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Oh dear. : A thread about things that tick you off quite a bit, and might even elicit a frown.

 
  

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foolish fat finger
20:29 / 22.04.06
Lepidopteran, people are scared to leave neg feedback because then the seller leaves u a comment like "WHAT A KNOBHEAD!!!AVOID THIS TOSSER AT ALL COSTS!!!" even when u paid instantly, and gave them no gyp at all...

I am mildly peeved by the word 'bloke'. it just seems so anonymous and inoffensive. I get the feeling that 'blokes' are interchangable, fairly pleasant with no particular defining traits except enjoying a drink and football. a girl once described me as her current bloke... and I've hated it ever since with a passion bordering on quite bothered...
 
 
ibis the being
21:15 / 22.04.06
Yeah, it's not so much the explosions that you witness that are particularly nasty, as the (so euphemistically named) accidents you find later, on the front mat, in the other room... and then having to ask yourself, as you walk around barefoot because your flipflops had to go in the trash can, DID I MISS ANY MORE?
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
22:03 / 22.04.06
I'm not sure whether to be peeved or really fucking impressed with this one... but Sheena (the dog) nicked two hundred quid off me last night.

I had two hundred and thirty quid, in notes, rolled up and kept in a glass on a low table. Came back from a gig last night, thought I'd go buy some beer, went to the glass for the money, and there was only thirty quid in it. Freaked out a bit, checked all the windows, realised the computer, Xbox and telly were still all present and correct, and that I probably hadn't been burgled (I mean, what kind of burglar would leave some cash behind?). Then got REALLY freaked out that Sheena had eaten the money. I mean, two hundred quid's a fair bit of cash, but I was more worried about the metal strips in the notes being REALLY bad to eat (given a choice between a bunch of cash and my dog, I'll take the dog every time).
Eventually I found all the money, hidden under my duvet.

Now THAT's fucked up. I mean, what the fuck was she gonna spend it on? For a start, she's not allowed in most of the shops where I buy her food...
 
 
All Acting Regiment
22:47 / 22.04.06
Most likely she was going to buy some tummy medicine for the hound of Ibis...
 
 
ibis the being
19:23 / 24.04.06
Oh my GOD, dudes. My dear boyfriend was home all day with me yesterday and there were no canine digestive disasters. And now today, today I am once again home alone with the dog and once again he succumbs to EXPLOSIVE DIARRHEA! Why? WHHHHYYYYYYY???????
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
19:25 / 24.04.06
I reckon your boyfriend's been feeding him money.
 
 
Elijah, Freelance Rabbi
20:02 / 24.04.06
On the earlier topic of Ebay feedback, when the hell did the system go shitty to the point that a seller wont give me feedback until I give them feedback? I PAID for the stupid fucking geek toy of the moment, you got money in like 10 seconds, wheres my feedback? "I'll give you positive feedback after you give it to me" is a pile of bullshit.

Sorry, this is something that has been bothering me for over a year now, back in the day (5ish years ago) I started ebaying and the seller ALWAYS left feedback when they got the money. Now feedback is some kind of ransom, so you can pay them, wait 2 weeks for the item that should have taken 3 days to get to you, and you have no recourse because you will get terrible feedback if you are honest. No buyers protection anymore on Ebay.
 
 
Feverfew
20:27 / 24.04.06
My job, at the moment.

It's not so bad as to make me want to post in the Untamed Anger thread, but it's just enough to make me want to frown. A lot. I'm being utilised as a gofer and left with bundles of work wa-a-a-a-ay over my salary grade, and there are things that bother me that I have no-one to really talk to about.

So. Rar. Anyway. Sorry. As y'all were.
 
 
Shrug
21:41 / 24.04.06
I left my phone in the kitchen today and someone has deleted a number off it. Weird.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
20:25 / 25.04.06
The Sky News Vote at the moment is on whether the BNP has a place in British politics. Yes is winning by about three to one. Go vote.
 
 
All Acting Regiment
21:07 / 25.04.06
Their amazing aryan powers allow them to click thrice where a lesser man would only click once. And while they're doing that, the traffic in "sergeant major" porn dips by 90%.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
11:29 / 26.04.06
A guy in the lift at work had a plastic bag. One M&S sandwich inside, the shop a mere minute's walk from the building. Was he holding the bag by the handles? No, it was wrapped around the sandwich packaging. An aversion to touching card perhaps?

