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Barbe-loving: Your picks for make-out bliss

 
  

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Kali, Queen of Kitteh
19:03 / 07.08.06
Summertime and the loving is easy...so easy I can think of songs that make me want to sweat or make me want to make someone else sweat. So here are ones that I can think of offhand.

Ash -- "Goldfinger"

It sounds sexy, drowsy, and makes me think of making out in a basement room during a summer rainstorm. And when Tim Wheeler gets right up on the mic and croons, "Move closer, set my mind on fire...", I'm like, "Don't mind if I do."

Bongwater -- "Nick Cave Dolls"

Ann Magnuson is one sexy sexy bitch. Guess what I do!/That's right./I throw caution to the wind and peel off my girdle/And take my place on the red vinyl ottoman/That stands in the middle of the lobby/The walls are covered in full-length mirrors/
You have to admit the scene is pretty sexy/Then, I think to myself.../"Is it politically correct to even be here?"/
I mean, look what happened to Dorothy Stratton/Then I decide.../"Oh, the hell with it, I'm horny!" For the record, I want a Nick Cave doll AND an Anne Magnuson doll.

Jeff Buckley -- "Lover, You Should've Come Over"

This song reminds me of walking back through the French Quarter one early morning as I left a late-night rendezvous. It was cool, misty, and I could hear the barges on the river. I was sated, content, and I kept hearing this in my head.

PJ Harvey -- "Long Snake Moan"

For more the agressive make-out artist. And haven't we all been that person?

Scissor Sisters -- "Lovers in the Backseat"

"Would you like a cigarette,/Or my hand upon your shoulder?/I think we might have met/Would you like me to come over?" This song can be like pure desire streaming into my head. I danced at a lovely club in New Orleans to this song with a very pretty stranger.

Throwing Muses -- "Snakeface"

I like to think of this song as being very seductive in the right moment. I like Kristen Hersh's voice when she says, "One more button undone/You talk too loud I'm talking to you/Talk it into the ground/Move me/Snake Snake
Face out an open window/Fire in my eyes/Beat me to it/Meet me here next time..."

Boss Hog -- "I Dig You"

For those late-night make-outs at parties where you know pretty much everybody but wait, there's this new guy there you don't, so you walk over with a beer and...

anything by Jon Spencer. And I shouldn't have to explain why.

"Ribbons" -- Sisters of Mercy

Dark shadows, dark kisses, and boys who smell cloves and sweat and cigarettes. Love is a many splintered thing, indeed....

Your choices, my dears?
 
 
Mistoffelees
19:28 / 07.08.06
I´m not one for physical interaction, but I once had some relationship and one time, when we got intimate, she had picked Leonhard Cohen´s "Songs from a room" as background music.

The song "A bunch of lonesome heroes" started and suddenly Leonhard starts whistling. My girlfriend started laughing and that was it for sex that evening. Thank you Leonhard! And why did it have to be track 3 and not 10? I never ever bought another LC album.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
19:34 / 07.08.06
Some Leonard Cohen songs are nice. And some, well, yes, you have to blame him for ruining the mood.
 
 
Jawsus-son Starship
20:23 / 07.08.06
Flower Called Nowhere by Stereolab
I Only Want You - Eagles of Death Metal
Appreciate - Plantlife
Gimme Shelter - Rolling Stones

But the Creme-de-la-Creme has got to be;

Prince - U got the look
 
 
Char Aina
20:42 / 07.08.06
i like conflict.

if you can fuck to conflict, you are truly in love.
if not, the relationship is most likely going nowhere and your partner is probably a fascist.

i find the unspoken dichotomy exceptionally arousing.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
20:56 / 07.08.06
Oh, snap, I totally forgot about Jesus & Mary Chain's "Just Like Honey," especially for slow wet kisses that seem to last forever.....
 
 
Kiltartan Cross
22:26 / 07.08.06
Snake Kiss, by Katy Carr. Well, oh, okay, I'm not actually ("Snake kiss is so sexy and sweet") into that sort of thing ("come on, bite my neck, my love, and draw blood..."). But I like the song (and the singer), and I'm reliably assured that it's the shit.
 
