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Banning thread: Mathlete - leading to discussion of acceptable standards of descriptive violence and aggresson on Barbelith (was: Firing Mathlete Out the Ban Cannon)

 
  

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Our Lady Has Left the Building
17:03 / 13.06.07
Well, for starters...
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
17:19 / 13.06.07
Yes, we need a reason. We need a better-constructed argument, and we need a heap less frivolity. We had the entire conversation about jokey titles to banning threads over "Shadowsax: His Crimes", and we talked before that about the need to put together a decent first post to any banning thread. This has all already been discussed.
 
 
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19:33 / 13.06.07
How's this?

[+] [-] spoilertagged for disturbing elements, graphic depictions of violence

No one should have to read this kind of graphic description of violence on the board. I would rather see everyone undertake not to include this kind of fantasizing about graphic unnecessary violence no matter who might be the target. If Mathlete is in agreement as to why this is inappropriate and never does it again, that's sufficient for me.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
19:43 / 13.06.07
Thank you, that's much better.

So, question. Is this graphic descriptions of violence, or graphic descriptions of violence against women? I believe that in the past hyperbolic descriptions of aggression against the Barefoot Doctor or Jeremy Beadle have gone largely unremarked, at least until cited by people being upbraided for lurid descriptions of violence against women or other members of the board.

There's a following question, but I'd like to sort this one out first, because it has a whiff of precedent about it, although persistent conduct in the same wise has led to banning before.
 
 
Triplets
19:51 / 13.06.07
I'm wary of banning Mathlete for being a tool, even a misogynistic one, without giving him a chance to change his approach to Barbelith first.

So, I think he should be approached and asked if feels this is really acceptable content for Barbelith (and, well, for life in general) and go from there. Banning should always be the end, not the start.
 
 
Triplets
19:52 / 13.06.07
Is this graphic descriptions of violence, or graphic descriptions of violence against women?

I don't think Mathlete has posted anything with the same level of violence or aggression about the men of the BB house, which is what Anna de Log was getting at.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
19:57 / 13.06.07
Banning should always be the end, not the start.

Indeed. Speaking personally, I'd say that this thread came way too soon; whether that makes a banning more or less likely, ultimately, I don't know, but it seems a bit off to start having this discussion before he has even responded in-thread too the original comment. However, now it has started, at least it may keep the Big Brother thread reasonably on-topic.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
20:00 / 13.06.07
I don't think Mathlete has posted anything with the same level of violence or aggression about the men of the BB house, which is what Anna de Log was getting at.

Yes, but that wasn't what I was asking. I was asking whether we are treating as potentially the start of a banning thread any description of graphic violence, or only descriptions of graphic violence against women. What are our aggravating factors? Involvement of self as spectator or protagonist in violence? Race/gender/religion of victim? Sense in which the writer appears to have non-typing hand on genitals? Intention of writer simply to tweak nose of knee-jerk PC police, in form of Flyboy?
 
 
Shrug
20:09 / 13.06.07
I believe there was something in the BB6 thread that suggested 'repeatedly jamming Craig's head in a door until spinal fluid leaked out', 1) although I'm not looking for a reference, 2) it may not have been Mathlete and 3) it could have all been a wonderful dream.

Which is to say what Haus said. I'm slightly aware that Mathlete's had a problematic relationship with some people on Barbelith however, so if anyone's willing to build a more structured series of links it might be useful?
 
 
Feverfew
20:11 / 13.06.07
I hate to ask the obvious question, also, but should someone mention to hir that this discussion is taking place?
 
 
Shrug
20:17 / 13.06.07
Without wanting to be accused of internalised misogyny myself I am concerned that people are being too hasty with the banhammer but at the moment I'm, as I say, possibly uninformed.
 
 
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20:55 / 13.06.07
I'm not, actually, ready to advocate banning myself, but I do think it would be a good thing if we establish under what circumstances graphic depictions of violence are worthy of censure and banning.

These are some guidelines I would support:

1) Description of violence that is factual—reportage—is not ban or censure-worthy. Kindness suggests that where it may not be expected a warning or even spoiler-tagging would be nice to help people who might be triggered by it protect themselves.

