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Defensive Spells Against The Next Door Neighbours

 
  

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15:00 / 28.05.06
the bathtub seems aggressive

Is it wrong that I really laughed when reading this? I think GL is right with both the needing to talk to your neighbour and the paranoia thing. Even though you might not believe it, your mind will probably be creating a lot of this itself, and one of the best ways to sort this out would be to go next door and explain your problem. (you might even end up liking her a lot more too.) It might be a good idea to explain that you fear that there's negative energy passing over into your place from the spell, and ask her exactly what the spell does. If there is any cleansing or banishing of energies (something that might not even be the case.) you could simply ask her if she'd be able to do something that would prevent any negative energy from going your way and send it in another direction.

If you could do that then you'd know exactly what the working really does and be safe knowing that when next year comes around, she'll keep you in mind when she does the same thing and you won't have to worry about it. It'd surely be far more effective if you had her do this for you instead of trying to do it yourself.
 
 
Z. deScathach
09:25 / 30.05.06
I definitely think that LOL and Gypsy Lantern are giving you the right advise here. One of my first magickal lessons was about the power of belief. I had my 13th birthday on friday the 13th. It was such a big deal apparently, that they mentioned it on the radio in my small town. The next year the bad luck began, and each year, it got worse. I finally reached a point where I absolutely DREADED the day. A Friday the 13th had come along where I got stranded in the middle of the country due to a car breakdown, with virtually no assistance forthcoming, and I was fed up. At the time, I wasn't even practicing magick to any extent, but I had read a book on the power of belief. It was many years ago and I don't even remember what the book was. I decided to give it a shot. I simply stopped believing that friday the 13th was unlucky. Lo and behold, the bad luck stopped, utterly. It has not come back since.

Magick is very subjective, so my advice to you is to follow the advice given. Talk to her, NICELY. See how that turns out. If you need to do magick, do a form that gives you GOOD luck on said day. Work out a ritual with the intent of having the best damn luck that you can imagine on that day. Sit back and enjoy. You may start looking forward to her ritual instead of dreading it.
 
 
Ethereal Partisan
05:23 / 31.05.06
I agree with many here who have said "talk to your neighbor nicely" etc. Get to know her, maybe she seems a "Scarey Mary" on the outside but is a nice person otherwise. Also maybe with a better relationship you may find she is doing a simple celebratory ritual of the Sun, God and Goddess and not dealing with banishing negativity at all. If she is doing a purification/banishing ritual such as banishing hurts, pains, habits she no longer needs and visualizing them being burned up in her cauldron, and purifying herself,the negative would be burned away with fire in her cauldron, if that is her intent and thus, theorectically, would not drift towards you. Also if she cast proper circle in her rite that should also, in theory, contain the energies she raises because basically she has created a space that is between time and space. She could also be doing a ritual where her intent is to charge her life with joy and wonder and attuning herself to the special energies of the Solstice time. So if she was doing some blessing rituals could it be theorized, if energies are leaking out of her circle, that blessings could come your way? If it is possible maybe you should start looking for small blessings in your life.

As to your quote about sending Pan her way, some witch traditions celebrate Pan around Beltane and Midsummer, so sending him over may be more of blessing to her rite instead of causing a problem. I can't help but think of Midsummer Night's Dream and how the fairy realm during that play is especially active during Midsummer. Soooo..maybe it's not your neighbor who is the problem, especially with missing keys, cigarettes, and other small items and glitches. Some research into the legends and lore of various earth spirits, tricksters, fairies couldn't hurt and may be fun. I would also consider, do you know Pan well enough to convince him to cause her trouble and not cause you any...he is known as a trickster after all. If you don't want Pan hanging around your house, I suggest not sending him over to someone else's.

Some other practical, non-magical things you might be able to do is check and see if your appliances and plumbing are in good repair and maintenance and your keys and other small objects in places that can be easily found. However, I remember reading "you're a very old woman" so maybe you also don't have much money so I can understand if regular maintenance of plumbing and appliance could be difficult financially and keeping small items in a proper place might not be as easy either. But if you are able to do some of these things, it could head off some of the "bad luck" of glitches and lost items and make it possible for you not to have to do your own (to quote you) "ritual or magick every stinking year".

I also agree with the advice of looking at your beliefs and expectations of bad luck around this time of year. Often times we see or get what we expect. So, what if you changed your expectations and beliefs,to looking for some small blessing..or maybe a certain number..like 5, each day around this time of year. See if that might work to change things around. Sometimes changing your focus or awareness to more postive things is a simpler and easier solution you can practice to any "bad luck" situation.
 
 
Quantum
09:41 / 31.05.06
You need a ritual around this time every year?
Your neighbour does a ritual every year about this time?

Would it be insane to suggest joining in?

Sounds like her bad luck banishing is pretty effective, ask her if you can help out with the cauldron boiling, or for her to include you in the working even if only in name. Why combat when you can co-operate? Chuck some gin and Vicks in the solstice mix and get your wrinkly arse skyclad granny, g'wan.
 
  

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