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Banning thread: Mathlete - leading to discussion of acceptable standards of descriptive violence and aggresson on Barbelith (was: Firing Mathlete Out the Ban Cannon)

 
  

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Jawsus-son Starship
14:26 / 18.07.07
1) Two posts a year apart obviously make an obvious pattern of off topic abuse aimed at you Haus.

2) Mathlete's apology re: Fingerbreak Ladyfest 07 was criticised when he made it as primarily a long plaint about how he was being misrepresented rather than anything as Outré as an actual apology.

Clearly not true, as seen two pages ago.

...then again, to Disco and anyone else who was caused to feel this way due to my post, I appologise as strongly as I can. No caveat, no but, just a very honest sorry.

2 redux) So you'd argue that my post, in which I outline why I am annoyed by you is more abusive than calling someone a fuck wit, or a see you next tuesday, or whatever? I don't. Though I guess really calling someone an idiot is worse than calling someone a prick. Where does patronsing behaviour come in the abuse scale?

3) On the banning - as far as I can see, we're talking here about incremental, sustained and escalating attacks on the good functioning of the board and the happiness of the people using it

See point one. Escalating in that they happened one after the other? Two completely unconnected incidents over one year apart = a sustained attack? Are you sure?

Ah, and here we are - once again claiming that no evidence of misogyny has ever been offered in a thread that started from your lurid fantasy about violently abusing a woman.

For which I apologised. And looked at why people would be upset by this, thought hard, and haven't done anything of the sort since, and will not again.

but I can absolutely understand why others have already been convinced that your tenure on Barbelith, taking incrementally, has been such a negative experience for you and for those who have had to deal with you, and that attempts at amelioration have been so utterly ignored or quickly forgotten, that, sad as it may be, the best response would be to pull the plug on the experiment now rather than going around again.

Then you or Randy can email Tom and put the ban through. This is the aim of this thread, nothing I say will change that, and even though yet again you've provided no evidence (apart from your sustained attacks, with gaps between them of one year), I'm still pretty sure you'll get the ban.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
14:39 / 18.07.07
Dude, before you play the victim card it might be worth asking yourself why you omitted the part from your last quote where Haus said I don't necessarily feel a ban is necessary.

(Haus- "necessarily" AND "necessary" in the same sentence? Uncharacteristically clumsy of you!)
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
14:45 / 18.07.07
Yeah, edit's in. I'm popping in and out of surgery, so am a bit distracted. I assume Mathlete has a similar excuse for not noticing that, or for apparently thinking that having not subsequently fantasised about broken ladyfingers for the benefit of the board means that no evidence of misogynist content was ever offered in the past - misogynist content that he keeps harping on about the absence of any instantiation of, which given the genesis of this thread seems unwise. Ah, well.
 
 
Quantum
15:01 / 18.07.07
Mathlete, I notice you've started 33 topics. Which were the best examples of your positive contributions to the board do you think?
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
15:15 / 18.07.07
Sorry Quantum, I'm trying to google up all my Barbelith threads, as I can't really remember them all. Of the ones I've started that I can remember, probably the this one, as it was my first attempt to combine Barbelith with my written work. I had never thought of using the creation forum as a place to post things I was working on so that I could get some decent feedback (my Creative Writting class not being so strong on any feedback past "Yeah, it's really good").

I also liked this one, as it was informative and contained some interesting views. And I learned from it, which is what Barbelith is all about.

I'll keep looking, but probably that. I don't start to many topics, and I'd say 90% of those I've started were in my first few months, and not so strong.
 
 
My Mom Thinks I'm Cool
19:29 / 18.07.07
First you said this:

I will, as I have before, leave any Policy threads that aren't A) about me or something I was involved in, or B) about bannings and such.

and this:

I've talked about a clean slate, and I understand that to get one you need to actually do something. I'm not asking for instant forgiveness, just the oppotunity to answer and apologise where it is warrented. If I could do that, could I get the clean slate thing going?

and then you said this:

I can't think of a real argument to the point the poster made, so I'll just repeat myself ad nauseum

in a policy thread which was not about you or about banning. and now you say this:

So what is the problem? Some people on here don't like me?

it is obvious what the problem is. once again you seem confused: the problem is not that some people don't like you but that people don't like something you've posted. unthinkable as it may be, you might consider examining your own behavior, rather than everyone else's.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
02:56 / 19.07.07
I also liked this one, as it was informative and contained some interesting views. And I learned from it, which is what Barbelith is all about.

