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Misogyny Watch

 
  

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GarbageGnome
13:51 / 23.08.07
Well, I was reasoning about this a little bit, and I think I came up with something everyone can chew on, and get away from where we seem to be.

ADN, it seems to me like what your trying to get at, (and forgive me if I'm misunderstanding you) is the question of why the OVERWHELMING majority of cultures in the world have misoginistic tendencies, correct?

Well, I gave that a good deal of thought because I've always been intrigued by things that are cross-culturally similar (kinda like Egyptians liking pyramids, while around the world Mayans were thinking the same thing).

So, I fell back on my reasoning. Misogyny is not present in every civilization in our world today, nor in every civilization in history. Magick showed us a good example in the Tibetan Mosuo, and if you want a classical one, there are always the Amazons. So, I reasoned that it was not a integral part of human nature, if it was it would be in every single culture in the world, much like the human tendency to dwell in the areas most suited to habitation in a given area.

So, if it is not a creation of our human nature, then it must be something else. I think that it stems from our cultures and how they evolved around our basic wants and needs. Come on everyone, hop into the Way Back Machine with me. Way back when humans lived in hunter gatherer societies, females generally stayed at the settlement to gather food and care for offspring, as their maternal instincts urged them to care for the children. Males tended to go out and hunt game to bring home the vital protein needed to grow.

So we have women at home with the men being out in the world hunting. Fast forward a couple thousand years. Women stay at home to care for the children and the home, while the man goes out and earns the money. Anyone else seeing a basic resembelence here?

It would seem that these tendencies arise from our natures and then get applied to the world we live in. But I just said it must be cultural, so am I contradicting myself?

Not really, when you apply some more thought. If your society arose in a place where men hunted, women gathered, chances are it grew into a male dominated society. However if it happened to arise in a place where this system did not take place, whether because it was not needed or because people found another way to live, chances are it did not turn into a male dominated society.

Now, how does this turn into misogyny? This part I came up with rather simply. If men are the ones going out and doing the dangerous work of hunting, then he feels his work is tougher, and he feels tougher then the woman who does not do it, which leads to the devaluation of women, and that in turn takes us down the road of misogyny. This might be the root cause that your searching for ADN.

But, alas, I'm missing something again aren't I Magick? To quote you "a possible answer is that the key instances of women's emancipation have taken place against a backdrop of, and were driven by, post-Enlightenment secularism, democracy, and capitalism?"

Well, rather then toss out my whole idea, lets see how it applies. In these times we speak of, getting the basic necessities for survival stopped being a daily struggle. When we humans weren't constantly busy trying to survive, we had time to think. When we thought we came up with our arts, our sciences, and what we would call societies. As we did this, we started to let go of our hunter-gatherer instincts, and since they form the basis of my idea on the root of misogyny, the more we let go of them, the farther we got from misogyny.

So, lets look at our world today. We have the "Western" world, which has enjoyed relatively great prosperity in the last couple hundred years. As a result, we have come farther from our hunter-gatherer instincts and oddly enough it is in these societies where we find the least misogyny. However, in some "Eastern" cultures where life is still a struggle, those hunter-gatherer instincts are still useful, and these are also cultures with the greatest amount of misogyny.

So, thats my two cents on the question ADN. Hope I got my point across lol.
 
 
All Acting Regiment
14:12 / 23.08.07
This smacks, frankly, of border-line racism that maintains that 'Orientals', unlike Westerners, cannot exercise even a semblance of free will.

Not intentional. In fact I meant quite the opposite. My point had nothing to do with the myth of "Orientals", it applies equally to someone living in a very poor part of Europe or America.

I wasn't saying that some people genetically-racially have less free will, I was saying that some people have their options for education and behaviour made much, much harder by lack of money, war, and other economic factors.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
14:23 / 23.08.07
I don't see any motives being ascribed to you, MJ.

You might want to look at Haus' statement again, LTIY.

I realise that this is probably wasted words and Your imagery is rather telling. seek to ascribe me not only a misogynistic intent, but one that - Haus' words being probably wasted - is somehow an inextricable part of my character.

