is, to take to heart the terrible truth that everybody has hir reasons, and that almost everybody believes in hir heart that s/he's doing the right thing.

These aren't monsters: they're human beings—screwed-up, short-sighted human beings, trying to get by in a hostile world, some of them trying to make what seems, in their limited vision, to be a finer world. And they're all—all of them, GW Bush, Rumsfeld, Saddam, Blair, Blunkett, Chirac, all of them—scared out of their fucking wits.

Believing that people are simply weak and foolish and mistaken, rather than bad, lets me hate everybody pretty much equally, myself not least of all—to recognize these follies as a part of the human condition, the foolishness that flesh is heir to, and to realize that, hey, sometimes I'm a monster, too.

It's no "love your enemy," but it's about the best I can manage right now.
 
 
Persephone
15:01 / 06.03.03
Well, first off, I like you a lot. And I think that you're fabulously creative and productive. So it's not all fighting with you. And I actually wish that you would go see The Hours and tell me what you think, and especially if you don't like it.

I'm not much of a fighter myself. Possibly I could fight more, but I don't usually feel like it. It's not like I've never been known to be scratchy. But usually I find that "seek first to understand, then to be understood" is the better mechanism.

Generally, my response to scratchiness and boredom is to go away and make something. Maybe because there's something inarguable about bringing something into being... well, I'm sure *that* argument's flawed in some way...
 
 
rizla mission
15:07 / 06.03.03
Problem is, I'm not actually doing any fighting, and yet just the mental process is driving me crazy. Even while luxuriating in my own apathetic middle-class filth, the simple process of being aware of certain things and wanting to take the most basic steps to inform people about them produces a feeling in my head akin to having rats scratching at the inside of my skull.

That's what I've always felt like. I've always had pretty radical political beliefs, but until recently (until Genoa and the WTC attack to be precise) I've never really done much toward acting upon them because .. I'm basically rubbish at it. I can't 'do' politics to save my life .. retarded rednecks who think GWB is a 'great man' could probably out debate me such is my inability to successfully express myself in political terms. So I always assumed I'd be more of a liability than an asset to any 'movement' and I'd be best to quietly express my support and leave the dirty work to people who are better at it..
Except that it's become painfully clear in the last 18 months that there just aren't enough people who are putting forward my kind of views on my behalf, so hense I've been trying my best to get with it in an active sense.. but it's still an effort, it still makes my head hurt, I'd still rather be talking about bands and comics.. but it's gotta be done.

As to 'scratchiness' and 'friendly fire' on Barbelith, this pisses me off a bit too actually. It's the same kind of syndrome that's turned so much of left-wing politics into a joke over the years.
I think it's safe to say most people on Barbelith are essentially striving for similar ideals in slightly different ways, and in a lot of cases I think some of us should agree to disagee and get on with more constructive discussion - my attitude at the moment is that we're all basically heading the same direction, so let's leave squabbling about trivial fucking shit until after we've crossed the barriades, y'know..?
 
 
Babooshka
16:14 / 06.03.03
I've had enough fighting. Not physical fighting (I'd sprain my wrist if I tried to punch even a defenceless kitten), but the mental fight...

Flyboy: are you thinking of giving up or changing tactics? I mean more in terms of your feelings concerning the board.

It can be very draining to express an opinion that many others don't want to face or don't want to hear; and sensing that lack of suppport can very well make someone say, "Aw fuck it. No-one else gives a shit, why should I?" But I hope you don't give up.

Rizla: when you say:

...most people on Barbelith are essentially striving for similar ideals in slightly different ways...

I'm not so sure I agree (so it's good that you're all for "agreeing to disagree"! ). People come to this bulletin board for many different reasons. Some posters feel a sense of community and shared ideals, but by no means most or all.

Many posters come here because they're bored at work or have nothing better to do, and they just consider this place entertainment. They don't really care about Barbelith or the ideals of those who see this board as a community. It's just something to read at downtime; if there's "scratchiness" or interpersonal attacks, well, that's even MORE entertaining – bring it on! (Please note I am not placing a moral judgement on this – merely stating the case.)

Some people will actively attack other posters for the vicarious thrill of getting away with something they can't do in "real life."

