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(I wrote this last night and then forgot to hit 'post'... silly me!)
Haloquin, I'd think you'd be giving up 'responsibility' in the pizza/Chinese example, but not really power. You're deliberately doing something with your power, you're choosing to not utilize it so you can feel weak(er) or put on, but not using something is not the same as giving it away. Is it? I mean, is it for any of you?
I don't think its the same thing, but it has a similar outcome. And the more I look at it the less difference I see ultimately. I'd use the term 'giving away power' as a synonym for 'giving away responsibility' because when you give away responsibility you are relinquishing power in the situation. In my mind I guess power isn't something you can literally give away, which is what I assume you're getting at? But it is still functionally the same action. In the moments you stop exersizing responsibility you cease to exersize your power, when you not only relinquish responsibility but take on the mindset that you couldn't have responsibility in that moment, you stop using power... and Power isn't something you hold, its more something that you do if that makes sense? |
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