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Sex and Gender, Man and Woman, Male and female

 
  

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ONLY NICE THINGS
09:01 / 20.11.02
Inspired by a recent exchange elsewhere - see "Genderless/Gender-neutral pronouns" thread for the full story, but excerpted:

And how do you identify as neither man nor woman, the odd hermaphrodite aside? A female who identifies as neither is still a female, presumably.

Male and female - these are references to the physiological composition of an animal. Humans can be male or female. So can pigs, cats, Siamese fighting fish.

Man and woman - social constructs associated with and built from physiological gender and the relationship to it. Cats cannot be men or women. Nor can pigs. Nor can siamese fighting fish.

Therefore, a *female* human being will generally be expected to identify as a *woman*. But a female human being who identifies neither as man or woman will, although female, not therefore necessarily be a *woman*.

So a hermaphrodite, who possesses physiological elements of both *male* and *female*, might decide to identify as a man, a woman, or neither. Sex is hardwired, gender performative.


How precisely can a person identify as neither man nor woman? What would this entail exactly? What is this third (or indeed fourth etc) gender? If I identify as a kitten, I don't need a new pronoun for that. (It also doesn't in fact make me a kitten, although that's a different thread.)

Well, this is a different thread.

Anyone care to kick off on this, in any direction they choose?
 
 
some guy
13:40 / 20.11.02
the interlocutor in bold ... may be of the opinion that if you are born with a penis you are a man and if you are born without a penis you are a woman and anything more is just being silly.

Not at all. My tranny friends get called "she," and why wouldn't they? But the broader question I raised is valid - what other real options for gender identification are there? Are all identifications created equal? Should we respect someone's self-identity as a tree when s/he clearly is not a tree? And should that person then get a tree-specific pronoun?
 
 
some guy
14:28 / 20.11.02
What other real options for gender identification are there? Are all identifications created equal? Should we respect someone's self-identity as a tree when s/he clearly is not a tree? And should that person then get a tree-specific pronoun?
 
 
tom-karika nukes it from orbit
17:48 / 24.11.02
You know, technically there are five genders.

Males: Genetically male (X and Y chromomsomes). Physically male (Testes).

Merms (Male Hermaphrodites): Genetically male (X and Y chromomsomes). Physically ambiguous.

Herms (True Hermaphrodites): Genetically neutral (Mutated or damaged XY or XX Chromosomes). Physically ambiguous.

Ferms (Female hermaphrodites): Genetically female (XX Chromosomes) but physically ambiguous.

Females: Genetically female (XX Chromosomes) and physically female (Ovaries).

This doesn't have much to do with how people identify though.

It is often the case that Merms, Herms and Ferms do not have genetic tests at birth, and are all raised as female, and given crude artificial vaginas. (This is often simply a matter of convenience - it's much easier to make an artificial vagina than a penis and testicles).
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
18:05 / 24.11.02
You know, technically there are five genders.

Surely, technically, according to the information you give above, there are five sexes?

I can see we're going to run into confusion very quickly here...
 
 
w1rebaby
20:20 / 24.11.02
(agree with flyboy, I think we need to keep sex being physical and gender being social here)

I think the mixed use of, and confusion between, the terms is the source of a lot of problems here. What do people actually mean when they make a gender identity statement?

When I say that I am "a man" I'm making a statement mostly about my sex. While I am aware that my genetic heritage may predispose me to act in certain ways, some of which are incorporated into the male gender role, I consider that the details of that role are very much a downstream, highly-evolved result of sex, influenced by a lot more than the physically-derived behaviour of males (history, environment etc) - and that this means that there is no guarantee that my behaviour as a man will correspond to that gender role, since it is contingent on more than sex. Furthermore, since even within the male sex there is a lot of genetic diversity in the physical aspects that are sex-related, even those aspects of gender behaviour that are more physically derived are going to vary.

Someone of a more biological deterministic bent, or who does not distinguish so much between sex and gender, might consider that I'm making a much stronger gender identification. If I claim to be of male sex but do not fulfil the gender role, then they may conclude I'm not really of male sex at all, or at least some sort of mutant.

Sometimes it seems that some references to male and female aren't really talking about sex or gender at all, but rather some sort of idealised male or female form, or a non-physical, non-behavioural quality. I may not look like a woman, and I may not behave like a woman in this society, but I feel like a woman and I behave like a woman would in my situation. Complete divorcement from societal gender behaviour is unusual since if you think you're of one gender you're likely to go for that gender role, as a signifier for others if nothing else. But this seems opposite to the physical -> behavioural view, being more of a spiritual -> behavioural one, and it's certainly nothing like mine, which is looking at people as a bunch of individuals who can be roughly grouped into certain categories if you really want to but you shouldn't expect much.

The above has some problems but I'm still trying to get this straight. In some cases, what I characterised as a "spiritual" statement is in fact the same as the physical -> behavioural one, only disagreeing on exactly what physical characteristics are contributory.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
20:51 / 24.11.02
Karika, Flyboy - in a sense, I think you're both right. Fausto-Sterling identified those five groups in about 1992, round about "Myths of Gender" and, as a way that somebody cut the cake of physical construction, one could refer to them as five sexes and, if grammatical and cultural structures were set up around them, subsequently as genders.

However, in Sexing the Body, F-S IIRC backed away from the idea of mulitplying genders and suggested instead that, regardless of phenotype, children should be raised as the gender most likely to be their chosen gender when they reach the age to self-determine.

