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A thank you note to Barbelith.

 
  

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ONLY NICE THINGS
08:31 / 28.03.07
In the sense of "in a dedicated thread", that's true, Nina, but not in the sense of "stated openly as existing"...
 
 
Tryphena Absent
08:39 / 28.03.07
Hey horses for courses.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
08:47 / 28.03.07
Congrats, Kali! You done scored yourself a comic-writing genius!

w00t!
 
 
Spaniel
10:16 / 28.03.07
Fonzie, he say AAAAAYYYYY

 
 
Dead Megatron
11:43 / 28.03.07
MattShepherd, you dog!!

I only kid. Very happy wishes to you two. Love is a great thing.

[Haus, stop trying to be the smartest person around everytime. We. Get. It.]
 
 
electric monk
11:54 / 28.03.07
A toast!



To Kali and MattS, and the love they've found!
 
 
All Acting Regiment
12:04 / 28.03.07
Hazzah!
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:06 / 28.03.07
I know this is an awkward situation, Dead Megs, but there's no need to try to start a fight at the reception like this. You never know - somebody might be sitting just at the next table... somebody who is just right for you...



I feel it in my metal fingers,
I feel it in my molybdenum toes...
 
 
Disco is My Class War
12:35 / 28.03.07
Well of all the relationships that have been started through barbelith (I can think of six off the top of my head) this is the first that's been announced.

There's a lot more than six.

A whole lot more.

But nice going, the both of you. Love is sweet. When can we expect the patter of little Barbebabies' feet, and photos thereof in the correct thread?
 
 
Tryphena Absent
12:37 / 28.03.07
Yeah, I just couldn't think of more than 6 within the criteria.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:39 / 28.03.07
You're right, you know, Disco. Even the ones I can think of offhand reach double figures comfortably. Depending on what you mean by "relationship".

Next question is probably what the appropriate thread for baby pictures is. "Cute animals for Haus"?
 
 
Olulabelle
12:41 / 28.03.07
Do not sully that lovely thread with pictures of babies!
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:50 / 28.03.07
The Laotian Rock Rat suggested it. He would like to say sorry.

 
 
MattShepherd: I WEDDED KALI!
13:11 / 28.03.07
You know it's a Barbeparty once somebody busts out the Laotian Rock Rat photos.

Thanks, everybody!
 
 
Sax
13:24 / 28.03.07
Well, congrats.

I heard Nick's leather trousers weeping last night, though.
 
 
HCE
13:40 / 28.03.07
Congratulations, you two.

I can understand wanting to share your happiness about something -- people do that all the time in the Get a Happy thread or whatever it's called. Didn't Happy Dave start a thread announcing he had a relationship? And he didn't even meet her here. I guess I don't really get the thanking Barbelith aspect. If it was something we didn't know about, how did we help?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
13:40 / 28.03.07
Gosh, I'd totally forgotten about that.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
13:45 / 28.03.07
Nick's leather trousers, that is. But also about Happy Dave's girlfriend. Is that why he's happy? Love's grand, isn't it?

The Internet's a remarkable thing, isn't it? I mean, it's totally changed the approach vector for getting and keeping long-distance relationships...
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
14:16 / 28.03.07
Well, I should think that if MattS hadn't started posting here, I would have never cultivated a friendship that became something more, honestly. But it did and it happened as slowly and carefully as it could. We felt both felt sure for a little bit but needed that sort of interaction that meant "wow! this is for real!" before saying anything.

I could easily say a billion times how wonderful he is. Cute, kind, smart, caring, everything I didn't think I could expect but somehow amazingly received. It's terrifying and elating to think that I have met someone with whom to build a future as opposed to the dodgy boyfriends who weren't able to think past the next week. I am extremely thankful and sometimes it's enough to make me tear up with joy.

At the risk of embarrassing said boyfriend, he calls me every morning around five a.m. to help me start my day and tell me he loves me.

Now that probably deserves a disgustingly cute photo of some sort of animal.
 
 
Eloi Tsabaoth
14:20 / 28.03.07


I ruvs roo!