 
Alex's Grandma
23:27 / 07.08.06
Anything by Napalm Death - Ninety seconds from beginning to end is short, but oh, so sweet.

The Fudge Punch by Wiseblood - I suppose anyone who's prepared to listen to the full seven or eight minutes of this with you while you're making out must really like you. Well either that, or you've slipped them a roofie. Or they've slipped you a roofie. Any way you cut it though, it's about the limits of love.

Now That We've Found Love What Are We Gonna Do (With It)? by Heavy D And The Boyz - The track in itself seems a little vanilla, but the lyric raises some interesting questions.

Generally though, I like to listen to Norwegian death metal. And 'Brothers In Arms' by Dire Straits.
 
 
Hallo, Paper Spaceboy
02:56 / 08.08.06
Kali: Some Leonard Cohen songs are nice. And some, well, yes, you have to blame him for ruining the mood.

See, now I have this bizarre urge to make out with someone to "Democracy is coming to the USA," although I think that's verging more on the Spoken Word than the music. "Famous Blue Raincoat" would probably make for some rather melancholy making out, probably best reserved for that ex you bump into and end up having a brief and exhausting reunion with--

Esthero & Leslie Feist are good for making out to. And Nina Simone is the best, I think, especially "Here comes the Sun," or "Sinnerman." Anything with a sultry undercurrent, so I'd probably throw in Massive Attack's Mezzanine album, although it varies song-to-song. I have this tendency to end up with people who have a very different preference for "mood music," which led to a rather disastrous incident with a Bjork CD one afternoon...
 
 
Chiropteran
04:09 / 08.08.06
I've always rather enjoyed Battleflag, by Lo-Fidelity Allstars, for a nice evening in; the pacing is perfect, and it's got that racheting beat that just...yeah. The first time the bass drops, it's like the bell to a prizefighter.

Goldfrapp's Marc Bolan homage, Ooh la la may be the lovingest, touchingest song I've heard for a while. Of course, Bolan and T.rex themselves tend to push many of the same buttons (those would be the "I really should be making out with the nearest convenient person" buttons; what sexy sexy music).

I was in one relationship where there was nothing quite like (look, I'm sorry) Cradle of Filth to set the night aflame, especially their cover of Misfits' Death Comes Ripping and certain bits of Cruelty and the Beast. Love hurts.

A little Thrill Kill Kult never hurt, though. "You things- things- things- of the flesh do it slow..."

I have yet to actually send someone to the moon whilst listening to a Jackie Gleason album ("Music for Young Lovers Only," "Music, Martinis, and Memories," etc.), but the more I hear, the more I think I'd like to. After all, that's what it's there for ("Music to Make Her Change Her Mind"??!!). A lot of mid-century instro and exotica suggests itself, actually. The single greatest driving force behind the development of the Long Playing Record, I'm convinced.

And Enigma. Of course.

Prends moi
Je suis a toi
...Mea culpa.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
13:01 / 08.08.06
I don't usually go for Top 40 pop for these sorts of things, but I really want to make out with someone to the new JT song, "Sexyback."

Damn, that song is hot.

"You can whip me if I misbehave...
 
 
Phex: Dorset Doom
13:53 / 08.08.06
I kinda, sorta lost my virginity to 'The End' by The Doors. Well, a few minutes of it: that song's pretty long in proportion to a guy's first time.
 
 
Ticker
18:32 / 08.08.06
I once spent an entire day making a mixed CD to capture a moment from the night before and lure it out on command. The exact recipe was intentionally cast aside lest the dark evil be summoned again (after much use) but it had Mazzy Star's 'Fade into You' on it, PJ Harvey's 'The Dancer', and a lot of other blood boiling steamers.

