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Countdown to Baby

 
  

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grant
14:30 / 29.07.05
Labour not seeming properly established but still painful.

How is one supposed to resist the political gags with that kind of set up?


Three days and 15+ hours? Nobody's Girl! Go! Go! Go!
 
 
Waltzing Ganainm
21:54 / 29.07.05
Hope everything's going ok. Keeping my fingers crossed for you both.
 
 
Ariadne
21:57 / 29.07.05
God, yes - sending lots of good thoughts your way. Let us know, once all's over and you've recovered.
 
 
■
22:19 / 29.07.05
I have bones I didn't know I had crossed right now. Please call if you need a shoulder or something more practical dude and dudess (god knows what, towel laundry or something...).
I have never heard such a good excuse for avoiding a party, by the way. People here are impressed. Go girl. Please.
 
 
Tom Tit's Tot: A Girl!
23:22 / 29.07.05
hospital net access is teh suck. this keyboard could have been etched on a matchbox for it's usefulness.

the doctors are pushing for a syntocinon drip to speed labour - looking on the net for the negative side effects but can't browse for shit with this thing. any info you guys could gather might be helpful, although they will be coming back soon.

sigh. i am tired and i feel fucking defeated. thankfully NG got some pain relief and is feeling much better.

thanks to everyone sending good thoughts our way.

hope we get done here soon.
 
 
■
23:28 / 29.07.05
Sounds like it's a synthetic version of oxytocin, which is cool, it's just a boost to something her glands have been pushing out for months. Basically an inducement hormone from what I can tell. TTT, I am keeping my mobile close, call me, I'll call you back. ERI?
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
06:48 / 30.07.05
How is everybody? Any news?
 
 
■
10:30 / 30.07.05
Just got off the phone, and I hope you don't mind me spoling your thunder, TTT, but as of a couple of hours ago, there is a new squealing presence on the planet, and it's a she.
YAAAAAAAAAAAYYYY!
[Would party and dance but is very hungover]
 
 
Waltzing Ganainm
10:38 / 30.07.05
Fabtastic! Congratulations and all that stuff.
 
 
Triplets
10:50 / 30.07.05
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Spaniel
11:01 / 30.07.05
Bloody good show, chaps.
 
 
iamus
11:37 / 30.07.05
Magnificently huge congratulations to you both.
 
 
Kit-Cat Club
12:05 / 30.07.05
Hooray! Well done Nobody's Girl. I hope you are all happy and recover quickly.
 
 
Ariadne
15:26 / 30.07.05
Hurray! thank heavens, I've been wondering all day how things were going - good to get home and see this. Congratulations, all three of you.
 
 
electric monk
16:07 / 30.07.05
Congrats you two! Enjoy every second of it!
 
 
Benny the Ball
22:57 / 30.07.05
Well done! When will photos follow?
 
 
Tom Tit's Tot: A Girl!
00:17 / 31.07.05
Thunder-stealer. It's okay, though, I wouldn't have wanted everyone here to be holding their breath in concern.

My last post was from a very low/concerned place, and it only got a little worse before letting up, thankfully. Hope I didn't cause any undue concern.

Well, it was a long hard labour (joke from grant here) but we're home and happy with our baby girl, Amaya.

Stories to tell, of epidural needles and midwives that try to break your membranes without permission, but I'll save for later when I have the energy.

Instead, check out these.





Normally I'd be loathe to post pictures of myself or loved ones, but I want to share the happiness I feel right now as much as I can. I don't know if pictures will actually do that.... maybe I'm bragging? Nah. She's dead sweet though, and I feel very lucky

Thanks to everyone that was sending us good thoughts and feelings, I think they really did help us out a lot.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
00:42 / 31.07.05
Woo-hoo! Congratulations both of you!
 
 
Tom Tit's Tot: A Girl!
00:52 / 31.07.05
Oh, and lest I forget...

I want to thank Nobody's Girl for kicking so much ass and striving so hard for so long with little payoff just so we could be sure we tried to do the best for our baby. Trust me - do not cross this woman, she could go through 38 hours of labour, deliver a baby, and still rain annihilation down on us mere mortals. She also sticks by her principles and thinks before she acts or decides on a course of action. Anyway, she's an inspiration to me, and I want to thank her in general for being constantly inspiring.
 