The NAMBLA thread in the Switchboard being referenced here is, presumably, the one that span off your contention, in Shadowsax's 'Howl' thread, that Allen Ginsberg was 'a big ol' paedophile'?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
05:11 / 19.07.07
I don't know if that really signifies, AG - Mathlete has already said that the Howl threadrot was unwise, although that was a while ago and his position may have changed. More generally, I second Papers. For example:

See point one. Escalating in that they happened one after the other? Two completely unconnected incidents over one year apart = a sustained attack? Are you sure?


Math, I think you have again not read or not quite understood what was written. Which was not attacks on me, although I can pull out some more if I need to, but attacks on the good functioning of the board.

Barbelith doesn't get mad, it gets locked. Banning discussion - Shadowsax. Post-bannning discussion thread. Moderation Requests thread, repeatedly. Dead Megatron: His Crimes. Bullying on Barbelith. Ugliness on the Board.

Over and over, basically the same pattern. Which is why, as I have already said, I think you would be happier, and would be treated as less of a problem, if you kept out of Policy, except possibly, to be fair, when people are discussing banning you. Which nobody was until you resurrected this thread and then trolled another one, it must be said. Neither of which would have happened if you had not been posting in the Policy, or even if you had kept to your own self-imposed limits. We could have avoided all this unpleasantness, essentially.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
10:29 / 19.07.07
You're right, but as said else where;

A bit of self-delusion, a bit of laziness, a bit of moral coowardice and there you are - boom! You're on a visitor's visor to Douchitania.

It's warm here, but the flys are big.

Quick question Haus - how disapointing is it to be constantly right? Have you been lonely since you annexed the moral highground? How difficult is it to throw parties, visit the pub, make love to a beutiful women, when on a high horse?
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
10:56 / 19.07.07
Who needs a beautiful woman when you have a high horse?

Right now, mathlete, I apppear to be about the only person who has expressed an opinion who doesn't actually think you should be banned outright - in part because I think you have some emotional or cognitive issues we ought at least to try to work around.

However, it may be a better idea, as some appear to believe, just to pull the plug on the experiment. If you are genuinely spending the majority of your time here thinking about me and fuming until periodically you lose control and spam out, I see no way your experience of Barbelith is going to be fun for you or for Barbelith.

So, thoughts: what has surprised me so far in this new phase of this thread has been how few people have been involved. Compare with Shadowsax, where at least people had opinions and wanted to express them. Does it reflect a general quietude in Barbelith in these sultry Summer months? Do most people just not care about whether Mathlete is banned, or feel that the arguments have already been satisfactorily made? Put simply, does anyone else want Mathlete _not_ to be banned? Should we be compiling a new thread, C&Ping much of this one, and going through the week-long model?
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
11:44 / 19.07.07
I'm not so sure Shark Jesus - Jawsus (can we call him that? seems only fair that we use the name he's now given himself) should be banned. Maybe the best solution would be for him to put any parties he's aggrieved with on ignore for a few weeks, and for any parties who are aggrieved / irritated etc. with him to put him on ignore for a few weeks, so that he / they can withdraw from this and enjoy the rest of the board for a bit without distraction? It's possible that this will break what seems to be a negative cycle, and will give SJJ time to reflect on (and, let's hope, adapt) his posting style. Another plus with this would be that by the time SJJ takes those he's aggrieved with off ignore (and vice versa), he'll have lost the '(prev. Mathlete Vista)' branding beneath his current suit name. Mathlete is, I think, a tainted brand around these parts, and once he sheds it he may - if he's posting in a useful way - find that he's got something like the clean slate he's asked for.

