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Kali, Queen of Kitteh
02:50 / 09.01.09
So, yes, Barbelith, I was sacked from my job. And sacked under suspicious circumstances.

Flashback: I acquired my super-duper managerial position that I currently had because I had six years plus previous experience at another coffee haus. Also because one of my gbf's was the rising star manager at said establishment.

Here we go.

Two years have passed at said place. I have become the de facto manager without any noticeable raise, but yet, I say nowt. I do extra, not rock the boat because rocking the boat means: YOU MAY BE SACKED. They do not like innovators or forward thinkers at my place of employ.

I am getting married in two months. No shock. They know. I've told them. We've prepping for my departure. So I thought.

I got sacked today.

I am just too wound up.
 
 
pony
05:11 / 09.01.09
So sorry to hear this, Kali. I had my final day at my current employment today, due to the management of our owner's other business choosing to massively overstep their professional boundaries (sorry if my grammar is terrible, i'm a touch drunk). The job market in the pacific northwest is not good in the slightest (and I'm sure the south isn't fairing much better), but I figure that counting on my tax returns for a week or five is better than putting up with employers counting on a serious upper-hand and assuming that none of us would bail after our bonuses (i.e. the majority of our paychecks...) were cut. Any, I'm sure I'm rambling... best of luck with Kali v.1[.x]. I can't imagine you won't land on your feet. Best of luck.
 
 
Quantum
07:19 / 09.01.09
Kali, I feel your pain- coffee is a cruel industry from bean to cup. I was sacked from running a shop once when Starbucks bought out the chain I worked for, and honestly I never looked back- it was a blessing in disguise.
Good luck and remember, the chances are you'll get a job that doesn't require a ferociously early start- win! I hear Dr Who is looking for an assistant...
 
 
Neon Snake
07:21 / 09.01.09
Been there.

I got made redundant four weeks before getting married. We're a single-income family (my wife has M.E. and cannot work) so...yeah. Not great.

Not a lot to say, really, other than "everyone I know who has been redundant has found other work", and it's usually been a step up the ladder as well, so statisically and very anecdotally, you should be fine and not worried.

But, I feel you. I went wobbly as fuck for a period of time immediately after, but *try* not to let it interfere.

At some point in the future, you'll have another job, and things will be ok again, it will all seem a bit laughable, and you don't want to look back and think "Why oh why did I let that intefere with the excitement and joy of the build-up to my wedding?"
 
 
Spaniel
08:33 / 09.01.09
I've not been sacked, but I'm sure it's very shit indeed.

Don't let it ruin your wedding!
 
 
Closed for Business Time
08:37 / 09.01.09
Not to make light of your situation Kali - but at least you'll have ample time to prepare for the wedding funs now. All the very best of luck in soliciting new employment!
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
11:31 / 09.01.09
That sucks... I hope you find something soon: A job that will be sensitive to the fact you'll need some wedding time almost immediately upon hire. Good luck.
 
 
iamus
20:25 / 09.01.09
I have become the de facto manager without any noticeable raise, but yet, I say nowt. I do extra, not rock the boat because rocking the boat means: YOU MAY BE SACKED. They do not like innovators or forward thinkers at my place of employ.

I could offer condolences, and it may have been all you had, but honestly? That job sounds like it was shit. Just pretend that you walked out on it.

Your wedding is coming up. When would be a better time for moulding a new, more expansive Kali?! You'll be riding a big wave of change in your life at the moment, use it before it settles down again into something else. I reckon you've got it in you.
 
 
iamus
20:27 / 09.01.09
Why do I sound like a tabloid horoscope?

Your lucky colour is blue.
Mystery comes in the form of a cat with a top hat.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
12:20 / 10.01.09
It was just shit the way it was done. It was done under the pretense of a anonymous complaint about me but yet when I asked what was said, the response was---I shit you not---"I don't really remember."

It seems to me that if you're sufficiently wound up enough to sack me, then you would likely to remember what the complaint was, yes?

It just seems unnecessarily cruel because I told I would be able to work until it was time for me to put in notice for wedding prep.
 
 
Evil Scientist
13:43 / 10.01.09
It was just shit the way it was done. It was done under the pretense of a anonymous complaint about me but yet when I asked what was said, the response was---I shit you not---"I don't really remember."

Is that even legal?
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
15:16 / 10.01.09
I'm curious. The fiance doesn't seem to think so.

Again, it was really shady the way it went down.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
15:55 / 10.01.09
I'm pretty sure it isn't legal. But if it turns out there's enough small print in your contract to make this sort of behaviour borderline allowable, why not ring up your local paper, and tell them everything?

If the company's being dreadful, why shouldn't you?
 
 
Anna de Logardiere
22:57 / 10.01.09
That's not a bad idea and since the comment that got you fired was anonymous I don't see why you shouldn't appear as anonymous in the paper.
 
 
Tsuga
23:05 / 10.01.09
It depends on the state here, I think Kali is in GA, which is a "right to work" state, one of the drawbacks of which is that one can be fired pretty much without reason at any time. If someone is fired for an illegal reason, such as discrimination, that's another matter.
 
 
grant
23:41 / 10.01.09
Yeah, those British and Commonwealth citizens with their quaint ideas about common decency and corporate morals.....
 