I've already apologised to one and all if my thought experiment caused them any offence. As you find it so deeply icky (something with which I don't fully agree, but, hey, that's how you feel and I respect those feelings) perhaps you could move to have it deleted?

Moving on, when you write the following, GG:

We have the "Western" world, which has enjoyed relatively great prosperity in the last couple hundred years. As a result, we have come farther from our hunter-gatherer instincts and oddly enough it is in these societies where we find the least misogyny. However, in some "Eastern" cultures where life is still a struggle, those hunter-gatherer instincts are still useful, and these are also cultures with the greatest amount of misogyny.

I do wonder whether you've ever visited, or even heard, of, say, Shanghai, The UAE, Hong Kong, Singapore, Bangalore, Tokyo, Seoul, or indeed any other large urban centre in the "East" where a large numbers of people enjoy relatively great prosperity? If you were my geography teacher, I'd come away believing that everyone east of Vienna either hunted mammoths, or grubbed around in the earth for edible roots.

Allmacto Regimat. Thanks for making that clear. I'm still not entirely sold on the notion that the misogynistic treatment of women by some Afghan men is, above and beyond many other factors (including the impact of the Soviet Invasion, and the practice of a particular brand of Islam), largely the result of American funding of the Mujahideen, but I now accept that you weren't saying that some people genetically-racially have less free wil. Apologies if I misread you.
 
 
GarbageGnome
14:53 / 23.08.07
I think your misreading me Magick. I'm saying at one point in time, EVERYONE hunted mammoths and ate edible roots. What I'm getting at is that some not all but some of them, because of geography, culture, war, any number of reasons, that they did not enjoy the leap forward that most Western nations took in the last century or so in terms of economics and societal changes. I'm very well aware of the progress in such places as Japan, I mean who hasn't heard of Sony or Honda? Or the even better example of Hong Kong which is a huge economic hub for the emerging Chinese economic powerhouse.

What I'm doing is trying to paint a general picture. I could just name a example Eastern country for you if it makes things easier.

For example, I'll stick with Afghanistan. In that country, they did not enjoy the booming economic revival of the Industrial Revolution as countries like France or Britain, they were still living a more traditional lifestyle. They do not have the water, power, transportation or healthcare systems of most modern Western countries. They are still a very traditionally influenced country with agriculture being a huge part of the average Afghani's life. Now, it also happens to be a place with a great deal of Misogyny. I'm saying that in more traditional areas where there has been little to no modernization, the acquisition of food and other resources has taken priority over societal change.

Your average Afghani isn't chomping at the bit for a revolution in women's rights because he might be more concerned about survival and bringing in his crops or goats. Its not a statement against Afghanistan, or against traditional based cultures, I'm simply stating that I think that perhaps these kinds of cultures where life is difficult do not foster the kind of enviroment necessary for a societal change in women's rights.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
19:17 / 23.08.07
GG, one possible problem (among others) with your argument particularly strikes me. You seem to be maintaining that the only set of circumstances under which women might have a cat in hell's chance of living in an equitable society are those brought about by a surplus economy. Is this necessarily true?
 
 
GarbageGnome
19:23 / 23.08.07
No no, I'm not saying you need a surplus economy or anything too specific. I'm talking about an economy that is good enough to keep the majority of people in a good standerd of living. If a country is in such a state that the average citizen has no utilities, no modern transportation, no modern devices that make living easier, like lets say...a tractor, then they have to work much harder to sustain themselves.

I'm saying that if your economy has improved enough so that you no longer have to go work in the fields, and have more spare time on your hands to read, write, talk and reason with your fellow citizens, thats when people start to think about societal changes.

I'm not saying your country needs billions of dollars in surplus, it just has to be good enough that the average person can spend a little time thinking.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
19:28 / 23.08.07
Dude, an economy has improved enough so that you no longer have to go work in the fields, and have more spare time on your hands to read, write, talk and reason with your fellow citizen is a surplus economy.
 