 
Olulabelle
00:56 / 31.07.05
Congratulations. Amaya is a lovely name, what does it mean? Well done, and please say well done to NG for me, been there, know that feeling!
 
 
■
01:13 / 31.07.05
I would guess that Amaya means Ayama backwards girl. Well, she was. I'd guess it means she'll spend her life questing: "am I a this, or am I a that?" - which is a good thing.
Trophy for NG being engraved as we speak. Without doubt the best looking baby I've ever seen - and I don't like babies much.
 
 
Bed Head
01:25 / 31.07.05
Wow. Glorious.

Congratulations and good wishes to all three of you! And thanks for sharing that joy, TTT.
 
 
Spaniel
10:01 / 31.07.05
Well done, Nobody's girl. You're not just an inspiration to Tom. Well done, Tom. You might not have suffered as much, but it sounds like you had work enough.

Annd, well done, Amaya,. You know, for getting here.
 
 
Eloi Tsabaoth
11:50 / 31.07.05
Congratulations! Wow, she's got a lot of hair! And a full beard! No wait, that's you.
 
 
Cat Chant
14:10 / 31.07.05
Oh, congratulations, you made a beautiful little human!!
 
 
grant
16:02 / 31.07.05
She is cuter than your average newborn, isn't she? Hello, Amaya! Welcome to Barbelith!
 
 
Tryphena Absent
16:07 / 31.07.05
Congratulations to both of you!
 
 
Benny the Ball
16:23 / 31.07.05
Amaya - nice.

How do you pronounce that? A-may-a, Amay-a, some otherway?

Very very cute, congratulations again

I'm off to brood
 
 
mondo a-go-go
14:10 / 02.08.05
OOooooOOOooooh, yay!

So glad it all went well.... She's lovely.
 
 
Tom Tit's Tot: A Girl!
17:25 / 02.08.05
Amaya and Nobody's Girl are in hospital, unfortunately, as it appears Amaya didn't take correctly to the breast, partially due to having a very small mouth (even for a newborn) and partially because NG's milk glands are further from the nipple than most women.

Of course, we found all this out after Amaya had started turning yellow due to jaundice, and I was up all night worrying about her because she didn't have a feed for 7+ hours. We went to the hospital after speaking with a duty midwife, and hopefully it will get sorted soon. However, in the meantime NG is somewhere she despises (hospitals, not Edinburgh) and I'm at home alone worrying and feeling like the house seems enpty without the two of them around.

I'm sure everything will be fine one way or another, but it's been a very hard week for all three of us.

On to less distressing topics...

Amaya is a lovely name, what does it mean?

It's a Japanese name, from the kanji...



The left character is ama, "rain". The right is ya, "Night" or "Evening". So it means "Night Rain" or "Evening Rain". NG and I actually had a shortlist of five names, but the more we got to know our new baby, the more we knew she wasn't Lilith, or Sophia... and we both felt like she was Amaya.

I happened upon two fairly cool pieces of information about her name, but only after we names her; Amaya is also a basque name, although in modern times the spelling has been altered to "Amaia", and it means "End", whatever that means. Also, in Japan Amaya-ami is a term for one who follows the Amida Buddha, who is the compassionate Buddha who refused to ascend to Nirvana until every other living creature ascended first. Anyone who says "Namu Amida Butsu" will eventually reach Nirvana according to Pure Land Buddhism, the school of Buddhism that follows Amida.

How do you pronounce that? A-may-a, Amay-a, some otherway?

Probably not correct for Japanese pronunciation, but we pronounce it as "Maya" with an "Ah-" before it.

Thanks for all the well-wishing once again, everyone.
 
 
William Sack
14:19 / 03.08.05
Lovely name, lovely pics, lovely little girl. Congratulations to you all and hope the feeding problems get sorted quickly.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
14:26 / 03.08.05
Awww! So sweet. Well done!
 
 
illmatic
14:28 / 03.08.05
Congratulations to you all! More pics!
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
14:40 / 03.08.05
I always said you were ALL MAN.

Hang on, was that you?

Congratulations, anyway.
 
 
Mourne Kransky
15:09 / 03.08.05
Well done, the three of you. Amida's a better name than Nobody's Girl's Girl for sure. I'm going to get drunk now to celebrate the new Scot.
 
  

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