Of course, if during the time those aggrieved / irritated with him etc. have him on ignore he acts like a wanker, there are others who will pick him up on it, and, if necessary, call for a ban. Right now, I don't think he's done much (apart from the distasteful BB finger breaking fantasy, which he has apologised for) to really merit a ban. If he places those he believes to be his tormentors on ignore, and they do likewise, he'll likely feel less persecuted (not that I necessarily believe he is being persecuted), and may be able to consider his situation in a more sober manner.
 
 
Katherine
11:52 / 19.07.07
I personally think he should be banned but I also think that a new thread with links to the behaviour with points should be made as well. Reading though this thread I feel that it is a bit too messy for a banning thread.

I would say that I think Haus has been rather fair (albeit a bit abrupt in some posts but he's not an angel but a human being) to Mathlete but to me I personally feel Mathlete has taken Haus's words in a negative light whether that is on purpose or not I can't say.

I am not just randomly agreeing with anyone on this thread and I am more than happy to compile a post or thread with reasons and links why I feel Mathlete should be banned if people don't mind waiting a few days?
 
 
electric monk
12:08 / 19.07.07
Maybe the best solution would be for him to put any parties he's aggrieved with on ignore for a few weeks, and for any parties who are aggrieved / irritated etc. with him to put him on ignore for a few weeks, so that he / they can withdraw from this and enjoy the rest of the board for a bit without distraction?

I think history has proven that Mathlete cannot be trusted to abide by any guidelines that are expected to be self-imposed and self-enforced. I'm sorry, but here we are a week after Mathlete asked for a "clean slate" and promised to stay out of Policy. I vote for a ban.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
12:09 / 19.07.07
I'm really confused by this whole affair, to be honest. As Haus has pointed out, nobody was calling for Mathlete to be banned originally, following the opening post. Math seems to have been going out of his way to make himself some sort of lone voice against an angry mob, and has deliberately provoked that mob himself. I don't think a ban's necessary, but I'm becoming increasingly convinced that it's what Mathlete actually wants, for reasons known only to himself.

He's accused Haus of trying to have him banned even as Haus has been arguing against a ban. I don't know what the FUCK all that's about.

I really don't understand what the fuck's going on anymore, but whatever it is it's all rather depressing.
 
 
jentacular dreams
12:49 / 19.07.07
Have to agree with stoat. As said before at this point it doesn't seem like anyone's actually benefitting from all this, I think the only realistic options are really for SJJ to either walk away from the policy or be sent away from barbelith. The only other option I can see is an enforced absence from the policy (deletion of any future policy posts for a fixed period), but that's putting a lot more responsibility on the mods than they signed up for, and it's questionable as to whether we'll just wind up back in the same place as soon as that period finishes.

Math/Jawsus - what do you want from this thread, and what do you want from barbelith in general? Why did you post in the member conflict thread? Is it something you think you'll do again? Is anything actually changing from your POV or will someone else be bumping this thread at some point next month? Do you understand why this thread was bumped, or would you like some clarification, maybe from someone other than haus? If learning is what barbelith is all about, why are you so reluctant to take some people's objections to heart?

I'd rather not see you banned, but unless something changes it looks like it's an inevitable eventuality, and if that is the case then people may well (and indeed have already started to) ask why not earlier rather than later? If you don't want that to happen then now is your chance to stop it. If you do want it to happen, you might as well burn your suit and go out with dignity.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
12:51 / 19.07.07
I'm confused, too. I'm tempted to think that the whole thing turns on SJJ's (actual or self-perceived) unpopularity with certain members of the board, perhaps chief among them Haus. From SJJ's earliest postings, he's alway's been very enthusiastic about Barbelith, and moreover very enthusiastic to fit in, and to gain respect from his board mates. For various reasons (mostly of his own making) this hasn't been very successful at all, and he's attracted criticism, and at times piss-taking, from members of the board who have considerably higher currency than him around these parts. Instead of adapting his posting style to make it more 'lith friendly, he appears to have decided that he can never win with the haters, and is flailing back with hurt, angry energy of a child whose daddy won't give them the one thing they really need - acceptance.

