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Why Do Some People Wait Forever To Try To Join Barbelith? (an open ended question from Spyder)

 
  

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unbecoming
16:17 / 18.05.06
suddenly i feel like the protagonist in a lovecraft short story. The shadow over Barbelith. Or am i the lurker in the dark?
 
 
Mourne Kransky
16:24 / 18.05.06
You've got MattShephard? Who have I got then? Any of the newbies wake up this morning with XOC painted all over their buttocks, in pesto sauce?
 
 
grant
17:16 / 18.05.06
MattShepherd: I'll even slap a bottle of homebrewed mead your way

You're a mead maker?

How's it turn out for you?
 
 
Olulabelle
17:22 / 18.05.06
Yes, do tell.

I'm ever so glad you are all here, it's really good fun!
 
 
Spyder Todd 2008
19:11 / 18.05.06
Xoc, I wondered where that came from. But I'm not exactly a new poster here, so I'm wondering how that bit of me fell into your hands. You don't work for the NSA, do you?
 
 
Kali, Queen of Kitteh
19:40 / 18.05.06
NSA? Why just ask 'em!
 
 
pangloss
20:49 / 18.05.06
I joined pretty quickly: bumped into barbelith a half-dozen times, then jumped in. Even so, the application process seems a lot scarier from outside than from inside, and I could totally imagine not daring to apply for a long long time.

Possibly the fear of joining is also connected to the the self-awareness here, the endless discussion of how we function as a community? It's great, but it does make you doubt how you'd fit into the charmed circle.
 
 
MattShepherd: I WEDDED KALI!
21:32 / 18.05.06
You a mead maker? How's it turn out for you?

Just bottled my first attempt last week, and it turned out very nicely, thanks for asking. My usual specialty is dandelion wine, but I make kit wine for table consumption and the occasional specialty (rhubarb, coffee, ginger, carrot, etc.) when the mood strikes and the appropriate thing is in season.

The only sour note on the mead is that the cheapest place to buy unpasteurized honey around here is a Lebanese food market, and when I was paying for my fifteen pounds of honey (on Christmas Day) the store owner asked why I was buying so much honey, and I realized he was a devout Muslim and probably wouldn't approve of me buying booze-making materials from his very Muslim, very halal shop. So I tried to change the topic and babbled nonsensically for a while and then ran away. He asked me how I like the honey last time I was in, and I told him it was great. But I still feel sort of bad about it.

The mead, on the other hand, is delicious. I made it for honey flavour, so it's more a "cool drink on a hot day" than a table wine. With a sprig of fresh mint, it's unbelievable.
 
 
Korso Jerusalem
21:57 / 18.05.06
This summer I demand some of that. I will bring a viking helmet and a roasted horse leg, and we'll invoke Odin while hurling axes at passing cars.
 
 
Jake, Colossus of Clout
02:42 / 19.05.06
You know, you're making fun of my heritage, there, bucko...

You'd probably want to invoke Thor there, though. That's right up his alley.

Matt, that sounds delicious. Hmm... You live in Quebec, eh... Not too too far from Bar Harbor... Fancy a visitor? I'll share my recipes for The Best Bloody Mary Ever and The Best Margarita Ever for a bottle. Hell, I'll make you a pitcher of each!

Now that I've settled into a place I feel confident I will live for a long duration, I'm interested in getting into beer brewing and wine making. Any advice?
 
 
Korso Jerusalem
09:15 / 19.05.06
Oh good, I was going to send him a private message to ask the same thing. How do I start making beer and wine? I imagine it's a bit more elaborate than making pruno, and probably requires me to buy some supplies.

And Jake, your barbarian heritage kicks far too much ass to be made fun of. All I have in my history books is a test tube full of Harvard seed.
 
 
julius has no imagination
11:00 / 19.05.06
Alright, my story of lurking and joining is this: My good friend and housemate Tom has been on Barbelith for, well, a while. I occasionally saw him browsing, and had a look myself, as far back as late '03 or so. About a year ago I first expressed some interest in joining, he told me about the application process and said he'd send an e-mail on my behalf (he made it sound as if references from existing members were very helpful, if not necessary). Then he never did. I lost interest for a while, then asked him again. Until finally, in December, he did send an application for me, and in late February, I got in.

I still don't post much - I generally have neither the time nor the energy nor the knowledge to contribute to the really interesting discussions, but I do (like now) post in various Conversation threads here and there.

And the mead reminds me - it's summery enough that I should make some ginger beer again some time...
 
 
Tryphena Absent
21:17 / 23.05.06
Sorry, another question from me. Where did you find the email address to apply to be a member? Was it the thread link in the registration section or through the Wiki?
 
 
iamecks
09:36 / 25.05.06
I'm quite scared to be honest. Hello, I'm James, and I was too afraid to start a new introductions thread incase everyone shouted at me. I found this site through Tom's blog about six months ago or something, instantly falling in love with all the beautiful colours I pleaded for an account. Now I've got one I don't know what to do apart from stare at said pretty colours.

Let me see if I can find an introductions thread so no one shouts at me.
 
 
Cat Chant
09:51 / 25.05.06
iamecks - there's an introduction thread here which I think is the most canonical one, and which will not get you shouted at. Go play! Post something in the Head Shop, or Books, we need people there.
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
09:59 / 25.05.06
Or Music!
 
 
Regrettable Juvenilia
10:01 / 25.05.06
I can't guarantee that people won't shout at you in Music, but it will be in a fun way, like being shouted at by Lil' Jon, and not in a bad way, like being shouted at by your ex, in a pub, while everyone stares, silent and accusing.
 
 
All Acting Regiment
10:13 / 25.05.06
And there will be Sild.
 
 
Interzone
22:05 / 25.05.06
I discovered Barbelith in 2000, during my studies. I was reading "the invisibles" and find this nice place. It was the first forum i read and the best one even now. I was registered for a few month then leave university and try to find a living ( and no more internet provider). I have seen the next metamorphosis of this wereforum from a distance.

It's only now, 6 years later, that i took time to register.

I think it's not a lake of will to join from some newbies like me but life that rules...

...a little laziness also, sometimes: i'm registered since february.
 
  

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