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On the percieved & experienced anti-male bias in some Wiccan/Pagan groups -- here's another place where the biases of the traditions themselves are going to engender (whatevs) behavior. The tradition of Witchcraft that I am initiated into is very fucking clear that our goal is not to elevate gender stereotypes to the level of cosmic truth, especially when talking about deity. So many Pagan groups are reductive to the point of impotence, ascribing an even more gender-polarized vision of male & female to the gods and to magical practice in general (Goddess Barbie, God Ken, ugh), than even the culture-at-large. This is wrongheaded, and makes for crap practice. Period.
Likewise, I've been a part of and witnessed many other magical groups, both earth-based and ceremonial, that double as a coming-of-age/consciousness-raising group for the practitioners, of every gender. Men, acknowledged or not, face their male shit, and women, often more explicitly, begin doing the "gender processing" of growing up female in a largely sexist world. When that work, noble and needed, overdetermines group dynamics and goal-setting, gender politics go flying without direction, and men can come out of it feeling attacked. I've been there. I've likely done that. Personally, I think it's part of growing up, best done amongst one's peers, and a process often facilitated by magical growth/education.
I'm not saying the women's groups/earth spirituality have it right -- often they've just got other shit a comparable mess. What I want to challenge is the notion that magic is for boys and witchcraft is for girls. I proposed that a possible, at least partial culprit, was the sexism (and classism, just as likely) within "western occultism" that ascribes femininity to anything earth-based; that percieves "real magic" to be theoretical, solar, masculine, loud and incanted versus whispered into the night or what have you. Hegemonic sexism, regardless of how central a role women may play in X field at Y time in history, regardless of what contributions individuals may make to evolving magical practice and community, shapes the larger picture, and in turn, our basic drive to seek out community, solace, practice, evolution, or just a good ride. Is it really mental to suggest that men may not perceive this as vividly as women? It is sexist itself to suggest these divisions, high/earth, solar/lunar, active/receptive, even cock/cunt, without challenging our attirbutions and the power we are granting and witholding. That's why magical practice and community is hot and and a draw and carries ethical potential for me: that was pose these questions, that we don't take power for granted, that we for for the root. (Or is that, too, somehow "essentially" girly? I dare not suggest that it is somehow inherently masculine to accept power from on high without reflection. Right?)
To be proactive -- a decent example of where magic gets genderfucked for me -- which is what draws me to it, messing with creation's building blocks and finding power there -- is Lepidopteran's Orange & Black workings (I am biased), where earth/high magics are naturally comingled, and the approach is a synthesis of (stereo)typically masculine/feminine tactics. I had supposed the chaos current I had imagined Barbelith -> Temple to be driven by would produce more like that. When I hear folks talk about new magic for a new aeon or what have you, that's what I envision. |
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