The thing is, though, that we're all adults, here, and Barbelith isn't really the place for playing out these kind of dramas. Rather than banning SJJ, I'd suggest that he shouts 'You're not my real Dad!' at Haus, puts him on ignore for a bit, and then starts a thread on Iron John.
 
 
Ticker
12:55 / 19.07.07
Sorry I haven't replied sooner was offline yesterday.

anyhow to answer Anna yes Haus is correct the post I was responding to was posted by Spatula and I believe deleted from the original thread it appeared in.

I certainly do not have any personal issue with Mathlete however I agree absolutely with pants:

it is obvious what the problem is. once again you seem confused: the problem is not that some people don't like you but that people don't like something you've posted. unthinkable as it may be, you might consider examining your own behavior, rather than everyone else's.

after all of this current discussion Mathlete posts above:

Quick question Haus - how disapointing is it to be constantly right? Have you been lonely since you annexed the moral highground? How difficult is it to throw parties, visit the pub, make love to a beutiful women, when on a high horse?

C'mon, what does that statement produce if not more nastiness?

I understand that the community's style of interaction is not all flowers and pastry. There are appropriate moments of ranting and non civility but when it has been repeatedly pointed out that your behavior is upsetting and trollish by neutral parties and you ignore it, what are we supposed to do?

To make use of my day yesterday I'll throw this out to you.

Inquiry.

You've been asked to explain your side of the story by people who really are listening to you and been given space and time to do so.

Acknowledgment

Many members of the board have reviewed your side of things as evidenced by this thread.

Advocacy

The board as a whole has asked you to see their side of the story and asked for certain behaviors to cease/change. If you do not cease/change these behaviors you will be banned.

Yet you continue to behave this way clearly being nasty to Haus even with the ignore function as an option.

Mathlete, answer me honestly and simply please:

Can you stop engaging in a hostile manner with other posters specifically Haus?

Looking at the history of your behavior I currently think you cannot and are not willing to do so. Because of this I support a ban, not because I don't like you, but because the community is too fragile to tolerate this sort of ugliness and requires protective measures. Anyone who is asked to change their posting behavior by a good number of people who after much interaction and discussion does not comply is unsuitable for partipaction in the community.

I'm not a mod nor a Barbe-lifer, I've had my own conflicts with Haus, and I do not enjoy people being banned. However your attacks make my experience of the board miserable enough to avoid reading it. I'd use the ignore button but I'm afraid you are harming others and do not wish to turn a blind eye.
 
 
Evil Scientist
13:07 / 19.07.07
Compare with Shadowsax, where at least people had opinions and wanted to express them.

I think this is a different situation to the trollery of SS. As was said earlier this is more like the Paranoidwriter situation (although, even there, quite a few people got involved in the thread).

I was hanging back myself because Quantum had actually asked the question I was pondering about SJJ's contribution to the board as a whole (I don't really feel that you answered that one as completely as I would have liked SJJ)).

SJJ, it might be an idea to cut the Haus-bashing out. You're just getting more and more worked up and may well say something unintentionally that gets you upgraded to ban-worthy. The consensus is that Haus isn't the problem here and I don't think that chucking barbs back and forth is going to help things.
 
 
Evil Scientist
13:10 / 19.07.07
X-Posted with XK there.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
14:15 / 19.07.07
I'll put Haus on ignore, and I'll stop posting in policy. Policy is the area that gets me in the most trouble, and where I clash most with Barbelith model of an ideal poster. I'll continue to post in this thread until it dies down or the alternative. Furthermore, Haus is on ignore for the next 7 days. I agree that my attitude towards Haus is unhelpful.
 
 
Ticker
14:37 / 19.07.07
Those are all great actions to propose for an agreement to remain a member of the board.

do you agree that any more problematic posts in Policy (not in threads about you obv.) or inflammatory posts directed at Haus are clearly breaking that agreement?