Three types of posters with three different reasons: would you say they were "heading in the same direction"?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
16:24 / 06.03.03
Well, yes and no. I think that, actually, there's a very great danger in assuming that everyone on Barbelith is pulling in basically the same direction. Yes, a lot of people on Barbelith are or would describe themselves politically in broadly similar terms, but to decide that in the service of a greater good we should all agree with each other is really very dangerous, and tends to lead to "I can't believe that I am being challenged about this, on Barbelith of all places" plaints.

However....I'm getting tired of myself - I'm thinking of asking Tom to remove my mod status in the Head Shop, just because it's really difficult at present either to participate or to moderate, much less to do both. And the worst part is that I know on some level it's not anybody's fault - a lot of the time we're talking about people who have been let down by their educators, and do not really understand what they're writing, let alone what they're reading, but the eagerness to drag things down to some sort of personal exchange because that's what seems easiest is just so depressing, and neither participating nor removing oneself (the tacit problem raised by Flyboy) is generally very profitable.

Which means that you end up making the same point over and over again, then finally, after the inability to read or write coherently has led on to rudeness, just delivering bigger and better smackdowns, because it's the only way to lengthen the intervals between threadrots, and that doesn't make anyone feel better.

So, yes, a kinder, gentler, fluffier Barbeworld would be a very good thing, because at present I'm spending too much time in the negative zone. Which probably means the restoration or replacement of all the passionate, articulate, interesting and interested perspectives that for various reasons are not being heard very much at present.

Or, failing that, a cathartic and massively homoerotic "Reign of Fire"-style fight scene.
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
17:05 / 06.03.03
I'll hold the towels.

Good vent, that. Thought-provoking and constructive, for the board and me, at least.

Hope it's so for you.

Sympathise with alot of what you say. Have had several IRL conversations along similar lines recently...

Though I think you *may* well be projecting about this:

And I'm sick of feeling like I'm shooting off friendly fire, and slowly alienating everyone on the board

Not something I've noticed, especially, and this is *not* me being twee, given that if I could pay for you to see The Hours, we might well be on the verge of *two* big arguments.

As Haus says, and there's an undertone of this is Jack's post as well, the space to disagree is a valuable and vital thing.

I'd also take issue with the idea that 'most of us point in the same direction'. Think it's crap, to be honest. Conflict, argument, don't neccessarily alienate people, and agreement is not the holy grail to aim for, like Haus I'm dubious about this (while being *personally* someone who veers towards agreement/synthesis, I don't think constant agreement in an atmos. like this makes for anything except mututal backslapping. dull and pointless. we might as well cut to the chase and suck each other's cocks/clits/wellington boots in that case.

And those that do get alienated by mere disagreement should probably find a message board that isn't a forum for discussion.

And it's taken yr post for me to identify what I've been doing lately round here. Which *is* withdrawing/avoiding the stuff I'm not going to like. eg the 'Having children should be regulated thread'. I think this is the fluffiest I've ever been round here, it's the first time I think I've mainly been in the conversation, hardly touching the 'heavy' threads.

I'm walking away from the fight, and it brings in my case an agreement with myself that I put a lot less in than I have done at times, and of course get less out. But I feel a lot calmer. Possibly that's due to personal stuff being quite manic atm, so wanting my interaction with this place to be reasonably chilled. I guess that's a factor for people, of what they want from this place.

And that's even before mentioning the War. Which I agree with several people here, is a huge factor. In, as kat says, making alot of other very important, exciting or appalling stuff seem totally irrelevant. (kind of like when someone close to you dies, it's very hard to give a shit about anything else going on, as in comparison with life and death *everythings* small potatoes. But you do still have a life involving less important things, to attend to)

And also as we've all got this bubbling away in the front/back of our minds. All the time. our leaders are taking us into war, and being more than usually disgusting and mendacious and greedy and awful about it. There's very little way around that. And they keep trying to justify it.

I'd also underline jack's point, about people being falliable, silly humans, as I think its a very wise one, and also say that it's transposable to how we treat each other round here. And might well be an attitude worth fostering in aid of that 'kinder, gentler Barbieworld'

And it's about as close as i can get (and then only if i'm feeling really fucking happy) to 'love your enemy' or Unconditional Positive Regard.
 
