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Weeeellll...
For starters, I think the terms in which you've couched the start of this discussion are going to piss a fair few people off, but I'm sure you have your reasons.
Secondly: it is a common stance both within and without Barbelith for those who hold what we might delicately term more 'conservative' viewpoints to either believe that they are in a persecuted minority or to at least claim that this is such, in spite of glaringly obvious statistics. The problem with this position (or rather, the reason it often works) is that when voiced in the context of certain debates it's almost self-fulfilling, because it invites derision.
Thirdly: Barbelith can be a very odd place of which to assess the overal tone and ideology. Some people get the impression it's some kind of Queer Totalitarian Cult, others may think it's just full of stoned American teenagers, others that the majority are geeky British fanboys. None of these are true - it just depends who's being most vocal in the threads you're reading at the time.
Fourthly: I think that while we should usually, as a default, aim to make our posts as reasoned and well though-out as possible, there are times when derision is the most appropriate reaction. Taking the piss can be useful tool, especially if you're in a marginalised group.
Filthily: on the other hand, I think there are times when some people talk about things as if they were blindingly obvious to all of us when they are clearly not. Jackie in his hate-suit, for example, spoke of the assumptions about public/private sex and so on in such a manner - althogh he did go back and explain once he decided he loves everyone. Now, in that instance, I've come to agree with the point being made but only though learning stuff via Barbelith, and if every time I'd posted something that didn't take these factors into account someone had responded with "duh!", I'd have been a bit put off.
Basically: if someone holds views which some of us might consider reactionary but are otherwise respectful and reasonable and what not, I think dialogue is the solution. If people turn up ranting about the female-homo axis and spoiling for a fight, or make casually indignant racist remarks, I think anyone is well within their rights to bitch-slap them.
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