I RUVS ROO!


Euch, what the hell is wrong with me... I need some kind of saccharine detox...
 
 
Quantum
14:21 / 28.03.07
Well, it's about time you fell for someone who wasn't an arse TBH. Well done!
 
 
Suedey! SHOT FOR MEAT!
14:22 / 28.03.07
I want to thank the world, for existing!
 
 
HCE
14:30 / 28.03.07
Anybody who calls me at 5am is getting stabbed.
 
 
Olulabelle
14:33 / 28.03.07
At the risk of embarrassing said boyfriend, he calls me every morning around five a.m

If my boyfriend did that he soon wouldn't be.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
14:36 / 28.03.07
5am is for emergencies.
 
 
Spaniel
14:38 / 28.03.07
Gourami, I think the point is expression and sharing of happy, not whether any of us are directly responsible.
 
 
Eloi Tsabaoth
14:39 / 28.03.07
It's presumably much less nerve-jangling if you're expecting it. I know my SO loves me because ze wakes at 7:15 every day and I wake at 7:30. Ze sneaks around silently for 15 minutes. Bless.
 
 
Whisky Priestess
14:41 / 28.03.07
5am is for emergencies.

and WUV!!!

You fucking cynics ...

He's not a STALKER, he's HER. BOY. FRIEND.

Sure, he might have started out as a stalker, but that's just the kind of cute "how we met" story people love at dinner parties!
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
14:43 / 28.03.07
When he was here, he would wake up at his usual time of 5 am, and if I didn't have to work then he would go feed my bossy cat--whom is, as MattS can attest, is REALLY bossy--while I continued to sleep.

I love the phone calls that early. It brightens my day.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
14:50 / 28.03.07
None of us ever denied cynicism but this kind of thread is worrisome. What if it all goes wrong? Will there be a "fuck you note to barbelith". Do we get blamed for ruining people's lives because we inadvertently kicked off this relationship? It's troubling.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
14:53 / 28.03.07
There is an old story, a beautiful story, about a boy who came home famished after long hours of play with his friends. His mother served him some sandwiches which satisfied his hunger and caused him to thank his mom. She said, "Don't thank me, son I only prepared the food." So he went to the grocer to thank him for the bread. "Don't thank me, young man, I only sell the food." He walked over to the baker and thanked him. "Son, you're thanking the wrong person, I only bake the bread." Wondering whom to thank, the boy went to the farmer to thank him. "Thank you for the fine bread that I eat every day," he said. "Don't thank me, my friend, I only plant the seeds. The earth, sunshine, rain and wind make the wheat grow, not I.

By now the boy was tired and hungry so the farmer invited him to join his family for dinner. As they were seated around the table, each person took a piece of bread from the basket and said together: "Praised be Thou, O Lord our God, King of the universe, Who brings bread out of the earth."
 
 
Eloi Tsabaoth
14:53 / 28.03.07
Yeah, that would be terrible. How would we ever recover from that? We'd be sent into a terrible Barbepression.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
14:56 / 28.03.07
All relationships will have their rough patches, there's no denying that. But I would like to think that I am with someone with whom I can work things out with when it gets rough. Living together is a big step and it won't be easy, but if it were, it probably wouldn't be worth having.

I remain optimistic and upbeat.
 
 
HCE
14:56 / 28.03.07
I got that part of it, Boboss. I congratulated them, I pointed out that threads expressing happiness had been done before, I pointed out that threads announcing you're in a relationship have been done before. What I don't get is what any of that has to do with Barbelith. Seems a bit like thanking Starbucks because you met somebody who hangs out there.

I'm not saying Kali should be BANNED AND SILENCED FOR THIS CRIME! I'm just saying I don't really get the connection. My not getting it is not really a big deal.

 
 
Spaniel
14:57 / 28.03.07
Do we get blamed for ruining people's lives because we inadvertently kicked off this relationship? It's troubling.

If we do we tell 'em to shut up and fuck off.

This thread however is all about gushy celebration and that's quite nice and nothing at all to worry about, imo.
 
  

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