 
GarbageGnome
19:37 / 23.08.07
Really? I was under the impression a surplus economy was one where the GDP is great enough that the country itself can afford massive modifications such as infrastructure rework, development of new healthcare options, the things that cost billions upon billions of dollars. Kinda like the US used to have..before Bushie went and blew the load lol.

If what I'm describing above is a surplus economy, I'm not going to be so silly as to say its a necessity, so in that regard I'll say no.

But I'll go with ya and if what I desribed in my other posts is a surplus economy, then yes I think its a huge help, to any struggle for rights.

It would be extremely hard to motivate anyone to fight for another's rights if they are worried that they won't have crops to come home to and their families will starve.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
20:04 / 23.08.07
I think you're confusing a surplus economy (which is anything above a subsistence economy), with a budget surplus, which is what allows a goverment to use un-allocated tax revue for extra projects.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
08:40 / 24.08.07
GarbageGnome Your average Afghani isn't chomping at the bit for a revolution in women's rights because he might be more concerned about survival and bringing in his crops or goats.

Are you suggesting that being a misogynist and oppressing his womenfolk take your hypothetical Afghani male less time and effort than not being a misgynist and not oppressing his womenfolk? Following your model the obvious solution would be that if your hypothetical Afghani treated his woman as being equal to him then they could share the work and he'd have to work less hard.
 
 
Supaglue
09:09 / 24.08.07
Steady on Lady. They don't want to be getting ideas over their station. Of course if those damn savages just got on with tilling the fields and hurried up with their industrial revolution, they could get themselves an education like GG, who can, by virtue of his erudition spot this type of thing a mile off in primitive lands of the dark east. But what we don't want is them wasting time with women's rights in what is going to be ruffty-tufty man's work for real men until they are part of the good ol' West. Lol.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
11:10 / 24.08.07
Offtopic but: Magick, your imagery is rather telling. What's even more telling is your refusal to look at why people are objecting to your choice of imagery, and instead are reacting with hostility and anger.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
11:36 / 24.08.07
It would be extremely hard to motivate anyone to fight for another's rights if they are worried that they won't have crops to come home to and their families will starve.

Yes, why would an Afghani man want female help to bring crops home?
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
11:39 / 24.08.07
Who can know the minds of the mysterious Afgani in their villages lol
 
 
Supaglue
12:17 / 24.08.07
Welcome to Lolghanistan!

 
 
All Acting Regiment
12:39 / 24.08.07
Right, let's try and pull some sort of cease-fire together here. I start by saying that:

When a subject (person) talks about misogyny in cultures other than their own, two dangerous flaws might occur. These are, that the subject

a) is, in anger at the ill-treatment, pulled into the orbit of Imperialist ideology which presents "Islam" as a state more worthy of criticism than anything in the West, so that the poster's feminism is bought out by the Empire,

or that the subject

b) cares about the ill-treatment of women only in so far as it can be used to justify violence towards the Islamic "other"; the suffering woman is a tool, or a bargaining chip.


Part of my point is about how, as you can read in Marx or in that Jared Diamond book, Guns, Germs and Steel, economic factors (which I made a list of including the American interference, tand the hardness of making a living from the ground, to which we ought to add Soviet interference as well) will drastically affect a community's chances of education, and the ease with which that community can work out what social changes need to be made. I think Garbage Gnome puts this as:

I'm talking about an economy that is good enough to keep the majority of people in a good standerd of living. If a country is in such a state that the average citizen has no utilities, no modern transportation, no modern devices that make living easier, like lets say...a tractor, then they have to work much harder to sustain themselves.

I'm saying that if your economy has improved enough so that you no longer have to go work in the fields, and have more spare time on your hands to read, write, talk and reason with your fellow citizens, thats when people start to think about societal changes.


I don't think anyone here ever said, nor tried to say, that the Afghans were naturally, inevitably, conservative or violent, as a Victorian might have claimed; and any conservative or violent culture in Afghanistan, we are putting down to a poor economy, which makes much more sense.