Throughout both these stages, though, the contention that the link between biology and gender is a simple on is undermined. For example - in the parallel thread (where Fausto-Sterling is discussed, or at least exposited on, at greater length) one claim made is that the average Joe (i.e., not clever people like us, who understand why Joe is wrong but still seem to feel Joe should set the bar and the rules on gender) equates biological sex entirely with gender - thus, somebody biologically male is a man, somebody biologically female is a woman (see the "Genderfuck You" thread, for a long and intermittently very funny discussion on this also). If we suggest that the binary view of *sex* has yawning gaps, the idea that a precise mapping can be achieved is explored from another angle to the one where multiple genders exist, overlayed over binary sexual distinctions.
 
 
Linus Dunce
00:44 / 25.11.02
Help me out here. So there is such a thing as a female man? Gender is, or should be, entirely unrelated to what is or was in your trousers?
 
 
Ethan Hawke
13:10 / 25.11.02
If we suggest that the binary view of *sex* has yawning gaps, the idea that a precise mapping can be achieved is explored from another angle to the one where multiple genders exist, overlayed over binary sexual distinctions.

-What's "yawning" mean? 5% of people wouldn't fall into the binary model of sex? 10%? 1%? A model that works 99.7% of time is of much greater use than one that works 90% of the time (unless you are of course within that .3%)-

Anyway, I think the pertinent question is, "what's gender for?" What is the value of identifying with a gender, or parts of a gender? What's the value of identifying (by linguistic, physiological, sartorial,etc. markers) someone else with a gender? Can there be a gender that includes one person? Is gender, if not essentially tied to sex, tied to sexuality?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
13:20 / 25.11.02
I'd say that two words describing sex with five possible sexes avilable is fairly yawning, if you want to look at it that way.

Otherwise, gender is a grammatical and cultural identifier. So, what indeed is it *for*?
 
 
Ethan Hawke
15:04 / 25.11.02
Hey, that's what i asked. No fair!

A cultural identifier- to what purpose? Self-identity? Group identity? As gender seems to be made up of relations of *differences*, it would have to be the latter. What behaviors make up this "cultural identifier"? Dress? Sexuality? Which way you roll the toilet paper? If gender is made up of *behaviors*, it would seem to be easy to quantify - do x and y a certain number of times, or do them at a certain frequency, and you're a *man.* Can I be a "non-practicing" man - that is identify with the male gender, but engage in few if any of the behaviors that characterize that gender? Why be part of the group?

Is gender a group of behaviors used to attract potential sexual partners?
Is gender a group of behaviors used to accrue social/political capital?
Is gender a group of behaviors used for "self-expression"?
 
 
some guy
15:32 / 25.11.02
Should we assume gendered pronouns conform to modern definitions of gender, or is this a social 'retcon' of the language?

Could the term "gender" in grammar actually refer to sex, as indeed most speakers assume?

Can one indeed be a female man?

Are "gender roles" actually "sex roles?"

Does your gender change as you conform to various gender roles throughout the day?
 
 
Linus Dunce
15:41 / 25.11.02
Identifiers, shmidentifiers ...

Aren't we sooner or later going to have to invoke reception theory or whatever?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
15:56 / 25.11.02
Maybe you should tell us about it, Ignatius, if you feel it to be an inevitable part of the discussion.

Todd - be careful - you've said "the male gender" there, which is open to a number of different possible readings. "The male sex" is, for our purposes, less complicated.

Lawrence - you keep advancing this idea that the fact that "most people assume" that gender grammatically refers to sex. This makes no sense; sex is apparently a set of physical components, and has nothing very much to do with grammar. "La famille" is not feminine because everybody in the family is female. "Mon oeuil" is not masculine because my eye has a penis. Are you trying to express the idea that people judge gender (in human beings and/or other nouns) on the grounds of traditional gender indicators (overlapping with primary and secondary sexual characteristics)? This asks some interesting questions - are unshaven armpits or hair on the upper lip, for example, "mannish", and if so do we find ourselves at the sharp end of an unnatural gender identifier we have taken to be natural through the confusion of nature and culture?

Otherwise, could you explain how you distinguish "sex roles", "genders" and "gender roles"?

Todd - as a thoguht exercise, if you're up for it, how about describing what is is, you feel, that makes you a man, and what makes you feel "manly". We could go from there.
 
 
Ethan Hawke
16:17 / 25.11.02
Actually, I did indeed mean male gender, not sex - I meant, can I identify with that behaviorally-linked cultural identifier even if I don't engage in any of the behaviors that make up the gender. It's akin to asking if someone can identify as bisexual without ever engaging in any hetereosexual (or homosexual) acts.

And although I didn't intend to insert my own relationship to masculinity, I may take you up on your challenge, Haus, for the reason that, while I sometimes find it very humorous to think of myself as a man, (when I do indeed think of myself *as a man,* which isn't too often) I'm pretty certain a younger trans-man friend of mine, whose family I'm intimately involved with, sees me as one of his (I use "his" here online, but when talking about this person to their sister or father or mother I stilll use "her" and "she" - its a very tough habit to break, let me tell you) masculine role models.
 
 
Linus Dunce
16:46 / 25.11.02
Maybe you should tell us about it, Ignatius, if you feel it to be an inevitable part of the discussion.

Well, I'm lazy and my memories of elective university classes are a bit hazy so I had hoped not to, but here we go.

It strikes me we have an argument comprising of, on one side, gender being somewhat tied to physical things extant mostly in the trouser area and, on the other side, that gender is a social and/or individual construct that has nothing to do with your bits. (Forgive me if I have over-simplified. It's not going to get any more detailed. As I said, I am lazy.)

So, gender is a label, and we can't decide if it's actually stuck on anything. We're in a world of Euro philosphical/post-structuralist pain. On the one hand, we have people saying, "no, don't be silly, words are what they mean" (easily disproved), and on the other, we have people saying "no, words are slippery and ephemeral things that are not attached to anything in the real world," which is also patently silly, but more difficult to disprove. Reception theory is one attempt, loosely holding that words mean what the majority think they mean. I don't hold with it myself, because I think it's a cop-out.

