When someone wants to make an attack on a particular group but doesn't feel its going to go down well they can use this method to convince listeners that they are not attacking group X (when in fact they are) only those with 'problems'.
Interestingly, we've just been discussing this same problem over in the "Schisms in the isms" headshop thread, wrt feminism. That is, wrt the way people who are threatened by feminism and women's equality create terms like "misandry feminism" or "feminazi" in order, ultimately, to discredit the whole movement. (Sadly, it works, I find, pretty well, given enough power in conservative hands.)
Second, re: the intentional community you're describing, not in your face. It would definitely be worthwhile to visit some places that have been doing this kind of thing. I'm most familiar in the US with Twin Oaks Intentional Community near Louisa, Virginia, which is a fully income-sharing, work-based community. Every member pledges to contribute, I believe, 46 hours of work/week, which includes all housework, meal prep, etc.
It's been around since 1967, so they know what they are about, although they have recently been experiencing some financial difficulties due to forces pretty much beyond their control. Still, it's a great place (a friend of mine just spent New Year's there). They, like many such places, have a structured three-week visiting program for people who are either interested in living there or who just want to know more about it.
I know people who live there and I know people who have stayed at TO for the full three weeks, and--because of a slightly unusual circumstance--they let me stay over night one night. (These places, to remain functional, have to develop some pretty careful policies in regard to visitors).
Twin Oaks is part of the Federation of Egalitarian Communities, which is, again, North American exclusive. However, this site, "Diggers and Dreamers", looks like a good place to start for people in the UK who are "interested in joining or setting up some kind of intentional community," as the site says.
Back to the subject of money being so horrible for charities to engage with. I meant it when I said that as a former welfare-mom I have no problem with cash handouts, as opposed to not jack's proposed system whereby governments/businesses donate food for the hungry, shelter for the homeless, water for the thirsty, and the means to transport and distribute these to those who need it.
When I was earning an income below the poverty line and raising two foster children, giving me cash said: "We trust you to spend this money appropriately." It was empowering. It was invisible to outsiders. Even food stamps come with an implicit warning: "you better not buy anything that someone watching you use these--the cashier, the person in line behind you--might think is frivolous or unhealthy," if you live/shop in a middle-class neighborhood, that is. (I told my students about this experience recently, and one student who grew up in, essentially, a ghetto told me that when everyone gets them, they're not such a big deal and the stigma's a little lessened. But, still, he said, he could really relate to the experience I described.)
Give me a chicken, and not only will I never learn to fish (heh heh), but you're essentially saying: we know what's best for you.
Or, take the experience of a friend of mine, whose father was, alas!, a missionary, in South Africa, when she was a very young child. [I realize that being a missionary is a whole 'nother can o' worms, but let's bracket those worms for a moment]. Anyway, my friend's family knew a rich old white Christian lady living in the same city where they were working, who used to give this "worthy" but poor family all her used (once only!) tea bags. So they could use them again.
You know, as an act of "charity."
I'll take the cash, thanks. And I'd think very seriously before I decided that some jobs, including especially charitable, care-giving ones, are too "sacred" some how to be "tainted" by the lure of "filthy lucre." That idea has been responsible for much mischief in the world, methinks. |