Tell me if I'm wrong, but was not the wealth of, to make an arbitrary choice of country, England, in the 19th/early 20th century, a neccesary precursor to the far-reaching changes in the rights and lot of women there - certainly there were earlier points at which some women had some kind of power, such as medieval nunneries, and the first Queen Elizabeth, but as I understand it the industrial revolution and the wealth it brought was of fundamental importance.

Yet that could lead us to the faulty idea that the economy affects the Afghan subject utterly and inevitably; the idea that because of the poverty, there can be no changes there yet; effectively meaning we return to the Victorian inevitable-natural state argument but with different causes - rather than "The Afghan male will never treat women well because he is naturally bestial and treacherous", we have "The Afghan male will never treat women well because his economy makes it impossible"; which is not a great way of thinking because it shuts down any option for better treatment of women in contemporary Afghanistan, and denies the Afghan man the free agency/will which all human beings have, even in harsh cirumstances (like the leaders of the Slave Revolts, or MLK).

Which is possibly what Lady sees in Garbage Gnome's statent:

"Your average Afghani isn't chomping at the bit for a revolution in women's rights because he might be more concerned about survival and bringing in his crops or goats."

Now, I don't think anyone can say what "the average (type of person)" is or is not thinking about, or to what extent someone is chomping at a bit; rather, I'm sure there is a spectrum of Afghan opinion, and potential for better treatment of women there right now, even with the poverty - but the sort of education and discussion that needs to go on for this to happen will be much, much more difficult than in, for example, France, because of the poverty, and the effects of poverty, such the lack of well-established secular universities, gangs of bandits, jobs which require a lot of time spent on physical labour that tire the subject and make it hard to find time to study, and so on.

Now Lady replies to GG:

Are you suggesting that being a misogynist and oppressing his womenfolk take your hypothetical Afghani male less time and effort than not being a misgynist and not oppressing his womenfolk? Following your model the obvious solution would be that if your hypothetical Afghani treated his woman as being equal to him then they could share the work and he'd have to work less hard.

Which is very logical, but it would be harder for me to see such logic if I had to do hard labour all day and had been brought up (as many men all over the world are) to see a woman's "natural" job as looking after children and cooking. Am I right in thinking that in England it was only accepted that women could do "men's work" when all the men were off in the war and the women were working in the munitions factories?
 
 
This Sunday
12:58 / 24.08.07
The personal farm/herd usually requires involvement from both women and men, or at least, of everyone present, at least that's been my experience (skewed to Native Americans, yes, so there may be a catch in my extrapolation). On a farm, everyone works. If you have sheep or horses? Everyone deals with them eventually. While the semi-current political climate of Afghanistan has encouraged misogyny, sometimes specifically and deliberately, it would seem to be unconnected to, um, herds and stuff. Especially since there's a trackable rise in misogynistic and repressive laws, practices, and atmosphere in certain parts of Islam-weighted nations over the past fifteen/twenty plus years.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
13:00 / 24.08.07
LTIY, I'd like to straighten this out with you.

I have apologised twice now if my thought experiment (which I myself have, in four separate posts, stated was rather shonky, even regrettable) caused you or any other board member offence. I understand that you felt that the mental image of a gun being put to the head of a magically gender-reassigned absurdly Decadent Nightfalling by Entity X was deeply icky. Now, I'd prefer it if nobody on this planet had to ever feel deeply icky, especially on my account, and so I'm happy to apologise for a third time to anybody I've offended and to promise never to post another thought experiment in which a male-identifying board member undergoes a mysterious sex change, only to then have a pistol pressed to hir temple by a cypher.

On top of that, and far more importantly I think, I'll repeat that I'm against the pressing of real guns to real women's heads, by real entities, be they male, female or.. oh, you get the idea. I'm also against any statement that might normalise, trivialise, or give support to such an occurence. I happen to believe that my thought experiment was sufficiently artificial, even sufficiently absurd, to distance itself from such statements. If you don't, LTIY, I won't pretend to agree with you, but I will offer you (again) my apologies, and will say to anybody who took my thought experiment as a green-light to employ violence against women: "No!".