May I also suggest when you feel the urge to post an angry response to any poster you give yourself an hour away from the keyboard to think it over before hitting post? while I'd suggest this to anyone I'm specifically seeing a pattern with your problematic posts. They all seem to be fast and furious outbursts that you later seem to wish you'd expressed differently.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
15:01 / 19.07.07

XK, in response to your post above, what exactly gives you the authority to present a contract to SJJ, especially one involving the ultimate sanction of being kicked off the board, as though its terms were already agreed upon by all who post here? Please understand that I'm not asking in an aggressive manner, it's just that it seems to me that this isn't quite on. Personally, I don't think that any member should be barred from any area of the site until such time as they are banned, and neither do I think that they should unequivocally surrender the right to speak to another member in anything but the most polite of terms. While SJJ has been inflammatory to Haus, and this really isn't cricket, there exists the tiny possibility that at some point in the future Haus might, very much against type, be in a 'moment of madness' inflammatory to SJJ. In this admittedly unlikely scenario, I think SJJ would have every right to respond in kind. What you're proposing, in the end, is a kind of Barbelith ASBO, and that doesn't sit quite right with me. Is anybody else uncomfortable with the idea that there can, on Barbelith, be one rule for member X, and another for member Y?

Given that SJJ has voluntered to put Haus on ignore for a week and has stated that he will voluntarily stay out of policy, I propose that we stop weighing in on whether he be banned or not for a bit. I see no reason to continue the conversation further unless SJJ does something (and here's hoping he doesn't) that would give anyone cause to move for a ban. It's really not helpful speculating as to whether he will be able to have a more successful relationship with Barbelith in future, as any negative speculations will only fuel the impression I believe he has that he's not treated with fairness on the board. Right now, I think it is best to congratulate him for undertaking the action he's mentioned (as, indeed, XK did), wish him the best, and look forward to his transformation from an ugly Mathlete duck into a beautiful Jawsus swan.
 
 
HCE
15:23 / 19.07.07
Haus, I haven't put in a vote because the whole banning process sucks the life out of me and at the moment I am defending myself by not caring. I do care about how people who have not yet been banned can find ways to exist here, if they feel they must, without becoming so fixated on one person that they become unable to hear anything anybody else says.

Maybe we'll see some results from this latest attempt.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
15:27 / 19.07.07
Safely on ignore as I am, let me be the first to say *sets watch*.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
15:56 / 19.07.07
Having said which:

I see no reason to continue the conversation further unless SJJ does something (and here's hoping he doesn't) that would give anyone cause to move for a ban.

HOSB, you do realise that you just did exactly what you told XK off for doing? Various people have already proposed that Mathlete should be banned - Mordant Carnival, XK and LOTF, without clicking back. I don't believe that you have the power to decided that any action taken by Mathlete, except possibly scrambling his password, automatically prevents these or other members from expressing the belief, for example, that this is not sufficient, or that they have no faith from precedent in this undertaking being any more successful than the previous resolutions. Perhaps if we all stop leaping for the conch and just behave according to our consciences and understandings of the best interests of the board?
 
 
Ticker
16:40 / 19.07.07
It was not my intent to present myself as an authority of board policy rather it was my intent to take Mathlete's current offer of action and mirror it back to him in a clear manner that he might use to understand consquences of failing in those actions he proposed himself. In making the offer he has set up expectations.

If after offering to ignore Haus and cease the current hostilities on his own, Mathlete returns to these actions without provocation it seems to me quite reasonable to say he has broken his own pact with the board.

there seems to be a great deal of misunderstanding about what people want from other posters and what they do not. so it appears the most straight forward to ask someone what behavior they believe is required of them and then to ask them to maintain those standards.

As far as I can tell, we all share the authority to negotiate with each about good behavior and community expectations as long as those standards and expectations are mutually agreed upon, public, and made in good faith. that's one of the alternative goals of a banning thread, is it not?
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
16:43 / 19.07.07
Haus, I don't think that is what I did.

I'd draw your attention to the I in I see no reason to continue the conversation. There are several other Is in that paragraph, including an I propose, an I believe and an I think, all of which underline that it's me, and only me, who is doing the seeing, proposing, believing, or thinking. Same with the para above: there's an it seems to me, a personally, and two I thinks. Nowhere in the post do I claim any power to prevent anybody else from speaking, or attempt to exercise that (non-claimed, and indeed non-existent) power, I merely state that I think it might not be in Barbelith's best interests to speculate on the likely outcome for SJJ. This of course leaves every one of us free to behave according to our consciences and understandings of the best interests of the board.