 
Babooshka
17:13 / 06.03.03
Which probably means the restoration or replacement of all the passionate, articulate, interesting and interested perspectives that for various reasons are not being heard very much at present. – Haus

Funny, I was discussing a similar issue earlier this week. It's one thing to want the "good old days" when so-and-so was posting, and if only so-and-so would come back everything would be alright. It's quite another thing to think long and hard about why so-and-so might have left, and to actively work on creating and maintaining an environment where people like so-and-so would want to interact and participate.

Other complications may arise in a situation where there's a whole other section of people who may have an investment in keeping things as they are, or for whatever reasons don't see why the work needs to be done/ don't want to do the work.
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
17:14 / 06.03.03
Oh and my token Pychotherapeutic point is to point out that the less control we have in the major areas of our lives (eg whether our nations drop bombs on people in our name or not, whether there's a vast and appalling war) the more desperately we try to control the things that we *can*.

And that I think there's alot of this in alot of our attitudes to Barbelith at the moment. In thse circs, it's *alot* harder to cope with/tolerate differences of opinion, things that we feel are plain *wrong*

It becomes much more important than it might have previously been to order the space according to our own preferences, to *get things right*, to nail things down and put people right if we feel it needs doing.

As this is a space that has never had heavy moderation, we all feel we can affect/control to an extent what goes on. We are the authority figures, and right now, it might be tempting to *use* that authority for control/policing.

When things are so messed up/compromised/confusing/'shifting sands', a bit of simple yes/no, right/wrong, them/us can be very comforting/grounding.

and thanks, Fly, this has been v.useful for me.
 
 
Seth
17:21 / 06.03.03
Maybe switching moderators and would freshen us up a bit. Swap forums, introduce new blood, have some of us retire for a season: that kind of thing.
 
 
Babooshka
17:27 / 06.03.03
Thinking about reflect's comments...before Haus hangs up his helmet, perhaps this would be a good thread for the Head Shop? I'd hate for it to turn into an "Ooooh! Is barbelith DYING??? AGAIN???" pisstake. Because I don't think any of us are looking at the topic from that point of view.
 
 
Seth
17:35 / 06.03.03
Agreed Babs. If we're going to do this, lets do it properly. I'll have more net time over the weekend...
 
 
autopilot disengaged
22:13 / 06.03.03
ok, i'm kind of blurry. blame the booze. not a big deal. i mention it only in passing.

but i thought i should comment, since i was having this convo with fly in meatspace only a couple of weeks ago - the way in which i'm sick to the point of stopping arguing with people who - just - don't - get - it. even when it's so obviously self-evident.

we are going to blow a city-sized hole. in a city. (blank stare).
none of our politicians gave a fuck when he was on *our* side. (yawn).
inspecting is better performed by inspectors than bombs. (nothing).

but at the same time - c'mon! this is an amazing time to be alive and to give a fuck! we are right here, right now as millions - MILLIONS - march against war, we are witness to US hegemony falling apart in public. ok, iraq is likely to happen no matter what, but we have seen our prime minister pretty much crucify himself over this, we have seen that old lie 'the international community' (US/UK) die a protracted death. we are seeing europe assert itself - at last - the emergence of a second superpower - the public (for which observation, a place in journalistic heaven awaits).

we're not fighting a losing battle anymore, y'all!

even our leaders have to admit we exist!

gimme a YAY!
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
22:16 / 06.03.03
Or we are watching Blair defy public opinion in the knowledge that there is no credible opposition, and the dream of true international cooperation fostered from the horror of two world wars die on its arse in the face of a US able to act unilaterally in a way that Europe cannot and will not be able to...
 
 
autopilot disengaged
22:30 / 06.03.03
have you SEEN blair recently?

this is not a politician coasting thru a gambit. this is someone...

just decided not to pursue this line of argument, on the grounds that 'in this photograph, he looks rilly rilly OLD' might buckle under a direct assault.

BUT: there's no denying blair has faced the greatest internal rebellion of his premiership, an increasingly vocal public, and a growing gulf with continental europe... plus the pope gave him a smack - and tony seems to genuinely care about that kind of thing.

i really, sinerely think that the message of a basically unpopular underdog movement is making its way overground. essentially, i believe the US has - at long last - overplayed its hand.

sure, no one can stop it doing what it wants, fundamentally. but i think with every *adventure*, they alienate a bigger portion of the international community - meaning the actual international community.

the US is realising increasing power is bringng increasing polarization - they are fast becoming public enemy #1. and not is cool way.
 
 
rizla mission
10:17 / 07.03.03
Well the folk in charge of the US seem to think it's pretty cool.
The more it seems like them vs. the world, the closer their paranoid nationalist beliefs get to becoming reality.