But I would argue that one cannot be a woman unless one has had to e.g. deal with the arrival of your period during a PE lesson and all the other stuff that women have to deal with of which I have no more knowledge than I do of being an astronaut.
 
 
some guy
16:47 / 25.11.02
Lawrence - you keep advancing this idea that the fact that "most people assume" that gender grammatically refers to sex. This makes no sense; sex is apparently a set of physical components, and has nothing very much to do with grammar.

It does in English, which I assumed we were carrying over from the other thread. Your point re: French is a good one, but irrelevent here.

Are you trying to express the idea that people judge gender (in human beings and/or other nouns) on the grounds of traditional gender indicators (overlapping with primary and secondary sexual characteristics)?

I am trying to express the idea that people conflate gender with biology, and that what we call "gendered pronouns" are in fact sexed pronouns. I don't think this is an unusual observation to make - we see the usage all the time in books, films, songs. "Do you know the difference between the two genders?"

Haus, I asked for your definition of gender earlier but was never answered.

I think we need to be very much aware than to most people (or at least most Americans), when you ask Todd what makes him a man, the correct response will be, "I have a penis." Although it's fashionable to link "being a man" to behaviors etc. when it gets right down to it most people are still going to point to a dick.
 
 
Perfect Tommy
18:20 / 25.11.02
My ears are confused when they hear "a female man" (translation: "a biological female who identifies as male"). But oddly enough, they accept "she's a man" (translation: "the subject is a biological male who is socially or surgically female").

I don't know if anyone else hears things this way. It makes me wonder: if we could surgically alter language a bit, might it be ideal to have man=male, woman=female, but divorce these words from their pronouns, so that "he" and "she" would determine identity?

(I have a stupid question--are people known to identify 'neuter' ever?)
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
19:42 / 25.11.02
Wow, Tommy, did you ever say a mouthful - for neuter identification, trans identification, and answering to "Hie!" or any loud cry, try here.

Lawrence - my definition of gender is based on one not dissimilar to the, um, definition of gender I gave in the abovementioned thread - a set of grammatical terminologies used to divide terms into groups, often arbitrarily. I would add to that the cultural overlay, which is a dependent of that definition, that gender is a set of ideas, processes and performances surrounding terms such as "masculine", "feminine" and "neuter", among other possibilities, which are themselves outcroppings of formal grammar. To use gender as a synonym for sex is in some cases acceptable, and I imagine Americans get along perfectly well most of the time without worrying too much about it, but in a thread like this would be pretty much fatal. Could you favour us with your thoughts on Fausto-Sterling, on a related topic? And the difference between sex, sex roles, genders and gender roles, while you're here?

(The example of French is not entirely irrelevant, even when shunted across the channel - my father's boat (as opposed to the pen of my aunt) is a she, but does not have a vagina, but don't worry too much about it.)

Now, to tie in Lawrence's penis to Ignatius' period, as it were:

But I would argue that one cannot be a woman unless one has had to e.g. deal with the arrival of your period during a PE lesson and all the other stuff that women have to deal with of which I have no more knowledge than I do of being an astronaut.

This is a very interesting question, and one that has been argued passionately by many "born" women. For example, Ladyfest, the popular "woman-only" alternative tour, has a no-transwomen policy, if I recall correctly. Likewise, Germaine Greer campaigned furiously to prevent a transwoman from taking up a post at the last Cambridge College with an all-female faculty, on the grounds that, as she had not experienced growing up as a woman, she could not adequately understand and represent the experience of being a woman. In this case, Lawrence's penis is not the isuue, or more correctly Germaine, when asked what makes this person not a woman, could reply "They *had* a penis at some point in the past.

In this setup, biological sex is not the decider per se, but does provide so many of the necessary coded experiences that constitute the cultures, behaviours and shared experiences that, unless your body works from the beginning of your conscious existence in about the same way that the majority of other women's bodies work, you can't really understand what it is to be a woman.

Now, by this logic, female human beings who are born with physical disabilites so severe that their biological functions are impeded cannot be women, because they cannot share the same experiences as other female human beings who are weaving the experience of being a womanhood out of their shared biological culture (on a related topic, Monique Wittig observed that lesbians were not women and, when pressed on whether she had a vagina, denied having any such thing. Do we understand why?).

Anyone care to explain why this is not the case?

Todd: But this is *perfect*. You're a masculine role model - and as such a superb example of the behaviours that, through the adoption and representation of which, your friend hopes to become a more man-like man. As such, I for one would be delighted and fascinated to hear what those behaviours and characteristics might be, beyond "possesses a penis", which presumably would leave the role model queue fairly lengthy....
 
 
Linus Dunce
20:26 / 25.11.02
Now, by this logic, female human beings who are born with physical disabilites so severe that their biological functions are impeded cannot be women [...]

I see where you're going on this, but I'm not clear on this particular example. Are their physical differences to archetypal women so extreme that they could not share any of their formative experiences?
 
 
some guy
20:35 / 25.11.02
gender is a set of ideas, processes and performances surrounding terms such as "masculine", "feminine" and "neuter", among other possibilities

Using this definition, can you identify three or four genders and provide celebrity examples? If gender consists of process and performance, do we all change our genders during the day as we modify our behavior according to different contexts? If not, what are the dividing lines? Which ideas, processes and performances conform to which genders, and who decides so? Do you see any link between gender and sexuality, or gender and sex? Can a person incorrectly self-identify as a particular gender? What separates gender roles from gender, or are the terms synonymous for you? What are the advantages of categorizing by gender rather than sex?

Germaine Greer campaigned furiously to prevent a transwoman from taking up a post at the last Cambridge College with an all-female faculty, on the grounds that, as she had not experienced growing up as a woman, she could not adequately understand and represent the experience of being a woman.

