great thread, smoothly.
here's my 2 cents.
[quote matt] I believe disagreement comes from personal assumptions, cultural assumptions, sociological assumptions. I mean, we all have them, don't we? I think people have a set of assumptions about the world and these come from their parents, their culture, the media, art, history, everything. These assumptions cause the disagreements between people. [/quote]
this reminds me of karl sabbagh's first law for the 2004 edge anniversary - "never assume.", he wrote. i agree with matt, that many differences and disagreements in human societies are directed by assumptions. while i am not sure whether they are the only source for disagreement, i am also of the opinion that assumptions make for a majority of misunderstandings and disagreements. and since many disagreements also spring from misunderstandings, i'd wager (assume) that assumptions are a major reason for disagreement.
[quote Smoothly Weaving] Is it that, fundamentally, people have difference axioms - axioms they share with some people, but not others? Are arguments attempts to backward engineer disagreements to find these axioms, at which point (assuming these axioms are, by definition, unchangeable) we can stop arguing? [/quote]
this on the other hand is something i totally disagree with. in my experience this seems not only highly unlikely but actually quite impossible. i have never met any 2 people who could even in one specific point share exactly the same axiom. extrapolating from that i assume (again) that there are as many different unique individual viewpoint (the 'axiom' smoothly was refering to) as there are different unique individuals, because no 2 people have had the same experiences, the same starting points, the same environments and so forth.
what happens when agreement is found, i think, is that the parties involved in a disagreement arrive at a mutual conclusion and/or find out that they have similar results. that would mean that arguments are actually attempts, not at finding the 'shared axiom', but at aligning different streams of thought.
the above examples of my agreeing and disagreeing pretty much explain my pov on disagreements.
. origin of disagreement: basically different assumptions and/or different and/or misunderstandings targets will lead to disagreement. boldly put, i think all disagreements stem from one or the other or both. that's easy enough to spot.
. function of disagreement: there are 3 purposes for disagreement i can think of - defense, offense, improvement. these three functions will also command the further growth and outcome of the disagreement. when defending my pov by disagreeing i will not let any argument through and will try to rebutt or discard anything that is thrown at me. when going into the offense i want to find weak spots in my counterparts opinions and attack them in order to prove (for whatever reason) that i am right/superior/(something else) in comparison. in the best case a disagreement comes from the wish to improve, like a teacher and student might disagree and then through argument arrive at new, improved conclusions.
smoothly's questions:
When you disagree with someone, what's going on?
- in what way do you mean?
How come sometimes we disagree when sometimes we agree?
- well, i think those are classical instances of defense or offense. you might disagree because you don't like what you hear, although you very well know that it applies. or you disagree because you can't stand that person's guts and want to oppose and contradict him/her/it.
Do all disagreements have something in common, structurally?
- i think so, yes. depending on the combination of functions (defense-defense, defense-offense, and so on) disagreements will most probably follow along similar structural lines. hard pressed to say what they might be, because i'd need to think more about it.
To what extent can disagreement be resolved?
- a disagreement can only be completely resolved if one party changes their 'axiom' to that of the other party. and i mean EXACTLY that of the other party. since that seems highly unlikely to me, i'd suggest that all resolutions to disagreements are only varying degrees of temporal compromises and memetic alignment. |