To put it another way, I haven't claimed, as you put it, the power to decided anything, only put in my 2d worth.

By contrast, XK writes:

Those are all great actions to propose for an agreement to remain a member of the board.

do you agree that any more problematic posts in Policy (not in threads about you obv.) or inflammatory posts directed at Haus are clearly breaking that agreement?


Which seems to me to indicate that there is already a contract on the table, which SJJ must, if he wishes to remain a member of the board, agree to. While I'm open to the idea that she did not intend to dole out a Barbelith ASBO, the lack of modifiers in her post pointed, to me at least, towards her doing exactly that.

Another thought. If we are all (as you and I both hope) free to behave according to our consciences and understandings of the best interests of the board, should this freedom not be extended to SJJ?
 
 
Ticker
17:11 / 19.07.07
It has already been offered if you care to read this thread.

Out of courtesy I offer you the links:

where the poster in question responds to the previous round

a bit more

and a wee bit more


there are a few things on the table here for each of us to decide:

1. are the actions of this poster trollish or not?

2. if they are (and I would say enough people find them so to indicate an issue worthy of discussion) will the poster desist from the actions?

3. if the actions are trolling, the poster asked to stop them and does not, what action is the board willing to take?

He has been asked several times to change his engagement style by a variety of people. You'll please note over the course of the thread the various participants' POVs. From the links above please see sincere requests/offers/discussion of changing behavior. INCLUDING to leave off Haus confrontations.

If we allow posters to be harassed around the board (trolling) and Policy to be used as the Armory's dueling field the board ceases to be a semi functional thing at all and becomes a complete mess.


Which seems to me to indicate that there is already a contract on the table, which SJJ must, if he wishes to remain a member of the board, agree to. While I'm open to the idea that she did not intend to dole out a Barbelith ASBO, the lack of modifiers in her post pointed, to me at least, towards her doing exactly that.


the contract:
I'll put Haus on ignore, and I'll stop posting in policy. Policy is the area that gets me in the most trouble, and where I clash most with Barbelith model of an ideal poster. I'll continue to post in this thread until it dies down or the alternative. Furthermore, Haus is on ignore for the next 7 days. I agree that my attitude towards Haus is unhelpful.

Proposed by the poster, mirrored back to the poster:

Those are all great actions to propose for an agreement to remain a member of the board.

do you agree that any more problematic posts in Policy (not in threads about you obv.) or inflammatory posts directed at Haus are clearly breaking that agreement?


In mirroring back to the poster his own proposal I hope to clearly bring to his attention that if he breaks his own self applied rules he is removing any good will his offer has generated. Considering the links at the top of this post I feel it is very important for him to have help tracking the chances the board is willing to give him.

why you feel I am acting inappropriately is not clear to me at all. Please clarify what in my actions you believe is not helpful to either the poster or the board.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
17:32 / 19.07.07
As you wish, HOSB. Personally, I see no greater impetus to compulsion in XK's post than in yours. You keep saying "contract". XK said agreement. At no point did XK mention excluding him from the Policy, only that him making inflammatory posts in the Policy would violate the agreement he had undertaken himself - the agreement presumably being that one on side Mathlete does not harrass and seek attention, and XK and others do not press for him to be banned for harrassing and seeking attention. The idea of a "Barbelith ASBO" is something that came up primarily in discussion of dealing with Paranoidwriter, and was touched on by Randy earlier. The difficulty with XK's formulation is that it presumes that Mathlete has an understanding of what is and is not inflammatory, which seems on current evidence not a fair quality to expect him to demonstrate.

However, that is not really the point I was making. What you have done with the passage I quoted is to attempt to present as actual a world in which nobody has moved for a ban, and thus where conditions would need to be fulfilled before any such action could be taken. People have already moved for a ban, and have explained why, and you should not attempt to present, for whatever reason, a narrative where this has not happened. One might compare your statement when you created a new thread to discuss banning DEDI:

Banning is, after all, a serious thing, and should turn on more than one person's set of grievances, however substantial or not those grievances may be.