This would seem to make sense if being a woman is indeed a set of ideas, processes and performances, rather than a matter of biology.

Now, by this logic, female human beings who are born with physical disabilites so severe that their biological functions are impeded cannot be women, because they cannot share the same experiences as other female human beings who are weaving the experience of being a womanhood out of their shared biological culture

I think this is faulty reasoning - relying on a single biological attribute rather than a range. A barren woman would still fall into the traditional biological category in most people's eyes.

As such, I for one would be delighted and fascinated to hear what those behaviours and characteristics might be, beyond "possesses a penis", which presumably would leave the role model queue fairly lengthy....

A fair amount of gender studies disappears up its own rear end, and exercises like this are an example why. Niles Crane and Rambo are both "men," yet seem to share few behavioral characteristics. We could spend volumes trying to cram them into a single category or explaining why they belong in different ones, and at the end of the day the discussion will be moot because most people will just point and say, "He has a penis."
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
21:23 / 25.11.02
I think this is faulty reasoning - relying on a single biological attribute rather than a range.

You mean, like "I have a penis" as an identifier of manhood? The example you used about four posts further up? Or, indeed, eleven lines further down? Glad to see we agree again.

Meanwhile, could you firm up those definitions of "gender", "gender roles", "sex" and "sex roles"? While letting Todd answer the question that was addressed to him, about the characteristics that were making him a role model for a very specific person in a very specific situation?
 
 
Creepster
23:46 / 25.11.02
well i think it outragious all this double talk social construction and confused gender identity. why in my day it was simple, women worked in the kitchen while the men brought home the bacon or won the bread. and as for all this talk about penises and so forth it wasnt anyones damn business, beyond the cloths we wore day-to-day we were a complete mytery to one another, as it should be! and another thing beyond the so called 'sexes' there were two kinds of people and they were both white, communists and good Australians and we hung the communists!
 
 
some guy
01:16 / 26.11.02
You mean, like "I have a penis" as an identifier of manhood?

Ah, but I'm not arguing that having a penis is the definition of manhood, merely pointing out that the culture at large appears to think so. Pay attention, Haus.

Meanwhile, could you firm up those definitions of "gender", "gender roles", "sex" and "sex roles"?

I've already said that I've never encountered a definition of gender that can't be shot full of holes, which is why I raised the other questions with you - I'm seeking elaboration. Gender roles is the term I would use for your "ideas, processes and performances." But ultimately I think assigning those to specific genders is pointless - something feminists have been arguing for years. And because most people assign stereotypes of those "ideas, processes and performances" based on sex rather than gender (however we end up defining it), I believe they are probably more accurately described as sex roles (just as English gendered pronouns probably ought to be called sexed pronouns, based on usage).

And letting Todd answer the question that was addressed to him, about the characteristics that were making him a role model for a very specific person in a very specific situation?

Gee, I didn't know I was stopping him.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
08:24 / 26.11.02
In this case you are quite right; there are plenty of counterarguments to the idea that "being a man/woman" can be defined only through an accumulation of particular events - menarche, lacrosse, rugby, being born with a penis, getting a penis later - and is more complex than that.

However, your insistence that you do not in fact believe that gender is the same as biological sex, while constantly behaving as if you do, is getting a bit boring. It has already repeatedly been said that mass ignorance is not a reason to outlaw curiosity or dissent; we understand that many do not understand the difference between biological sex and gender, and that is unfortunate but not exactly relevant. Or, to put it another way, another slice of wegetit cake and we shall surely feel unwell.

As for Todd - again, I think you've missed the point. The question you excoriated was not an example of "gender studies", head up rear or not. It was a specific, flannel-shirted question, aimed at Tood, asking what, outside all of this gender studies stuff in the real, flannel-shirted world, he offered to a specific person as a masculine role model. I might just have well asked another person how they were acting as a masculine role model to their son, or a foster child.

However, the gender and gender roles stuff is interesting, and you've hit upon a very important point (at least, I assume you have; you may be defining "gender" in a thoroughly othered way, since you still decline actually to give your understanding of the term). As you say, many feminist thinkers have pointed out the odd balancing of our language structures. The classic example of this is the list of nouns that the class is asked to divide into "masculine" and "feminine". War is masculine, Asia is feminine, and so on; at the the last the tutor points out that these assignations of gender have (ah, here we are again) nothing to do with biological sex, but are instead *associative*, because (guess what) gender is not about sex. Hence the boat without a vagina, the country without a vagina, the hurricane without a penis *or* a vagina.

So, we assign *gender* to the boat, the country or the hurricane, but we don't expect them to play out "gender roles" beyond a particular point - the boat may be capricious, but it doesn't bear children. The sea may be varium et semper mutabile, but it doesn't wear dresses.

So, are you arguing that gender is a totally arbitrary, grammatical assignation (with nothing to do with either biological sex or the "gender roles" that humans adopt), sex is a descriptor of the chromosomal structure of an animal, and gender roles are social and cultural roles adopted by individual human animals? In which case I think that's a very lucid way of doing it, and removes the ambiguity of placing the grammatical and cultural elements together in the word "gender". It does, however, lead to the counter-intuitive position that "feminine" is a gender and an adjective describing the adoption of a gender role, whereas "woman" has nothing to do with gender at all, except in an inflected language.

The next step along that line would be to ask how fluid gender roles are, because I suspect that the vaccuum at the heart of your proposition (the meaning of "gender") is springing from a desire to have solid, atomic genders (again, behaving as if they were like biological sexes - absolutely categorisable, although vide the Fausto-Sterling discussion, again) and mutable gender roles. Whereas the process of much modern feminism is to see gender roles as external manifestations of a fluid gender (and we're back to Wittig and lesbians - anyone want to run with that?).