If I've seemed angry and hostile during this episode, it's because I grew up in a family in which I saw my father regularly beat my mother (he also regularly beat me), and so I'm not best placed to take insinuations that I in any way support violence against women in my stride.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
13:15 / 24.08.07
Legba: I think that it's a worthwhile thing to point out that yr white western mainstream commentators become fervent feminists when talking about something 'Other', whether it's Islam or, say, hip hop.

I think the phrasing of how we should not "locate this cruelty within the Afghan/Islamic male, when in fact it is rooted in the CIA which funded him and the economic hardship - the poverty and desert conditions - which prevail in Afghanistan and make life there hard and real education all but impossible" was slightly clumsy and left the door open for someone to come in and start banging on about why are you blaming it all on the Americans, why aren't we all marching on the Saudi embassy etc etc. Whereas in fact I think this thread was always available as a place for people to point out misogyny wherever it may happen. It's just a fact that our media, even its 'liberal' wing, will always have more to say about when it happens elsewhere, rather than things like this - which make pointing them out all the more valuable.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
13:58 / 24.08.07
Shaftoe / Flyboy, I'm guessing you mean me when you refer to someone [coming] in and [...] banging on about why are you blaming it all on the Americans, why aren't we all marching on the Saudi embassy etc etc. Doesn't seem quite fair given that my major bone of contention was the fact that Allmacto Regimat didn't mention the activities of the USSR in Afghanistan in the '80s at all, at time when the Soviet invasion led to 600,000-2,000,000 Afghan deaths. I was in no way saying that American hands were clean, or even saying that the US was 'better' than the USSR, only that the absence of this bit of information seemed a little odd.

It also seems a little unfair to cast my comments about Saudi Arabia as somehow ignoring misogyny in the 'West'. I specifically mentioned the 2006 proposed amendments to abortion law in South Dakota (which in an overturning of Roe vs. Wade, seek to ban abortion even in cases when the pregnancy is the result of rape), in the same breath as Saudi rape law. If we should march on the Saudi Embassy, we should also march on the South Dakota state legislature.

Your point that It's just a fact that our media, even its 'liberal' wing, will always have more to say about [misogyny?] when it happens elsewhere is a good one. and it's hard not to conclude that this focus has some (perhaps unconscious) racist / xenophobic agenda. However, I don't believe that this means that it's necessarily racist / xenophobic for us to condemn misogyny when it happens a little further from home.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
15:26 / 24.08.07
I'm not aware that anybody said it was. Which is why this kind of thing rankles:

I wonder, if this aparthied involved, say, whites and blacks, whether you'd be quite so keen to point that - hey! - thing's aren't 100% tickety boo in the West in terms of racial parity? Chances are that you, and a great number of other people, would be too busy marching on the Saudi Embassy.
 
 
This Sunday
15:42 / 24.08.07
Wow, taken as an excerpt, it's just more than a bit of a big 'fuck you' to like every social movement, women's rights, civil rights, going on in a place any of 'us' live. Doubly so, anyone reading Barbelith from the Middle East (I know at least two students, both women, in Jordan who lurked some time ago - Hi, if you still are) with any kind of civil equality/adjustment inclination.

I thought maybe my bad mood was tainting my read.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
16:19 / 24.08.07
aDN, could you explain exactly why you think that excerpt is a a big 'fuck you' to like every social movement, women's rights, civil rights, going on in a place any of 'us' live. Doubly so, anyone reading Barbelith from the Middle East (I know at least two students, both women, in Jordan who lurked some time ago - Hi, if you still are) with any kind of civil equality/adjustment inclination.?

It seems to me that wondering why Saudi Arabia's gender aparthied hasn't received as much attention from protestors / activists in the 'West' as pre-Majority Rule South Africa's race aparthied did is a valid pursuit. To say that it is a 'fuck you' to every social movement etc. in the 'West' is one sense like saying that wondering why there are not environmental demonstrations outside the offices of major breweries that buy pub terrace heaters en masse is a 'fuck you' to the Heathrow protestors. Pondering the absence of one does not seek to invalidate the other.
 