2) Description of wished-for violence, I feel, should always be considered deprecated. I do not wish to see it here or engage in it here, although I may well have done in the past, to my shame. It's also one of those things that most people will engage in from time to time, even if it's just to describe infuriating action or speech as "facestabworthy". "Please don't" and "Sorry" are things I would like to see follow descriptions of wished-for violence more often.

3) Graphic description of wished-for violence is unnecessary and, I think, harmful. If someone's engaging in that chronically and refuses to stop, I would like there to be talk about what to do next. I realize the criterion "graphic description" is problematic; ideas about what to do with that are more than welcome.

4) Description of wished-for violence towards particular people is unnecessary and harmful. If someone's engaging in that chronically and refuses to stop, I would like there to be talk about what to do next. I commit to not engaging in that anymore on Barbelith, if I have in the past, and would be happy to have others join me.

5) Description of wished-for violence towards board members could reasonably be construed as a threat, makes the board feel less safe, and is censure-worthy. A poster making this error, I think, should be banned if they will not stop.

6) Description of wished-for violence towards people of a particular identity group that would not happen if the target were not of that identity group is censure-worthy, and can be construed as a threat against other people of that identity group, including board members. It's also sometimes harder to demonstrate, and is, I believe, what Anna De Logardier and ROFLADY are trying to show in this case. A poster making this error, I think, should be banned if they will not stop.
 
 
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21:12 / 13.06.07
Oh. And not included but seriously advocating nondefensive violence is not something I ever want to see on the board. A big portion of my opinion about a post that could be considered disturbing due to violence is based on my own problematic assessments of whether or not a person "means it."
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
21:24 / 13.06.07
Which is to an extent where my problems begin. First, because "meaning it" is not a reliable metric, and second because the parameters of what defines non-defensive violence are so user-definable. And third, really, that I think we have to work out what speech is protected and what speech is not protected, and I would favour ruling out rather than ruling in speech - so, if Mathlete was behaving in a way that had been identified as harrassing, that would be one thing, but I don't think that "behaving in a way that makes a particular board member or members unhappy" is always a convincing reason for banning to be considered. And, ease of reapplication notwithstanding, I don't think there is ever a case for moving to ban somebody in 14 words.
 
 
Jack Fear
21:30 / 13.06.07
Say, what’s this slope I seem to find myself standing on? Whoops! It’s slippery up here!

You know, Mathlete may or may not be a misogynist creep, but I’ve gotta say, putting an entire category of rhetorical vehemence off-limits seems like overreaching, and probably a bad idea. Not just because it would result in my own expulsion (as well as, say,
Flyboy
’s), but because the repurposing of Barbelith as The Place Where You’re Never Going To Be Made To Feel Uncomfortable Ever seems to me unconducive to the goal of facilitating interesting conversation—which will perforce entail disagreement.

Challenge such statements, by all means—as I challenged Flyboy in the above-linked example, as, er, just about everybody challenge me when I go over the top—but come on. This is
a black swan
, and it’s counterproductive to retool board policy in reaction to it.
 
 
HCE
21:48 / 13.06.07
I think intent still counts for something, however little, and I think Mathlete's response in the second and more repulsive post is to Flyboy rather than Nicky. As such, it seems to me to constitute one incident of fantasized violence against women as part of a general crappiness, and one incident of shattering Flyboy's reality tunnels. I would recommend ripping him a new one for the violence (DO YOU SEE) and mocking him for the rest. Banning seems premature at this stage.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
22:03 / 13.06.07
Obvious, really, but I'm not a fan of the idea that expressions of wished-for violence upon public figures are necessarily a bad thing. I think there are numerous political leaders regarding whom it is the only sane response. And I'd like us to be pretty clear what the difference is between wishing Gordon Ramsey to be shot and wishing a woman on Big Brother to get her teeth knocked out and fingers broken. Barbelith shouldn't be afraid of making these distinctions - if I said "Christ, white people really are a pox on this planet, aren't they?", I think it's entirely correct and proper that I should be gently chastised, but that if I said the same thing about pretty much any other racial group I should have teh banhammer brought down upon me with full force.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
22:07 / 13.06.07
Just to add that I do recognise that id entity as was is distinguishing between different types of expressions of wished-for violence as well, and not arguing for banning or even any kind of moderator-endorsed reprimand (what does that even mean at this stage?) for all types. It's just that there are times when I think rhetorical expressions of violence can be *actively righteous*, which is where we part company...
 