This didn't warrant untamed hate but I definitely frowned.
 
 
Spaniel
13:27 / 26.04.06
Gets pretty close to H&A, though, eh?
 
 
Quantum
13:41 / 26.04.06
Headsick and rage I'd say. No need for a prophylactic bag, no need to shop at M&S, WHAT WAS HE THINKING?! Hasn't he seen the plastic bag trees?
 
 
Olulabelle
13:59 / 26.04.06
The man in our local shop argues with me about it.

"Let me give you a bag."

"I don't need a bag, I live 3 doors down the road."

"Have a bag, have a bag, you need a bag."

"I do not need a bag, it's one item and I have hands. Thank you."
 
 
julius has no imagination
15:48 / 26.04.06
Oh yes, plastic bags.

People who come back with two small, flimsy plastic bags (branded Sainsbury's or Tesco or such) in each hand when going shopping, rather than taking one or two reusable bags along and putting everything in those.

Because, apparently, taking your own bags along is just not cool.

Are you listening, Tom???
 
 
Shrug
16:01 / 26.04.06
Those broad based canvas type ones are much more functional and easier to carry, though. And they limit the possibility of a burst-bag-pesto-on-pavement scenario, too. I assume they charge for plastic bags in the UK. So, just Economically/Enviromentally more sound, damnit.
 
 
Tryphena Absent
18:00 / 26.04.06
I have two hemp bags and a cotton bag and the cotton one goes everywhere with me. I have used it twice today so Mr-I-take- bags- vicariously is just morally INFERIOR.
 
 
Shrug
18:06 / 26.04.06
Wasteful, at least.
 
 
Jack Denfeld
18:30 / 26.04.06
Fuck. Get all my money in with AA, get the guy to call with AK, he's a hopeless underdog, I'm about ready to double up, and sure enough he fucking rivers a straight on me.

Very next tourney I get my money in with QQ vs JToff, and sure enough, the underdog flops a fucking straight! Arrrggghhhh, I just uninstalled all my poker software, fuck poker. Arrrrggghhh.
 
 
julius has no imagination
19:12 / 26.04.06
Shrug: No, they don't charge for plastic bags, usually. Well, not for the basic, small and thin and weak ones. For a few pence, you can get the sturdier reusable ones (which my aforementioned friend doesn't use). Also, Sainsbury's used to do a deal where you get a penny back (yes, a whole penny) for every bag you re-use, calculated by how many reusable bags you actually re-use.

Cotton/canvas bags are nice, but I haven't got one around and can't be bothered to obtain one, so I tend to go to the shops with my all-purpose rucksack (which I use to carry notes/laptop to Uni, warm coat and sandwiches when hiking, etc.), put everything that fits in there, and everything else in a few reusable plastic bags I've brought along.

Hmm... I used to have a lovely canvas bag with Tux on the side. Ecological *and* geeky! Wonder what happened to it.
 
 
Our Lady Has Left the Building
19:20 / 26.04.06
I reuse shopping bags. Excess bags I take to work to give to customers who want bags to take their books home. Basically I'm better than most other people.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
19:34 / 26.04.06
Argh bags, basically. BCN is peachy for recycling/greenness generally, but plakky bags are a bit of a blind spot. Most shops won't let you take a rucksack or a shoulderbag into the store, making you leave it in a locker which is often quite a way from the checkouts. You can't run over, get your bag and run back to the cashpoint, and so have little choice but to use plastic bags to get your purchases home. I swear, I've seen staff at stores that sell big sturdy multi-use bags at the checkout on the pretext of environmentalism make people put these same bags in the bloody locker on the way into the shop, so they still have to use plastic. I try and re-use bags as much as I can, but they fall to bits after one or two goes. You can recycle them here, of course, but way to defeat the object.
 
 
Shrug
19:40 / 26.04.06
I've seen people throw perfectly good bags-for-life away.
%The extravagance!%
 
 
Mistoffelees
20:06 / 26.04.06
I don´t know about the quality of british cotton shopping bags, but here they $&%§%& shrink when you wash them once! Then there´s room enough for one jam glas.