 
This Sunday
16:46 / 24.08.07
Um, because at the same time 'we' would all jump up and storm the gates and bomb the shit out of somebody, presumably, if this were a racial issue? Two Native and three African Americans still had to wait for a big Germanic-looking fellow to join us before anyone at the restaurant would deal with us - while dealing with other patrons (read-as-white) who came in after us, no problem. Because, during a tornado warning the other evening, my friend and several other women were told by a shop they couldn't stay there, while they were closing, despite radio warnings to take cover - until they decided if I were there it was alright, because there'd be a man there. Because, yes, I, manly me, will y'know, wrestle the storm into submission or something. Because there are clearly people in the world living with and fighting daily against all sorts of ridiculous oppression, and it's a damned easy out to point elsewhere and exclaim how worse it is over there. It devalues the suffering and injustice here, wherever here may be. And it devalues the people there, wherever there may be, who're living with and fighting against the oppressions and injustices they experience on a daily basis.

Because it says 'they' need 'us' to fix 'them' and then, maybe, 'we' can fix 'ourselves,' without stopping to ask what's all this 'we' stuff? Because 'imagine you're a woman with a gun to your head' has little reflection on 'imagine you're a woman,' which kinda has only a slightly better focus on, well, women. I don't need to imagine that, if I can just get a more accurate picture by looking across the room, picking up the phone, or banging out an e-mail and asking a woman. Maybe I'm a bit reflexively down on Great White Father routines. Maybe you're not approaching it nearly as intensely as it seems to me. On the other hand, what good does the Flyboy-quoted bit do anybody? Besides simplify the issues at hand and devalue one side to corrector and the other to transgressor, with a clear taint of patronising to boot? Intentional? Probably not, but it doesn't stop it from being those things. If I turn around and hit somebody with my elbow, it needs never be intentional in order to bruise or annoy.

Finally, some of us would not be too busy, because we have never been too busy. We're too busy marching for ourselves, setting up community protection and watch plans and letting each other know what pool halls are a bad idea to go into at night, lobbying at State, Federal, and UN levels, all the while being aware precisely where the Klan or other form of supremacist have their set-up in town (24th and B), that 'darky' and 'bitch' are the nicest terms some people can use in public, and how much easier life is if you keep your eyes to the floor.

You have people right here on this forum who've been through some things, who have been busily taking action on their homefront, without it evaporating their concerns for people elsewhere. People not too busy because they aren't fighting against, they still have to live with the unpleasant consequences of their situation. I figure if there's two women from the Middle East reading these posts, there's probably many people from such regions I'm not aware of, and I'll assume they're doing what they can to change and better things, just as I would of anyone on this board from the UK, from either of the Americas, or anywhere else.

I may disagree with the approach of some of these people, but I won't invalidate it or wipe it off the board and pretend it doesn't count. That statement, on the other hand, intentionally or not, erases all those people's effort, devalues their suffering and frustration, and generally doesn't do any of us a lick of good.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
17:45 / 24.08.07
*Sigh*

I composed a really long reply to your post, aDN, explaining that no, I do not wish to denigrate any work done by any anti-oppression groups either in my home-country (the UK) or anywhere else, that I do not believe nations such as my own are the only ones capable of instituting justice in nations such as Saudi Arabia (indeed, my image of the march on the Saudi Embassy was intended as an image of support for Saudi anti-oppression activists/groups), and that no, I wasn't accusing any member of Barbelith of inaction. In the end, though, I lost heart. From what you've told me, I am on the same side as you. From what you've told me, I care about the same things you do. Hell, we might even discover (if we were to compare notes) that I take similar action on my homefront to you. Perhaps the energy we've expended on this discussion could be put to better use elsewhere.
 
 
This Sunday
18:01 / 24.08.07
I am on the same side as you.