 
Alex's Grandma
22:16 / 13.06.07
I'm not sure if there's a need to set the benchmark about this sort of thing on Barbelith any higher than it already is.

Repeated use of racist, sexist or homophobic terminology should, of course, by a bannable offence, as it as at the moment. But I'd have to oppose, while respecting the opinions of board members who find that kind of material offensive, any move that made a discussion of how, say, Tony Blair, Jeremy Clarkson or whoever should meet their demise even potentially something that might lead to their removal from the board, all other things being equal. I.e. that repeated use of racist, homophobic or sexist terminology wasn't a factor in the scenario.

Although even then, I suppose I'd defend my right to say that Gordon Brown should arguably to be pummelled to death in a compromising position by a Trident missile strapped to George Bush Jr's waist, for example.

Seeing as what anyone says on here seems to affect events off-line not one iota, at least on a wider, geo-political scale (although I do appreciate that on a board level, people's feelings can get hurt) and seeing as Barbelith seems to be made up of (largely, arguably anyway) intelligent people facing streesful times, I'd be highly reluctant to support any move that closed off teh board as a place where people could (amusingly, usually) let rip about whatever, or whoever, it is that's making them feel sad or despondant.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
22:23 / 13.06.07
I do completely relate to the kind of viceral response that must lie behind this thread and I don't want to invalidate it (esp. since I've been the one screaming KILL IT WITH FIRE while everyone else stood around and looked at me bemusedly a few times in the past). And I do worry about lavishly detailed fantasies of violence (male on female violence getting an extra red flag, for reasons I really hope don't have to be hashed out yet-a-fucking-gain) against people who haven't actually done very much in the grand scheme of things except be very annoying on telly.

But there's imaginary violence and imaginary violence. There's violence in the breaky-fingers, all-too-easy-to-picture way, and then there's firing someone out of a big shiny cannon with BAN! written in red and yellow on the side. Somewhere in between there is dark talk of harm, and pictures of axes or men with swords. It's complicated and people are always going to draw the lines in different places.

To me, it's fairly plain that this was a very ugly comment by someone who's never been terribly good at understanding why Barbelith gets upset at some things, and who has spent a fair bit of his posting career here in Policy criticising others for getting upset about things he doesn't see as a problem. I'm getting increasingly tired of watching Math need stuff explained to him, and decreasingly hopeful that any of it is really sinking in. However, I don't see this latest episode as bantastic.
 
 
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22:39 / 13.06.07
Yeah, I think that is the distinction between our positions. I mean, I've probably said something wishful about certain political figures before as well, but I'd really rather not be that person (anymore).

Maybe we could have a title change for the thread, if it's not about banning Mathlete anymore? Or if it is maybe we can move "Violence on Barbelith" to a new thread?

First, because "meaning it" is not a reliable metric, and second because the parameters of what defines non-defensive violence are so user-definable.

Totally agreed; I brought it up for just that kind of critique and reflection.

I don't think that "behaving in a way that makes a particular board member or members unhappy" is always a convincing reason for banning to be considered.

True. I think the only two cases where I've suggested, in my posts above, that I think banning should be promptly considered are those where someone could reasonably infer a threat to a board member, either in particular or as part of a group of people being threatened.

putting an entire category of rhetorical vehemence off-limits seems like overreaching, and probably a bad idea. Not just because it would result in my own expulsion (as well as, say,
Flyboy’s), but because the repurposing of Barbelith as The Place Where You’re Never Going To Be Made To Feel Uncomfortable Ever seems to me unconducive to the goal of facilitating interesting conversation—which will perforce entail disagreement.


