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Mordant C. says: You don't know what someone might become.
I have no argument with giving people a chance, at least initially. However, until that person arrives on the serious end, I'm going to bore him/her into leaving me be. I can't spend my life having the same circular conversations, which is what happens when I spend too much time with the hobbyists -- and I think after knowing a few in my community for more than five years, I can pretty well conclude that the specific ones are not going to move on but are going to go over the same stuff repetitively.
Also, I think there ARE ways to tell what a person will become based on his/her initial approach: it's all in the questioning. A person who questions, and continues to question, and who stumps me with questions in such a way that I'm forced to hunt for an answer myself, is probably on the road to serious magical practice, if not already there. A person who either demands answers or claims to have all of them...well, definiitely not. A person who identifies him/herself as magical, but who then proceeds to speak only of games and fantasy play (this may be a community outlook issue unique to not just my country but my part of my country) is likely not that serious about magic and more invested in SCA, Renn faire, and the like.
...and I fear I'm aiding and abetting getting this thread off track. Could we take it to private messaging or start another thread about the serious and non-serious? |
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