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Family values coming from the Bible? Don't make me laugh. I am now going to have to go through the New Testament and dig up what Jesus [as opposed to many of the others who distorted the words of Jesus, such as Paul] actually said about "family values" (some of which is actually a bit uncompromisingly radical even for me)...
Of course, what the phrase "family values" usually boils down to in politics is traditional gender roles, heteronormativity, and authoritarian (also highly gendered) concepts of child-rearing, and as such is pretty squarely tailored towards social conservatives (even in the case of centre-left parties who try to "rebrand" the concept of family values with some token bits of queer-inclusivity, liberal-feminist gender equiality, etc, it still at its basis comes down to an authoritarian and patriarchal concept of what a "family" is).
The nuclear family itself, as generally practised in "the West", is basically a social structure which evolved in order to facilitate proletarianisation for the purposes of early industrial capitalism, by individualising the (male) worker as the "head" of "his" family, who had the sole responsibility of financially providing for (and thus had at least superficial economic authority over) his children, while the role of the woman in this system was to be the sole provider of the unpaid labour (cooking, cleaning, childcare, etc) necessary to allow the atomised male worker to work full-time. Christian ideology (or rather, the bits of distorted Christian ideology that the State/Church/capitalist system was able to pick and choose as the bits to emphasise, at the expense of the bits about sharing, equality, etc) was strategically used (and therefore still is used by conservative parties) to reinforce these roles...
(none of the former, of course, intended to imply that previous forms of family organisation weren't patriarchal, sexist or oppressive, any more than feudalism as a whole was any less oppressive than industrial capitalism - unfortunately some socialists and feminists, especially on the "eco" side of things, have made the mistake of seemingly treating patriarchy (and social hierarchy more generally) as a product of capitalism, usually linked to some nebulous idea of a pre-capitalist "golden age", which tends to uncritically laud "peasant" society due to its (percieved to be) sustainable economy, while glossing over power and politics in such non- or pre-capitalist societies...)
(there's a big debate about whether capitalism is, per se, one of many successive historical manifestations of patriarchy (thus making patriarchy the primary oppression), or whether capitalism and patriarchy are two, theoretically fully separable, systems which just happen to reinforce one another, but i'm not sure if that's within the scope of this thread...)
Will have to think a bit more about possible positive ways of conceptualising the concept of "family", or whether it might be better to throw it away altogether (and, in the latter case, what, if anything, could replace it)... there's the fridge-magnet/bumper-sticker cliche "friends are the family we choose for ourselves", which strikes me as a possible starting point, but i'm not sure if i feel up to a deep philosophical/political analysis of the concepts of familial love and friendship... |
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