And in shops where I get plastic bags for free, I take them. I use them for the trash bin.
 
 
ibis the being
20:34 / 26.04.06
A thing that's ticked me off quite a bit today: overflowed toilet. Enough said about that.

I reuse plastic shopping bags for dog poop patrol.

Someday I may even write a post that doesn't deal with fecal matter.
 
 
matthew.
13:06 / 27.04.06
Oh my. You know how Haus and Ganesh are big on the language you use on Barbelith, and how one must understand the value and meaning of a word and use the word required by context? And not exaggerate to the extreme?

There's this girl at my work who is not the world's smartest girl on the planet. She's not dumb, but she's not bright. She (and this other girl) often run into problems with me for their unexamined use of language and word. For example, she once said of her sister, "She's practically a nun!"
"Why?" says me.
"Well, she never goes out. She doesn't have a boyfriend."
"So that means she's married to God? That she has taken a vow of celibacy?"
"Uh... no...?"

Anyway, so this girl, N, says this yesterday to a new employee, "I always come in early."
I replied while doing something else, "Well, I hope you didn't punch in. We can't pay you."
She said, "Yeah, I know, you guys are Nazis about timecards."
I said, calmly, "That's not very nice considering your boss is Jewish."
"I was just joking."
"Not funny. Seriously."
"You're over-reacting! God, take a joke!" and she stormed off.

I was rather calm about the whole thing. People know that I'm always listening to their words. This is not the first time N has thrown out the word Nazi casually, often carelessly comparing things to this fascist regime.

There's a difference between Seinfeld humourously using "Soup Nazi" behind the characters' back, and calling your Jewish employer a Nazi. There's a huge difference. One is a sitcom, one is real fucking life.

Does anything of this sound familiar, Barbelith?
 
 
Shrug
13:14 / 27.04.06
I get the "nun" thing. It works, in two ways, at least. Perhaps, an issue of being practically celibate and some reference to closed orders that don't leave monastic settlements.

The other comment is entirely urgh fuck, though.
 
 
Quantum
13:24 / 27.04.06
I assume they charge for plastic bags in the UK
You'd think, wouldn't you? When I'm in charge they'll cost a quid a go, *then* people will suddenly realise they have bags already and remember to bring them shopping.
I re-use placcy bags for small binbags, packaging, waterproofing plant pots, bagging the recycling, as a lunchbox, a bag, and to suffocate squirrels with.
 
 
Mistoffelees
13:43 / 27.04.06
...and to suffocate squirrels with.

 
 
Ganesh
13:46 / 27.04.06
Aphids - and too early in the year to buy ladybird larvae. Tt.
 
 
Quantum
14:03 / 27.04.06
I fear no Squirrels.
 
 
_Boboss
14:11 / 27.04.06
"She's practically a nun!"
"Why?" says me.
"Well, she never goes out. She doesn't have a boyfriend."
"So that means she's married to God? That she has taken a vow of celibacy?"


cool!
haven't had a chance to drop in this feller for ages:


plus, i bet your boss loves it when you use their ethnicity to decide on their behalf what words they ought to hear.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
14:21 / 27.04.06
On the plus side, he did only speak for one Jewish man, rather than all Jews everywhere. You're just political correctness gone mad, Gumby.
 
 
matthew.
14:44 / 27.04.06
plus, i bet your boss loves it when you use their ethnicity to decide on their behalf what words they ought to hear.

First of all, it doesn't matter to the story that my employer is Jewish. What matters is that this girl N, chooses to throw around the term "Nazi," without considering what it means and what its implications are. She was unfavorably comparing our system of timecards and a cold regime that systematically slaughtered millions for the sake of genetic purity. Bit of an imbalanced equation, don't you think?

Secondly, even if my boss was not Jewish, I would have said exactly what I said (save for the Jewish comment). She uses words (not just Nazi, but others) without any consideration for their meaning and for their impact on other people.

And, let's say that she said this comment right when the boss was there. And let's say my boss wasn't Jewish. Isn't that truly a mark of disrespect to compare an independent business owner and operator with a bunch of hate-mongering evil sadistic assholes?

"what words they ought to hear": What the fuck, Gumbitch?
 
  

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