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Rape vs Homicide: Which is worse?

 
  

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Perfect Tommy
02:53 / 02.08.03
My mother was telling me about a book called Why I Burned My Book and Other Essays on Disability by Paul K. Longmore. She referred to an essay in which the author claimed people in medical professions, when asked whether they would rather be killed or seriously disabled in an accident, chose to be killed. But people who really were seriously disabled were glad to be alive. We attempt to treat/cure people who attempt suicide--but we might consider someone with a serious disability or illness who desires suicide as having 'come to their senses'. (I'm not saying euthanasia is wrong in all cases, but it's something to examine.)

On death being the worst thing that can happen to a person and living wills... The reason I would call death 'worse' is that it denies the possibility of change. But, in the instances where a living will comes into play, we're talking persistent vegetative states, permanent comas, or even just being really old and not being able to truly 'recover' from a stroke. Which means that the living will also comes into play when the possibility of change is denied. So is that the real cutoff point? And is there emotional trauma that truly is a change-denying, point-of-no-return event?
 
 
Ex
10:21 / 06.08.03
I think the gendering issue is a bit of a red herring to be honest, since feminists and gender theorists have been trying to detach concepts of biological gender, gender identity and power-relationships from one another.
Well, I was aiming at doing exactly that - I wasn't suggesting, for example, that rape was "a man/woman" thing - at least two of my examples were gender ambiguous. I accept that gender works in ways that aren't just bird/bloke - for kick-off, it signifies differently when it intersects with class and race and so forth.
I think recognising that gender exists as a power system doesn't reify it, or its supposed connection to biological gender. In fact, it's the first step to taking it to bits.

I think we should be trying to dismantle that connection (or deconstruct it) rather than reify it.
So do I. I wanted to point out the way rape is used and the effects it has, and suggesting that many of these are socially constructed, and aren't essential grounded in biology. (Without trivialising it -'constructed' doesn't mean, to me 'they're not real' or 'they don't count').
So, still not throwing in my hat on the better/worse debate, but wanting to suggest that one act signifies in systems that the other doesn't (always).
 
 
spidermonkey
13:21 / 06.08.03
This is a difficult one, but I recently found out that someone I was friends with is a rapist.
I have to say that I think I would have found it easier to forgive him had he been a murderer.
It's tough, try thinking of it in that situation though.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
17:01 / 10.08.03
Why? Why did you find it harder? Try to explain why this person would have remained more likable if they had been a murderer. Think about what the terms mean, and how they are represented, and how that informs your opinion.
 
  

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