Okay—I'm open to hearing that. I don't want Barbelith to be a place where no one is ever going to be made to feel uncomfortable. I just want it to be a place where discomfort comes from having your ideas challenged, not from unexpectedly coming across graphic depictions of a poster's wish to do violence to a group that you're a member of. And members of certain groups are going to be disproportionately affected, which would likely lead to their underrepresentation here, if it doesn't already.

Barbelith shouldn't be afraid of making these distinctions - if I said "Christ, white people really are a pox on this planet, aren't they?", I think it's entirely correct and proper that I should be gently chastised, but that if I said the same thing about pretty much any other racial group I should have teh banhammer brought down upon me with full force.

Yeah, I'm in agreement, pretty much. In addition I would tend to understand the aforementioned to be a poorly-thought-out criticism of the construction of whiteness and not a sincere attack on individual people.

I'd like to be reminding folks who skimmed my long post that there's three potential "consequences" for hypothetical posters' talk about wished-for violence that I've indicated above. 1) is a nonbinding "please don't" from someone who is bothered by it, which I hope is what people feel free to do now. 2) is "talk about what happens next" which is presumably when a lot of people are bothered and many people have said "please don't" and the poster has responded with any variation on "fuck you," and people are wondering what can be done to induce the poster to take others' concerns on-board more seriously. Maybe the answer is "ask for an apology" or "encourage a break from the board." 3) is "weigh banning unless poster stops," in cases where someone could reasonably infer that the behavior is threatening/intimidating to posters on the board, either individually or members of a group. This is not so different, I think, from what we do now; it just helped me to clarify my understanding of it.
 
 
Spatula Clarke
22:49 / 13.06.07
I am yet to be convinced that the opening post wasn't an attempt at a joke thread that went badly wrong.
 
 
Blake Head
22:58 / 13.06.07
I think that graphic description of violence, or the promotion of violence which originates in hatred of women (or homophobia, or racism) should both be inappropriate on the board, but that to some degree those factors can be analysed separately. Does that leave room for the promotion of violence against individuals not based on their gender, race, or sexuality? Well, I want to say yes here, although that space might not necessarily be very big, and perhaps preferably as small as possible. If we were to take the example of a woman generally detested by (I imagine) a large spectrum of the society, say Baroness Thatcher, that’s someone one could expect to attract expressions of violence not necessarily based on their gender, perhaps still not problematically, and where I think that the graphic description of violence could still be alarming for its own sake.

I’d also be interested in whether we’re more likely to tolerate the promotion of violence against public figures as opposed to fellow board members, though I don’t have an answer on whether we should, because while I suspect we are more likely to generally ignore the former, I’m not sure how we’d really justify that. Both, in slightly different ways, are usually going to be the promotion of actions which are likely never going to happen in real life – not that that necessarily makes them ok.

I’m going to assume for the moment that Yo! was being facetious here, but I was actually genuinely disturbed by Alex’s Grandma’s comments in this thread and the lack of challenge from others in the thread. So the one thing I would want to add is that if people are going to start moderating on the basis of an objection to violence, then that shouldn’t be applied unequally on the basis of their opinion on either the poster or the object of violence. That said, echoing Jack Fear a bit here, I’m sure I’ve made use of “rhetorical vehemence” before, probably more than once, and that leaves an uncomfortable taste of hypocrisy in criticising AG or indeed Mathlete for the same thing. I think Id raised a good point in terms of how a graphic description of violence possibly signifies more than just a sense of anger with a certain person or thing and strays into lurid fantasising, but I’d agree that defining graphic violence might be difficult. I’m much more uncomfortable with descriptions which dwell on violent acts (even if I could sympathise with their motivation), I agree with Id again that it’s not the sort of thing I want to read on Barbelith, than I am with the sort of instant response of *wanting* to make with the facestabbing rather than a prolonged description of it. Though possibly I’ve been guilty of that as well, previously. Certainly I’d agree that the promotion of violence towards either public individuals or other members of the board isn’t a practice that’s appropriate as a general method for interacting with those we disagree with or something that if sustained should be ignored.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
22:58 / 13.06.07
I'm agreeing with Jack'n'Granny, mostly, with a healthy dollop of Id's point 6.
 