Current sexiest favs are:

Morphine's 'I'm Yours, You're Mine'
tindersticks' 'El Diable En El Ojo'
Brent Lewis' 'Gates of Gomorrah'

My spouse won me in part by sending me mixed CD's. I still remember receiving the first package in the mail (before we'd ever met) and sliding down into a a hotel hot tub to soak a new back tattoo and listening in wonder to Coldcut's 'Autumn Leaves' for the first time. In the package with the CD's was a leather studded bracelet said suitor always wore and I had it on when I got into the tub. The hot water released a phantom of pheromones and leather stink from it. Listening to the mixes now reminds me of falling in love with with a stranger who smelled like home.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
19:18 / 08.08.06
The hot water released a phantom of pheromones and leather stink from it. Listening to the mixes now reminds me of falling in love with with a stranger who smelled like home.

Damn, xk, that is hot. I love how music and smells can conjure up memories.

The first time I fell in love I was seventeen; the first time I made out with him, the song "Summertime Rolls" by Jane's Addiction was playing. I am so strongly attached to that song with that particular memory, I haven't let anyone else get close to me when I hear it.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
02:02 / 09.08.06
French Kiss by LIl Louis Vega

I was young and hopeful, in the middle of a dancefloor, dancing my arse off and sweating in a kind of trance to Lil Louis Vega's classic, when a beautiful angel appeared from nowhere and gave me one of the most sensuous kisses I've ever had. I never saw her again, but that moment of magic was worth it.

I suppose you had to be there.
 
 
Slate
03:22 / 09.08.06
My first experiments with sound and intimacy were with The Hafler Trio about 12 years ago, but my GF at the time didn't get into it as much as I did so it was a bit hard to really detatch from the environment and bliss-out. It was very random too come to think of it, I used to match my actions with the mood of the audio, which was OK for my pure experimentation at the time. I was kinda new to that level of openess and intimacy & I guess sex at that time too which is why I didn't mind the randomness/experimental nature of it all.

A couple of years later I discovered The Necks, who do a mix of improvised Jazz soundscapes for want of a better description. They have an album called Sex which is my favourite track/album to make out to. Over 1 hour of rhythmic pulsing piano, double bass and drums, which start out very sparse and tender(how I like my foreplay at this point in time), and slowly builds into a long drawn out climax. Gorgeous.

I tried it with a Turkish prostitute but she was a clock watcher, so after 45 minutes she got up and left... The track still had 20 minutes to go. It was my first and only experience with a prostitute, not very good at all. I should have cranked up the Hafler Trio, it might have saved us both the time and effort.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
07:20 / 09.08.06
The terrible thing is, that I can genuinely and very easily visualise some herbert squeaking "No, wait! This upcoming drum solo will make my winky a monster." Ah, Barbelith.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
13:20 / 09.08.06
Haus, your post has made my day.

I have friends who argue that it is impossible to make out to Nick Cave. I disagree, but having never made out to Nick Cave before, this bears testing.
 
 
Ticker
17:56 / 09.08.06
Oh hellya you can make out to Nick Cave!

You know maybe not 'Stagger Lee' for most people but 'Are You the One...', 'Deanna', and I do believe 'The Ship Song' maybe *the* sexiest heartwrenching ballad for reuniting.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
18:28 / 09.08.06
Oh, I think you can make out to Nick Cave. If you can make out to Bauhaus, you can make out to Nick Cave.

I would totally put on "Stagger Lee." I might start giggling at some point, though...
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
18:38 / 09.08.06
I might start giggling at some point, though

A ex-lover and I did that when listening to Al Green once (and I love Al Green). But it was actually quite a nice though, as (I'm sure you all know) laughter can add a nice dimension to sex (when it's from both partners, of course), helping to dissipate any unnecessary seriousness. I haven't explained that very well, but hopefully you know what I mean.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
18:43 / 09.08.06
I know what you mean, paranoidwriter. Sometimes you find the perfect partner who doesn't mind when you start laughing, cause when you stop think about it from an outside point of view, the idea of two people mashed together on a couch, about to do the squelchy, seems hilarious.
 
 
paranoidwriter waves hello
18:47 / 09.08.06
Glad that made sense. Cheers, kali.

