Genesh - I found that posting on the Male Response thread got a few more comments than when I posted on the 'women only' thread (following your example, ha!). When I posted to the male response thread, I was told pretty quickly that the thread was unnecessary, and that we shouldn't be using it. I felt at the time (and still do now, reading back on it) that Haus' arguement was mistaken, and that the thread was necessary, but I honestly don't have the time, energy or interest to argue it out properly. I fully accept that there is no way I can win that fight. Haus knows words and theories and all kinds of gubbins I don't, I wasn't going to win, even though I felt my point was valid.
Again, I'm not trying to be all 'woe is me' here, and I'm not really interested in 'finishing' the arguement as it was. I'm just giving one of the reasons why I don't like posting in the policy. It's a bit serious, and I'm a bit flippant.
BTW, I don't want to give the impression in these posts that I don't care about Barbelith as a whole, because I really do. But, like everyone else, I have to balance my time between work and play, fleshy people and words on a screen. This means, unfortumately, that some complex and demanding arguements get left alone, because I don't have the time, resources (and sometimes the brains or sensitivity) to reply to them in a satisfactory manner.
And, as an aside, nothing is more scary on Barbelth than checking the policy and finding you're the subject of a big thread. That place gives me terror flashbacks! |