So, having been an addict, and being currently in the thrall of something which will beat me around the head with withdrawl symptoms at around 4 o'clock tomorrow afternoon, something which hits 1,2,3,4 and 7 on the DSM list...
The most important part of being addicted is coming back to it later. I have/have had an opiate addiction for some time now, since being put on a high dose of them for a month or so. Since then (three years ago), I've had three(?) periods of use longer than about a month, and gone through withdrawl in various degrees of severity about six times (some of these withdrawls have only been a week apart).
Despite knowing that I don't actually enjoy opiates that much, and that the health effects outweigh what mild enjoyment/numbness I might develop from their use, every now and then, typically in high stress situations...
Anyway, the point is that, despite having been clean, having had no physical addiction and no use for a year or several months at a time, there's always(?) an addiction present somewhere in the back of my brain, and I think the sort of recurrent-use-syndrome thing is something that the DSM and the European version should recognise.
My experience may not be typical, as I am a medically sanctioned addict, but I gather from reading around AA and other 12step programs that a significant portion of people who self-identify as addicts feel that addiction is permanent, and/or that one slip will put them back in the middle of an addiction as serious as their previous addiction.
Alternate coping mechanisms might help, and there are certainly addiction counselling programs for alcohol that don't preach abstinence, but management and maintenance and keeping your shit together to the point where you don't need the coping mechanism of the drug/addiction of whatever type anymore, and, in the studies I've read, they're about as effective as AA and the like. Then again, AA and the like are about as effective as deciding not to do it anymore, at 12 months from date of decision.
The whole issue is fairly confused. The simplest answer I can think of to the original question is: If you or another person thinks it's causing a problem, and you can't stop though you want to, that's an addiction. |