 
Blake Head
22:59 / 13.06.07
Sorry, lengthy crosspost there with Flyboy, AG and others. Back tomorrow if need be.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
23:12 / 13.06.07
But the thing about Tony Blair is that he is actually responsible for death and suffering on a massive scale. If the form of language you use about him is civilised polite debate as if he were some kind of respectable moderate statesman, that disturbs and sickens me.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
23:34 / 13.06.07
(Edit in pipeline for my last post, but just to add that I also like Id's point 6).
 
 
iconoplast
23:36 / 13.06.07
I really think this joke (the joke in this thread, where we're all pretending to be a banning party with our feathers ruffled, discussing whether or not it's okay to say that we think about mean things happening to people on TV. Not the joke in the BB thread) is in pretty poor taste, given the whole Feminism 101 thread, and the amount of effort people put into that thread, making it clear why certains statements were provocative and ill-intentioned and hurtful.

I think Zippy is treading dangerously close to ending up on the wrong side of the BarbeBrigade with this kind of disregard for what people have been working for here.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
23:44 / 13.06.07
I was actually genuinely disturbed by Alex’s Grandma’s comments in this thread

And I'm genuinely sorry you felt that way.

I suppose I'd argue that nothing anyone could possibly say about him on an internet message board, or anywhere else, really, could measure up to a fraction of some of the antics Tony Blair's been complicit in over the last ten years, but, fair enough, what I post on Barbelith is largely something that's under my control, in a way that Tony Blair's behaviour isn't.

If there's a feeling around that various people on this board have battled too much with monsters, and/or looked into the abyss for too long (not to dignify myself in that way) then if anything's going to be done about it, it may require a process of readjustment.

And I suppose it depends on what everyone wants Barbelith to be about in the first place; I just log on for entertainment, really, and try (not always successfully, admittedly) to contribute in much the same spirit. So I'm guessing my enjoyment might be reduced a bit if board members had to watch what they say about figures in the public eye any more than is already the case.

Which is not to say that they shouldn't have to, if this is what the majority honestly wants. I'm not sure how long I'd personally last under that kind of regime, but then again, that mightn't be a bad thing.
 
 
Less searchable M0rd4nt
23:46 / 13.06.07
If the form of language you use about [Tony Blair] is civilised polite debate as if he were some kind of respectable moderate statesman, that disturbs and sickens me.

Well point, but I guess you do have the option to say "Tony Blair is actually responsible for death and suffering on a massive scale and I would like to see him brought to justice" instead of "Tony Blair should be [harm]ed by [large number] of enraged/diseased/intoxicated [predator]s armed with [weapon]s." Not that I'm not an abiding fan of the latter formula, obvs.
 
 
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23:49 / 13.06.07
I can't say I understand your perspective, iconoplast. Would you mind clarifying?
 
 
iconoplast
04:33 / 14.06.07
I just don't think mocking barbelith's attempts to create a space safe from fuckwittery is all that productive.
 
 
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04:35 / 14.06.07
That was not my intention at all. Can I ask where you got that idea? Or what it is I'm saying that has that effect, despite my intention?
 
 
iconoplast
05:18 / 14.06.07
Oh.

Um.

Well, then I'm sorry. I'd like to imagine that if you read this thread and didn't know what you'd meant when you'd typed all your words, then you'd be able to see that they support this, I suppose, secondary reading.

I really thought this was an elaborate put on. To the point where I still have a hard time believeing there won't be a Gotcha! Ha ha ha! PC gone mad! post later in thread.

That said, I guess it's apparent I don't think Mathlete has done anything to warrant banning, and that I think that his behavior is so far within the accepted bounds of barbelith discourse that I read this entire thread as satire.
 
 
Shiny: Well Over Thirty
05:28 / 14.06.07
Just a quick note to say I stongly agree with Flyboy on this - violent fantasy as applied to Tony Blair, George Bush etc is an entirely different thing than when applied to those who aren't actually responsible for mass murder. I accepting such comments when they apply to anyone makes the question of exactly where to draw the line - but personally I'm more comfortable in a converation which draws that line somewhere that allows such comments to be applied to actual mass murderers.
 
  

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