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So, as you probably know, when I put the "Let's Talk" thread up, I also asked people to PM me with any worries they weren't happy to voice in public. This is my take on the whole lot.
I have two concerns about the board at the moment, and they are, of course, interlinked. The first is that I think some people shy away from posting their opinions in threads in which feelings are running high, especially if the long-term, high-volume posters have expressed strong views. There is a sense that contrary opinions will be met with derision rather than considered debate. (Just to make this a little more disturbing, the majority of people who have expressed this feeling to me identify themselves as female.) I should emphasise that the number of people who have expressed this worry is small - but then, it would be; if people felt able to talk about it, there wouldn't be a problem at all.
The second is that there is a general lack of trust. This is by and large a legacy of the board's encounters with trolling. Where once we would have assumed that a poster was misguided, abrupt but good-hearted, or well-intentioned but information-poor, now we tend to worry that they're wrongheaded, rude, prejudiced or willfully ignorant, and we don't necessarily engage. We step back and hope they'll go away. Similarly, where it would two years ago have been the first assumption of most people that moderators were error-prone but honest, now there's concern about abuse of power, and even bullying.
In other words, Barbelith's social contract has cracks in it. I could speculate endlessly about why, but I'm not going to, because I want to hand over to you. My feeling is that we should all simply invest in trust. We should expose ourselves to risk.
I don't mean that we should declare 'open borders', I mean that we should start answering questions more gently, asking questions we have a stake in, thinking before we post, and remembering that the way we behave in one thread will affect not just that discussion but also, cumulatively, the Barbelith Commons as a whole.
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