Yup, the next time I try and smooze someone with music (which I've never actually done), I'm going to put on the Muppet's Theme tune and do my Barry White impression.

"Oh yeah..."
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
19:22 / 09.08.06
And if the object of your affection runs away in horror, then that person is definitely not the one for you.

For the record, I would like to state that I do not--at least, not often--put on music for the express purpose of seduction, attempted or otherwise.

I do confess to playing a Dido CD during a particularly steamy interlude.
 
 
ONLY NICE THINGS
21:37 / 09.08.06
I'm pretty sure I had sex to Jangling Jack once.

Or possibly with Jangling Jack. One or the other.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
13:32 / 10.08.06
Haus, doing anything to Jangling Jack--or with, as you say--is pretty damn impressive.

A doff of the cap to you.
 
 
STOATIE LIEKS CHOCOLATE MILK
14:34 / 10.08.06
Yeah, Nick Cave works. I had one two-year relationship whose physicality was almost entirely soundtracked by David Sylvian's Secrets Of The Beehive, on the grounds that I soon discovered it was about the only record my then-partner wouldn't stop halfway through to go "what the fuck is THIS shit? It's scaring me" at. And it tended to ruin the mood when she did that.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
14:45 / 10.08.06
Every time that I've had sex to Bauhaus, it always feels like a weird acid trip. Especially the entirety of Burning from The Inside. I feel like there should be strobe lights, a midget, and a horrible sensation of vertigo.
 
 
Chiropteran
16:57 / 10.08.06
You get that too, huh?
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
17:10 / 10.08.06
I'm just glad to know I'm not the only one.

I do remember doing the squelchy to Alien Sex Fiend once. That was interesting.

Man, I seem to sleep with a lot of Goth boys.
 
 
Ticker
18:21 / 10.08.06
Yeah there was a Nick Cave 24x7 phase a few years back that lead to many odd juxtapositons of physicality and lyrics.
Gettin' it on to 'Henry Lee' was particularly interesting. Let alone 'Let Love In'.

My teen years were all spent listening to Bauhaus, The Cult, SOM, Siousie, Misfits and Danzig. Still to this day certain Danzig songs directly equate with hilarious punk rawk goth sexscapades. I'm pretty sure the first time I ever heard NIN was in one of those piles.


The spouse and I are going to celebrate our 1st annual by going to see Massive Attack. I'm hoping there will be some heated groping as everything off of Mezzanine is sexy.
Which reminds me, I have to go buy a new pair of giant boots.
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
18:32 / 10.08.06
Ah, heated groping....I miss heated groping...

The last time there was heated groping, the groper in question shouldn't have been groping me but it was still enjoyable.

The only music during that time was moaning. Which is better than Nick Cave or anything else.
 
 
Ticker
18:53 / 10.08.06
THEN WHAT'S THE POINT OF THIS THREAD, KALI?!?!?!?

no really, if sane converstation is happening something else isn't.

There have been a few hot summer nights that have resulted in my neighbors and I greeting each other the next morning with knowing grins all around. (lack of a/c equals windows being wide open.)

I dunno if they would prefer me blasting music on top of everything but I wouldn't dare risk what they'd play over at their house to cover it. Besides there have been a few occassions when my household has busted out snickering over the 'cat being beaten with a rug brush' sounds carrying over from the other apartment.

Gawds know they think we play contact chess with the strange shouting and accompanying thuds.
 
 
Chiropteran
18:53 / 10.08.06
I do remember doing the squelchy to Alien Sex Fiend once. That was interesting.

Oh, that's what it's made for! Okay, it gets a little weird sometimes ("Sausage??"), but that's as it should be. Then again, my first time was during MST3k's Gamera marathon, so it's possible I'm not the best judge. It certainly set the tone for the relationship, though.
 
 
Ticker
18:56 / 10.08.06
aw, AW!!!

That's so sweet!
 
  

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