So, to pick a very obvious example, when you refer to a transvestite friend in drag as "she", you are altering the grammatical term by which the person is connoted, presumably in reference to the gender *role* they are adopting, and irregardless of any change in what they have in their pants. Patrick Califia, on the other hand, is referred to as "he" as a grammatical referent to his gender, because he has adopted (or reclaimed, or discovered - pick your own verb, really) a set of masculine "behaviours", or man-roles, whether or not the man-roll of carpet in his pants is detachable or not (females, of course, get a better jump at being men than males, because they are not impeded by the possession of a penis in the pursuit of the phallus, but nobody needs to think too hard about that right now; we may come back to it later). Judy and Jack Halberstam are one person, named depending on whether that person is a man or a woman. It's all so confusing, what with spiders and then tetse flies....

So, yes. Is gender atomic, and "gender roles" fluid? Is gender a question of performance, or just gender roles? And if a person's name, dress, behaviour ktl are indicative of the gender role they are adopting, does that mean they have nothing to do with their actual gender? If so, why change the grammatical modifier?
 
 
The Apple-Picker
11:21 / 26.11.02
Can a person incorrectly self-identify as a particular gender?

I think so, though it's probably ridiculously presumptuous of me. I think so because many people do see gender as atomic--and that's when gender is revealed to me to actually be fluid.

A few years ago, a panel of four trannies came to speak to my gender and society class to tell us about their personal experiences. Two of them seemed well-adjusted and like they were doing what was exactly right for them, but one of the panelists--I remember being so shocked--seemed to have chosen to start taking hormones because when she identified as a man, she liked to bake and do all the things associated with the domestic sphere and also because she was attracted to men. I was even more horrified when she described her relationships with her children: she said, "I still toss the football around with my son, and I'm teaching my daughter how to do the laundry." This was not a joke.

I talked to her after the official-type interview part was over, and my opinion of her didn't change. This all probably sounds very condescending of me, and I don't mean it to, but this is a bit of evidence (anecdotal as it may be) that it is possible for people to misidentify themselves. It wasn't sad to me that she identified as a woman, but rather it was sad because she thought that she should.

One last thing on the long ago mentioned 5 genders/sexes. There's another: those who are genotypically male but phenotypically female. Nonfunctioning androgen receptors or a lack of male sex hormone leads to AIS (androgen insufficiency syndrome) which is marked by this complete phenotypic sex reversal.
 
 
some guy
11:26 / 26.11.02
However, your insistence that you do not in fact believe that gender is the same as biological sex, while constantly behaving as if you do, is getting a bit boring.

You already know I believe that the masses control language and that the guardians of usage and grammar ought to conform to that as record keepers rather than lawmakers. When it comes to gender we are just being stupid to ignore the degree to which people bypass the latest trend in academia for "He's got a penis, he's a man" and the widespread use of "gender" as "sex." Our discussion must necessarily keep this popular usage in mind or risk becoming exactly the sort of airy fairy nonsense that causes people to reject intellectualism as irrelevant and out of touch.

As for Todd - again, I think you've missed the point.

No - I understood you were asking Todd about a specific instance. I was merely highlighting how foolish it is to get into a discussion about "masculine role models" or whatever when masculine attributes are not what makes someone a "man" (cue Niles Crane and Rambo both being "men" with no attributes in common aside from biology).

So, are you arguing that gender is a totally arbitrary, grammatical assignation (with nothing to do with either biological sex or the "gender roles" that humans adopt)

In the English language? No, I am arguing that gendered pronouns for people are sexed pronouns, with people choosing "his" or "her" based on biology. This shouldn't be a radical statement - how long have we used gendered pronouns, and how long has there been serious cultural discussion of more than two genders?

sex is a descriptor of the chromosomal structure of an animal

This is very short-sighted, especially when we again consider real-world usage.

The next step along that line would be to ask how fluid gender roles are, because I suspect that the vaccuum at the heart of your proposition (the meaning of "gender") is springing from a desire to have solid, atomic genders and mutable gender roles.

You might start by naming several genders. What makes them distinct from one another? If this is impossible to do, then what purpose does identifying gender have? If we are trying to categorize people in the simplest way, does it make more sense to use a binary system or an open, fluid system? Do we change our gender during the day as we assume different roles? Do you view gender as distinct from gender roles, or are the terms interchangeable to you? I'm not looking for atomic genders - but right now gender is starting to look like a useless illusion, especially as nobody seems to be able to answer these questions.

I understand gender roles as a social construct, but I reject the usefulness of the concept and the desire to categorize them. "Gender roles" misses the point entirely - there is simply human behavior. We see this more and more as (to get back to popular usage) "women act like men and men act like women." If "men" are people who conform to Ideas, Process and Performance X, and Tipper Gore also conforms to IPPX, in the eyes of most people this still does not make her a "man." Are you a "man" in the morning if you conform to IPPX before lunchtime, but something else in the afternoon when you conform to IPPY?

So, to pick a very obvious example, when you refer to a transvestite friend in drag as "she", you are altering the grammatical term by which the person is connoted, presumably in reference to the gender *role* they are adopting

Actually, I would argue that people use "she" in this instance because the person appears as a member of the opposite sex.

And if a person's name, dress, behaviour ktl are indicative of the gender role they are adopting, does that mean they have nothing to do with their actual gender?

This depends again on how we define gender, and whether we agree that people shift gender roles. Is it possible to wrongly self-identify? If we "adopt" specific gender roles, does that change our gender?

If so, why change the grammatical modifier?