But that's kinda not what this topic's about is it..
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
11:33 / 07.03.03
Thanks all for the responses. Some very helpful stuff in there, particularly bengali's point about the international situation etc making you want to correct/control smaller things, things that feel within your reach... I can definitely relate to that, and also to Flux's comment about how that makes you feel about your own posting as a result. I'm not 'giving up' though, in answer to Babooshka's quetsion - I'm just looking for... new strategies, new ways of thinking (I hesitate to say 'coping').

I nearly did include something in the first post to the effect that if this thread develops in certain directions, it could be moved to either the Head Shop or the Switchboard - I'd like to see how it pans out for a little longer, but other mods can feel free to move it for now.
 
 
Lullaboozler
12:12 / 07.03.03
I'd love to agree with autopilot on this one, I really would... but I can't help feeling that Haus et al are more on the money. Everyone I talk to seems to be giving up in one form or another as they realise that they can't make a difference and if they try they just get squashed.

I have practically given up watching/listening to the news - seeing Jack Straw say that France/Germany were threatening the existance of NATO/UN the other day just topped it all off for me - not one interviewer/commentator that I heard took him to task on this. I mean, the holes in the arguments being put forward by our 'leaders' are huge, but they just keep telling us the same lies in the knowledge that eventaully people will believe them. This is incredibly depressing. The radio broke in my car the other day, and I haven't bothered replacing it as there is nothing on it I want to hear right now.

After the march I was really positive that something would give - Blair would be forced to recognise that the people who elected him and his Govt. fundamentally disagreed with him and that something, ANYTHING would change. Even a rebellion by 120 of his own MPs didn't deflect him.

Democracy doesn't seem to be working here anymore. Will the people punish Blair for this stance in 2005? How? Vote for the Tories? No thank you. Lib Dems? God, I hope so.

I appreciate that I am re-iterating a lot of what others have said, but I had to get this off my chest. Flyboy, I completely understand where you are coming from. It is very tiring trying to keep telling people that we are about to break international law but fewer and fewer people want to hear it.

Now, where's that chocolate bar thread...
 
 
Murray Hamhandler
18:10 / 07.03.03
I blame all following incoherence on a near absense of sleep over the past week.

I'm not terribly articulate about all of this war business because a) I'm not well-schooled enough in the intricacies of international politics to be so and b) I'm far too emotionally involved in what's going on. I'm at ground zero of what will surely be the focus of international hatred before long and it makes me sick because I could not be less in agreement w/my government. I'm almost constantly frustrated and often quite angry about this mess, but I'm seeing some positive change and it's giving me hope, which is causing my concerns to weigh on me less.

As much as the impending war is affecting me, though, I'm not allowing the anger I feel to creep into my social interactions. I've always been very careful to not allow outside anger and frustration to adversely affect my interactions w/those people in my life who have nothing to do w/that anger and frustration. I've always thought that lashing out at people because I'm in a bad mood is a bullshit way to live my life, so the threat of war hasn't changed that.

As to 'scratchiness' and 'friendly fire' on Barbelith, this pisses me off a bit too actually. It's the same kind of syndrome that's turned so much of left-wing politics into a joke over the years.

I agree. I'd like to think that, whatever our differences, the similarities of most Barbelites outweigh the differences. For instance, I have yet to see any pro-war posters on the board (although, to be fair, I've not been around much lately). I like to believe that we can at least be respectful towards one another here, despite our differences in opinion. At times like this, especially, w/so much shit going down in the world, I'd hope that we would strive to find similarities between ourselves and others, to drop the cynicism and bitterness for a change (or at least reserve it for the warmongers) and look for that common human link that we share. I have no reason to doubt that each and every one of you here is essentially a good person and, for that reason if no other, you have my love and respect.
 
 
Jack Fear
18:23 / 07.03.03
...I have yet to see any pro-war posters on the board ...

Or maybe they're just keeping their yaps shut because they don't want to invite flaming. Just a possibility.

I like to believe that we can at least be respectful towards one another here, despite our differences in opinion...