This statement was made despite the presence of many people having already set out grievances with DEDI in a previous thread to which you did not link, I thought at the time as a simple oversight.

I am sure that your desire to reset the Matrix like this is from the best of motives, just as I am sure that your peculiar decision to highlight a typo in my post above was motivated by some entirely noble if opaque intent, rather than, say, a spirit of adolescent one-upmanship. However. In this thread, sundry people have moved that Mathlete should be banned, which suggests that they felt that he had given them cause so to do. Others have moved that he should not be banned, or have said that they had yet to reach a conclusion. Just because you might not agree with those who have moved that Mathlete should be banned, you do not have the power to redact according to your desired model everything they have said, any more than you would every expression of the idea that he should not if you were of the other party.

To your second point. This question was first asked by Dead Megatron in a thread called "The High Society", in slightly dfferent wording. His question was why the benefit of the doubt could not be extended to anyone. The answer was that often extending the benefit of the doubt to everybody creates contradictions. In this case, Mathlete having exercised his freedom to behave according to his conscience and his understanding of the best interests of the board has led to a banning thread being started and several people within that banning thread moving to have him banned - mainly in the last couple of days. As such, it would certainly be entirely fair, and possibly would save time, to extend to him that freedom unconditionally and without advice, but it might be nicer to give him some tips on where his idea of these aims might tally or not tally with a general consensus on what is or is not bannnable behaviour.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
17:33 / 19.07.07
Various people have already proposed that Mathlete should be banned - Mordant Carnival etc.

Just to be clear--nothing that's been said upthread has changed my opinion one whisker. However, since I want to conserve this one tiny grain of will to live in case of emergencies, I'm not keen to participate further in yet a fucking nother eight-page ban thread. Will content self with observing lugubriously from the sidelines and biting back the mutter of "told you so" which will be springing to my lips in a couple of months' time.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
17:34 / 19.07.07
X-post, of course.
 
 
Ticker
17:45 / 19.07.07
I hear you TtS.

I'm afraid I've undone Haus contrast of contract/agreement above in my last possible x-post.

as it stands right now I'm feeling the sore lack of a defined set of troll guidelines especially for what we might call hill versus mountain troll. A hill troll is still a troll even if they are not huge and giant and hurling big -isms at your head. Small shit behavior is still harassment, tiring, and detrimental to the community. Following a poster harassing them and soapboxing in Policy is trolling.

How many chances of stopping shit behavior do we collectively dole out? I feel like the Douchess of Douchitania for wasting my time when more experienced heads have burned out before me. And for adding to the 8 pages of ban thread hand wringing.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
18:01 / 19.07.07
And another x-post. But thanks, Mordant - that's useful to know, and might ultimately be an issue. And fear not, XK - I thought that you were doing something specific with "agreement", but it wasn't a major point, which related to the status of movement to ban that Mordant has just demonstrated is still on the table. I am happy to stand corrected.

So, as I understand it, Mathlete has undertaken to put me on ignore (although since I think I am generally quite a lot nicer to him than some of his other potential shouty targets might be, that might not work brilliantly) for a week, which may give him a chance not to see things that spark his trollbone, and to stay out of any Policy thread not intimately involved with banning him, as far as I can tell in perpetuity. Which will at least help us to see whether the Policy is the cause or just the most convenient location for problematic behaviours.

In exchange for this personal undertaking, as I see it, he wishes to be given a chance to demonstrate that he is able a) not to harrass (for the sake of this model) me and b) not to clog Policy. By extension, I assume that he is conceding that if he turns out not to be able to avoid these compulsions, his relationship with Barbelith is pathological and he will submit to the need for other steps to be taken to protect him from it and it from him. Whether that undertaking is acceptable, or a convincing reason to wait a while, is down to the individual conscience of the members of Barbelith who, ultimately, cohabit with him.
 