I think the key problem here is that "gendered pronoun" is a poorly chosen term, harkening from a time when gender = sex and that was that. And so applying modern gender theory to pronouns confuses the issue.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
12:36 / 26.11.02
Coudl you explain how the phrase "biology decides gender" aligns with the statement "to describe sex in terms of chromosomes is short-sighted", with "actually, I would argue that people use "she" in this instance because the person appears as a member of the opposite sex".

Presumably you mean "the person appears as though she has a vagina". But she doesn't. Therefore people are using "she" wrongly. Unless we assume that dressing as a woman, shaving body hair, plucking eyebrows and so on are biological processes, that is to say not cultural ones. Do you also believe that chromosomes have no effect on biology?

And are you in fact saying that you want solid, immutable genders and no fluidity in gender roles, or are you saying that gender itself should be mutable, in which case presumably there is no need for gender roles? And could you now address Fausto-Sterling, Wittig, and the vaginaless boat? Because Wittig, for example, would say that there were at least three genders - men, women and lesbians. Which stops it being a method to "categorize people in the simplest way". Which of course it isn't, and never has been. Otherwise we might as well use "over 5'7 and under 5'7" or "blonde" and "brunette" instead of "man" and "woman" as our distinctors.


On "how long has there been discussion of gender" - let's see...if we assume that spoken English in anything resembling its current form has existed for about 600 years...not much short of 600 years, really. We have androgyny in Shakespeare, and Johnson, and the study of alchemy in particular is fascinated by it. Elsewhere, we're probably talking about millennia - see the many examples of polygendered societies I proposed that at the time you said were examples not of genders but of gender roles before deciding that gender roles missed the point entirely.

(Oh, and it isn't "academia". It's lexicography. Is your position "we must accept what a statistical majority of people believe this word means and anything else is "airy-fairy"? Because that's a whole 'nother thread, possibly involving "presently")
 
 
Ethan Hawke
13:09 / 26.11.02
--I'm going to work on the masculine-role-model thing throughout the day, as it is proving problematic as I want to respect the privacy of the people involved (some of whom, you never know, might be reading this). The gist of it is that I exhibit some character traits more strongly than other masculine role models he might be around, with these character traits traditionally being gendered male by the same classroom that might address a battleship as "Ma'am." (but more on that below) Although I do have a penis, Lawrence, I've seen his (both of them, actually - I guess the benefit of being a non-bio-male is that you can have a penis for all occasions) and they certainly put mine to shame in the length department, thus making me unlikely to be a role model in *that* respect.

Haus:
My definition of gender is based on one not dissimilar to the, um, definition of gender I gave in the abovementioned thread - a set of grammatical terminologies used to divide terms into groups, often arbitrarily. I would add to that the cultural overlay, which is a dependent of that definition, that gender is a set of ideas, processes and performances surrounding terms such as "masculine", "feminine" and "neuter", among other possibilities, which are themselves outcroppings of formal grammar. To use gender as a synonym for sex is in some cases acceptable, and I imagine Americans get along perfectly well most of the time without worrying too much about it, but in a thread like this would be pretty much fatal.

Question pour vous:

1.) "often arbitrarily?" when is gender not arbitrary, given your arguments above? You certainly seem to discount the possibility of their being any "essence" ( a dirty word, I know, but more, below) to gender. What's a non-arbitrary gender?

2.) "...gender is a set of ideas, processes and performances surrounding terms such as "masculine", "feminine" and "neuter", among other possibilities, which are themselves outcroppings of formal grammar." - This sentence, as well as the use of "cultural overlay", implies to me that you believe that grammatical gender precedes gender roles. By modifying "grammar" with "formal," you also seem to take the weird position that the codifying of grammar also codified gender roles. Clearly, people who don't use "proper" English (or French or Latin or Chinese) still use gendered pronouns, and used them before the grammarians were a twinkle in their daddies' pants.

If gendered pronouns preceded gender roles, what did they indicate? The obvious answer would be biological sex. You could probably argue that the usage of "he" evolved from indicating someone who possesses a penis to indicate someone acts out male gender roles, but - where did these male gendered characteristics come from? From the actions of the person possessing a penis. Chicken, meet the egg.

(now the sweeping statement that may get me into trouble) Your recourse to a grammar-centric theory of gender is understandable given the tendency for recent theory to map the incredibly successful Saussurean linguistics onto *any* facet of culture, but the denial of essence to signifiers at the heart of structuralism/post structuralism shows its limitations. I kind of agree with Ignatius P here when he writes that the idea that words are slippery and ephemeral things that are not attached to anything in the real world... is ...patently silly, though I don't particularly want to universalize that idea, yet.

Gender is different from other semiotic systems - the very interest in provokes makes that evident. It certainly can't be just castration fear or something that makes it so. What is it? It certainly can't be atributed to anxiety over a simple category error among those who just don't *get* it.

And what is it for, Haus, to repeat myself. In your definition above, you say it's used to divide terms into groups. By terms you mean words which refer to people, people who are thus also divided into groups. Who's doing the dividing? To what purpose? That's what I want to know - because when you make comments like -

To use gender as a synonym for sex is in some cases acceptable, and I imagine Americans get along perfectly well most of the time without worrying too much about it

-you're not only needlessly slandering "americans" (whoever they are), but also setting up a straw man. As near as I can tell, no one in this thread is arguing that "gender=sex, and that's that." I certainly have no problem with conceptualizing sex as different then gender. Lawrence, if I read him correctly, wishes to advance the theory that gender terms are motivated by sexual differences, a possibility that a theory of gender based solely on *differences* would rule out, or treat as nonsense.

I've therefore put myself in the unenviable position of trying to argue essence back into language, or part of language, at least. God help me indeed.
 
 
some guy
13:14 / 26.11.02
Presumably you mean "the person appears as though she has a vagina".