We'd all like to believe that, wouldn't we? But it doesn't always work that way.
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
18:24 / 07.03.03
Random thought:

Just occurred to me that a little bit of me would like to fall *madly* in love right now so as to have that selfish/all-encompassing, short-focus thing you get when you fall hard for someone and nothing else matters(the happier flipside of my 'grieving' example).

I don't actually *want* a relationship at all but the idea of being in that utterly detached space where your world shrinks to you and your love is really appealing atm.

Escapism, basically. Want to be in 'fly me to the moona nd let me swing upon the stars' land. Just wondered if that chimed with anyone else.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
19:10 / 07.03.03
Frighteningly applicable to me, BiP said-

And it's taken yr post for me to identify what I've been doing lately round here. Which *is* withdrawing/avoiding the stuff I'm not going to like

and then, weirdly,

Escapism, basically. Want to be in 'fly me to the moona nd let me swing upon the stars' land. Just wondered if that chimed with anyone else.

Completely, totally, absolutely- you've hit my entire, desperate state of mind in one (or two) fell swoop(s) of psychic insight. I do not want to be on this planet at the moment. Odder then that I've got to a stage where I cannot leave my personal space without some raging struggle with myself.
 
 
Mourne Kransky
20:35 / 07.03.03
It can't possibly be good sign that you find yourself fantasising about anyone's violent death - even David Blunkett.

Particularly David Blunkett, I’d say. It’s a fantasy, Flyboy, and I’m sure many of us apparently enlightened Barblers have the same or similar. He’s right behind his Dear Leader in proposing to slaughter thousands Iraqi civilians in ten days’ time and would that that were mere fantasy. In my version, I’m Olivier and he’s Hoffman, in the dentist’s chair. *dzzzzzzzz…*

but aren't I in favour of freedom of speech
I see no dilemma here. Hitchens talks sense, in his contrarian way, much of the time. Then sometimes he talks shite. It is a sad thing that his instinct seems to drive him so frequently round the bend these days. The staff job at Vanity Fair has diminished him, perhaps. He deserves no favours from any of us just because his gormless brother’s even more repellent. At least he’s articulate as he pisses me off.

I think Jack’s right, echoed by many others, that the impending war has poisoned our well here to some extent. Not surprisingly really, given the preponderance here of a more internationalist and generally liberal Weltanschauung. We Care A Lot but have Faith No More.

These are intensely frustrating times and Bengali’s on the nail when she points out that the less control we have in the major areas of our lives (eg … whether there's a vast and appalling war) the more desperately we try to control the things that we *can*. It’s the global politics metaphor for anorexia and obsessive–compulsive disorder.

The science of gathering mental health statistics was not, historically, sufficiently well developed to give exact data but such reliable indicators as researchers have had to work with (e.g. suicide rates) show that people tend to have fewer mental health problems in a time of war. Obviously there’s an increase in all forms of distress for a few but, for those on the Home Front, and even for the majority of serving men, a national war effort (whether you support it or not) has this strange and perspective-shifting effect.

The corollary to that finding, however, is that the anxiety and frustration inherent in the unstable pre-war build up and the long come down and reality check that follows any war (plus the inevitable ruin and hardship of so many lives) has a very profound effect on the mental health of anyone who is paying attention.

In this instance, we are all better informed and more educated about the issues than we would have been in any comparable period. We have access to so much more information about geopolitical manoeuvring and are much more cynical, with the benefit of hindsight, about the supposed gains any war leader promises us.

I like that cynicism and if that means we see more cynicism expressed on the board, I have no problem with that. What impresses me is that there’s not more kneejerk attitude dancing to be seen here, when it’s prevalent every where else currently. People are well able to argue their points and supply a rationale. It would be no bad were there some brave posters putting a more contrary point of view about this whole fish kettle. I really want to hear an argument in favour of this war that can be sustained beyond an appeal to bloodlust or saluting the flag.

The board is a better place for people thrashing out the issues, with respect for other points of view and some elegance of expression. Like Haus, I don’t we are all heading in the same direction here although there is certainly much meeting of minds on many issues. Nevertheless, I’ve had my mind changed and my attitudes influenced by contrary opinions to mine I’ve read here. Or sharpened my thinking about my stubborn dissidence. I could also borrow Knodge’s plank on some occasions, the better to vent my splenetic ire, but there’s an admirable etiquette here, by and large, which inhibits such nostalgie de la boue.

