I'm pretty well aware of free association, yes, and I can well accept that, when you see a particular 'look' on the street or wherever, you run through a series of associations. What I don't understand is where that gets us in terms of wider reality: for example, you might well perceive upturned collars to be "incomplete" and therefore "immature" etc. etc. etc., but that's your string of associations, and I don't see that it amounts to a "disposition" anywhere other than your own mind. Others might look at the same thing and associate in quite a different way. For example, I would tend to see upturned collars with rugby shirts or cravatted Beau Brummell dandies, and run through a whole other set of mental images...
... all of which is fine and groovy but, if you're going to attach your own negative associations to a particular group ("homosexuals"), be aware that all of those associations belong to you and you only, and others may well perceive the situation differently. The fact that you, in your head, associate certain styles of clothing with gay men doesn't necessarily equate with gay men being "responsible" for them in a wider sense.
The male archetype to me is something that goes beyond mental comprehension it is a man fully in touch and at harmony with what and who he is at that point in time
Again, nothing fundamentally wrong with this, but a man with an upturned collar may well be fully in touch and at harmony with what and who he is at that point in time. As may a gay man. Or a man with a mohican hairstyle, or whatever. None of these things is inherently antithetical to "the male archetype" in any objective sense. |