Again, you're making the mistake of using a single physical attribute here. There is clearly a huge gray area, and many elements are obviously culturally mandated (drag queens typically choose to look like Barbie rather than Ellen DeGeneres for a reason). But pronoun usage (switching the he to she) tends to occur based on visual cues. So RuPaul gets a "she" when "she looks like a woman" but a "he" when out of character. I dispute that pronouns are popularly offered according to the "ideas, processes and peformances" you mentioned earlier for this very reason.

And are you in fact saying that you want solid, immutable genders and no fluidity in gender roles, or are you saying that gender itself should be mutable, in which case presumably there is no need for gender roles?

No, and you know this, because I've said it before. I personally think the notion of gender roles is ridiculous because I believe in absolute fluidity of behavior. But the notion of basing gender on behavior has massive problems, not the least of which is whether or not we change our gender throughout the day as we adopt different "processes and performances."

Because Wittig, for example, would say that there were at least three genders - men, women and lesbians.

But most people would argue that "lesbians are women who like other women." Why should Wittig's view take precedence over popular usage? We need a better working definition of gender, I think. Every time I try to come up with one, it falls apart. Just like your definition falls apart. Discussing gender is like trying to walk on Jell-O.

Which stops it being a method to "categorize people in the simplest way". Which of course it isn't, and never has been.

Of course that's what it's always been about.

On "how long has there been discussion of gender" - let's see...if we assume that spoken English in anything resembling its current form has existed for about 600 years...not much short of 600 years, really.

Gee, those gender studies departments really need to expand their libraries then. Or maybe most of the books are from recent decades because that's when gender entered the cultural discussion as a serious topic?

Elsewhere, we're probably talking about millennia - see the many examples of polygendered societies I proposed that at the time you said were examples not of genders but of gender roles before deciding that gender roles missed the point entirely.

This gets back to finding a workable definition of gender. I don't think "katoey" is a gender.

Is your position "we must accept what a statistical majority of people believe this word means and anything else is "airy-fairy"?

At the very least, words have multiple meanings. The popular use of the word "gender" means that it is one of those words.
 
 
some guy
13:29 / 26.11.02
Thought I'd toss this into the pot - from Dictionary.com:

gen·der (P) Pronunciation Key (jndr) n.

1. Grammar.
a. A grammatical category used in the classification of nouns, pronouns, adjectives, and, in some languages, verbs that may be arbitrary or based on characteristics such as sex or animacy and that determines agreement with or selection of modifiers, referents, or grammatical forms.
b. One category of such a set.
c. The classification of a word or grammatical form in such a category.
d. The distinguishing form or forms used.

2. Sexual identity, especially in relation to society or culture.
3.
a. The condition of being female or male; sex.
b. Females or males considered as a group: expressions used by one gender.

Usage Note: Traditionally, gender has been used primarily to refer to the grammatical categories of “masculine,” “feminine,” and “neuter,” but in recent years the word has become well established in its use to refer to sex-based categories, as in phrases such as gender gap and the politics of gender. This usage is supported by the practice of many anthropologists, who reserve sex for reference to biological categories, while using gender to refer to social or cultural categories. According to this rule, one would say The effectiveness of the medication appears to depend on the sex (not gender) of the patient, but In peasant societies, gender (not sex) roles are likely to be more clearly defined. This distinction is useful in principle, but it is by no means widely observed, and considerable variation in usage occurs at all levels.


Not very helpful, then.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
15:13 / 26.11.02
Lawrence: You don't like or trust academia. We get it. Care to tone it down a bit? Out of interest, do you have the same distrust of the also-recent airy-fairy academic discipline of quantum physics?

Todd: The "Americans" thing was a gag, in reference to Lawry's statement that most Americans, at least, determined gender by sex. I enjoyed the idea of America as a bastion of decency in a polygendered world. Plus, of course, the irony that up until a few centuries ago many Americans understood perfectly well the idea of a third gender, before the Europeans turned up and wiped them out, thus placing L's insistence that actually these third genders weren't genders at all at the end of a long history of civilisation. No disrespect was meant to actual Americans.

Lots of meaty questions here - makes me wish I was a gender theorist, really.


1.) "often arbitrarily?" when is gender not arbitrary, given your arguments above? You certainly seem to discount the possibility of their being any "essence" ( a dirty word, I know, but more, below) to gender. What's a non-arbitrary gender?

Well, in terms of second-order gender ascription to the sea (she), because it possesses "feminine" characteristics - turbulent, irrational, zoetrophic; you could say that the gender ascribed there is clearly not arbitrary.

In other cases, gender is not ascribed arbitrarily because of rules of grammar. In Latin, if a word is second declension, it will be masculine. That's just a rule, which is simultaneously systemic and arbitrary. Likewise, abstract nouns ending in "tion" in French, IIRC, tend to be feminine, so one being feminine, while arbitrary in broader terms, is non-arbitrary within the construction of the language. (Note - I think a lot of confusion here is because there is an assumption that English is not gendered because it is not inflected. Worth thinking about).

As for non-arbitray assignations of gender outside language structures - well, see below...

2.) "...gender is a set of ideas, processes and performances surrounding terms such as "masculine", "feminine" and "neuter", among other possibilities, which are themselves outcroppings of formal grammar." - This sentence, as well as the use of "cultural overlay", implies to me that you believe that grammatical gender precedes gender roles. By modifying "grammar" with "formal," you also seem to take the weird position that the codifying of grammar also codified gender roles.

Not what I meant to get across at all (which means I am going to skip most of your discussion of Saussure as not strictly relevant, I fear). Sorry.

My point was that gender, used non-grammatically but in a meaning growing from the menaing of "gender" in formal grammar (which does not mean "proper" English, or anything else - if we were being Saussurean, the grammar would be langue and all instances of speech parole regardless of "properness") represents the ideas, processes and performances associated as "masculine", "feminine", "neuter" and so on, *those terms* being grammatical. (and you can have grammar without grammarians - in retrospect, "formal" may be causing unnecessary ambiguity there".

