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My own story:
I went to US public (ie, state and country run) school all the way through high school, and now attend a private university (Carnegie Mellon). Until about 13 or 14 I was sort of a problem kid, way smarter than most of the rest of the class, but also way more vocal- I just love to talk, and still do. Some teachers would react better than others.
With the better ones, I would usually play the role of devil's advocate or helpful assistant to the teacher- understanding an idea or two ahead of the rest of the class, and then asking preemtive questions to sort of help the teacher guide the lesson along. Usually this worked out to me understanding topics really well, because I was, well, half-teaching them, and usually helped the other students because the explaination would be framed more as a debate than a monologue. I hope. Maybe I fucked over some other kids. But... oops.
With the worse teachers, I would basically be moved to some corner and expected to either shut up, or keep to a very small quota of questions, or deliberatly ignored.
Around High School (14-15) I began to understand how I was being played, and why my behavoir was out-of-line or in-line. So I would spend the first week or two sussing out which teachers were which kind, and then do my normal conversation-that-people-learn-from with them, which some of them actually really appreciated, and with the less great teachers, I would bring a book and shut the fuck up and do all my work perfectly just to fuck with them.
This was probably helped along by the fact that I went to the best public school in the district, the one that attracted the good teachers and good students, and consequentially fucked over the other six schools in the district...
Socially, I had a small group of really geeky friends, but other than that I didn't really hang out with anyone. I never went to parties, never did drugs, never drank or smoked. I spent most of my free time (and I had copious free time) drawing or writing or reading scifi and fantasy books until very late into the night. This escapism is probably what got me through school. That, and a select few teachers who were really, really great, and who even now I still talk to, email, etc.
College has been a bit different- almost everyone in my classes is really, really smart, and so I rarely feel the need to "lead the class by the nose" as I had been doing. And since art classes are typically small, it's basically a conversation among equals, with defference going to the more knowledgable/wise teacher. Which is cool. Also, I am far enough along in my studies that I'm not taking any classes that I don't want to take, which is really great. I tend to excell in subjects that interest me, and flounder/give up in ones that I don't like.
Although I will say this: I learned more about the english language and about how people interact through books than through any other medium. I probably read 1400 pages a week.
Gatto's writing:
I spent about a month reading his Underground History of American Education online. I agree with most of his points, although it's certainly written in a very slanted way. I do think its true that most of the "public school success stories" "learn despite thier education" as he put it.
As for homeschooling, my few friends who are homeschooled seem to have a sort of permenent social deficiency. Besides thier areas of expertise (and they always have three or four, and "being good at talking to people and current on popular knowledge" is almost never one of them), they are always a year or two behind, or have weird gaps in thier knowledge. They seem healthier and happier, but with specific areas of trouble. A higher average, but a higher standard deviation, to put it in math terms.
Some of my younger homeschooled friends seem better-adjusted. Apparently, they managed to hit the movement right when social interaction became an important issue. These "second wave" homeschooled kids, as much as they have told me anyway, were sort of half-homeschooled, half-exposed to society. That is, they didn't stay in thier room all day and learn- they went out and did stuff too. |
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