And that degree of frustration is bound to erupt, in echo of the international situation, unless you’re utterly insensitive to the miasma of hypocrisy and abuse of power which surrounds us. I wish, how I wish, I could agree with autopilot disengaged’s optimism: we are witness to US hegemony falling apart in public. I suspect Bush’s latter–day Palmerston act is a manifestation of shameless and unfettered Repulican US hegemony that we are all powerless to influence, which is here for the foreseeable future, and will wreak havoc internationally.

I share Flux’s despondency in having pretty much resigned myself to the idea that Bush is probably going to win the next election (without even having to rig it) but, as a Brit, I feel the same despondency and considerable shame that Blair and his apparatchiks are rolling over for the shrub to tickle their tummies.

I have enjoyed this thread a lot and the more so for finding it in The Conversation. That has allowed it to be more about the emotional consequences of all the warmongering in the air we breathe, rather than expecting a more cerebral Headshop or Switchboard attack.

God, I’ve rambled on. This is now one of those interminable posts I look at and then think “later maybe, I’ll just revert to frothhead mode and be a cybertart for a bit…” I want some surcease from all this tension and unease. Taking my lead from Lullaboozler: Now, where's that chocolate bar thread...

*Xoc will now take gleeful refuge in divine Weimar Republic decadence*
 
 
Strange Machine Vs The Virus with Shoes
21:28 / 07.03.03
The experience that I described in the “it’s a wonderful life thread” reminded me of a Colin Wilson essay I had read but forgotten about called: “Maslow, Sheldrake and the peak experience”. Abraham Maslow was a psychologist who decided to study the healthiest people he could find. He discovered (to a fair degree of accuracy) that these people all experienced “peak Experiences”, sensations of ”bubbling, overwhelming happiness”. Maslow then made another discovery: when he talked to his students, they started to remember past experiences, which they had half-forgotten. He realized that we all have these experiences but forget them and take them for granted. Apparently, as soon as the students started to recall and talk about these experiences, they began to have more. This had put them in the right mood to experience further peak experiences.

Wilson starts to get excited, implying that if people could induce peak experiences at will the human race would reach a utopia. Maslow disagrees that PE’s can occur “at will”. However Wilson points out that “thinking and talking about happiness puts you into an optimistic frame of mind”. He believes humans were intended to be happy and quotes Epictetus: “Man is not worried by real problems so much as by his imagined anxieties about real problems”.Wilson believes that a state of “inner tension” immediately followed by relaxation induces peak experiences. Wilson then brings in Sheldrakes idea of morphic resonance, which may bring us nearer a “modern utopia”. An example of morphic resonance is that scientists fed monkey on the Japanese island of Koshima unwashed potatoes. One bright female monkey learnt that is she washed the potatoes in the sea they tasted better, the other monkeys learnt this but so did monkeys on the mainland, without contact. The same thing happens with difficultly crystallized substances, once crystallized in one lab, the substances began to crystallise much easier all over the globe.

Finally Wilson believes that writers and artists “are largely to blame for the chaotic state of society”, by portraying life as futile and meaningless, stating that “we stuff this poisonous rubbish down the throats of our children”. But he also believes that “if a large group of human beings could learn to have peak experiences at will-or put themselves in the right state of mind for pe’s, then it should continue to spread naturally to increasing numbers of people”. Eventually everyone would be born with this ability and civilization would be totally changed. In another interview Wilson points out that the peak experience perception is not a magical or spiritual state but a natural mode of consciousness. Is this just neo-hippy nonsense or is there something in it? Personally, I like the idea and I do feel more positive the more I think of it.
 
 
autopilot disengaged
22:05 / 07.03.03
but seriously: doesn't ANYONE believe thst the international consensus has shifted? that, despite having carte blanche this time, the govt is going to have think once, twice, three times before doing ANYTHING next time?

do you really think millions in the street - despite all the anti-democratic tricks, the twisting - means nothing?

not true.

let's not be cynical when we might actually be making a diff.
 