Haven't doubted it for a second. I've read, as I believe most who've responded have, the offenses/ickiness/rankling-stuff as unintentionally so. It's that whole being human; taking missteps thing. But once it's been brought up by others as detrimental or offensive, it's probably best to take a look back and then adjust as necessary, so we can all get on into the future. (A suggestion that's here for to prod me, as much as anyone else.)
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
18:08 / 24.08.07
Noted. You seem like a very together person.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
09:53 / 13.09.07
Good news everybody! Decca Aitkenhead has identified the root cause of misogyny! Guess what it is?

Women.

Look out in particular for the bit where Aitkenhead conflates buying something from the Body Shop or having a manicure with pole-dancing classes, which in turn is conflated with videoing oneself having sex and distributing the footage, which in turn is conflated with being a sex worker.

I know it's Standard Operating Procedure that most articles on Comment Is Free make me want to kill everybody starting with the author and ending with myself, but all the responses to the above being divided into either agreement or "there's nothing wrong with being sexiest!" is really going to push me over the edge, I swear...
 
 
All Acting Regiment
10:28 / 13.09.07
The reason - and the problem - is that the feminist critique has consistently failed to account for women's own complicity in the genre.

The Nuts website, for example, features a page called Assess My Breasts, inviting men to study photos of naked breasts and rank them - which doesn't seem particularly respectful. But the thousands of images have been uploaded by ordinary women - "entirely voluntarily", for free, as the spokeswoman took pleasure pointing out. Without these willing armies of female volunteers, there would be no breasts for any readers of Nuts to assess - or any of the "Real Girls!" beloved of porn shoots, and no "High Street Honeys" for FHM porn scouts to find.


Um, possibly not everyone is aware, Decca, that something presented to them as just a bit fun and naughty might have such far-reaching consequences; possibly people are so terrified of not being sexy that they'll do anything for it. Possibly they come from families where they've only heard conservative rhetoric.
 
 
All Acting Regiment
13:49 / 13.09.07
I mean ... as if there's no coercion with these photoshoots, as if it's not presented as just natural ...
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
14:46 / 13.09.07
The biggest problem with using the recent story of the 14 year old is that anyone who has read the details of that case will know that it makes it clear that FHM at least do not bother to ask if permission has been given for a woman's partner to send in topless photos of that woman:

The magazine had been informed that the complainants' daughter was in a cohabiting relationship with the person who submitted the photograph and, in those circumstances, no further enquiries about the image were made

But, y'know, fuck, any article that starts with the idea that feminism is about "blaming men" is always going to be a load of shit.
 
 
This Sunday
17:26 / 13.09.07
Clearly, the problem isn't men or women, it's anyone that can claim 'uploaded by ordinary women - "entirely voluntarily"' without feeling dishonest and presumptuous. Unless they've got some long-distance sex-checking, identity and pressure-checking, technologies I'm unaware of. Or, for that matter 'ordinary women,' being a phrase just like 'real women' or 'ordinary guy'/'real men' that just needs to go the fuck away.
 
 
All Acting Regiment
08:17 / 14.09.07
I imagine that most of the stuff on the lad mag websites is faked or put up without the woman's permission.
 
 
Mysterious Transfer Student
09:43 / 14.09.07
The best way to read any vaguely feminism-related CiF article is to do a wordsearch on it for the word 'shrill'. If it appears anywhere in the body of the piece you've saved yourself a whole load of eyebleedy. The same goes for any of the comments that are posted afterwards.

This article also ran this week and is about as uncontentious as one could wish... unless you're a CiF commentator from the League of Nice Guys.

It is the easiest thing in the world for women to get sex. Even if they are unnatractive, uninteresting, and annoying, they can get sex easily with good-looking men.

Come hither, Torontoguy, and tell us more.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
10:34 / 14.09.07
I imagine that most of the stuff on the lad mag websites is faked or put up without the woman's permission.

I'd be inclined to disagree. A non-scientific gander around my myspace friend list shows 47 female friends and 15 of them in their undies etc. So if 33% of my female friends choose to be in a state of undress for public consumption, would that not suggest that enough women in the world would be happy to send similar photographs of themselves into such "lad mags websites"? Hasn't this been going on for years; amateur pornography is a massive industry, the term "readers wives" is one that's deepset in popular culture etc.?
 
  

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