 
Tsuga
00:35 / 11.01.09
No doubt.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
01:07 / 11.01.09
Unfortunately, Tsuga's right: Georgia has the same thing every other 49 states does (the exception, being oddly, Montana), an "at-will employment."

It essentially states that an employer can let you go regardless of reason.

If this state allowed fucking unions, this would not be an issue.

So yes, I can be sacked without reason.

Hello, Canada.
 
 
pony
06:37 / 11.01.09
If this state allowed fucking unions, this would not be an issue.

Georgia does allow unions, they simply don't mandate them. Major difference.
 
 
Anna de Logardiere
09:09 / 11.01.09
Yeah, those British and Commonwealth citizens with their quaint ideas about common decency and corporate morals.....

No, no, those British citizens with their quaint ideas about employment law!
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
12:13 / 11.01.09
Ah, I see.
 
 
oryx
13:29 / 11.01.09
I've been fired a couple of times. Once the dust settled I realised it was the best thing that could have happened. It sucked at the time though. You have my sympathy. I'm British, but working freelance in the music industry meant that employment law didn't amount to a hill of beans. (Thankfully I've had a full career change now, and I work in a much more civilised sector.)

Send your former boss a box of locusts through the post. It'll make you feel much better.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
13:35 / 11.01.09
I'm really only upset about the way they went about it; personally this job was a bit shit except for the staff. I wish the worst for them and I hope that karma becomes true enough in that they will reap what they have sown.
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
11:55 / 12.01.09
Hi Kali...
Canada is waiting with open arms - Being commonwealth, anyone that loves one of our national treasures, Neil Gaiman, like you do, is welcome here.
Hell, here in Gatineau, they even managed to get a union in the Car Centre of a Walmart! Not too bad, eh?
(Yes - You will need to embrace the ubiquitous "eh"...
 
 
Spaniel
13:15 / 12.01.09
Gaiman? Canadian? Eh? Am I missing something?

I've always thought he was English (wikipedia confirms this), albeit currently living in the USA
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
13:25 / 12.01.09
Canadians consider anyone born in the commonwealth, or anyone with the Queen on their currency to be "Canadian".

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It's all a joke, you understand...
 
 
Whisky Priestess
14:56 / 12.01.09
So there are (honorary) Australian-Canadians, British-Canadians, Jamaican-Canadians etc.?

I quite like that. Not so much building an empire as co-opting (or adopting) one.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
15:11 / 12.01.09
Going to attempt to apply for unemployment today. A hundred dollars or so a week is better than nothing, sadly.
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
15:26 / 12.01.09
Well, in my mind... I open the doors to all who wish Canadian citizenship.

My gov. may not agree, esp. the present administration, but I try ignore them...
 
 
trouble at bill
18:12 / 12.01.09
Sorry Kali, I hope things pick up fast for you. And yeah, the way it was done sounds waaaay out of line (by my quaint British standards)...
 
 
Dead Megatron
09:18 / 13.01.09
Jamaican-Canadians

I just read Bob Marlay's biography and am under the impression that jamaica went independent in the late 70s/early 80s, did it not?

Anyway, I digress.

Kali, that really sucks. I myself got sacked twice, the first being when the translation company I was working for suffered a huge loss of business right after 9/11 and they had to cut personel like they were the hot knife and we were the butter. It really hurt and scared me. The second time was when I was working as a reporter for the State Security Bureau (which run the Police) because they had sacked my very dear boss-lady and replaced with a company suck-up who would censor almost everything we wrote and reduced us to copying & pasting police reports on to the website. So I decide to slack off as hard as I could and see how long it would take them to fire me (about 40 days, it turned out). I left almost laughing out loud in their faces this time. The job was a fucking nightmare of human misery anyway, with dead children and criminal cartels going berzerk on an almost daily basis. The only good thing about it was the occasional adrenaline rush.

Both times the salary sucked.

And now I live in the boss-free, misery-free, and corporate bullshit-free environment of self-employment/free-lancing, which is great in some aspects, but admitedly lacks in security, Christmass bonus and dental plan and the such (as well as adrenaline rushes). I wouldn't change for anything, tho (other than for a buttload of cash...)

So, my advice to you is to see this as an opportunity rather than a setback. It's not easy, granted, but it helps. Who knows, your dream job may be waiting for you right out of your honey-moon. Have faith in yourself, Kali, I bet everyone around you already does....
 
 
Whisky Priestess
09:37 / 13.01.09
I just read Bob Marlay's biography and am under the impression that jamaica went independent in the late 70s/early 80s, did it not?

It's politically independent and a sovereign state (like Canada and Australia) but also a Commonwealth realm (like Australia and Canada) - which was the main criterion for honorary Canuckism, IIRC. I'm not sure if they have the Queen's head on the dollar though - anyone else know?

More about our former Empire (mostly).
 
 
Eek! A Freek!
11:38 / 13.01.09
Not a Queen's head to be found on Jamaican currency if google images can be trusted...
 
 
grant
16:37 / 13.01.09
On the other hand, Kingston.

Plus, the whole bobsledding thing.


Hmmm.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
01:11 / 14.01.09
Not aiding, grant.

 
  

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