 
Strange Machine Vs The Virus with Shoes
22:49 / 07.03.03
Here is where I am at a difference with the anti war people. I am not saying I am pro-war. But I can see how war can be beneficial. The other thing that makes me feel uncomfortable with the anti war camp is the over-zealousness of anti-war critics. I was listening to Tony Benn on a radio interview and he was so totally entrenched, spurting out rhetoric. The issue where the anti war critics stumble is that Saddam cannot be removed or placated without force. The problem is that Saddam kills his own people but over a longer period of time.

If America is prepared to go it alone, then maybe people should be more concerned with the post Saddam regime. If there is no war will you really be happy if Saddam is allowed to kill and torture for another 15-20 years(and leave a legacy for his sons)?
 
 
Matthew Fluxington
23:20 / 07.03.03
I don't know, Autopilot. The mentality of sooooooooo many people in the US is so incredibly pro-war and anti-Europe right now. I am skeptical about how much of a majority it is (I'm wary of most news sources), but it really is a LOT of people here. It terrifies me.
 
 
Goodness Gracious Meme
23:38 / 07.03.03
Which probably means the restoration or replacement of all the passionate, articulate, interesting and interested perspectives that for various reasons are not being heard very much at present.

Except perhaps on *this* thread?

As a poster *and* with my moderator hat on, I'd like this to stay here, as I agree that part of what's given this thread impact is people's emotional responses, which perhaps they wouldn't have posted had this been a Head Shop/Switchboard thread.

It perfectly represents something I was bnaging on about a while ago, that Conversation can hold fluff, but it can also hold *serious conversation*.
 
 
Strange Machine Vs The Virus with Shoes
00:02 / 08.03.03
Surely for Americans this is a new thing. You know what you would be getting into. It is not like Chile, East Timor or Nicaragua. This is an open declaration of war not a covert operation. The eyes of the world are on America. Most Countries who oppose war are doing it because their populations are predominantly comfortably middle class with quasi-artistic sensibilities (France, Germany, Britain’s people, but not government), despise an idea of American dominance (Europe, Russia, China) or have vested interests in Iraq (Russia, France, maybe China). The condition of the Iraqi people is low on the priorities of the anti-war group compared to the level of anti-Americanism as a reason not to go to war. Just as the pro-war movement increasingly claim the war to be about liberating Iraq, the anti-war movement claims it’s about oil or American dominance, this tends to diminish their argument.
 
 
Baz Auckland
00:24 / 08.03.03
I guess that's the big problem with being anti-war is how are people better under Saddam? No one wants him in power, but him being in power has to be better than us launching 800 cruise missles in 48 hours at the Iraqi people to 'alleviate their suffering.' Damned if you do, damned if you don't?

I wonder if the Vietnam war was one of the reasons for communes to catch on in the 60s/70s. People get tired of fighting the governments, or feel that their actions are futile and choose to opt out instead and refuse to participate? Stop paying taxes, move away from society, become self-sufficient, etc. I'm not saying it's not a valid option, mind you. If it all becomes too much, maybe this is the way to go.

If the war starts, I've been trying to think of what to do. The only thing I can think of is to catch a bus to D.C. and shout at the white house 'STOP IT.' A feeling of futility in a nutshell I guess.

Unless our sights are just too high. We can't stop our respective countries from bombing another it seems, so start with your city. Organise your community, volunteer more? If you can't help the international issues, try and help the local ones?

After reading this thread, I've become even more convinced of the problems and futility of government, so maybe we just need to try more to abolish it. (yes, very unrealistic here, but I'm going to try and get a seat on city council this autumn under the abolish government platform). I'm on autopilot's side though. I think that something good will come of this. Or it really won't be as bad as it seems it will. The people of Iraq seem to be in trouble either way though.
 
 
Strange Machine Vs The Virus with Shoes
01:15 / 08.03.03
Yes Baz, I agree on the abolishment of government. I recently read an article by Michael Hardt about the dangers of idealising the “big players” like Bush, Blair and Chirac”. How the focus of decision making focuses on the representatives of governments as opposed to “street” level resistance to war. I have nothing but distrust for all the big figures. There is a danger for anti-war sympathisers to fall behind someone like Chirac, or for the pro’s to follow Bush, Blair. Will this diminish the focus of ground level resistance? Maybe it is better to focus on the smaller things, such as an autonomous Kurdistan in northern Iraq. But this may mean supporting a war but becoming more involved in the post conflict situation.
 
  

Page: (1)234

 
  
Add Your Reply