Therefore, gendered pronouns did not precede gender roles. I still don't entirely understand what "gender roles" means in this discussion. Nor did they precede gender, at least not for our purposes. Since some languages understand a difference between man and woman without necessarily having gendered pronouns (did somebody mention Hungarian? I think perhaps some Creoles also), I think we can assume that the two do not exist in that relationship.

Otherwise...I'm not an ur-philologist. I have no idea whether the concept of gender came into language before the gendered pronoun (or indeed gender inflection, which is rather more important - *every* noun or adjective in many language has or takes an inflected gender. This gender may be arbitrary (for example, the Ancient Greek word "patria", meaning a clan, is clearly derived from "pater", meaning "father", but is itself feminine) or may be decided according to whether it is "masculine" or "feminine". Search me how this threw down at start of play, but I think we can say with confidence in these latter days that sports cars are called "she" because women are called "she".

Now, clearly we can observe certain characteristics and behaviours that appear to be sex-based in our animal brethren. So, male gorillas have penises, and are larger than female gorillas, who have vaginas, menstruate and lactate. Male dolphins and female dolphins differ physically in various ways. Male dolphins and female dolphins also adopt different roles and perform different tasks (actually, I have no idea what dolphins do for kicks, but let's go with it). The problem lies when we start trying to work from, say, chimpanzee behaviour to human behaviour, or possibly, depending on what either term means, from sex roles to gender roles, because the question of what is "natural" and what is "constructed" becomes more and more complex. Female chimpanzees, for example, have menarche, but I doubt anyone would say of a chimpanzee undergoing menarche that they were "becoming a woman". Likewise, there was a Victorian scientific theory that women were not physically able to learn as men did - their brains were *naturally* unequipped for it, and another that homosexual men were in fact another sex. But the process of menarche has become socially and culturally contructed by humans in many different ways.

And, just as gender is now seen (although not perhaps by "most people", before L. jumps in) as no obstacle to voting, or working, or for that matter staying at home and raising children, the cultural and social (and, due to a better understanding of biology and advances in medical tech, the physical) associations of gender are undergoing a process of reevaluation, as they periodically do (see the Europeans arriving in the New World, or the vote going to women in Britain, or Roe vs Wade, perhaps).

So, long story short, gender roles (whatever they may be), social roles, physiology, language, culture, history, and so on. All things that feed into the construction of gender, with none as chicken *or* egg.

As for what gender is for....well, that's an awkward one. Back in the day, of course, it was vital for working out who could own property or vote, and is still used as a distinctor of suitability (remember the Australian activist arrested for using a women's toilet? Anyone got that link?) For example, although Lawrence seems to believe that the only thing Niles Crane and Rambo have in common is their biology, they are also both able to enlist to face frontline combat in the US military, whereas at present neither Nancy Drew nor Buffy the Vampire Slayer could. Whereas Nancy and Buffy would be more likely to be assigned custody of the children after a divorce, if Niles or John challenged that ruling they woudl be statistically more likely to prevail. They could also be full members of the Savages Club in London. A century ago, Niles and John would be able to vote, and Nacny and Buffy would not be able to own property after marriage. A few centuries hence, gender as a way to categorise people may be utterly hopeless, forcing us to fall back on distinction of hair colour or height (and making the Potuses of the Brave New World ask "What of you go home with a tall redhead, and they turn out really to be a brunette with a wig and stack heels? How would you feel?" if we want to identify someone.

This is, after all, one possible reason why transgendering/transvestism and other such maters are apparently more open and/or widespread - until fairly recently, the entitlements to which being a man or woman allowed access were so distinct that it would be very hard to provide a convincing case that adopting the trappings of another gender was *not* intending to defraud.

As this difference is (hopefulyl) elided, the legislative status of being a man or a woman might also, just as (theoretically) the US justice system recognises no distinction between black or white defendants (another binary distinction, and another one that seems ill-equipped in many ways to apply equally and with equality to the many different possible setups - anyone want to have a go at "passing"?). At that point - where there is no vested interest in gender as a differential construct - things might get interesting.
 
 
some guy
15:40 / 26.11.02
You don't like or trust academia. We get it. Care to tone it down a bit? Out of interest, do you have the same distrust of the also-recent airy-fairy academic discipline of quantum physics?

Nope - and actually I don't have any problems with academia per se. But in specific situations things get ropey. Gender is one of those situations. Even our "official definitions" (e.g. Dictionary.com) can't seem to present non-contradictory information, and to address the issue without constantly keeping popular usage close at hand is silly.

There are a whole host of questions I've raised that only makes the gender discussion murkier.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
15:44 / 26.11.02
And so say all of us. Thank God we have those brave boys and girls of our Gender Studies departments to help us out, or we'd be completely fucked.

To take a slightly different tack - how about, if we look at gender as fluid, the idea of gender as accoutrement? Something we wear on top of our sex, that acts as a handy indicator of a few general things about us?
 
 
some guy
16:07 / 26.11.02
how about, if we look at gender as fluid, the idea of gender as accoutrement? Something we wear on top of our sex, that acts as a handy indicator of a few general things about us?

Sure - but what sorts of things?

And if we deal with fluid gender - how fluid? Does it change over our lifetimes? During the course of a single day? How malleable is one gender before it becomes another? What is the dividing line between two genders? Can you point to three or four specific genders and describe their boundaries, what makes them distinct from one another? Is there no link whatsoever between gender and sex/sexuality, or are they joined in some nebulous way? Can we pick genders? What's the purpose of identifying these genders?
 
  

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