 
Glenn Close But No Cigar
18:42 / 19.07.07
XK, I'm glad that it wasn't your intent to present [your]self as an authority of board policy, but with respect that's not what I called you on in my original post. Rather, I was calling you on the fact that you whipped out, from nowhere and with no consultation, what you in your own words called an agreement (and later a contract) for SJJ to remain a member of the board. You then, again without consultation, proposed to SJJ further clauses to be added to this agreement, which, he has yet to respond to.

My point here is that SJJ volunteered to stop posting in Policy outside this thread, and to put Haus on ignore, after these things were suggested to him by, IIRC, Haus and me respectively. At no point did either of us seek to hold SSJ to an agreement - because, in my case at least, and I suspect in Haus', this is not something I believe or wish I have the power to do.

So no binding agreement or contract exists, except that between SJJ and himself, which is a matter for his own conscience. SJJ is free to act as he wishes, until such a time a ban is enacted by Tom Coates. The decision to ban could, conceivably, be made by Tom Coates as a result of SJJ repeating behaviours that he's agreed with himself to put a stop to, but I don't believe that it's up to any one poster (or, indeed, any subset of posters) to draw up a contract with another which will restrict their freedom on Barbelith. The only 'contract' any poster might be said to agree to here is the one they 'sign' by reading the FAQ section on 'Things that will get you into trouble pretty quickly' when they first join, although whether that act of reading is indeed a 'signiature' is a moot point.

The aspect of your actions I found unhelpful is what seemed to me to be your assumption of the power to draw up a contract with SJJ without his consent, or the consent of your board mates, and then suggest that this contract be used to hold SJJ to account at a later date. To be clear, it's not that I don't think that SJJ might not have benefitted from being reminded, at this stage, of the things he has done that have upset a number of people on this board. Rather, it is that I value Barbelith as a place where every poster is provided with equal freedoms. Nobody here, I believe, should be under contract to behave a certain way, not least because it creates asymmetrical power relations. Please understand that I mention all this not because I'm a card carrying SJJ fan, or because I want to have a pop at you. If it's appeared otherwise, my sincere apologies.

Haus... I didn't feel it necessary to mention that several people have moved for a ban, because to my mind that much was already clear from the thread, which would have already been read in its entirety by any resposible reader before they arrived at my postings. As such I did not, as you suggest, attempt to present, for whatever reason, a narrative where this has not happened. Now, it seems to me that your words for whatever reason might be read as an attempt by you to paint me as a troll apologist, a reading that's perhaps compounded by the rather selective quotation you make from the beginning of the banning thread I started on DeDI. For you and any interested parties, here's a link to that thread. A quick read will, I hope, make clear that I was hardly waving the flag for DeDI.

To repeat: the information that several people wanted SJJ banned was already up-thread, and to reposting it seemed superfluous to me. As such, your statement that

Just because you might not agree with those who have moved that Mathlete should be banned, you do not have the power to redact according to your desired model everything they have said, any more than you would every expression of the idea that he should not if you were of the other party.

is, while factually correct (I indeed do not have the power you mention), not really a valid criticism of my actions. An acknowledgement of this, and an apology, would be nice.

I'm more than happy to 'fess up to the fact that quoting your typo back at you wasn't exactly my most adult moment. Then again, I'm hardly the only poster here who's been tempted to go for the cheap shot. Indeed, your habit of persistently referring to posters you have no particular frienship with by a suit name they've abandoned might be said to be of this order (I wonder, do you call me by my old name because it echoes the way in which you call SJJ by his old name, in an attempt to subtely pair us in the reader's mind?). So, too, might your gag about what you call my desire to reset the Matrix - designed, perhaps, to file me away with those Barbelith undesirables who seek to shatter their fellow board members' reality tunnels, or when cornered close the connectors.

In the interest of harmony (no Discordian, I), I'm happy to apologise for pointing out your typo. To that, I'll add that I've been impressed at the restraint you've shown SJJ.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
19:00 / 19.07.07
And the horse: I think that the use of previous long-term IDs is less about some evil scheme than an attempt to give the reader some clue who these people might be once the prev.: wears off. For example, if you scroll up, you will see me referred to and addressed as Mordant Carnival, this being my long-term nick and the one used in the Dedi thread.
 
  

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