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I do not seek understanding of self because I AM myself. Everything I say about my self I say only about an ‘image’ a ‘phantom’. This is my problem with doctrines like ‘true will’.
Which amply demonstrates a fair lack of understanding of what that term actually means, and therefore makes it difficult for me to really accept your position as a particularly well thought out argument. This is my point. I'm trying to have a civilised, adult, conversation with you here, I really am. Please stop flinging shit at me.
You value what you value and get angry when others do not share the same values and then proceed to insult them. If that’s spirituality then it’s a nasty, dull, spiteful, petty spirituality. A spirituality that denies multiplicity.
No. I couldn't give a toss what you think or believe, I really don't. I'm not stopping you from doing anything. However, if you are going to make a statement about magic on barbelith, I do expect you to be able to support it when asked to. I get angry when people dismiss things without showing their working, as it were. I get angry at people shooting their mouths off without really adding anything of value to the debate other than noise. I get angry when people expect to be taken seriously but don't provide any grounds or experiential basis for why anyone else should do so.
This has nothing to do with my "spirituality" or what I happen to believe or not believe. If you stated that you find the notions of True Will or enlightenment meaningless, and then went on to tell us why, and talk about the actual experiences you have had that led you to this position, that would have been fantastic. I would be really interested to hear about that. I keep asking you to do that, but you still haven't. Not really.
I know that you are very passionate about the various garbled things you are making a lot of noise about. But I don't really get where you are coming from with any of this. You haven't explained yourself very well. I don't understand why you have decided that the universe is amoral and valueless, for instance. And without that background, or any demonstration that you have really explored all of the things you are dismissing, it is hard to respect your position because you are asking people to do that on faith. That's why I referred to it as a dogmatic statement. You are expecting us to take on board what you are saying as an article of faith, just because you are saying it. I don't think that's really good enough.
You find me arrogant and irritating gypsy, ‘does that mean I AM arrogant and irritating or is that just your opinion.’
I said your unsupported statement came across as arrogant and irritating, which it did to me and to various others. In a text based medium, you are what you communicate. Nothing more, nothing less. You make an awful lot of noise about NLP, but continually demonstrate a total lack of basic communication skills. Which, again, doesn't make me particularly inclined to take your opinions about the subject very seriously.
To state a preference makes me arrogant and irritating you said.
Wrong. To state a preference that ‘you’ do not like makes me irritating and arrogant to you.>
How many times am I going to have to explain this to you? It is not your statement itself that I took offense at. It was the fact that you seem to think it is acceptable, in a debate on magic, to make such a statement without quantifying it or telling us a bit about the experiential factors that led to you taking up that position. It is not. At least not if you don't want to get a bit of stick for it.
Someone else can follow a ‘holy’ path, hollowed by tradition and you’ll accord them the respect you think they deserve. Woe betide the moron who equates NLP with magic though. Surely he must know nothing about ‘your’ mysteries. Woe betide the moron who discards true will. Surely he must know nothing about ‘your’ mysteries.
I'll accord someone respect, in the temple forum, based solely on how well they can communicate their experiences with magic in an interesting, informative and engaging manner. I'll afford someone respect based on what they are contributing to the board. For instance, I have loads of respect for Seth. He is, amongst other things, an NLP guy, and has contributed to loads of fascinating threads on the overlap and interplay of NLP and magic. All of it based on his own personal and emotional experiences with it.
In fact, most of the people I respect on barbelith - hell, most of the magicians I respect full stop - have totally different outlooks on magic to me, work in totally different traditions, come at things from completely different angles. Do I try to shoehorn them all into my own particular world view, as you seem to be accusing me of? No, I don't think I do. We have different perspectives, but we can communicate across them, so long as neither party expects the other to accept a position as an article of faith, without providing any additional material as to why we should give that position some credence. Which is exactly what you are expecting us to do.
You are free to believe whatever you like, in the privacy of your own personal domain. I really couldn't care less. But if you bring a perspective into a discussion forum, it will be challenged, and you will be asked to support it. Not make more noise about it. Not fling shit out of the pram at your interlocutors. But to explain it. Explain where you are coming from. Put up a convincing argument. No more, no less. |
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