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Should you kiss her before you're boyfriend and girlfriend or after?

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03:15 / 31.10.04

SHould you kiss a person before they become your girlfriend, or ask them to be your girlfriend and then kiss them if they say yes?

03:41 / 31.10.04

kiss her when you can, or you might never get to at all

04:05 / 31.10.04

Don't say that. That would suck. I think she likes me but I can't tell. I like her.

05:34 / 31.10.04

I think she likes me because she tells everyone she loves them, but she doesn't say it to me.

08:53 / 31.10.04

That sounds like the real thing to me, Dangerfield.

08:54 / 31.10.04

Jack, this is a pretty weird thread.

09:00 / 31.10.04

Is this about Jeffrey Fairbrother?

09:25 / 31.10.04

You don't have Su Pollard's as well, by any chance, do you ?

09:28 / 31.10.04

Jack! Where the hell have you been?

11:15 / 31.10.04

No, Jack. If you kiss before you've signed the Going-Out Certificate, you'll both get pregnant and AIDS.

Whisky Priestess

11:23 / 31.10.04

Pull her hair and run away. If she runs after you, she's yours forever.

18:41 / 31.10.04

Is she on fire? I hear that's a good indicator.

22:37 / 31.10.04

I just won't get my hopes up and maybe things will work out.

23:12 / 31.10.04

Her pants, Meludreen, it's a good sign if there's a fire in her pants.

00:03 / 01.11.04

That not mean she's a liar?

OK, if her pants are on fire and she says she hates you, then I think you're on to a winner.

00:15 / 01.11.04

Yay!!! Guess what was playing when I went to the store and was thinking about this girl!
Sooner Or Later
( The Grass Roots )

Sooner or later, love is gonna get ya
Sooner or later, girl, you've got to give in
Sooner or later, love is gonna let ya
Sooner or later, love is gonna win

Its just a matter of time
Before you make up your mind
To give all that love that you've been hiding
Its just a question of when
I've told you time and again
I'll get all the love you've been denying

Sooner or later, love is gonna get ya
Sooner or later, girl, you've got to give in
Sooner or later, love is gonna let ya
Sooner or later, love is gonna win

You say you'll never be mine
But darling, they'll come a time
I'll taste all that love that you've been hiding
Its just a question of time
Before you make up your mind
And give all that love you've been denying

You've been looking for love
In all the wrong places
You've been looking for love
All the wrong faces
Gotta get ya girl
On this illusion
Gonna save your heart
From all this confusion

Sooner or later, love is gonna get ya
Sooner or later, girl, you've got to give in
Sooner or later, love is gonna let ya
Sooner or later, love is gonna win
Love is gonna win

Its just a matter of time
Before you make up your mind
And give all the love that you've been hiding
Its just a question of when
Told you time and again
I'll get all the love you've been denying

Sooner or later, love is gonna get ya
Sooner or later, girl, you've got to give in
Sooner or later, love is gonna let ya
Sooner or later, love is gonna win
Sooner or later, love is gonna get ya
Sooner or later, girl, you've got to give in
Please God, please please please, let this one work out.

00:40 / 01.11.04

I'll taste all that love that you've been hiding

-Smirk-

Seriously though, test the water. There's more ways than that to tell if she's into you. Watch her body language. Is she prone to flicking her hair when she talks to you? Does she tilt her hips? Stand feet apart with her shoulders to you? What's her immediate reaction when she notices you? It'll do good to pay attention to these things to get the indicators and they'll be more useful than listening to songs. But don't get too hung up on that sort of thing, just let it point you in the right direction. The reading should only inform the engaging.

Of course, you could just out and out ask her....

Oh, and don't bother pleading with God. You da man.

01:08 / 01.11.04

"Of course, you could just out and out ask her...."

I was just going to post that. I agree with you, Meludreen on all accounts.

You are da man, Jack!

Adorable. *tossles Jack's hair*

01:13 / 01.11.04

I did ask her. I asked, "Do you like me?". And her response was, "I'm not telling you.".

SHe fell asleep on my bed for a little bit when we were watching Cartoon Network, and she kinda held onto my arm and faced me when she was sleeping. But she didn't spend the night or anything.

01:49 / 01.11.04

Does anybody else hear the twittering of bluebirds?

05:33 / 01.11.04

Nah, just the twittering of yellowcoats.

05:45 / 01.11.04

F-it man kiss the girl

06:47 / 01.11.04

And make her cry.

08:57 / 01.11.04

Jack, you are a PIMP.

We're The Great Old Ones Now

12:04 / 01.11.04

SHould you kiss a person before they become your girlfriend, or ask them to be your girlfriend and then kiss them if they say yes?

Probably both, really.

Oh, wait, I see what you mean.

I don't think there's a rule. I think you just have to get on with it.

12:05 / 01.11.04

Surely the Barbelith way is to never kiss her, but have a thread detailing reasons why you want to kiss her but won't?

14:00 / 01.11.04

Jack, you are a PIMP.

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Tryphena Absent

15:57 / 01.11.04

You can start dating someone before kissing them? I thought that only happened to twelve year olds.

16:16 / 01.11.04

Well it depends on what circles you move in, I suppose.

17:12 / 01.11.04

Nevermind guys. False alarm. She didn't even call me last night.

17:24 / 01.11.04

Don't quit, Jack, kiss her, kiss her like she's never been kissed before!

17:27 / 01.11.04

Perhaps she was posting about you on her Barbelith instead. You should probably try to find out what message boards she hangs out on, if you want to know what she’s really thinking.

17:30 / 01.11.04

She didn't even call me last night.

THAT'S your proof she doesn't like you? Come on, man. It makes me cringe to have to recall all the reading into "signs" I did in my single days... never got me anywhere but crazy. Just talk to the woman.

17:39 / 01.11.04

Yeah, pull yourself together, Dangermouse. It's high time one of these threads about unrequited love ended with the original poster getting his or her rocks off, for heaven's sake.

18:09 / 01.11.04

Yes! I can't quit! Barbelith deserves...no! Barbelith DEMANDS a happy ending! I'm gonna go for it, and I'm going to expect and hope that good things happen instead of hoping bad things don't happen! I'm in love!

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